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JOHN CLIFFORD (Cliff) FARLEY

July 19, 2023

Condolences to the family of my brother-in-arms! Steven is a HERO in every respect!

Tom Karnowski, CAPT, USN (retired)

July 30, 2021

Donna, Steve and I served together on the USS Blue Ridge in 2001/2002. I ran into him at the palace in Baghdad, where I was serving as the engineer for the Green Zone. Steve talked me into joining the PRT as his replacement. I never spoke with him again. It wasn't until I deployed with the State Department that I found he had been killed.

My wife and I now live in Beggs, OK. We'd like to take you to lunch one of these days, if you would like. We can be reached at [email protected] or via phone at 918-319-7484.

Frank Titus

February 6, 2020

RIP, brother Steve.

Jesse Sloan

February 5, 2020

Worked for Steve and his wife Donna back in 2004 I believe...He was a honest and noble man..He was a no cussing ,church on Sunday fellow who always had a smile on his face ..we always talked about politics and family...He reminded of Grandad......Rest in peace Steve.......

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Ethan Harris

June 24, 2012

Remembering. Never forgotten.

ePRT Baghdad 5 mission near Taji, December 2007

Mike Bridges

June 15, 2010

I met Steve at the beginning of the surge and ePRT program. We trained together at D.C. State Department one week crash course. I went on over to Iraq and Camp Taji while Steve and the Navy, Air Force and civilians got some extra training. I landed on ePRT Baghdad 5, and Steve landed on ePRT Baghdad 3, just a few yards away at Taji. We were "CHU" neighbors only a few feet apart. We shared some meals together, lots of meetings back in the IZ/Green Zone and a few really good and bad cigars. As an Army Guard Colonel, and with Steve as the same grade Navy "Squid" we had some good visits and jokes about each other's service and life overall. We were the respective Governance leaders of our two teams, so peers in that respect. I rotated home in late April, finally got home to Alaska and Steve was killed in the line of duty a couple of weeks later. I have just now begun coming to terms with his death, and the guilt I still feel because I had completed my tour. Steve was a true Patriot and a wonderful man. My blessing and prayer for all his family and friends. I will never forget him. COL Mike Bridges, ePRT Baghdad 5, Deputy Team Leader/Governance Advisor April 2007-April 2008.

June 23, 2009

Sir,

I'll never forget helping you figure out your iPod or that crazy CW4 who jumped on your vehicle at Camp Taji. We spent a lot of time together and I value that time.

Honors, Sir,

SSG Ethan E. Harris
Provincial Reconstruction Team 3
May 2007-APR 2008

LTC Hans Drehsler

November 14, 2008

My deepest sympathy and condolances to CAPT Steve Farley's Family and Friends, He is a American Hero and Great Patriot and will be sorely missed. The world is less of a place without him.
I met Steve on the way to the US Embassy as we piled our gear to take the Buffulo to the Embassy at about midnight in May 2007. I was also in the same training with him at the Embassy prior to our move to Camp Taji. He and I crossed paths a number of times in the DFAC in Taji and also at his office area at the 82ND TOC. (for lack of a better description of the office) I was very saddened to hear about his death in Sadr City. He was one of the great guys, I loved his even temperment and character.
I hate that we always loose the best in wars and that the best are always needed in wars. God Bless you Steve and Your Family.

Glenn Mitchell

July 26, 2008

To the family of Steven Farley,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. The United States is blessed to have the caliber of people like Captain Farley. People like Captain Farley see danger to this country from people who want to destroy our way of life and this country and say "NOT ON MY WATCH". He was trying to help a people and country in termoil and to give them hope that their country will one day be at peace. As long as we have people like Steven farley willing to stand up and say "count on me", the USA will always be the greatest nation on the Earth. God Bless him and every one in the Farley family.

Diane Hubbard Nichols

July 21, 2008

Who knew much about terrorism or HEROISM back in our high school days? Who knew that there were people who felt so deeply the love of God and Country that they would take on the threats to the freedoms we all take for granted Head On!? I am only one, but I am sure that I speak for all of us who graduated from Edmond High School in 1969 with Steve in saying Thank You for your lifetime of service with the specific goal of keeping America Free and our world a safer place. To a true Hero, God Bless those you have touched with your loving life.

Jim Dobson

July 17, 2008

My sincere condolences to Steven's family. May you find healing and joy in celebrating the full life of one of the orginal good guys. Steven really enjoyed his work in Iraq, and just being with colleagues. Such a vibrant man full of positive energy! Steven was so very proud of what he was accomplishing in Sadr City in his work and engagements with Iraqi officials. He was truly a model for us all, and is missed terribly. God bless all his family and friends in Guthrie. God bless Steven.

Ronnie & Paula Payton

July 14, 2008

To our Farley Families,
We will all miss Steve so much! His great smiles, his stories, and his cooking! Most of all tho, we will just miss him being with us. We know that one day we will see him again. It can't be soon enough for sure. Our prayers are with all of you and you know that if you need anything at all, all you have to do is call.( sounds like a line from a song) Steve would have laughed at that. We will be so glad when all of our tears will be no more and we will once and for all be together.
Blessings and prayers to all of you.
Donna, I love you and I am here for you.
All of our love to all of you
Love Paula

Brandy Riley

July 14, 2008

Uncle Steven,
It has taken me a long time to finally decide what to say to you. I have so many memories that I could write a book! I have so many regrets it hurts. You realize just how important life is and the realtionships you create when something like this happens. I truly think I am still in shock. This wasn't suppose to happen to you. Even though you were in danger, I thought you were safe. I thought you were protected.

