Theodore Spalding obituary, North Haven, CT

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Theodore Spalding

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Ambroshia

September 26, 2022

Teddy
I hope you´re at peace now and I hope you hear me talking to you all the time.

I´m so glad we caught up & hung out as adults.

You and your beautiful smile are loved & missed.

Bro

M

June 28, 2022

Happy Birthday Teddy!
We used to love June 25th, 26th, 28th growing up. I want you to know we still celebrate you with our words and in our hearts.

Pookie Johnson

August 21, 2021

Ted,
You are sorely missed every single day
& Loved beyond the moon & stars!
We say your name, drink a Sam Adams
& You are still here with us

-M

June 28, 2021

Happy Birthday Teddy.
Miss and love you always. Xoxo

July 6, 2019

Thinking of you. Wish I could talk to you one more time.

June 28, 2018

Happy Birthday Teddy !! Love you

June 18, 2017

Last night we were together again. We were young, carefree, laughing, and hanging in the hot summer sun at T&M. When I awoke I was crushed when I realized it was just a dream. But I was so happy to have seen you again. I visit you every year as I do the rounds of those I have lost. You, Mike, Alicia and Booie, the list seems to get longer each year. I have a secret I need to tell you. It's weighing on me more and more as the years go by. I know someday I will see you again and I will tell you. Until then I hold you close always.. My T-Nice I love you... xoxoxo PS tell my dad I said hi.

christine spalding

December 22, 2014

miss and love u forever

Pookie

July 23, 2014

Three years without you is a lifetime. Wish we could hang out one more time. Miss you everyday, Ted Ted.

Teddy & Pookie hanging out drinking beer & laughing

December 14, 2012

sheila

December 13, 2012

In life you have left us but in our hearts you live forever. Missing you so much.

sheila

December 13, 2012

Miss you T

sheila peterson

December 9, 2012

If tears could build a stairway & memories were a lane, we would all march right up to Heaven and bring you back again. We all miss & love you so much, Ted. You remain FOREVER IN OUR HEARTS.

September 28, 2012

You are missed sorely, my cousin, every single day. A year feels like a week feels like an eternity. I still hear your voice and your contagious laugh. I remember all of our good times, hanging out together. My heart breaks into a million pieces. I will sing your praises and carry your song in my heart, always. We celebrate your life, Ted, and we all miss you more than words can convey. Give your Mom and Grandma and Chicken Legs and all our beloved who have gone too soon, a hug from me. I say your name everyday and you are still here.

miss you my baby teddy

August 16, 2012

Love you sooooo much RIP

Kristen Ayrton

August 15, 2012

Teddy Ted, I think of you often and share memories of you with the boys. Thankyou for being such a great friend to me. I will cherish you and the memories always. Love and miss you, Kristen xxxxxxoooooo

Johna

August 10, 2012

Heaven is now home to all the people I loved most. I'd like to think my father has reunited with my mom and that they both have reunited with you, Teddy. They both loved you so.

Til the day I join you all I will keep your memory alive and I will keep it well.

Van Mai

January 7, 2012

Ted was a beautiful man who meant so much to all who knew him. His gentle spirit lives on in our hearts forever. My prayers go out to his family & love ones.

Sheila Peterson

December 7, 2011

Cousin Ted, I miss you every, single day. We are more than cousins, we are friends...pals. It is still just so hard to believe that you are truly gone. I would give anything to have you back again Ted. I am so sorry for any pain you were struggling with and wish I could have helped somehow. Some days, it feels like my heart is going to explode from the immense pain I feel in losing you too early. If you ever want to come through or make contact< i am here for you Ted and i'm not afraid. i got your back cuz ALWAYS...Love Pookie

Dominic Mazzarella

August 26, 2011

i am very deeply hurt to see that an old friend is lost ..i had no idea that teddy passed away .i would like to give my deepest condolences to his family ..im a truly very sorry

Mike(Sean) Fowler

August 25, 2011

Wow I am shocked to read about Teddy's passing. I went to FHMS and then to Eli Whitney with him. My deepest condolences to his family and friends. RIP Teddy

Love & Stephen Treichel

August 19, 2011

We will honor you by remembering everything that made you so special to each of us and pray that the sadness doesn''t overwhelm your loved ones during this difficult time. Rest In Peace Teddy

Holly Meeker

August 18, 2011

Teddy you will always be in my heart .we had some really fun times growing up together with the rest of the crew .you will be missed so much by so many.To your family i am so sorry for your loss.
Love you teddy Always!!

