Thomas Charles Bedell obituary, 2002-2020, Ballwin, MO

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Thomas Charles Bedell

2002 - 2020

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Jackie and Mark Trout

January 11, 2021

Dear John, Ann, and Samuel,
Our family is beyond heavy hearted to hear of the loss of your precious Thomas. We have such fond memories of the boys in scouts, especially as our boys shared their name. Thomas was such an incredibly kind and wise young man. Thoughtful, considerate and fun to be with. Always polite with a gentle heart. Our son, Thomas, valued their friendship and is missing him dearly. Ann, I so loved our time together as scout moms and my prayers are with you always. Know that your son made such a great impact on others, as my son will attest. You and John raised an amazing son that will be dearly missed but remembered fondly by all. Praying the presence of our Heavenly Father brings you comfort.
Blessings,
The Trout Family

Charlotte Manly

December 20, 2020

My deepest condolences. My thoughts are with you.

Tod Viso

December 16, 2020

My condolences to you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Michelle Crochet

December 16, 2020

John, I am so sorry for your loss. I wish I had the right words, just know you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Caralyn Harmon

December 13, 2020

I was so sad to hear about Thomas's passing. I traveled with him to Argentina and Chile, and Thomas was such a fun and kind person to travel with. He will not be forgotten. His family and friends are in my thoughts during this difficult time.

Alan Francis

December 10, 2020

Deepest sympathy from our family, to yours, during this difficult time. You will remain in our prayers.

Rosemary Pacific

December 9, 2020

I'm so sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers. HTF

Caitlin Casey

December 9, 2020

Please accept my family's deepest condolences for your loss. I never had the pleasure of meeting your family directly, or Thomas (I'm Will Casey's sister so connected through Marcia), but when I heard the news it was so heartbreaking. Know that even in the midst of COVID, in this seemingly disconnected existence we're living, there is a world of strangers and distant connections who want to extend to you the warmest hug to try to help ease the pain. Thinking of you every day.

David Horan

December 9, 2020

My deepest condolences on the loss of your son. My prayers are with you and your family

Jennifer Brodsky

December 9, 2020

I am so very sorry for your loss. I am so glad that my son Matthew Brodsky and Thomas became friends and they had the time to create memories at RWVM & Lafayette High School, together. Thomas will be missed by all, I am praying for you & your family.

Doug Hueckel

December 9, 2020

My thoughts and prayers are with Thomas and his family at this time. While I did not know Thomas well, I did get to spend two weeks with the young man as apart of the Troop 601 high adventure high in New Mexico in 2017. Thomas was a key contributor to our success that week without complaint, and while our conversations were not always long, they always seemed to finish with a smile. My most vivid memory was the epic hike up Mt. Baldy to the highest elevation on the trip. As we approached the top, and we were all stopping to desperately catch our breath, I look up and there was Thomas, on one final mad dash ascent to the top leaving us in his dust. I will cherish that memory forever.

William Casey

December 9, 2020

Thomas was a such a wonderful person. I'm so very sorry. My thoughts are with the family and friends, in hopes that love and time can heal our communities and families.

Andrea Pezzano

December 9, 2020

There are not so many words to describe this tragedy, an immense hug.

Clark Taylor

December 8, 2020

I knew Thomas from boy scouts. He was always willing to help anyone who needed it, including myself. He was incredibly kind to all of us. I'll never forget my memories of time we spend together. I am incredibly sorry for your loss.

Jackson & Lorena Moeller

December 8, 2020

Our deepest condolences go out to all of Thomas’ family and friends. Our family will always remember Thomas as a warm young Scout, ready to help the new young Troop members as they crossed over from Pack 601 in 2018-19. He was someone the boys looked up to and respected. Our son Andrés was also impressed by Thomas’ musical skills from getting a chance to do a concert when the middle school played at the High School. We pray that you find healing in the great memories you have of him as well.

In this time of grievance we would like to share a quote that crossed our path: “Grief never ends, but it changes. It’s a passage, not a place to stay. Grief is not a sign of weakness, nor lack of faith- it is the price of love.” -Unknown author.

Ted Jarris

December 8, 2020

John and Ann,
I am so terribly sorry for your loss. I know this must be so difficult for you and your family, but I want you to know there are so many of us in the Balchem family who carry so deeply for you that we will be here for you during this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and if there is anything at all we can do to help, no matter how big or small, just let us know. With sincerest condolences, Ted and Tracy Harris

Sam Schnellmann

December 8, 2020

I didn't know Thomas for very long, but when I did he was a friend I could always come back too. He would always try to cheer everyone up and make everyone feel better. I'll never forget the times we had.

Mike & Melissa Paestella

December 8, 2020

Ann and John we are so sorry to learn of your loss and the passing of Thomas. We know that he will live on in each of you and Sam along with those whose lives he touched during his time with us. You will be in our prayers and have been in our thoughts since we learned of Thomas passing. May you find strength in each other and from all of us who support you now and in the future.