Over the past couple of weeks so many things have ran through my mind. I have often wondered what exactly took place that fateful morning. I have prayed that you did not suffer knowing that you were the last person in the world who should have-that you just closed your eyes and went peacefully into his arms. I wondered how you spent your last days. I regretted not saying more in our last email-not saying "I love you". I keep wishing over and over again all those times you asked me to come over that I would have.
I also have been remembering all the great times I was blessed to have with you. I always knew when you invited me for dinner we were having chicken! I remember all those times I spent the night and never got to sleep in. You would come wake us all up because you had made a huge breakfast!! Pancakes, bacon, eggs, toast and orange juice. Never once did I not get a breakfast treat at Uncle Steve and Aunt Donna's house. I also remember the faith you taught me. I always knew if I went to your house on Saturday night I was going to church on Sunday morning. And the trips to Carl Blackwell were the best! Every time we would go out water skiing you would purposely make me fall. I could see you in the distance pointing and laughing at me. The time we got to spend on the 89er commitee together and how much you supported me in that. A lifetime of memories that no one can ever take away.
It has been so amazing the impact you made on so many lifes. The outpouring of respect that so many people have expressed. It is so hard to believe that I will never be able to see you again; never ask you for advice, never hear another story, or just hear you laugh. I could recognize your laugh in a crowd of hundreds of people!
I know you will live on and I know your story will be told. You are a true hero. I know I will think of you every day for the rest of my life; whether it be a song I hear on the radio, every time I pick up an Enya CD, or think of something you said or did.
I never got a chance to tell you this but I know you know it now. In my eyes you were never my uncle-you were my brother. I feel so blessed because I feel I had the opportunity to have 4 brothers-not just one. You guys were always there when I was growing up. You weren't just someone I would go visit every once in a while. Every time you came home I got to see you. I thank God every day he put me in the situation he did when he left me with no father. I gained soooo much more and became the luckiest girl in the world. I was lucky enough to be raised around a stable family with good moral values. I gained a better father than I could have ever asked for and people I consider siblings who are always there for me to this day.
I will miss you every day of my life, but I know you will always be there and I know I can still talk to you. I still remember the last thing you said to me which was "Take Care Sweetie". Thank you for all that you were and the example you showed.

I love you...
Your Bramas

JG and Norma Stewart

July 14, 2008

We send our deepest sympathies to a great leader and a family member! He will be greatly missed, but we will keep you deeply in our thoughts.

Evenings with Steve in Taji

July 10, 2008

Camp Taji - Smoking Cigars on a Friday Night

Brian Conklin

July 10, 2008

I spent a year with Steve in Iraq. I wanted to attach a photo that captured the great times together.

The last time I saw Steve was on Friday night. He came out to a little coffee house called the Mud House to hear a friend and I play some live jazz. He had that enthusiastic smile and energy about him.

I only had a few months left and was feeling tired and burned out. I asked Steve about his decision to come back and the challenges of working in Sadr City. His enthusiasm and commitment to his work re-energized me and gave me the motivation to finish strong.

Steve was a great man in so many ways - I never met anyone who had met him who didn't consider him a friend. Throughout Iraq there are hundreds who feel this way.

Theresa Maderer

July 8, 2008

Brett and family, I can't begin to tell you what a beautiful person entered my life in Camp Taji, Iraq. Being so far away from home we are all an extended family, eager to share stories of families. We didn't have a lot of time to visit due to the long hours and working 7 days a week. Colonel Farley as we knew him in Taji, since he wore the Army uniform and oh so proudly, other times he was know as Captain Farley. Many a day he shared his dining table with others, after being in Baghdad or one of the other towns he would come to the KBR Medical Clinic to visit and always have something in hand, at times fresh baked bread or specialities made of figs and dates he would tell us how good they were for us. Captain Farley will always be remembered for his warm smile and gleam in his eye when he shared stores of home. Captain Farley was hoping Rebekah would have a sibling before too long, he was always eager to show photos of his family. It was cool meeting someone from your homestate so far away from home. Many a day several of us would gather at the Mud House and enjoy cigars, I often got teased because someone told me every photo of me I had a cigar in my hand. Steve helped me through some rough times which I will be forever grateful. I commend you, his family for sharing him with the world, he lived life to the fullest, my life is so much more richer for having known him. Mr. & Mrs. Farley my heart goes out to you for raising such a son who made the ultimate sacrifice so we could be free. His patriotism will never be forgotten. My Deepest Sympathy,
Theresa Ann Maderer, RN

OKC State Capitol Feb. 25, 2007

Theresa Maderer, RN

July 8, 2008

With Deepest Sympathy, to a family who shared so much, Steve gave his all. My prayers are with you at this time of sorrow.

Greg and Denise Hendricks

July 7, 2008

To the Farley Family

Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. We are so sad to learn of Mr. Farley's untimely and tragic passing. He was a true patriot and hero. Your family represents everything good about American values and what being a family means. Your love for one another was obvious whenever we saw you all together.

God bless you all. We are praying for you...

