Staff Sgt. Theodore S. Holder

Staff Sgt. Theodore S. Holder

Theodore S. Holder Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jan. 28, 2005.
As a young boy, Theodore Holder II used to wrestle his sister and she would win. But by the time he graduated from high school, Holder was ready to be a Marine. "We were worried for him," said Rebecca Holder-Otte, Holder''s sister. "But it was something he wanted to do. ... I just want everyone to know what a special person he was. ... The world was much better with him in it." Holder, 27, of Littleton, Colo., died Nov. 11 in a hostile attack. He was stationed at Camp Pendleton, Calif. Despite the dangers Holder faced _ his job in Iraq was to enter hostile territory and sweep for roadside bombs _ Holder maintained his sense of humor. In a birthday card he sent to his sister for her birthday, Holder deadpanned: "It''s nice here in Iraq." Holder-Otte suspected her brother''s mundane phone calls home _ in which he talked about day-to-day things and said he was bored _ were really designed to allay his mother''s fears. "I think he said a lot of things to make my mom feel better," she said.

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July 12, 2014

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November 11, 2013

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June 21, 2013

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Charlie Gili

July 12, 2014

Hello,
We would like to express our deepest condolences and also let the Holder Family know that we recently made a small donation to the Injured Marine Semper Fi Fund in honor of Theodore S. Holder II US Marine Staff Sergeant. We recognize that this is a humble tribute, but we wanted you to know that it is heartfelt and made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals in the youth hockey community and beyond. We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of the US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign

Peggy Childers

November 11, 2013

To the family and friends of Staff Sgt. Theodore S. Holder:
It has truly been my honor to sign Theodore's guest book these past few years. Unfortunately, due to complications from my Multiple Sclerosis, this may be the last message I'm able to write. Please forgive me and know that Theodore will always be remembered in my home.
With love and respect ~ Peggy

June 21, 2013

I would like to express my gratitude to the late SSG Theodore Holder for doing the bravest of the bravest job. My thoughts will always be with him on Veteran's Day.

Richard & Sandi Berg

May 18, 2013

We watched you grow from a "wild & crazy" child to a Hero's Hero.

God Bless You and your family

Peggy Childers

November 11, 2012

To the family and friends of Staff Sgt. Theodore S. Holder:
Always remembering Theodore. "Some gave all."

Peggy Childers

November 13, 2011

November 11, 2011
To the family and friends of Staff Sgt. Theodore S. Holder:
Please accept my remembrance of Theodore on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.

Peggy Childers

November 11, 2010

To the family and friends of Staff Sgt. Theodore S. Holder:
Remembering Theodore on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

In Memory of Theodore ~ (Debra Estep)

November 20, 2008

Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.


The Wind on The Downs

“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”

(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )

Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….

“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”


I did not know Theodore, but I am remembering
his service and sacrifice. He is my hero. !

~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~

The Other Side

i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.

can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.

i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side

the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)

“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008


The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol



Sincerely,

Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB

Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55

Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b

Peggy Childers

November 11, 2008

To the family of Staff Sgt. Theodore S. Holder:
Theodore gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Michael Cassady, Chaplain, USAF

August 16, 2008

I appreciated the story of your Marine in `Final Salute.` As the son and brother of Marines, I appreciate and honor your service.

August 13, 2007

There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.

Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.

I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.

REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!

PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)

Garnet Jenkins

November 11, 2006

Again remembering the Sacrifice of Staff Sgt. Theodore S. Holder, on this 2nd anniversary of the loss of this fine young Marine.

May the Holder family find strength in their faith, comfort in God's love, and peace in knowing this country remembers Theodore's Sacrifice.
My thoughts are with you.

Garnet Jenkins

August 25, 2006

Remembering Staff Sgt. Theodore S. Holder, with a Multitude of Thanks for his Service and Dedication to our Country and our Freedom.


Rest well in God's Loving Care and know that you will NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.


May God's Grace and comfort, continue to be with the Holder


family.


From the sister of a Fallen young hero, who made the Ultimate Sacrifice in Vietnam. KIA~1967.





Those we love remain with us,


for love itself lives on...


And cherished memories never fade,


Because a loved one's gone....


Those we love can never be,


more than a thought apart....


For as long as there is memory,


They'll live on in the heart.





May the memories of your loved one live in your heart always

Tom Gugliuzza-Smith

April 5, 2006

My heartfelt sympathy to the Holder family in the loss of Theodore. I did not know Theodore, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. Theodore soon it will be 17 months since you were taken. You are a hero and you will never be forgotten.

I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.

Love and Peace

Tom



To live in the hearts

of those you leave behind

is never to die"

~Robert Orr~

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