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Stephen Lacilla
1947 - 2014
Stephen Lacilla
1947 - 2014
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BORN
1947
DIED
2014
Stephen Lacilla Obituary
HOLDEN - Stephen A. Lacilla, 66, of Holden, died with his family by his side on Wednesday, January 29, 2014, at UMass Memorial Healthcare, University Campus after an illness. Born in Worcester and raised in West Boylston, Steve was the son of Leo and Mary (Zickell) Lacilla and moved to Holden in 1984.
He graduated from West Boylston High School in 1965. Steve enlisted in the U.S. Army and honorably served his country during the Vietnam era. He continued his education graduating from Nichols College with a Bachelor of Science in Business Administration in 1993, Anna Maria College with an MBA in 1996, Fitchburg State University with a Masters in Special Education in 2010, and received a Certificate of Advanced Graduate Study (C.A.G.S) in Educational Leadership from Worcester State University in 2012. Steve began his career in business at Jamesbury Corp and later working over 10 years at Digital Equipment Corp and several years at Saint-Gobain in Worcester. Steve always had a special passion for education and particularly teaching. He embarked on his second career as a math teacher and taught for the past 10 years at South High Community School.
He was a member of St. Mary's Church in Jefferson and the Massachusetts Teachers Association. Steve looked forward to vacationing with his family every summer at Cape Cod. He was proud of his children and their many accomplishments, and enjoyed coaching them in Holden youth sports. He was a devoted husband, father, brother and friend and will be remembered for his wisdom, compassion and generosity.
He is survived by his beloved wife of 33 years, Marydonna J. (Owens) Lacilla; two children, Lisa M. Lacilla and Michael S. Lacilla both of Holden; a brother, David Lacilla and his wife, Deborah of Manchester, CT; a sister, Lois Hall and her husband, Jim of San Marcos, CA; several nieces and nephews.
Relatives and friends are invited to visit with Steve's family from 5 to 8 p.m. on Monday, February 3, at the Miles Funeral Home, 1158 Main St., Holden. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 11 a.m. on Tuesday, February 4, at St. Mary's Church, 114 Princeton St., Jefferson. Interment will follow at Worcester County Memorial Park, Paxton. To share a memory or offer a condolence, please visit
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Bill and Nancy Festa (Aston, Pa)
February 19, 2022
I am just seeing this and shocked! My wife and I met Steve and Marydonna while we were both on our honeymoon back in 1980 and totally enjoyed their company in Acapulco. Nancy and I offer our sincere (belated) condolences.
lisa latino
February 12, 2014
hey im so sorry about your loss i
he was the best math teacher her will always be remember and loved.....R.I.P
Ray Giumentaro
February 12, 2014
Steve, I know you'll have a front row seat in heaven,,,That's where all the special people sit...
February 6, 2014
So, very sorry for your loss... Marydonna, Michael and Lisa... though many years have passed...remembering Steve as a wonderful husband, dad and friend. He will watch over you all from his seat in Heaven... Out best wishes and prayers.. May you find strength and peace in the time ahead by all the wonderful years and memories that you have....
Lori-Ann and Neil Copeland
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Lois Frost
February 4, 2014
So sorry to hear about Stevie. I didn't know him well other than seeing him throughout my life growing up here and there. I use to see him visiting and bringing DD to his mother every week while she was at Christopher's House while I brought the Pecorelli aunts to see his mother Mary. The last time I say Stevie was at one of the Pecorelli aunts funeral, he hasn't changed much over the years, still all smiles. I always remember him being friendly ,talkative and social being at his parents house on the hill as kids visiting his parents and the lumber store. RIP Stevie and say hello to all up there. :)
Kenneth Foley
February 4, 2014
I knew Steve both from school and from work at jamesbury. He was a true gentleman whom I have never heard a harsh word against another. While I know that no one can live forever, Steve was one of those who you wished could. As Steve transitions from life on earth into life everlasting, know that he is with his God. Gone too soon.
Marcy Martin
February 4, 2014
Dear Marydonna & Family: So sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. May you find strength, comfort and peace through the love of family and friends. All we can do is take it day by day and life does go on. So sorry I was unable to attend the services. Hope to see you soon at the DCU.
Audrey Wright
February 3, 2014
Steve had an infectious spirit that brightened up the classroom. He was always smiling; and, brought a positive sense of good will and humor to all of our discussions at WSU. He will be deeply missed.
My thoughts an prayers are with all those he loved and loved him. May God's love comfort you during this time of loss.
Liz and Dan Brown
February 3, 2014
Steve was always smiling. I will never forget the many collaborative lesson plans we did for geometry over the years. He was so willing to try new things and eager to engage his students. He will be greatly missed at South High!
February 3, 2014
I'llmiss running into Steve at HDL. He always made me smile. Mary (Beer)Murphy
Olga Fotos
February 3, 2014
Dear Marydonna,
I am so sorry for your loss. I am thinking of you and praying for you. -love, Olga Fotos
February 3, 2014
I'm very sorry MaryDonna for your loss. I worked with Steve many years ago in the Planning Department at Jamesbury and at APICS meetings. He was always so personable and very well liked. Janet Such
February 3, 2014
So sorry for your loss. With our sincerely condolences to your family.
John and Maureen (Parkway Diner)
Rob MacSwain
February 3, 2014
Warmest condolences to the family on your loss. I worked with Steve at Digital and was also a student of his at Nichols. He was a very talented, good guy.