Bryan Morgan

July 5, 2008

I had the honor of meeting Steve in the IZ in Baghdad, and over the course of many evenings I got to know a man who embodied all the qualities we would like to see in ourselves. He was always optimistic, generous, and kind. I last saw him in the Palace a couple of days before he left us, and he looked great; dapper in civilian clothes, smiling, and excited about the work he was doing. I looked forward to spending some time with him again, laughing with friends and telling stories. I still look forward to that chance. His life improved the lives of all who knew him.

Gretchen Winter

July 4, 2008

Steve was an will always be a surogate father to me. He could make me smile when I felt like crying, and he warmed my heart constantly. Steve made me feel special as a result of his genuine caring demeanor... He loved people, and we loved him.

Mark Alexander

July 4, 2008

Brett and family,

God bless and keep you brothers and sisters, from your Patriot family at PatriotPost.US

Semper Vigilo, Fortis, Paratus et Fidelis!

Robert O'Donovan

July 4, 2008

I had the great pleasure to have met Steve and have him as a friend here in Baghdad. We shared cigars, evenings under the stars and excellent conversations on many topics. But one he always came back to was his family and how proud he was of all of them. I think that will be his greatest legacy and there is no better tribute than than that. Bob "OD" O'Donovan USMC Ret.

Angela Perryman

July 4, 2008

I met Steve in Iraq, and watched his work with real respect. He was one of those rare few who was really making a difference. He had a combination of strength and understanding that could bring people together.

There are many of us here who mourn his loss. The world is a poorer place without him.

Alicia Wall

July 4, 2008

Dear Farley Family,

I met Steve while he was visiting the IZ through a mutual friend. A group of us always got together to gab and have some light hearted fun and we were always excited to know Steve would be arriving to join us. We even decided to have a few parties just because he was coming to the IZ. He was a great guy and will be sorely missed by those of us who knew him. Our thoughts are with you.

Alicia Wall
PAE- Baghdad

July 3, 2008

Farley Families:

We loved Steve very much and he will be missed!
He was the only "father-in-law" I ever had! We love you guys! If there is anything we can do... please don't hesitate to call!

Love,
David and Rhiannon Winsett

Mark, Darlene (Riley), Ryan and Caitlin Batts

July 3, 2008

Farley Family,

Although we had not made the pleasure of Steven's acquaintence we wish to express our most sincere condolences to your entire family. How proud you must be.

EN1 (SW/AW) Eugene Bueno

July 3, 2008

My condolences to the family…..
Capt. Farley is a true hero, and an inspiration to all service members who serve this fine country.

James Haycox

July 3, 2008

God Bless each member of your family. Though I did not know him, I deeply appreciate his and your sacrifice. May God lift you up in this sad time. Best Regards James R. Haycox (MSgt Ret. USAF)

Noel & Diana Farley

July 2, 2008

My dearest family and friends, today we honored and said goodbye to a special man. Today I said goodbye to my best friend, my dearest brother Steven. I will forever miss his loving and caring smile. I will miss his guidance and his everlasting words of wisdom. He was truly my mentor in life. I respected him so much as a brother. I confided in Steven about everything in my life. If ever I had any worries, he always had a lending ear to listen, and he always had a special way of putting those worries at ease. As his younger brother, I had always looked up to him and had always desired to be like him in so many ways. Often falling short, I had come to realize that there could only be one Steven. I will miss being able to tell him that I love him. My heart has a big hole in it right now. They say that time heals all wounds. For me, the time for this healing will last forever. There will be very few days where I will not think about him. My love for him runs so deep. Unlike most siblings, I can truly say that my brother and I never had harsh words with one another. I think it was mainly because I always knew that he was probably right so there was really no point in a squabble. He just had that certain persona about him. I look so forward to the day that we meet again. I have know doubt that we will unite once again with our heavenly and most righteous savior, our Lord Jesus. Helen Keller once said "it gives me a deep comforting sense that things seen are temporal and things unseen are eternal." My brother, I will see you in the coming days, until then, easy on your backswing. And, as we closed every one of our e-mails to one another,-----Love you Bro.

Ty, Meg, Clif, Casey & Cole Prestidge

July 2, 2008

Dear Donna, Chris, Brett, & Cameron:

It is such a privilege to know your family and to have known Steve. He was such a special man and a fantastic example to us all. We are very saddened for your loss.

Your family is our thoughts and prayers.

Linda Chant

July 2, 2008

Brett and Jessica, I am sorry for your loss. I never had the pleasure of knowing your father, however to hear my cousin, Paula, speak of him, he certainly was a special man. I know how difficult it is to have loss a parent, I lost my Mother, and as each day passes the pain gets a little less, and the memories more special. I say a prayer for you and your family that the loss will be offset by the wonderful times you have shared and the knowledge God has Steve in his hand. God Bless
Linda Chant (the city one)

Kathy Young

July 2, 2008

Donna and boys,
So sorry to hear of the loss of Steve. He was always a wonderful & caring man. He will be missed!! Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Love you all,
The Young's
Jim, Kathy, Jason, Cody, Ashley and Chelsea

Georgia Branch

July 2, 2008

Donna, Chris, Brett, & Cameron;

Charles & I were so sorrry to hear about Steve's passing, He was a wonderful man. The legacy that he leaves behind are foremost his love for his Lord & Savior, His family, & his devotion to his country Our prayers are with you & your family. We enjoyed visiting with you & Steve at Church & all the teaseing that he did. Your family are very much loved. Remember God will never leave you all & he will walk with you everyday. You will all see Steve again when you join him in heaven. Are love & prayers are with you. Love Charles & Georgia Branch

Jack

July 2, 2008

I was moved to silence as I watched the video. Thinking to myself if anyone on that Delta flight knew who was on board with them. As the plane landed at Will Rogers, were the passengers told to keep their seats and be silent while one of Americas Heros was removed and family and friends watched and remembered. They were there to receive a memory of someone they loved so much. God Bless the Family and Friends....

