Steven Michael Houk

Steven Michael Houk passed away peacefully Friday evening, July 29th, after a long journey with an illness eventually determined to be Lewy Body Dementia. He was surrounded by loved ones who celebrated his relentless spirit to the end.

Steve was born on December 22nd, 1969. Nicknamed "the best Christmas gift," Steve was proudly delivered to his parents' arms in a red stocking. He grew up in Franklin, Tennessee where he and his brother, Chris, had a joyful and adventurous childhood filled with snow ski trips, lake days, bike rides with neighbors, cousin trips to Florida, and lots of football.

Steve graduated from Franklin High School in 1988 and began his college studies at the University of Tennessee Knoxville later that year. During his first semester, he met the love of his life, Kristi, and never looked back. They married on August 9th, 1992 and built a life they loved. Their 30 years together included four kids, many pets, a couple houses, a minivan or two, and countless memories of quality time together. It was the wonderful kind of chaos they always dreamed of.

Steve is survived by Kristi, his adored wife, dedicated caregiver, and best friend. He also leaves behind four amazing children who are his greatest accomplishments, affectionately known as "The Houklings:" Marlee Elaine (27) and husband Mitchell Shope, Keely Morgan (23), Harper Thomas (20), and Brady Jackson (18). Steve would never want to exclude his two rescue pups, Bruno and Lola. Together, this group comprises the crew that came to be known as "The HoukHouse."

Steve is also survived by his big brother, Chris, whom he lovingly called "Bubba," and his wife, Laura; and by his father, Niles Houk, better known as "Big Al," and wife Susan.

Incredibly blessed by loved ones, Steve leaves behind a vast assembly of in-laws, whom he fully considered family and deeply loved: Carolyn and John Williams; Tom and Sharon Dougherty; Patrik Dougherty; Kara Dougherty; Myra and Chris Atkins; and Scott Repass. He also leaves behind many cherished cousins, nieces, and nephews, spanning Kingsport, Murfreesboro, Florida, Australia, and everywhere in between.

And by Steve's definition of friends - "the family you choose" - he is also survived by many classes of former youth group kids, two marvelous church communities, pool and sporting groups, caring neighbors, and the rest of his expansive village.

He is preceded in death by his beautiful mother, Joyce Taulbee Houk, better known as "Joycie." The family knows Steve is overjoyed to see his mom again and celebrates this sweet reunion of mother and son.

Steve's love of community, genuine belief in the human spirit, and zest for life made him intentionally present, forever leaving people and places better than he found them. Steve was an avid music and movie enthusiast, dedicated servant leader, curious history buff, emphatic "foodie," impassioned (and always hopeful) Vol for life, hands-on parent, and everyone's favorite personal cheerleader. He never turned down an opportunity to engage in conversation and create a personal connection with others; and, he had a natural ability to relate especially to young people. Even as his illness progressed, his desire to help and care for others never wavered.

Steve Houk will be remembered for his bear hugs and belly laughs.

He was a man of faith whose personal relationship with Christ led others to pursue their own salvation or deepen their bond with our Creator. And, of course, Steve will always be known as a loving husband, father, and friend.

A Memorial Service was held at Cokesbury United Methodist Church on Friday, August 5th. Friends of the family have established a memorial fund to support immediate financial needs of the Houk Family during this time of transition. Funds will be used to offset the cost of the service and provide financial support for Kristi and the kids as they adjust to a new way of life. In lieu of flowers, a memorial gift in Steve's honor can be made to https://gofund.me/72142166. In addition, the Houk Family are active members at Cokesbury United Methodist Church. Donations, in memory of Steve, can be made directly to the church by visiting https://my.cokesbury.tv/give/memorial.