Thomas Norton Bayer

1934 - 2023

Thomas Norton Bayer obituary, 1934-2023, La Crosse, WI

Thomas Norton Bayer

1934 - 2023

Thomas Bayer Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Mar. 20, 2023.

 


 


 


Thomas N. Bayer, Ph.D.


 


Thomas Norton Bayer, 88, of rural Houston, Minnesota, passed away peacefully at his home on Sunday morning, March 12, 2023. He was born in Elyria, Ohio on December 23, 1934 to John Alexander Bayer II and Mabel Ellen (Johnson) Bayer.


While being educated in the St. Paul Public Schools, Tom was awarded the Eagle Scout Badge and God and Country Medal from the Boy Scouts in 1951. He worked his own way through Macalester College and received his Bachelor’s Degree in 1957, with a major in geology and a minor in biology. He earned four letters on the Mac Swimming Team where he was a springboard diver and freestyle sprinter. He was swim team captain his senior year.


Tom was accepted for graduate studies at the University of Minnesota in 1957. He received a Master of Science Degree in geology in 1960, while he was working as an instructor in geology at Macalester College. He continued his graduate studies and received his Ph.D. in 1965, with a major in geology and a minor in geophysics. Tom’s Ph.D. dissertation was in the field of paleoecology.


In 1964 he left his position at Macalester to accept a position as a professor of Earth Science at Winona State College. He went on to establish the first Department of Geology and Earth Science in what is now the Minnesota State University system in 1968. He served as chair of the department until 1977, retiring in 1996. Dozens of Winona State University geology and earth science majors have indelible memories of camping on the numerous multi-week Western Field Trip Expeditions he organized and led in the summers.  


He was a Fellow of the Geological Society of America, an active member of the American Association of Petroleum Geologists, the Paleontological Society, the Society of Economic Paleontologists and Mineralogists and the Society of Sigma Xi. His scientific publications were in the field of invertebrate paleontology.


In addition to being a great swing dancer, Tom was an avid outdoorsman who loved hunting with any of his seven beloved golden retrievers over the decades, as well as fishing, birding and playing golf. Tom was known for his huge vegetable garden. He earned his pilot’s license and enjoyed flying a single engine Cessna 150 and a twin engine Piper Cub, having fun taking numerous children up for their first airplane rides. He became a certified Master Scuba Diver, delighting in 1,393 dives in many parts of the world, from searching numerous shipwrecks in the Great Lakes, to exploring downed World War II aircraft in Palau, Micronesia. Tom was invited to be a guest lecturer on several live-aboard dive boats and at numerous diving resorts in the Caribbean. They greatly enjoyed his underwater photography, learning about the reefs and their inhabitants. He also taught them about the constellations and astronomy of the local night sky. Tom was still diving into his 80s and always treasured the lasting friendships made through those scuba diving trips.


He is survived by the love of his life, his wife of 48 years, Marilyn Frauenkron Bayer; their two daughters April Bayer (Houston, Texas) and Adrienne Bayer (rural Houston, Minnesota); as well as daughter Elizabeth Bayer (Rollingstone, Minnesota) from a previous marriage; sister Nan (John) Shimota (Minnetonka, Minnesota), half-brothers Scott (Jerrie Lynne) Bayer, (Minneapolis, Minnesota) and Peter (Teri) Bayer (Becker, Minnesota); brother-in-law Arlyn (Susan) Frauenkron (rural Houston, Minnesota), sisters-in-law Donna (Charles) Chapel (rural Money Creek, Minnesota), Sandra (Terry) Ask (rural Houston, Minnesota), as well as dozens of extraordinarily wonderful nephews, nieces, great-nieces and great-nephews.


Tom was preceded in death by his parents John Bayer II (1962) and Mabel Bayer (1992), his mother-in-law and father-in-law: Dora (1985) and Mirton (1994) Frauenkron, brother-in-law and sister-in-law Duane (2002) and Lois (2015) Frauenkron and his two grandsons: Avery (2018) and Logan (2021) Chiono.


Tom said, “Above all I tried to be a good teacher and I worked hard for my students; although I did not suffer fools gladly.” A fact to which hundreds of his students, from over a four decade career, could attest, along with the lasting positive impact many, over the years, have told him he had on their lives.


As Tom was an avid reader since early childhood, the family requests any donations in his memory be made to the Friends of the Houston Public Library.


A private family celebration of Tom’s life will be held this summer in the place he felt most blessed to live for almost half a century, Catalpa Coulee.


