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R Menezes (Branca)
May 24, 2025
One day I went there to help Thomas walk and he told me that he really wanted to buy something for Sophie since it was their wedding anniversary. So I offered to go buy some roses since it was raining lightly, but he insisted that he wanted to go out and buy them himself something nice her favourite (pink tulips, Then I texted Sofia and to let her know that we were going for a 25-minute walk even though he said it was only a 12-minute walk. The 12 minutes passed by I asked again, is it close to where we are going? Yes, we arrived in about 5 minutes, nothing. We walked for 38 minutes and 48 seconds I told him that he tricked me.
He also asked me to take a picture for him to send to Sophie showing how handsome he was I confesse I was a bit worried about him since it was raining and he hadn't slept well the night before. He had a nice coincidence when he got to the market!!! Guess who we saw?!! The most unexpected & beautiful encounter, his inspiring Sophie buying tulips too. they got a nice and unexpected date .
LISETTE Beauregard LEWIS
May 23, 2025
Sophie and Vera, We, your Boston family, are sending you both our love,
Cricket and Abigail Beauregard-Lewis
Elena Alexander
May 2, 2025
I knew Tom's work, and we met at a party at the Brooklyn loft of a visual artist, in 1996. Tom, and his wife, Sophie, had kind words to say about a story I'd had in BOMB magazine at the time, and the two of them, and my [late] husband and I stood around talking for a bit, and they were so warm and real. It's always a bonus when you admire someone's work, as I did Tom's, and find the person who made the work is as terrific as the work that's been made. Though the contact had been brief, and long ago, I felt a
genuine sense of sorrow at the news.
Christopher Brown
April 17, 2025
I met Tom many years ago when he was a student at the University of Virginia and I was a visiting professor in the art department in the fall semester of 1980.
I liked and admired Tom a great deal and was delightfully a couple years later when came to California a few years later to visit. Though we lost touch years ago, I always remembered him as a wonderfully alive, interesting and intelligent young poet/artist. But it was only yesterday, when I pulled `Out of the Woods´ from my bookshelf for a re-read and then decided to look him up, that I learned of his death. I am so saddened by this news. We have all lost a singular vivid voice, an inspiration and loving spirit.
My best wishes to his family and the fortunate few whose lives he touched and enriched. He lives on in my heart. Godspeed, Tom.
Christopher Brown
Berkeley, CA
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Levent Bilgin
April 7, 2025
My sincere condolences to Sophie and Vera. I had the privilege to know Tom as a sincere and genuine gentleman. It was always great feeling for working for Tom and Sophie. You will be missed.
David Allen
February 22, 2025
Tom was one of my older sister Jan's friends when I was growing up and he has been an inspiration to me my whole life. His wholehearted pursuit of the creative life, and the life of the mind, undertaken while also being an amazing friend, a wonderful family man, and source of life and energy to everyone around him should be the template that we all try to live by. He was a wonderful creator and artist but his life was his true masterpiece.
Frank van Beurden
February 21, 2025
Sophie and Vera,
Sorry to hear of Tom's passing. Tom was always interesting to talk to and was always interested in other people's experience and life adventures. He was a champion of the English language and the proper use of grammar. We will miss Tom's wit and take on life.
Frank and Cynthia van Beurden
Steven, Karen and Victoria
February 20, 2025
We always looked forward to having Tom´s family over for dinner. He had such an appreciation for good food, and it made every meal feel special. Tom´s knowledge of different cultures and world events always amazed us. We were constantly fascinated by how much he knew and how he could talk about almost anything with such depth and insight.
But it wasn´t just his wisdom that stood out. He was the best storyteller, and I always eagerly anticipated his visits, wondering what captivating tale he would share next. His laughter was infectious, and his smile could light up any room.
Tom was a truly kind soul, and his presence always brought warmth and joy. We will miss him deeply.
Robert Velasco
February 20, 2025
As a copywriter, Tom was a great colleague. He was a wonderful collaborator with smart ideas and a willingness to listen to suggestions. More importantly, Tom was an amazing person. He was incredibly kind and always willing to help where needed. Reading about all his other accomplishments in life makes him even more endearing. He will be missed.
Bob Bolt
February 20, 2025
So sorry to hear about Tom´s passing. His dad and I were 1st cousins and spent time with Tom when we were kids at the lake house in SC. Prayers with family and friends. Bob Bolt
Lorraine & Ramses van Zon
February 15, 2025
Tom was always good for a laugh and he told the best stories. We'll miss him at dinner parties and during holidays. One of our fondest memories of Tom is when we visited him, Sophie, and Vera in Erieau, Ontario. We're not a cottage family, but Tom's sense of youthful adventure made the experience so much fun. One afternoon, we all went to the lake and we'll never forget that Tom looked like he was having way more fun than the kids!
Tom was a wonderful mix of intellect, curiosity, tenderness, humour, generosity, and kindness. We will miss his spirit and the love he showed for his family and friends. Rest in peace, dear friend.
Sandy Macfadyen
February 14, 2025
So many great memories of hanging with Tom in the lower east side of NYC he knew every cool spot & inspired us to get into the specialty bar biz in Toronto in 2007
When Sophie & Tom moved to Toronto we got to hang in backyard in little Italy for what would always be a memorable conversation and he usually brought out some delicious cocktails.
Probably the best dad i´ve ever met.
RIP
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