August 18, 2011

Our hearts go out to the Spalding and Gontarz families. Please accept our sincerest condolences and deepest sympathy.

The Ferraro-Codianni Family

Carissa Loesche-Bruno

August 18, 2011

My deepest sympathy....

Aunt Mar Andrulatis

August 18, 2011

Ted Ted,
You will always be Ted Ted to me and you will always have a special place in my heart. I can still see you laughing with that beautiful smile when your father would tease me. Your Mom now has her Angel with her. love you, Aunt Mar.

August 18, 2011

To all of Teddy's family and friends,

I am so sorry for your loss. At times like these people always say they know how you feel, when they really do not. Unfortunately I do know, it is never easy to deal with the loss of a loved one. My deepest sympathies go out to all of you. If any of you need to talk or have someone just listen, you know how to contact me. Robbie Melotto

Lorrie Maiorano

August 18, 2011

Rest in Peace Ted. My sincere condolences to Teddy's family.

August 18, 2011

love you always T-Nice. forever in my heart.
m

M

August 18, 2011

love you always T-Nice. You will forever be in my heart.

Rob Angus

August 18, 2011

Teddy was a great kid and a great guy, he will be missed dearly by all that knew him. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family during these dark times.

Rob Spose

August 18, 2011

Teddy was a great kid and a great guy, he will be missed dearly by all that knew him. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family during these dark times.

Cheryl Wallen-Smith

August 17, 2011

I can't believe my ears things are not supposed to be this way! My heart and prayers go out to all your family Ted! So many memories as kids so many laughs! There is a link that death cannot sever- memories last forever!

Joey Bond

August 17, 2011

Didn't know you that well but you were always a stand up got to me RIP Teddy

Handsome Teddy

Donna Spalding

August 17, 2011

Diane Giannelli Weller

August 17, 2011

My heart aches for the Spalding and Gontarz families. May the loving memories of Teddy keep you strong and help you get through this difficult time. No words could express how sorry I am. God Bless.

Joe G

August 17, 2011

Peace be with you

Anthony DiNuzzo

August 17, 2011

Teddy, I didn't know you as long as most but the time that I did know you was a pleasure.Although you might not be able to respond we know you are still here with us in spirit!
Dave G, Kim G, The Spalding and Gontarz Family I give my condolences to you all. P.S. Ted, I will continue to purchase a square for you at ed's every year!

Billy Gaetano

August 17, 2011

I also want to express my deepest sincere sympathies to the entire Spalding family my thoughts and prayers are with all of you....And to all Teddy's friends we all know what he meant to us and he will be sorely missed.

colleen cavanaugh

August 17, 2011

There are no words for how badly my heart aches i thought you always be there i will always love and miss you ted ted . My heart and prayers go out to the whole family.

Johna

August 17, 2011

Sweetie, my Teddy. I wish I could talk to you just one more time. There's so much I wish I could say. So much to thank you for. You gave me so much, you worked tirelessly, honestly and with pride. Everyone who met you was impressed by you. Your generosity, your smile, your curiosity and eagerness to learn everything new, each of these things made you the Teddy we all held dear. I only hope you knew how much I loved you, how much my family loved you. How much we will continue to love you. Our hearts are broken. I'll mourn the loss of you for a lifetime. I'll remember your beautiful face forever. I'm grateful for the years we had together. Thank you for sharing part of your life with me <3

Billy Gaetano

August 17, 2011

Teddy I have a lot a memories of hanging out with you on Atwater St...Always smiling..joking..never had a bad word to say you were and always will be a stand up guy in my book..You will forever remain in the hearts of all of us..Forever loved and missed..The world is a lesser place without you..Till we meet again my friend...Rest In Peace...Love your friend Billy

gail cantley

August 17, 2011

My deepest sympathy goes out to teddys family.teddy you were one of my oldest and dearest friends i will forever hold my memories of us close to my heart.I will always hear you singing to kaila when she was a baby.I love you.you will be so missed.