Zach Schneider

December 8, 2020

To John, Ann, and Sam,
I've known Thomas ever since he joined Troop 601 in 2014. I loved how quick-witted he was; he could always find a way to make me laugh. And on top of his profound kindness, he always showed a eagerness to learn and serve. Three years later in 2017, the troop sent eight scouts and three adults to the high-adventure camp 'Philmont', in Cimarron, New Mexico. It was a 100 mile endeavor in the middle of summer, and the memories created there were nothing short of treasures. Thomas and I were two of the eleven that went, and it wouldn't be an exaggeration to say that we left Philmont as brothers.

From everyone in my family, we are deeply sorry for your loss and we have you in our thoughts, hearts, and prayers.

Zach Schneider & Family

Stephen Klawiter

December 8, 2020

I taught AP World History to Thomas during his sophomore year. He was a brilliant student, always thoughtful with his words and kind to his classmates. I feel very fortunate to have gotten to know him. I'm so sad for the loss of Thomas and I extend my deepest sympathy to his family and friends.

Bill and Barbara Backus

December 8, 2020

Dear John, Ann and Samuel,

Please accept our sincerest condolences on the loss of Thomas. You will all be in our thoughts and prayers

Lori Zang

December 8, 2020

I am so sorry for your heartache, Bedell Family. Thomas was an incredibly curious and gifted student in my Government class, and I appreciated his sincerity and willingness to help anyone. Thomas will be missed.

Cristina Marasigan

December 8, 2020

When Thomas entered the AP Chemistry classroom this year he happened to be assigned to the same back tables he used to sit during Flex last year. I first met Thomas because of Hunter and Preston. They ate in my classroom during Flex/Lunch noticing me running around trying to keep the room organized and calm while I bounced between all of the students in the room busy doing accomplishing what they needed to. I was adamant about students cleaning their space after lunch and Thomas was the consistent one. He reminded others to push in their chairs and he always wiped and cleaned the tables even when others ran off to get to their next Flex destination before they could clean their own.

Mr. and Mrs. Bedell, thank you for raising such a patient and kind young man. Thomas will always be remembered. My prayers are with you all.

Jack LaMarca

December 8, 2020

So sorry for the loss of Thomas. I can still hear him and Connor cheering at the hockey games. Glad to have so many great memories.

Rosenbaum

December 7, 2020

We are so sorry to hear of Thomas' passing. Sending prayers for strength.

Desiree Caballeros

December 7, 2020

John,
I'm truly sorry to hear about your son Thomas. Please accept my deepest condolences and know that I will keep you and your family in my prayers so that you may find comfort and peace during this very difficult time.

Steve Sobelman / Commissioner Troop 601

December 7, 2020

I want to extend my deepest sympathies to your entire family. Thomas was a valued member of our Scout Troop and he will truly be missed.

Dustie Butteiger

December 7, 2020

I am so sorry to hear of your family's loss. My family sends our condolences to you and your family and hold you all in our hearts during this difficult time.

Maria Harter

December 7, 2020

My deepest condolences on the loss of your son and I pray you find strength during this time of sorrow.

Jeff & Betsy Borchers

December 7, 2020

John and Ann - No amount of words can express the pain that you are going through. We are sending you love and prayers and hope you are able to find strength during this difficult time.

Nicholas Mentone

December 7, 2020

Dear John, Ann, and Samuel,
We are truly sorry for your terrible loss and our hearts ache for you and your family.
Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
With our heartfelt condolences,
Nicholas Mentone & Family

Andrew Higgins

December 7, 2020

Dear John, Ann, and Samuel,

We are so very sorry for your loss and will be praying for comfort for each of you.

Our sincerest condolences,

The Higgins Family

Gary Williams

December 7, 2020

Dear Bedell Family,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of healing.

The Williams Family and the Balchem Family are here to support you all should you need anything we can help with.

May your son rest peacefully.

Sincerest Condolences,
Gary Williams and Family

Daniel Okros

December 7, 2020

Dear , John , Ann and Samuel,

With our deepest sympathy , we are so very sorry for your loss .
May your family find peace and comfort within this difficult time .
Many thoughts and prayers extended .

Warmest Condolences ,

Daniel Okros & Family

Eric Smith

December 6, 2020

Dear John, Ann and Samuel.

Our prayers and thoughts are with you. Although we cant imagine the sadness that you must be feeling now, may the love from friends and colleagues help you through the days ahead.

Warmest Condolences

Eric and Abigail Smith

Randy Viscomi

December 6, 2020

Dear John, Ann and Samuel,

We are so saddened to hear of Thomas’s passing; you are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Deb and I along with your family and friends share in your pain and sorrow. May you find some comfort in knowing so many care for you at this very difficult time.

