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April 17, 2012
Anita,
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always. Tim & Jen
Cathy Kielty
April 16, 2012
I am so sorry to hear of TJ's passing. My prayers and thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
Ann Neal
April 16, 2012
So sorry for your loss. WILL KEEP PRAYING FOR BOTH FAMILIES. God WILL help us get through this.God has already given me peace. Love,many hugs and prayers to you all
Trace Brumfield
April 15, 2012
T.J.
You will be missed. I know your in a better place and no more pain or sarrow! One day we'll meet again in that home way up in the sky!
Love,
Trace and Dawson
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Cindy Leibrock
April 15, 2012
So deeply sorry for your loss Anita. Just keep in your mind the day you will meet in Heaven. How amazing it will be. God Bless you and your family.
Kellee Elliott
April 15, 2012
Thinking about you lots, Anita.
Love & good vibes to you & your family.
Kellee
(From Rothwell's)
James Sturgiill
April 15, 2012
Sorry for the loss. Best wishes to the family.
mark connie will mullet
April 15, 2012
so sorry for you and your family anita there isnt any words i can say except im truley sorry
angel n faimly
April 15, 2012
Tj is w out pain now it hurts to c em gone but betters ur heart knowing they r w god n no longer suffering tht is wht got me through losin my daddy I new I couldn't b greedy n make him suffer everyday to make us happy it still hurts n no words can ease ur pain but friends n faimly will help get u through just remember all the time u n ur faimly were blessed w tj I love u guys n if there's ne thing please don't hesitate
David and Karen Roose
April 15, 2012
I pray God will fill you with cherished memories that will comfort you in the days to come. Love and Prayers from The Roose Family
Anita Vance
April 15, 2012
Baby,I miss you like crazy. My heart will never be the same. We had quite the love story you and I.It just ended to soon.I'll never forget your outrage when I told you people in heaven are not married and that we would be best friends there. If I know your stubborness you are prbably trying to talk God into you and I being the exception.You wanted me to be your wife for eternity.Just thinking about it brings a smie to my face.I wanted you to be my husband for the rest of my life.Your life ended way to soon baby.The last seven months we spent together, I am so grateful we have no regrets.We were in eachothers arms constantly.We were so blessed to have shared a love that you are lucky to find once in a lifetime.We told each other we loved eachother every day.Even up until the last day you were with us. I had no idea you were saying good bye when you kissed me so sweetly for the last time, then you laid in my arms and we fell asleep together.I had no idea we were spending uor last hours together.When I woke up I knew.In your final hour, you had all the people there you would have wanted there.I was there, your mom, the kids the hospice nurse, and I know without a doubt God was there.We said our good byes and then we all held hands and prayed over you.I kept my last promise to you when I climed up beside you and held you until Jesus took you home.We have no regrets baby. I am so grateful God put us back together,and gave me the privlage of walking you home. I love you and I will see you soon. P.S. not to many buffalo's in my mansion please
Cindy Soto
April 14, 2012
Ron I was so very sorry to hear the loss of your son TJ. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this very difficult time.
Trista Campbell
April 14, 2012
My thoughts and prayers are with you TJ, your family, wife, kids and friends. May you be at peace now and live on forever. You will be missed dearly. Thanks for the good memories.
Geoff, Jacqueline & kids Wheeler
April 13, 2012
Tj, you were so special to us and we will never forget you or all the wonderful memories that we were blessed with. You were definitely a " 1 of a kind ". We miss you everyday and we love you always...we will always keep you in our hearts...see you soon brother
Geoff, Jacqueline & Kids Wheeler
April 13, 2012
Tj, you were so special to us and we will never forget you or all the wonderful memories that we shared. You were definitely a " 1 of a kind ". We miss you everyday and we love you always...we will always keep you in our hearts...see you soon brother
Never Forgotten, Always Remembered
Tessa Gabbard
April 13, 2012
"Even when walking through the dark valley of death I will not be afraid, for you are close beside me, guarding, guiding all the way." The Book
Tina Smith
April 13, 2012
You will be missed.
Sue Hoop Linley
April 12, 2012
This world will miss your smile, but your loving heart will be with everyone who knew you. I pray for peace for your family and friends and a long memory of the man you grew up to be. Love you.
JULIE&CASEY Sowers
April 12, 2012
Anita and family: My heart aches for you but your angel is with god watching over you he is painfree now ! Keep that smile just like you had in his arms and you will be with him agian God has a special plan for him right now love you guys !
Michie Garay
April 12, 2012
My angel Tj..You will never be forgotten..Your spirit will always be here with us.
Love your sister
Michie
Becky Porter
April 12, 2012
I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and yours.
kristi
April 12, 2012
Now your smile will always be. Your children wife and family will be in my prayers.
Becci Combs
April 12, 2012
T.J. I will forever miss you!!!
Ami
April 12, 2012
My heart goes out to T's family. I'm sorry for your loss. He will not be forgotten.
Righter Family
April 12, 2012
T.J.. You are forever in our heart.. Prayers go out for your wife, children and family.. God has received a wonderful angel!
tom and ann williams
April 12, 2012
anita and family tj s now out of pain and you gave him the best life ever his prayers were answered when you and him got back together my thoughts and prayers are with you and the family tom and ann
Megan & JERRY Powell
April 12, 2012
Prayers for the whole family! May god heal all.
steve allemang
April 11, 2012
I will always keep you in my heart brother thanks for being a great friend love ya always keep justin out od trouble up there see you again somday homey
John (Rico) Garay
April 11, 2012
Brother you will be missed dearly! However, God got you now......I will continue to pray for your family. I love you Brother!
Kelly Koch
April 11, 2012
TJ you are pain free now friend. We will meet again. Thanks for being a friend. My prayers are with all your family and your kids.... Much love bro
tom and ann williams
April 11, 2012
anita and family im so glad tj got to spend his life being with who he wanted to be with you guys had a special love that will live on forever our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family love you guys tom and ann
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