Tamara Cook

July 2, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Buddy Rogers

July 2, 2008

I am so sorry for your loss...
He was a true Hero Patriot
Buddy Rogers USMC ret.

Luma Dara

July 2, 2008

I would like to extend my heartfelt sympathy to Captain Farley's family.
While in Iraq I had the opportunity to meet captain Farley.Through his words and actions he showed me and others how commited and passionate about bringing peace to the Iraqi people.
During one of our conversations I asked him when he would be going home. He replied he was not ready to go home yet for there was still much to be done for the people of Iraq.
As an Iraqi - American I was proud and appreciative to have had the opportunity to stand beside him.
My thoughts and condolences to the family.

Richard Goodwin (USN Ret. )

July 2, 2008

My deepest simpathy goes out to the Farley Family and Friends. I didn't know Capt Farley but I heard about what a great sailor he was. God bless your family

Patty Cole

July 1, 2008

Brett and Jessica,
You are in our thoughts and forever in our prayers. Please remember in times like these God sends the Comforter to get you through. Life is but a vapor but heaven is eternal. I know in the days and months ahead it will be hard, just cling to God and each other for strength. Your love will get you through.
With Love and Sympathy
Bob and Patty Cole

Mike & Anne Pearson

July 1, 2008

You are in our prayers.

With deepest sympathy,

.

Vickie Lykins

July 1, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Capt. Farley was there for me when my mother was killed in the OKC Bombing and was such a comfort. I am currently in San Diego after returning from the mideast so I can't be there, but my thoughts and prayers are with you always. Captain Farley was a great man to look up to in the Navy. I will truly miss him.

Mike & Anne Pearson

July 1, 2008

You are in our prayers.

With deepest sympathy,

Karen Berland

July 1, 2008

Your family will be in our prayers. May God Bless You with peace, comfort and understanding and the love of family and friends. Thank you for sharing a great man with us and our country.

Carissa (Price) Redman

July 1, 2008

My thoughts & prayers are with each of the family members. Steve will always be the guy who gave a positive outlook on life and care to those around him along with his generous hugs, and joy to those around him.

Capt. Farley at a local fuel distribution site in Ur Iraq December 2007 with the 82nd Airborne Division

July 1, 2008

Capt. Farley, MAJ Rutherford, Paul Folmsbee - Ur Iraq December 2007

July 1, 2008

Capt. Farley November 2007 at the Sadr City Joint Security Station with 2-325 AIR 82nd Airborne Division

July 1, 2008

Gordon Ross

July 1, 2008

I only met Captain Steven Farley 2-3 times in my clinic while seeing patients in the National Naval Medical Center in Bethesda, Maryland. Yet, after only spending a few minutes with him in my office, he impressed me . . . .he loved his family, his country, his Lord Jesus Christ. Captain Farley loved freedom and he loved service for the cause of freedom. The remarkable way that he lived and the passion for freedom for the Iraqi people was remarkable; God Bless you Mrs. Farley and Family. May the Lord Bless and keep you during this painful time in your lives.

Gordon K. Ross, Major, USAF, NC
MSN, NP-C, CRNP, CDE, CEN, CCRN
17 Medical Group, Goodfellow AFB, TX

Chris Papin

July 1, 2008

Farley Family,

The Papin family expresses its deepest thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. We are all very sorry for your loss, but remind you to keep your heads held high. Stay positive. Your father's life should be celebrated on Wednesday. He was a great man who served his country and family proudly.

Donald Hardin

July 1, 2008

Farley Family,

I consider it a tremendous honor to have been asked to talk about Steve at the funeral service tomorrow. Quite frankly, I do not feel worthy to do so... I fear my words will not convey how deeply I and so many other people respected and loved this great man. I prepared my comments prior to reading this guest book so as not to be influenced by the words of others. It is remarkable how similarly we all felt about Steve. The recurring theme is honor, high character, honesty, morality, and so many other descriptions of how much positive influence Steve had on our lives.

He was and is one of my personal heroes and has been so as long as I have known him. As my three sons were stair-stepped a few years behind his, countless times he counseled me on fatherhood and family --- not just in words but most often by example. He was such an honorable and lovable person. I shall miss him for the rest of my life. There simply are not enough statesmen in this world - doing things because they need to be done. Steve has left this place better for having been here.

My last words to him in February were, "I love you, Steve" and I meant it and he knew I meant it. He was the best friend a fellow could have and so many ships will be rudderless without him.

George Nolan

July 1, 2008

Dear Brett and Jessi

We love you and we are praying for peace and understanding for you. May God give you comfort and peace as you move through this!

We are praying for the entire family.