Randy and Debbie Viscomi

Tracey Leone

December 6, 2020

Dear Ann, John & Samuel
There are no words to express our sorrow for your tremendous loss. Thomas was a beautiful boy, and we have many fond memories of him. He had a tremendous smile that light up the world. Our thoughts are with you. We will always remember your beautiful son and your family. May you all someday find peace in your hearts.
With our deepest sympathy,
Aldo & Tracey Leone

Chris Klosen

December 6, 2020

Dear John and Family,
We are so very sorry for your loss. Please accept our deepest condolences on behalf of the Klosen family. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Job van Gunsteren

December 6, 2020

Dear John, Ann, Samuel,

I am so very sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts in this very difficult time. It seems like only yesterday that I last saw him when you left Italy.

My deepest condolences.

Roxane Depew

December 6, 2020

Dear John & Family

I am so deeply sorry for the loss of Thomas. You and your family have my sincere thoughts and prayers during this extremely difficult time. We are all here for you.

Zerrick Kawasaki

December 6, 2020

I knew Thomas, as he was a dear friend of mine, i remember him talking on about band, saying how much he loved having us around, sadly he has passed, and i can't process how deeply sorry i am for John and Ann, it was like getting hit by a train when i heard he died, a wave of confusion, sadness, and sorrow had struck me like a lightning bolt. Rest in peace Thomas.

December 6, 2020

Dear John and family, I am so sorry to hear about your beloved son Thomas. Prayers. From your cousin Tami

Lorena Comazzi

December 5, 2020

Dear John and Ann,

I am very sorry for your beloved Thomas. My deepest condolences. Lorena

Anne Marie Foreman

December 5, 2020

Dear John and Ann,

I have no words to express the feelings I had when I read your news about Thomas. I have never met your sons, but I know from our few dinners together that you have a close and loving family. I hope all the wonderful memories you have will hold you together through the difficult times ahead. Take care of Samuel, and each other.

My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Anne Marie

Julie Ward

December 4, 2020

John,

May the peace which comes from the memories of love shared, comfort you now and in the days ahead.

My sincerest condolences.

Casey & Danish Yazdani

December 4, 2020

Dear John, Ann, and Samuel,

We are so sorry for the loss of Thomas. We can't pretend to know what you're going through, but you will all be in our thoughts and prayers daily. We'll always be in your corner and you can reach out if there is anything you need.

With sincere condolences,

Maureen Forichon

December 4, 2020

Dear John, Ann and Samuel I know how much you loved Thomas, this must be so hard. You have been in our prayers everyday. We pray you have strenght to get through these hard days. We hope the comfort and support you get through friends and family carry you through your grief. Much love from the Forichon family

Heather Bailey

December 4, 2020

Ann and family,

I am so sorry for your loss. My heart hurts for you. I always felt Thomas had an old soul because he was so easy and enjoyable to talk to. My sincerest condolences.

Gerritjan Van der Ven

December 4, 2020

John, Ann, Samuel my thoughts are with with you. In this difficult time without Thomas. In Balchem Italia we all remember that 6 yr old boy that came with you to Italy.

Erica Carey

December 4, 2020

Dear John & Family,

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family during this difficult time.

Denis Sangulin

December 4, 2020

Dear John and Family,

We are so sorry for your loss. Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

John Deken

December 4, 2020

I was just coming to know Thomas in Economics, partly through his excellent written work but also through his quiet laughter and those bright attentive eyes peeking out over his mask. He never said an unkind word, and impressed me with his quick intelligence and curiosity. I'm so sorry for your loss.

Marti Chronister

December 4, 2020

My heart breaks for you, John. I hope you can find comfort and peace during this difficult time. I'm praying for strength for you and your family. My deepest condolences.

Rossana Peri

December 4, 2020

Dear John and Family,

I'm close to you all in your prayers during this sorrowful time. No words can describe this moment. My most sincere condolences.

Paola Bovio

December 4, 2020

Dear John and Family,
My heart breaks for you. I am so sorry for your loss and I’m praying for your family. Please accept my deepest condolences.
May God bless you all in this time of sorrow...

Tania Cambieri

December 4, 2020

Dear John and Family,
I am terribly sorry for your loss.
My thoughts are with you all.

Brett, Suzi, Maddy & Gary Dean

December 4, 2020

Dear John, Ann and Sammy,

We are so terribly sorry for the loss of Thomas. We have very fond memories of Gary, Connor and Thomas playing while us adults were beer brewing, or playing games. We have also had great scouting adventures together. This is an unimaginable loss and our hearts are breaking for you guys. We love and miss you and are sending that love your way!

Mark Casiano

December 4, 2020

Dear John,

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Words can not express how sorry I am for your loss..

