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Phyllis O'Neil
March 3, 2023
It has been almost 17 years since our beautiful little sister passed. I can still hear her laughter & see her smile. She was such a kind, happy, loving sister. I have many memories of her growing up that are still as fresh in my mind as the day they were made. Darlene & Richard have joined you, mom & dad these past few years adding to our love on the other side. We love you all, miss you all, but know how beautiful the reunion will be when it's our turn.
Phyllis
May 5, 2010
It has been four years since our sweet sister Tammy passed away, but not a day goes by that I don't think of her. She was a perfect example of how each of us should count our daily blessings, love our friends & family, & live each day to its fullest. "Live Like You Were Dying". Each time we sisters get together we give a toast to all of mama's girls. Indeed you are still, & always will be with us Tammy.
Debbie Horsfall
November 23, 2008
Dear Aunt Tammy,
I miss you, I miss Grandma, and I miss my Dad! Hope you are all having fun up there together. It's not the same without you all. I am thankful for the good memories and the love we share.
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Carole Flynn
September 5, 2007
I have been blessed to be a part of the family for 53 yrs. I can remember how thrilled we all were when this beautiful blond angel arrived. Tammy was so loved by every person she touched. She fought her battle with dignity and a very positive attitude.You will always be in our hearts "Little Sister"I love you. Your other Big Sis.
Mark Mathews
September 4, 2007
They say that time heals all wounds, but I still feel the emptiness left by aunt Tammy. She was very brave in her fight with cancer. I will always remember her smile. I know she is with Grandma Lil, looking down on all of us, watching over us. While it's not fair for her to be taken from us so early, I know that she is in a much better place, where she is always young, healthy, and beautiful. At every bowling tournament I compete in, I silently dedicate my first strike to her memory. I miss you.
Phyllis O'Neil
May 6, 2006
Tammy was the youngest of us sisters so somehow, somewhere, it doesn't seem right that she was the first one of us that God called back to his side. I can still hear your wonderful laughter sis, see your beautiful smile. You were always so happy & thankful for every additional day of life here on earth. I am so thankful to God for the blessing of an additional two & a half years of your presence before you were taken to walk with our dear mother. But being the selfish mortal that I am, it wasn't enough. I think of you every day, I miss your hugs, & just holding your hand. I know you, mom & grandma are looking down upon us & saying it's okay don't cry we're happy, but there will always be a void in my heart until all of us girls are together again. I love you little one, Phyllis.
Husband/Dad/Grandpa Jim Ware
April 16, 2006
Fifty years ago I made a decision that changed my life. I married my soul mate Lillian Margaret Anderson O'Neal. She chose me to help raise her five children; Darlene, Richard, Phyllis, Peggy, and Pamela. Two years later a precious daughter and sister was born, Tammy Lorene Ware. I worked two jobs to support this large loving family. Each are now Grandparents and realize that their mother was the glue and strength that was needed, the love that she shared made this blended family work. Now in my twilight years, I recognize the positive as I reflect. Lillian and Tammy, beautiful chosen angels, are together awaiting our arrival into the unknown future and will help us in the transition. We miss them terribly and feel their spirits ever around us. We celebrate their lives and have wonderful memories.
Pam Alderman
March 26, 2006
My sweet little sister Tammy, was my best friend. My heart hurts so much and always will, for I miss her each day. We were there for each other all the time, good times and sad times, it didn't matter. I was blessed to have her in my life, and to be by her side each day. She is now an angel, and with mom. I know she will always be with me. I love you Tammy.
Rick O'Neil
March 21, 2006
In Loving Memory Of Tammy Lorene Sandstrom. As one of her many nephews and the son of her only brother Richard, I will cherish all the memories of our family gatherings, her smile, laughter, and love for life. Tammy was an inspiration to all. Her strength and courage was overwhelming during her battle with cancer. I will miss her dearly and keep a place in my heart forever and always. Give grandma a kiss from me, as you are with her for eternity. We all love you, rest in peace aunt Tammy.
Darlene Anderson
March 20, 2006
Tammy was a loving sister who enjoyed being with all her family. To meet her was to love her and she had many friends. Our family get togethers will be very sad without her but she will be with us in spirit. We think of her every day and miss her so much.
Amber Low
March 17, 2006
Tammy brought joy to many peoples lives, she will not be forgotten. Until we see her again, may we all keep a specail place for her in our hearts.
Shane & Sara Stevenson
March 16, 2006
Tammy was and is a wonderful women so loving and thoughtful. Her courage was beyond words. She will be missed greatly.
Peggy Campbell
March 14, 2006
Tammy was, and still is, the breath of love, hope, faith and courage. She loved life, nature, her family and friends to the fullest. I'm so very greatful and proud to have her for my sister. She was a very happy and proud wife, mother and grandmother. She was always there with her love and helping hand for all. I'll miss her smile, our calls, times together, the laughter and tears we have shared. But I know she and her love is still with us. Tammy and our Mother are looking down on us all, with a love that shines like the brightest of stars. Our love and support will forever be there for Pat, John, Shannon, Kevin, Alexis and Taydem. God bless you our baby sister. You will forever be in all our hearts and thoughts. You have truly been an inspiration and gift to all. We Love You.
Raquel Collins
March 12, 2006
Throughout my life I have been lucky to have Tammy as wonderful loving aunt. As her niece not only have I seen her as an aunt, but as a wife, mother, daughter, sister and I know how important and special she is to everyone. She is loved deeply by our whole family and will forever be missed. I will always treasure memories of her and miss her sweet nature, loving smile and hugs. I love you Aunt Tammy.
Dolores & Roy Nottleson
March 10, 2006
Roy and I were so sorry to hear about Tammy. Her strength and courage was beyond belief. Our love and prayers go out to her and her family. She will be missed dearly.
Love,
Debbie Meyer
March 8, 2006
I can't recall a childhood memory that doesn't have Tammy in it she was such a huge part of my life. She was more than a friend, more like my sister. I will never forget her sweet and generous nature and I will hold her in my heart forever.
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