With our love
George, Phyllis, and Nolan Family

Curt Cloud

July 1, 2008

May God comfort the Farley family. Heaven got a great man.

Jennifer Shoop

July 1, 2008

My heart is overwhelmed with gratitude for your service to our country and deeply saddened for the loss your family and friends are experiencing. By reading the entries, I can tell you are very loved and have a wonderful family. My thoughts and prayers are with them.

Leigh & Heather Smithson

July 1, 2008

Dear Donna and Family,

The greatest calling we can have is to lay down our life for our brother(s), especially when done in the name and service of Jesus. You have both paid the price so that God's name can be glorified. Thank You!

Our prayers are for you and your families, and for those many brave souls who have given their lives to this great cause of freedom and stability. Thank you!

We will miss the joy that Steve brought to others, but his Christian legacy and faith will live on through you and your boys families.

God grant us peace and forgivness as we continue to pray "Thy Kingdom Come..."

Grant Ross

July 1, 2008

I respect Steven so much. I never met Steven, but I worked in Iraq for two years and worked in the Sadr City area. I know what the dangers are in Iraq and really respect people like Steven who take on the daily risks of being there. I am so proud of Americans who go to Iraq to help!

PNCM(SCW/SW) LARRY WATSON

July 1, 2008

I last visited with Mr. Farley to congratulate him on selection for Captain. We served together in MIUW 113, and I will long remember the unique style of leadership he patented. His infectious sense of humor, zest for life, attention to the details and selfless passion for every task were truly inspiring to hundreds of subordinates. He serves the Supreme Commander now. Deepest condolences and God speed.

Ed Cook, CDR USN

July 1, 2008

Farley Family

I worked with Steve while we were both in uniform serving in Iraq. I also had the good fortune to be with him on the plane from Jordan back to Baghdad when he returned as a civilian. Both as a Naval Officer and as a Civilian, Steve was ever positive about his work in Iraq. I was lucky to have the chance to enjoy an occasional cigar with him in the evenings as we tried to relax from the tensions of the work and the heat of the day. I also got to work with him on healthcare issues for the people of Baghdad. Just getting a chance to talk with him was a like getting a shot of energy and motivation. He was always so hopeful. He will always be missed.

Grateful Citizen

July 1, 2008

Thank you, sir, for your service and your sacrifice. Blessings to the family and friends who will miss you.

Kenton Barber

July 1, 2008

To the family of Capt. Farley:
I served with Capt. Farley as an Effects Coordinator and liason for the ePRT teams working in Sadr City. As the first unit deployed in support of the surge from January 2007 through March 2008; 2-325 Airborne Infantry Regiment with the 82nd Airborne Division I would ensure he was linked with our Scout Platoon for transportation and coordination of security. I traveled with Capt. Farley frequently into some of the most deplorable conditions possible. Capt. Farley had a unique perspective on his efforts and I am sincerely and deeply saddened by your loss. Capt. Farley was exceptionally optimistic and absolutely committed to harboring a positive relationship with the Iraqi people and took a daily vested interest in their well being. I valued the many hours of conversation with Capt. Farley that often took place within the Joint Security Station of Sadr City and appreciated the efforts of the ePRT and their sacrifices. Respectfully, CPT Kenton Barber

Paddy

July 1, 2008

To Steve's family,
I didn't know this very unique individual but my husband did. He went to the airport to receive him and it was the hardest thing for him. He thought so highly of Mr. Farley and admired his accomplishment. There's something so special about people who serve in the U.S military and Mr. Farley was one of that special person.

Josiah and Crissa Ritner

July 1, 2008

Dear Farley family,
I am shocked and speechless at the loss of Steve. He is greatly admired and respected as he pursued the Lord whole-heartedly. You see the reflection of who he was as a father and husband through his family; he left the legacy of Jesus Christ to you and the boys. Josiah and I are praying for God's astounding grace to help you through this difficult season; I love your family so much and am so sorry.

Ranelle Huston

June 30, 2008

Donna and Family, so sorry for your loss. Steve was a wonderful, kind, gentle, caring man, as is your entire family. I was around him, when Carla and I were hanging out in high school. He always had a kind word and a big smile for everyone.As I read through this guest book, it is a true testament of how many lives Steve has touched. That in itself is a true image of a man who walks in the footsteps of God. Who accepts everyone for who they are, and lives his life to teach and help people everyday. Steve bore his cross to make this world a better place. YOu can't get more amazing than that. May you cherish all your wonderful memories. May God give you comfort and peace during this difficult time.
Ranelle (Stewart) Huston

Hari Puja

June 30, 2008

Dearest Friends - Brett, Jessica, Chris, Christy, Cameron, Jacqueline, Donna and Rebekah.
You all have always been dear to me and Puja. We always felt the warmth in your company. We always felt like it was a home away from home when we were with you guys.

We share the pain of your personal loss, the pain of separation.

It had been a pleasant experience when we were with your father, Steve at the Club House in Edmond last year. The wisdom in his talks and thoughts has left a long lasting impression in my mind. They will be treasured for ever.

We always respected him for being a Braveheart. He had won over death the day he had decided to take the responsibility in his shoulder to brave it out in the most challenging circumstances for the sake of humankind, for peace, for love. The word sacrifice would be too small to describe his act of service to the people of Iraq.
A true Hero, a true servant of GOD, you have set an example for all of us, leading from the front.
Your mission of peace will coninue... the torch will be carried forward...
We bow before thee Martyr Steve.
We bow before thee Captain Courageous!