Kevin Land

December 4, 2020

Dear John, Ann, and Samuel, I am so sorry for your loss. While I know that Thomas is now at peace, his sudden departure from this world has left a hole in your hearts, and your overall lives. Try to fill that hole with your fondest memories, joyful occasions, proudest moments and shared experiences with your family. Lean on each other, lean on your friends and family. Express yourselves, express your grief, your fear, your resentment - let it out. We are here to support you through this difficult time and will be here when you become yourselves again. Your memories of Thomas will keep him with your forever and though your sadness will never abate - you will look upon those memories with love and happiness - shedding a tear from the hole that never fills but does heal.

John - I know that all of your colleagues at Balchem - and your extended family at Odyssey are thinking of you and your family and send sincere and fond condolences. Should you need anything during this troubled time, do not hesitate to contact me - or any of us - any time.

Fondly, and with a tear rolling down my cheek, your friend, Kevin

MICHELLE MIRANDA

December 4, 2020

Dear John and Family
When I heard the news, I was overcome with emotion. When a child is lost, a cry of sadness is shared around the world. I am sending my heartfelt condolences and prayers.

Laurie Rhoton

December 4, 2020

Dear Bedell family,

My heart breaks for you hearing this news. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May God hold you close in your time of sorrow.

Donna Shearer

December 4, 2020

Dear Bedell Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. My heart goes out for you during this sorrowful time. If there is anything I can help with, please let me know.

Lisa Bauer

December 4, 2020

Dear John & family - my heart breaks for you all. I did not know Thomas but knowing John and reading some of the posts before me, he was a sweet, smart and loved young man. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Jeff & Tara McCartney

December 4, 2020

John, Ann and Samuel,

Words cannot explain the sorrow, grief and pain you and your family must be feeling at this moment. There is no greater sorrow than that which comes from losing a child. Our hearts are breaking at the loss of your son, Thomas. Please accept our deepest sympathy and condolences. A child is always with us, first in their lifetime, then forever in our memory. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. We’re here if you need us.

Sujo Usic

December 4, 2020

Dear Bedell Family,
My most sincere condolences. I'm extremely sorry for your loss and my thoughts & prayers are with you. If there's anything I can help with please do not hesitate to ask.

Deepest Regards

Jeff & Tara McCartney

December 4, 2020

Words cannot explain the sorrow and pain you and your family must be feeling. There is no greater sorrow than that which comes from losing a child and our hearts are breaking for you, Ann and Samuel. Please accept our deepest condolences. A child is always with us, first in their lifetime, then forever in our memory. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. We’re here if you need us.

Madeline Velez

December 4, 2020

Dear John,

I am so sorry for your loss, I can't even imagine what you are all going through. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Dana Putnam

December 4, 2020

Dear John, Ann and Samuel.

We are so very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with you all.

With much sympathy,

The Putnam Family

December 4, 2020

An angel wrote in the book of life Thomas’ date of birth, then whispered as she closed the book, “too beautiful for life”.

Ann, John & Sam, nothing we can say or do will ever ease your pain. Please know how loved and supported you are during this extremely difficult time.

Much love and many hugs!

Saint Louis Missouri

December 4, 2020

My condolences...
My sympathy....
God Bless......

Chu and Jinah Lee

December 3, 2020

Dear John and Ann,
We are so sorry for your loss. It is hard to imagine what you and your family is going through. Thomas was a wonderful scout, who was a role model as Yohann began his journey. We are only a few steps away if you or Sam needs anything. Sending our love and prayers.

Andrea, Michael & Colin Jersa

December 3, 2020

Dear Bedell Family, Our hearts are broken with the news. Thomas will be dearly missed. We are praying for your family and sending love and hugs to you all.

Peter Kroth

December 3, 2020

You'll never walk alone.

Michelle, Doug, James & Logan Eisenhart

December 3, 2020

Dear Bedell Family,
We are so terribly sorry for your loss and can't even fathom your grief. We will be keeping you and Sam in our hearts and prayers as you navigate this very difficult time. Sending all our love and prayers for support and healing.

Anne and Blake Gilmore

December 3, 2020

Dear Bedell family,
Just wanted to let you all know we are thinking of you and are so sorry for your loss.

Jes Karakashian

December 3, 2020

Bedell family, I'm sending all of my love and light to you as your navigate this unfathomably sorrowful time. Thomas was so bright, so sweet, and so very loved. I am grateful for having those small moments with you all at the Belairs over the years. I will keep Thomas in my heart and am a phone call away if you need to talk. Much love.

Jennifer Ham

December 3, 2020

Thomas was a pleasure to have in class and a delight to teach. He always worked hard, was respectful, and tried his personal best. xoxo

Jody Miller

December 3, 2020

My heart breaks for Thomas' family. I am so sorry to hear about this. I remember Thomas from scouts as always being helpful, responsible and friendly. He will be fondly remembered and greatly missed.

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