Mimi Amaturo-Franchi

August 17, 2011

My Deepest Sympathy goes out to the entire Spaulding and Gontarz Families. I have no words to express how truly sorry I am for the loss of your brother Teddy. May he rest in peace and smile down on you all from heaven.

Dolores Bosco Vincent

August 17, 2011

I WILL ALLWAYS REMEBER TEDDY AS THE CUTEST LITTLE BLONDE BOY EVER!!SORE THE HEAVENS WITH YOUR MOM!YOU WILL BE LOVED AND MISSED BY MANY! MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO ALL MY COUSINS AND EXTENED COUSINS! R.I.P. TEDDY!!

Martha Longyear

August 17, 2011

A new address has been given to Teddy it is on the side of peace, he now shares his time with his Mom. He's looking down on his family & friends with that smile we all knew so well, just to say it's okay I made it home safe. R.I.P Teddy.

Elise Treichel-Palmer

August 17, 2011

So sorry for your loss KIM and family. Momories of Teddy hanging around us when we came home from school. He would be jumping on the bed and wouldn't get out of the room on us. Please know my heart goes out to you and David and all. He will be surely missed.

Michelle Dotson

August 17, 2011

My deepest sympathy goes out to the Spalding family and the Guntarz family. Teddy was loved and will be missed by many. He is your guardian angel now. Rest in peace Teddy.

Kelly Meeker

August 17, 2011

My deepest sympathy and sincere condolences to the entire family.... RIP Teddy

Michele Maiorano

August 17, 2011

I never heard anyone say one bad thing about "Little Teddy"...a rare thing in our Fair Haven world! Love and tears for the Gontarz and Spalding families, and everyone who loved him.

Jennifer Rivera

August 17, 2011

We are so sorry for your loss,no word can express what you are going through.Teddy was a great person,I will never forget his smile. Deepest sympathy

Jenn&Dave Rivera

chris spalding

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The Childress Family

August 17, 2011

We are so sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Lynne Scott

August 17, 2011

Teddy,we will miss you.you will be in our hearts forever.rest in peace and i know you are watching over over all of us from heaven.my thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Linda Jackson

August 17, 2011

You have left us physically but you will forever be our hearts and fond memories. We love you and will miss you dearly. Give Mike a hug for us...

collette leblanc-saez

August 17, 2011

Teddy was such a fun nice guy! I have memory from way back when we all use to hang at ur moms house in west haven alot of fun times! He will be truly missed forever he will watch over all of u

collette LeBlanc -saez

August 17, 2011

Teddy was such a nice guy I remember how young teddy was when we all use to hang out at his moms house in west haven such fun memory he will be truly missed everyday! My heart goes out to his family he will be watching over all of u!

collette leblanc-saez

August 17, 2011

teddy was always such a nice guy i remember teddy so young when everyone use to hang out in ur moms house in west haven many fun times! he will be truly missed forever my heart goes out to his family he will always watch over all of u!

ambroshia volpe

August 17, 2011

May God and all his angels touch your hearts & bring you some comfort during this terribly painful time...Teddy you were a sweet, kind, good man & friend & you are missed by many.

ben yarrington

August 17, 2011

Teddy was a good guy who looked out for me growing up in fairhaven he will never be forgotten rest in peace teddy

ben yarrington

August 17, 2011

Teddy was a good guy who always looked out for me growing up in fair haven
He will be missed
Rest in peace teddy

Esther Charczynski

August 17, 2011

Our deepest sympathy to all of Teddy's family. He will be missed greatly but hold tight to all the wonderful memories.

Michelle Yarrington

August 17, 2011

R.I.P. Teddy.

Janice Longyear-Hurlburt

August 17, 2011

"Little Teddy".Forever in my memories,you'll be sorely missed by many... In the arms of your Mother once again...RIP Baby boy

Jackie Vallati

August 17, 2011

My deepest sympathy goes out to the Spaulding and Gontarz families. I've been friends with Teddy since we were kids and he will truly be missed. Heaven has another angel. RIP Teddy.

Edward Bosco

August 17, 2011

teddy you will aways be in our harts and parys i will miss u always cuz hope u are in a better place

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