The passion for sacrifice is in our hearts today..
...the strength of the ememy will be tested ...
The passion for sacrifice...
The desire for sacrifice...
...for love, for peace, for harmony.

Lot of Love,
Hari & Puja.
Bentonville, AR.

Kimberly Eschiti

June 30, 2008

Donna, Brett, Chris & Cameron,
I am so sorry to hear about Steve, Our thought s & prayers are with you and your family during this time. Your probably wondering who I am, well think back to when you lived in Clinton... I am Bill & Marilyn Keltons youngest daughter. Just a few weeks ago I told mom and dad i was going to try and find the Farley's and so i wrote a letter and mailed it off and it was the wrong Steve & Donna Farley.... I was upset i was hoping to get to catch up on the family. Well, again I am sorry about your loss, please email sometime, tell Cameron i said hello( He was special to me) Love, Kimberly

Brad Knowlton, CDR (Navy Reserves)

June 30, 2008

Dear Farley family,
I'm very sorry for your loss, but am buoyed by knowing that he is in a better place. I was recalled to the Seventh Fleet staff on USS Blue Ridge in Oct 2001. I met Steve there (he was a Commander at the time). We attended Bible studies together with the staff chaplain and some of the other recalled officers.

I have a group photo that includes him (and his ever present smile) that I'd like to send to you, so please contact me ([email protected]).

John Crouch

June 30, 2008

I did not know Captain Farley, but having served as a flight surgeon in the army in Vietnam, I am so grateful for the service of our American sons and daughters in the defense of freedom. Obviously, Captain Farley was a man of integrity and committment. I pray for God to comfort you in your loss.

Jan & Diane Goodyear

June 30, 2008

Donna, Brett, Chris, Cameron & Family,
My heart is wounded greatly by your loss. I have always been impressed by Steve's convictions and his devotion to you and his family. His love for his country is a strength that I pray our country could emulate. Steve is an American hero and will always be admired by me. Donna and family, my prayers will be with you. I am sorry I will not be able to be at Steve's services. I will be in Illinois for my father's services on Thursday. May God bless you and support you in these upcoming days.

John and Sandra Montgomery

June 30, 2008

We are so deeply saddened to hear about Steven. Our love and prayers are with you. Steven was a very special person and we are proud to have known him. We are thankful for his love of our country and his service. He has found the perfect peace now, in the arms of Jesus.

Jim and Ann Harris

June 30, 2008

Dearest Farley family:
Jim and I are so sorry for your loss, and we cannot even comprehend the pain you must be going through. Steven was a man of great integrity. He loved God and his family very much and this is the way he lived his life. Steven always chose to see the good in people and he was kind to everyone. What a legacy he has left to his family. We will miss Steven very much. The world was a much better place for having a man like Steven in it and we were very fortunate to have known him. God bless you each and everyone. With our love and deepest sympathy to you all, Jim and Ann Harris.

Olaf Shibusawa

June 30, 2008

Dear Farley family,
I met CPT Farley while he was serving with the ePRT and I am deeply saddened to hear of your loss. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
MAJ Olaf Shibusawa
B/450th CA BN

Ron Melvin

June 30, 2008

To the family of Steven Farley,

I had the honor to spend three weeks with Steve in Washington this past April as we prepared to undertake a very difficult task - to try and impact the lives of Iraqis here in Baghdad. Steven was committed to that and helped to inspire the rest of us as we began this task. He was a true gentleman, an inspirational leader and a real example of what an American hero is.
Although I knew him only a short period, his sacrific will be long remembered. My simpathy to each of you at this time of loss.

Carole Jackson

June 30, 2008

To the family of Steve Farley:

I didn't know Steve, but as a member of the Foreign Service (U.S. Department of State) stationed in Afghanistan, I want you to know that I and many of my colleagues (especially those who have also served in Iraq), think and pray for our colleagues in Iraq, daily. Please accept my deepest condolences for your loss. If there is ever anything I can do for you, please let me know.

Nancy Prykryl

June 29, 2008

To the family of Steven Farley, as an a Navy veteran myself, I express my deep sincere to Captain Farley. I do not know the Farley family, but I am praying for you.

John & Sheila Riley

June 29, 2008

Noel, Barbara and the entire Farley family:

Our condolences and prayers are with you all at this most difficult time. Having never met Steven, it is hard to find the words to express our thoughts, but we hope you find time, between the tears, to celebrate his extraordinary life. He was a true patriot. His love of family, country and mankind speaks volumes of how he was raised.

May God bless you and sustain you.

Love,

Rodney LeGrande

June 29, 2008

Dear family of Steven Farley, I did not know Steven and his family, but I grew up with Carla & Noel. Noel and I were best buds, and I know Steven will be missed by many.May GODS many blessings be with you and the family.

Jack Houser

June 29, 2008

Dear family of Steve Farley,
I got to know Steve briefly this past Feb. when he accompanied a group of Iraqis to Denver as part of the Baghdad/Denver region Sister City program.

We wanted to maintain some contact after their return, and Steve was gracious in offering to help. The opportunity never arose, but I shall always remember his warm smile, and enthusiasm for his work in Iraq.