 


 


 

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April 24, 2023

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March 31, 2023

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Mary Heim

April 24, 2023

Dear Marilyn,
I’m so saddened to read about Dr. Bayer’s death. He was a wonderful teacher and had a profound impact on me and my husband, Mike Heim. You, Mike and I were in the same graduating class of 1974. Mike and I worked as geologists in the oil industry for several years. Sadly, Mike passed away in 2019we had been married for 45 years.
Peace be with you and your family.
Mary Bouthilet Heim

Jason Richter

April 5, 2023

As a graduate of the WSU Geology program in the mid-90’s it was a privilege to have been a student of Dr. Bayer’s. I can hardly remember a class where he wasn’t the first one in the room sitting quietly at the front on his metal stool, expressionless but with perfect posture, robed in his white lab coat and waiting for the second hand of the clock to strike 12 so he could start on time. In my very first class with him (Geo II), he wished a few of us good luck for sitting in the back row which he considered the ‘D’ row- it was a joy proving him wrong (I got an A). Who can forget his paleontology class where he made us hand-draw, in excruciating detail, the litany of invertebrates on those recipe cards?- if you don’t remember the taxonomy and morphological minutiae of receptaculites then you probably didn’t take his class. He made us learn and was tough but fair. If you didn’t think he had an empathetic side then you probably didn’t take his seminar/public speaking class where he would genuinely share about his own fears and aversions to the public which he suffered from in his youth. He was very fond of the department’s alums, spoke often and highly of them, was the keeper of their contact info and was always interested in updates- it’s possible we may have earned his respect and became part of his ‘family’ simply because we survived/graduated. His geophysics class was the most interesting and impactful on me as a professional practitioner. Out of respect, I’ve never been able to call him Tom- he’ll always be Dr. Bayer to me.

Dennis Fox

March 31, 2023

As one of his many students--and one who straddled the line on the amount of foolishness he would suffer, I just want to say that his impact on his students was profound and memorable. I feel fortunate to have crossed paths with him when I did. My first class with him was (Geo 2 AKA Historical Geology) was one of the most enjoyable times of my life--inside or outside of academia, and was largely responsible for my studying geology.

Farewell to Winona State University's answer to Indiana Jones.

Sally Frisby

March 22, 2023

Tom's obituary is a wonderful, thoughtful reflection of his life. It sounds like he continued to be active in his rock/fossil world and enjoyed his love of the water and all it holds. I'm wishing you and your family comfort, Marilyn. I was one of the few female geology majors with you at wsu in the mid 70's. I loved his paleontology and astronomy classes and went on to teach the same for 35 yrs.

Allan Crawford

March 20, 2023

What a great person and teacher!!! Dr Bayer was one of the best profs and mentors I've had. I'm so thankful that I ended up in Winona in the Geology Department that was lead by Dr Bayer. He and the other faculty members got me started on a wonderful career that took me around the world. Thanks!!!!

Blaise Bayer

March 20, 2023

He was an amazing man and will be missed.

Darold Klindworth

March 20, 2023

A full life and touched many!

Marna Houge

March 20, 2023

Marilyn, my thoughts and condolences sent to you at this time. Your husband led a full life and made many memories for so many people.
Marna (a friend of Arlyn’s and Susan)

Patrica Guth

March 19, 2023

Sincere sympathy Marilyn and girls. So very sorry for your loss. Patricia Guth

Shane Woodard

March 19, 2023

Sorry to hear this thoughts and prayers.

Deborah Dewey

March 19, 2023

My sincere condolences, I know what it is like to loose a longtime companion.

Robin Bernacchi

March 19, 2023

My sincere condolences to you and the girls on the passing of Tom. He lived a full and enriched life.

Joan and Wayne Redig/Purtzer

March 19, 2023

Our condolences to Marilyn, Adrienne, April and extended family of Tom. By Tom and Wayne crossing paths while professors at WSU and Tom introducing Wayne to the Frauenkrons, we are grateful to eventually be come neighbors over the hill from Catalpa Coulee. Comparing and sharing techniques of raising kitchen garden produce brings special memories to mind. Tom will be greatly missed.

Mark Baumbach

March 19, 2023

I am lucky enough to have been one of Tom's students at WSU. I have wonderful memories of the western field he led and being pushed to do the best I could. My sympathies to Marilyn and family. RIP Tom

Kirsteen DeVorsey

March 19, 2023

An amazing man.

Beth Ambrosen

March 18, 2023

I have so many happy memories of my time at WSU withDr. Bayer! He caught me right out of high school and (easily) talked me into my geology major that led to so many joys outdoors. The western US states will forever hold my fascination thanks to his western trip!.

March 18, 2023

Thank you for being my brother and all the good times we had together, You lived a good life. Love Scott.
You will be missed.

Bob and Mimi Carlson

March 18, 2023

Sending sympathy to Marilyn and family.

Tammy Boldt

March 18, 2023

Deepest sympathy to Toms family!

Karla Mohtashemi

March 17, 2023

I did not have the pleasure of getting to know Thomas Bayer, however, I have gotten to know Adrienne, his daughter, very well. She is fun, funny, thoughtful and intelligent. I believe our children are a testament to us, and that means that Mr. Bayer must have been a lovely person. My heart goes out to Adrienne and the rest of his family. Rest in Power, sir.

Nancy Denzer

March 17, 2023

Our thoughts are with all of you during this time of sadness. May your memories carry you all and your loved ones.

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