February 3, 2014
Lisa and family
I am so sorry for your loss. I am thinking of you and praying for you.
Megan Bourget
February 2, 2014
Such a tremendous loss. Steve was passionate about his work at South High and devoted to his students. I was deeply saddened to hear about Steve's passing and so very sorry for your loss. MaryDonna, Mike, and Lisa... you are in my prayers.
WSU 2012
C.A.G.S. Educational Leadership, WSU 2012
Christine Cappabianca
February 2, 2014
February 2, 2014
MaryDonna, So sad to hear about Steve. He will be missed by all of his classmates from the West Boylston high school reunions. He's partying up there! Regards, Doris Cannon
Henry Walley
February 2, 2014
May God bless you and watch over you during your time of grief
Steve will be missed deeply but will always be remember for his compassion and devotion. Donna may you and Lisa along with your son take solace in knowing he in God hands now
Rest in peace dear friend Henry aka Hengy
Tiana Ansley
February 2, 2014
Mr. Lacilla will be dearly missed and never forgotten my thoughts and prayers are with you Marydonna and family. Working with you and husband was a joy.
February 2, 2014
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Dick Roche
February 2, 2014
I worked with Stephen for many years at Jamesbury.A nice guy and a good friend.I am sorry to hear that he has passed.
The Pavone Family
February 2, 2014
Marydonna, Mike, and Lisa, our sincere condolences on the passing of your Dad, and our good Friend. Steve will forever be remembered by us as a wonderful and fun filled guy who always enjoyed life. May the memories of the good times with him get you through this difficult period.
Lisa Lacilla
February 1, 2014
I love you so much dad!!!! You were the best dad ever!!! We all love you SO much!!!love you
Lisa
February 1, 2014
Marydonna, I am so sorry that you have lost Steve. Please know that you are in my prayers. Love, Martha
Ray Giumentaro
February 1, 2014
MaryDonna and family,,,i am sooo sorry for your great loss,,,I knew Steve,that is as an acquaintance and I grieve his loss with you and your family...
February 1, 2014
MaryDonna and family,
So sorry to hear about Steve. Even though we have lost touch over the years, you never forget your best high school buddies. You will be missed Rene..
Jay &Chris Tivnan
Tarina Owens
January 31, 2014
I've been praying for you. I love you.
Carl and Judith Mendoza
January 31, 2014
MaryDonna, Mike and Lisa. You have our deepest sympathy in your enormous loss. We will continue to pray in the days ahead.
Mandy Blouin
January 31, 2014
MaryDonna Lisa & Mike. I am very very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prays are with you and your family in this time of grate loss. Lisa please let me know what I can do for you and your family I am just a phone call away. Just remember that your dad/husband is with you always and forever.
Nancy Caruso
January 31, 2014
MaryDonna and Family,
I was so sorry to hear of Steve's passing. I will always remember Steve as a wonderful human being whose kindness was infectious. Steve always went above and beyond to help his students. I enjoyed working with him but most of all being able to call him my "friend". Heaven certainly has another angel. He and my sister Diane will now look down upon us and guide us through our life here on earth. Rest in peace my friend!
Tracy Cooney
January 31, 2014
Marydonna and family, I am so sorry for the devastating loss you have experienced. There are no words.
remember the good times always
January 31, 2014
January 31, 2014
Marydonna, Mike and Lisa,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May all of your wonderful memories comfort you.
Bobby and Mary Noyes
Stephanie Major
January 31, 2014
Lisa and Mike: I am so very sorry about your dad's sudden passing. My prayers go out to you and your mom.
Diane Richards
January 31, 2014
Our thoughts and prayers go out to all of you.....
January 30, 2014
So Sorry for your loss, South high class of 2011.
Debi&Tom Barker(roy)
January 30, 2014
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. We met you and Steve thru Bill& Ivy. Steve was a wonderful man an remember all your great memories and that will help you get thru the difficult times.
neal portnoy
January 30, 2014
So sorry for your loss...my condolences to you and your family.
Ivy and Bill Finnegan
January 30, 2014
MaryDonna, Lisa & Mike,
There are no words that can express the enormous hole, left behind by Steve's passing. His was a giving soul, many of Worcester's troubled teens were lucky to have had made his acquaintance. He knew how to get the best results from so-called hard to handle kids.
Our lives are certainly never going be the same, without our favorite Yankee fan to amuse us.
Rest in peace gentle soul, we will see you soon.
We'll miss you,
Ivy and Bill and family
Ivy and Bill Finnegan
January 30, 2014
MaryDonna, Lisa & Mike,
No words could ever describe the enormous loss left behind with Steve's passing. He had the most giving soul and was beyond a doubt one of the most loved human beings. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Shoes like his are not easily filled.
Love you guys,
we will certainly miss you Steve.
Ivy & Bill and family
January 30, 2014
Dear Marydonna, Mike and Lisa, We just don't know what to say, we are so very sorry to hear of Steve's passing. Our thoughts and prayer's are with you! We have many fond memories of us all enjoying the sunshine and fun at the Holden Pool!
Kevin, Mary Ann, Nicole, Elyse and Kelly Lavin
Rich Dussault
January 30, 2014
All our love and prayers to you and your family at this tough time. Hugs and more hugs.
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