Susan Smarr

1945 - 2023

Susan Smarr obituary, 1945-2023, Phoenix, AZ

Susan Smarr

1945 - 2023

BORN

1945

DIED

2023

Susan Smarr Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Feb. 9 to Feb. 10, 2023.
Susan Christine Smarr, age 77, passed away peacefully on Jan. 30, 2023 in Phoenix, AZ with family at her side surrounded by love and music after a long illness. She was preceded in death by her parents, Michael and Maisie Harendza of Binghamton, NY; her brother Richard Harendza of Binghamton, NY; and her brother David Harendza of Ocean Springs, MS. She is survived by her daughter, Jennifer Koeller (Adam) of Phoenix, AZ; her sister Judith Rawson (James) of Silver Spring, MD; her brother Christopher Harendza (Julie) of Lansdale, PA; her former husband, Pete Smarr of Fruita, CO; along with many cousins, nieces, and nephews.

Susan was born in Leeds, Yorkshire, England and grew up in Binghamton, NY. After graduating as salutatorian from Binghamton Central High School, she received her Bachelor's degree in education from the State University of New York at Cortland in 1967, then moved to Germany to teach at Ramstein Air Base where she met and married her former husband. After moving back to the U.S., Susan taught at the University of Wyoming Lab School in Laramie, WY. Following her move to Modesto and Menlo Park, CA, she took a leave from teaching to raise her daughter. After the family moved to Denver, CO to be closer to family, Susan taught at Holy Trinity Catholic School and then Flynn Elementary School, both in Westminster, CO. She received her Master's Degree in Education from Regis University in 1995. Susan was known and respected as an excellent and committed teacher until her retirement in 2006.

Throughout her life, Susan was an avid reader and was rarely seen without a book in hand. She kept abreast of world events and was a member of many social and economic justice organizations. She was a lifelong traveler, starting with her semester abroad in Neuchatel, Switzerland in 1965. She traveled extensively throughout Europe and Asia and collected pieces of artwork that she treasured and gifted to loved ones. She loved the arts and music, played the piano and sang in a choir. Susan loved the outdoors in Colorado from hiking in the Rocky Mountains to visiting the wildflowers in the spring and watching the aspen leaves turn each Fall. As a two-time breast cancer survivor, she took her health seriously and was a dedicated practitioner of yoga, meditation, and journaling.

Susan was a very inquisitive person and she made friends everywhere she went. People were attracted to her generosity, loving heart, and big smile. Through the many personal and medical challenges she faced during her lifetime, Susan remained a brave, spirited, and fiercely independent woman. She loved her family and friends, always stayed close and ready to help whenever needed. She will be remembered as a warm and compassionate mother, sister, and friend and will be dearly missed.

A celebration of life will be held in Denver, CO on a date to be determined. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in her name to local libraries, Regis University, or the Alzheimer's Association of Colorado.

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Anne Klingner

February 26, 2023

I went to High School with Susan and kept up with her life through a mutual friend. Thinking of you at this time of sorrow.

Gayle Lawrence

February 20, 2023

Bright and inquisitive; fun and funny; caring and kind; well-read and well-informed. Susan was all of that and more. She was multi-talented and always willing to share her talents with others. Because of her patient tutoring, I was able to successfully meet the piano requirements for my education degree. She sat with me for many sessions so I could learn to play the selections without hesitation. That took patience and love!

I will always be most grateful to Susan for that and for all the happy memories we made together. Knowing Susan certainly enriched my life. Deep sorrow fills me at the passing of my wonderful friend of over fifty years.

I, too, hope she finds lively conversation with others for eternity. More than anything, I hope she is truly at peace.

With caring thoughts and love,
Gayle Lawrence

Rachel C. Seifert

February 15, 2023

Susan and I were neighbors, she lived two houses down, while I was growing up. My younger sister Becci and Susan´s daughter Jen were friends. As my parents came to know and trust her, I was encouraged to help with things around her home, basic maintenance, lawncare, fixing fences, etc. I was not the easiest of kids to get along with, but probably not the worst. Susan was kind and often went out of her way to engage me in conversation. She turned me on to Simon and Garfunkel, a great joy to me still today. She had an orange tabby named Cecil that I adored. She reinforced my love of language by talking about literature and challenging me with vocabulary.

When I graduated high school, she gifted me a dictionary - I had told her that I wanted to be a writer. I have treasured it for more than 30yrs now. She inscribed the dictionary as follows:

"When I use a word, "Humpty Dumpty said, "it means what I choose it to mean - neither more nor less."

"The question is," said Alice, "whether you can make words mean different things."

"The question is," said Humpty Dumpty, "which is to be the master - that's all."

Alice in Wonderland

Love,

Susan and Jenny

She had yellow, 1978 Chevy Nova that she either sold to me cheap or gave to me, I no longer recall. She´d taken care of it meticulously and it served me well. I wish I still had it!

The last time I spoke with her at my sister´s bridal shower, she was both kind, and incredibly generous. It was a challenging time for me. All she did was to talk with me and teach how to make cucumber sandwiches, but she eased my mind and made me feel valid and respected. I was thunderstruck when I heard that she had passed. She was an extraordinary person who, I suspect, commanded the love and respect of many including myself.

Cherylin Peniston

February 13, 2023

I remember Susan as a dedicated WEA member who never hesitated to advocate for teachers and students. She was caring and worked hard at her teaching craft. Education in Colorado was better because of Susan.

Adam

February 10, 2023

I first met Susan just hours after being introduced to her daughter (and my future wife). Although initially skeptical of her only child dating a younger man, she quickly embraced me into her life when she saw her daughters joy and we had been a part of each other's lives ever since. Getting to know Susan over the past 26 years has been a pleasure and privilege I will always hold close.

I got to experience her intellect, independence, warmth and compassion firsthand but will always remember her 'creative' cooking and love for her daughter the most. Her voracious reading along with her inquisitive nature was a defining trait; she always wanted to know what was happening and why. Although we would sometimes disagree, it was her firece defense of her own well-thought-out opinions and ideas that I adminred and will miss greatly.

But perhaps her most evident legacy is the impact and influence she had on others. From family, friends and colleagues to the countless number of students she taught over the years, she has touched many lives and will be fondly remembered by more people than I will ever meet in my lifetime.

Rest in peace Susan. I hope you are reading books, drinking tea, and discussing feminism with Ruth Bader Ginsburg and Jane Austen for all eternity.

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