God bless you all.

Mike Bell

June 29, 2008

Donna, Chris, Brett and Cameron, I want to offer my sincere condolences to the family. Steve was a true patriot and warrior. Steve and I would talk military at wrestling matches about our experiences. I will miss our conversations a great deal. Steve filled a small part of my life, but left a lasting friendship that I will have the rest of my days. Again, I am sorry for your loss. God bless

Peggy Kirkland

June 29, 2008

I did not know Steven, But I know he gave all for me, I want to thank him, and to say I am so sorry for you lost May God help you through

Larry & Scarlet Schwartz

June 28, 2008

We did not know your Loved One personally, only threw the things my sister Sandra shared with us. It sounds like he was a very good Man I Know that he will be missed here on this earth but think where he is now. God will see you threw these hard times.

Ronald Turk

June 28, 2008

Dear Donna,
You cannot imagine the shock we experienced on hearing of Steve's death. Seems like it was just yesterday we were on the Destiny having a great time. We are glad that we had the opportunity to get to know you both even if it was only for a short time. Please accept our deepest sympathy on your tragic loss and may God grant you the strength to continue on for the sake of your children and grandchildren. Our prayers are with you at this sad and trying time.
Love,
Ron and Jeannette Turk
Barbados, West Indies.

Mustaches: trying to imitate Dad!

Chris Farley

June 28, 2008

Dad,

I write to you now only 4 days after we received word that you were gone. Just after 5 am Tuesday morning, with the sound of an unwanted alarm, I was awakened to hear a ring from my cell phone. I knew the danger in the place that you went and had frequently wondered or imagined what it might be like to receive that call; fear surrounded it. When I was coherent enough to understand what was being said over the phone, I knew that my worst fear had happened.

It seems like just yesterday that you were telling me to “choke up” on the bat, as I played Tee ball for the first time, and I literally started making a choking sound not quite understanding what you meant. You taught me so much in life. You taught me how to shake hands the right way; to shake with a firm grip and look the person in the eye. You taught me that life should be about committing to doing something greater than yourself and to not quit anything that you start. You taught me that people need to depend on my word. It wasn’t too long ago that you were congratulating me on a win in a wrestling match or a hug and an encouraging word after a loss. Just days ago it seems we were building the deck together on the back of the house in Guthrie, talking about women and dating; by your wisdom I am now enjoying the fruits of those conversations.

The past few years have been difficult ones as our lives became increasingly busy. I graduated from OU and left for Russia; you answered the call and left for Japan after 9/11. Not long after that you again saw a need somewhere in another part of the world and volunteered for work in Iraq. Words can’t express how I’ve missed you during these last years and longed for the time when life would finally slow down and we might enjoy our time together. But, it seems God didn’t have that in the plans. I still trust Him though. It’s hard to comprehend all the things that we won’t be able to do now. I am saddened beyond anything that I have yet experienced in 29 years at that idea. I think about the last time we corresponded by email, the last time I was able to see you and the last embrace. Those memories, I think, will be the ones that I value the most and I will remember them my whole life. I think of all the things that we could have done which would be impossible to list, but in the end, all that I would want is to see you one more time and to say goodbye.

As I read the headlines, the emails and watch the news reports, I still find myself in a dreamlike state; caught somewhere between acceptance and disbelief. I am overwhelmed at the sheer number of these that this event has sparked; correspondence and calls from friends and world leaders. This is just a reflection of the impact that you made on everything and everyone you came in contact with. I am learning, along with the world, what kind of man you really were. For 57 years, we were simply blessed by God to “borrow” you for that short time. Naturally, I wish this could all be just a nightmare that I will eventually wake up from; but I know that I won’t. It is reality now, which I would never wish upon anyone and which I never thought I would have to be dealing with. You trained us (Brett, Cameron and I) to be men who take responsibility, to honor that which deserves honor and to have integrity at all cost. I believe that you have trained us well. Now begins the test that you have prepared us for, through your words and through your deeds. I only wish to make you proud and to carry on your legacy.

Your son,

Chris (Christopher Columbus Ohio)

Brett Farley

June 28, 2008

FUNERAL SCHEDULE

Thanks to all who've offered words and memories. We will cherish these, indeed. As we are honored by your thoughts and prayers, please honor our father with your presence as we remember him.

Full military ceremonies will be held at 9am, Wednesday, at Henderson Hills Baptist Church in Edmond. Following the church ceremony, full military salute and burial will be held at 2pm at the Ft. Sill National Cemetery in Elgin, OK.

Honored guests include US Ambassador Harry K. Thomas, Jr., Deputy Assistant Secretary of State Richard J. Schmierer, Congresswoman Mary Fallin, and Congressman Frank Lucas.

In this difficult time, we are renewed by your thoughts and prayers. Please allow us the opportunity to thank you by sharing your contact information with us by emailing [email protected] or calling (405) 706-0936.

Sincerely,
The Farleys

Terry and Bonnie Hyle

June 28, 2008

Dear Aunt Donna and Boys,
We are so sorry for the loss of Uncle Steve. He was truley a wonderful, gentle man. When I think of him, I think of him smiling, he always seemed to have a smile on his face. I keep thinking about when you all would come down to Aunt Lindas for Thanksgiving. How we would all play games and laugh and joke around. I remember Uncle Steve teasing around, and him giving his grown boys hugs all the time, It was so obvious how much he loved his family. It's also very obvious how much he loved his country. He is a Hero in my eyes. We want you to know how much we love you and are praying for everyone of you.

