Thomas Edgar "Tom" Gilfillan

Thomas Edgar "Tom" Gilfillan obituary, Butler, PA

Thomas Edgar "Tom" Gilfillan

Thomas Gilfillan Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 20, 2019.
Thomas Edgar Gilfillan, 65, died Sunday, Nov. 17, 2019, at Butler Memorial Hospital surrounded by his loved ones.
When faced with a fast-moving illness, Tom took comfort in his Christian faith.
Tom was a rock and roller, who loved concerts. He discovered the Beatles at age 15 and never looked back. Two of his favorite artists were the Beatles and Jimi Hendrix.He often said that the Beatles changed his life and Jimi Hendrix radicalized it. When Hendrix died in 1970, Tom declared a day of mourning and took the day off from high school.
Born April 6, 1954, Tom was the first of James and Norma Gilfillan's four children.
Tom was an active and exuberant child, who frequently found himself in sticky situations. He loved to tell the tale of the day he fell on a railroad spike and had to be patched up by the only person his parents could find on an emergency basis - the local veterinarian.
One of the things Tom's loved ones will miss most about him are his stories, which were often interrupted by his own laughter. His creativity was not confined to storytelling, though. Tom was a prolific artist, who loved cartooning, painting and drawing. Many people's Christmas and birthday gifts were accompanied by a card of Tom's own design. His artwork reflected his life; it was bold, colorful and ever evolving.
Though Tom had the heart of a Rolling Stone, he didn't get his first tattoo until 64 years of age. The tattoo, Romans 8:38-39, spoke to his recently strengthened faith in God. It was also a conversation starter, up to his final days in the hospital. It became an unexpected opportunity to witness, which pleased Tom.
Tom regularly attended Community Alliance Church in Butler, where he enjoyed services with his sister, brother-in-law and nephew. Afterward, the group could often be found in the church cafe, chatting over cinnamon rolls and coffee.
In his adult years, Tom became a good friend of Bill W., who introduced him to some of his greatest friends. Tom had credited them with saving his life.
Tom worked for many years as a carpenter and returned to school as an adult to earn his bachelor's degree from Slippery Rock University in 2000.
Tom leaves behind a sister, Nancy (John) Kaltenbaugh of Connoquenessing Township; and two nephews, Tyler (Olivia) Martin-Call of Sandy Lake, and Stephen Call of Butler.
Tom was preceded in death by his parents; his brother, David; and his sister, Diane.
GILFILLAN - Friends of Thomas Edgar Gilfillan, who died Sunday, Nov. 17, 2019, will be received from 6 to 7 p.m. Fridayat Spencer D. Geibel Funeral Home & Cremation Services, 140 New Castle Road, Butler, where a funeral service will follow at 7 p.m.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Grapevine Center, 140 Elm St., Butler.
Please visit www.spencerdgeibel.com.

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Tom Stockard

November 26, 2019

So sorry to hear of Tom's passing.
I will always remember the good times we had in our younger days.
He was an original and will be missed!

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Randy Tracy

November 20, 2019

Tom's passing reminded of another old acquaintance, namely Tommy Mitchell of Butler, who now also rests in the light of Jesus Christ. Gilflipper was known to haunt the Mitchell residence on occasion. Fun and frolic always ensued. God bless ya Tom! You and Tommy can get a game of stickball going!! And Condolences to family and friends. Rest In Peace.

Amy Criswell

November 20, 2019

I can't believe you are gone Tommy I will miss you so much and our talks outside of Terrace every nit at 7 p.m. lol lol REST IN PEACE MY FRIEND,

Maggie May Stewart

November 20, 2019

Funny story about his rock and roll days. I ask him to go to a concert in Pittsburgh. We got to the venue to see what he thought was going to be The Allman Brothers'. He was so upset when we got there and found out that I was taking him to see The Osmond's'.

Maggie Stewart

November 20, 2019

My Maurice!! I'm so happy to hear that he found the love of Jesus and will be welcomed into his kingdom. I have looked forward to getting his coin every year. So sad to hear this news

Tracy Kriess

November 20, 2019

So sorry for your loss...

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