Charles and Farah Walker

June 27, 2008

Dear Farleys,
We are deeply sadden to hear of your loss. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless.

CAPT Curt Renard

June 27, 2008

Donna,

Steve was perhaps the most influencial person in my US Navy career. Without his guidance I would have left the Navy as a LT. I have forever been greatful for his leadership. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Bob and Carolyn Wall

June 27, 2008

To Noel and Diana,
So sorry to hear of your loss, we all know that pain so well. We pray that the peace of God emcompass your family

Jeanice Sides

June 27, 2008

We were so sorry to hear of Steve's death. Our prayers go out to each one of you at this time. May you find comfort in God and in the memories that you made together.

Raad Ommar

June 27, 2008

I have worked and knows Steve Farley, we planed in the next few weeks to hold a trade show and conference in Sadr City as we have done in Athamiya, booth districts are served by ePRT 3, also we have planes to open employment centers in Sadr City, when this tragic death happens, we are all reminded that we are still in a war.
Raad Ommar, CEO
Iraqi American Chamber of Commerce
www.i-acci.org

Lynn Smith

June 26, 2008

To Donna, Cameron, Brett, Jessica and the rest of the family - I am so very sorry for your loss. Steve was/is a wonderful man that I am happy to have known and worked for. I will remember his sense of humor and that big smile of his which he always had when he was talking about his family.

You are all truely wonderful people and I see a little of Steve in each of you.

So, from your "Norman Crew" and the guys at Baker Hughes let me say that you are in our thoughts and prayers. If there is ever anything I can do please do not hesitate to ask.

Barbara Becker

June 26, 2008

Dear Donna,
I love you and miss seeing you. I grieve with you. You and Steve were the sweetest friends to Jon and I. If there is anything you need or I can do please do not hesitate to call us. 405-819-6402. We are here for you. We have very fond memories of our times we all spent together. Steve will be missed greatly. You and the boys are in my prayers in this time of your loss and sorrow.

Judy Gaylor

June 26, 2008

This is Judy Gaylor, mom of Chris and Emily Gaylor. I am so very sorry to hear about Steve. He was much younger than I, and I thought he would far outlive me. He left behind 3 wonderful sons that will carry on his legacy.

carolyn folmsbee

June 26, 2008

our son Paul Folmsbee was part of the team also and wrote often about the great work that Steve was doing, we are so sorry for your loss and have you in our prayers

Kelley Swaim

June 26, 2008

Dear Steve,

I cannot even begin to tell you how much I will and already miss you. You have been such a beacon in my life always gleaming with such joy and a contagious passion. You have always been a mentor to me, and everyone else lucky enough to have known you. I feel so incredibly grateful that I had the pleasure of spending time with you and feeling like I could always come to you with anything. I knew you would always be there for me.

You gave me a summer job when I needed one. I might not have been the MOST pleasant that early in the morning, but we always had fun. I never had any idea where we were until we made it to the mall with our breakfast burritos.

Eating was always what we did as a group. Cheese dip at Chris and Cameron’s every week, cookies at the Holiday inn, breakfast burritos at Mcdonalds, and of course all the tasty treats you and the fam were cookin’ up at home. All the time I spent with you and your family are the best memories I treasure. You all mean so much to me.

Your family has the greatest love and respect for you, and I hope you realize what you mean to them and many other people as well. You leave a lasting impression on everyone you meet, and we all feel so thankful. You and Donna raised your boys to be leaders, and you taught your girls what to expect in a man, and to know how much you loved them. I don’t think I’ve ever seen a girl who loves her papa as much as Rebekah loves you. I know she was the world to you, and no one will ever let her forget that.

I am so grateful for everything you have done for me, and everything that you are as a person. We need more Steve Farley’s in the world. You have restored passion and life in the lives of many Iraqi people and I believe they will continue to live by your example and work to complete the mission you set out to accomplish.

Your legacy and impression will live on in all of us. We love you and we miss you!

Always being silly

Kelley Swaim

June 26, 2008

MIKE MUNDAY

June 26, 2008

AS A FORMER MARINE - MY HEART GOES
OUT THE THE FAMILY AND FRIENDS OF
THIS GREAT AMERICAN! MAY GOD
BLESS HIM AND HIS FAMILY!

MIKE MUNDAY

Ann Wilson

June 26, 2008

My heart is broken. I will miss Steve. I loved him dearly.

Timothy Pollard

June 26, 2008

My condolences , prayers are with steve & family.

Marjie and Bobby Bass

June 26, 2008

Donna, Brett, Chris, Cameron and all of the family blessed to have Steve as a member of their family,

I don't know where to begin....I will always remember the friendship that began in the early years of our marriages. We had such great times having dinners together and trips down the Illinois River as our children grew up. I can't imagine the grief you must feel knowing the sadness and tears I have shed each time I open the Guest Book and read of the great love so many others had for Steve. Donna, you are so fortunate to have raised three great young men to help you get through this trying time. Our country was very lucky having Steve as a member of our military and then as a civilian helping to rebuild the country we are fighting for. Please know you are all constantly in our thoughts and prayers.

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