Thomas Heck Obituary
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Mark Hartmann
March 2, 2010
Tom was on my Cross Country team in high school. I was so sad to hear the news.
Bill Conger
December 6, 2009
I met Tom in 7th grade and we where instant friends. I moved away over 20 years ago. We kept in touch sporadically, and visited each other through the years. He was the Best Man at my wedding. One very special thing about Tom is that even though we did not talk on a regular basis I could always get a whacky Halloween message on my answering machine or a call from " Santa" on Christmas day. When ever we talked on the phone I felt as if I was back in 7th grade. Tom just bought out the little kid in me and I always hung up the phone with a smile on my face and full of many great thoughts. I will miss him ! Willie
Kerry Topel
November 27, 2009
Tom has been a good friend for 22 years. Although I moved from Minneapolis many years ago, we've kept in touch and traveled together overseas. He was always a bright light and a kick in the pants! He will leave a hole. My condolences and sympathy to his family and friends. Kerry
Sara Cullen
November 19, 2009
We met Tom when he dated my sister 20 years ago. Although that relationship didn't work out (so young), Tom's relationship with our family never stopped, and in fact grew. He became good friends with my husband and came to visit us in Australia. Where, by the way, he was commissioned to take photos for the local brothel (one of so many TomTom stories). Seeing TomTom was always a highlight of coming home to Mpls and getting emails of his latest adventures, or just thoughts, was always a delight. He was a rare individual and we will miss him greatly.
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November 18, 2009
I loved Toms fresh perspective, and happy spirit.
He had more fun than most.
I will always remember him fondly with that big smile.
Tom will be deeply missed.
Tad
Cally Knowlton
November 14, 2009
My brother and I will miss Tom greatly. We've been neighbors for a couple of years now. I moved out to Minneapolis to branch out and be on my own for the first time. He always made me feel safe here in this new area and was always a joy to see when I was either coming home or going out.
My thoughts are with Tom and his family.
1975 at my bd party. me, R. Null, Tom & John.
Adam Rogers
November 14, 2009
November 14, 2009
Tom was a great neighbor, always a joy to see coming home or leaving for the day. Dana and I will sure miss him as he has been our neighbor and friend for a couple years.
My thoughts are with Tom and his family.
Cally Knowlton
November 14, 2009
Tom was a great neighbor, always a joy to see coming home or leaving for the day. Dana and I will sure miss him as he has been our neighbor and friend for a couple years.
My thoughts are with Tom and his family.
Adam Rogers
November 14, 2009
John,
Your dad, your mom, now your brother. I feel for you. I enjoyed visiting your family's farm & playing tetherball. I didn't enjoy it when you & Tom knocked the wind out of me rough-housing in the early seventies. I've thought of your family often as the years have gone by, and wish I could have known you two as we grew older. Now I'll never be able to knock the wind out of Tom.(or was it you, John?)
Mary Mikkelson Curoe
November 13, 2009
Tom and I were friends in high school. I remember Tom as being one of the kindest and nicest people I ever met. I thought of him often after high school and always hoped that he was happy and doing well. I'm so sad he is gone and that I never was able to see him again. Goodbye Tom. I miss you and will always remember you fondly. Mary Mikkelson Curoe (Eden Prairie,MN)
Rachel Novalany
November 13, 2009
John, Colleen and Boys,
I just heard of Tom's death today. Sorry we missed his funeral, but we want you to know our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Please call when you get a chance.
Rachel Novalany
Julie Lyrek Cline
November 12, 2009
Having had very similar upbringing, Tom will always hold a special place in my heart. I was truly amazed by his creativity and envious of hid free spirit. Tom was so generous. He would collect dozens of Happy Meal toys and give them to the kids in Thialand. Some of them have never had even seen a toy. He will be sadly missed by those who had the great opportunity to know him.
Jason Lund
November 12, 2009
Tom,since I moved to Brainerd 5 years ago we have talked too infrequently. Your death has come as a very sad shock and I will miss your friendship and free
spirit, always.
Steve Schenten
November 11, 2009
The only guy I knew deserving enough to dance in golden shoes. Tom, you will be missed!
Dia Heck-Copeland
November 11, 2009
My youngest Cousin, I will miss you terribly. I raced home for your entertaining emails from Thailand and your beautiful photos. We, Hecks, are the most intelligent and unique of the species but our lives are far too short. Our look alike fathers gave us many gifts and thankfully, each other. I was always jealous of your talents, travels and the free life you led. I shall miss loving you.
November 11, 2009
Yo, Tom,
I knew you not that well
But with certain warmth.
On the gig -
I nod,
You smile,
I wink.
Tales, we know,
Are sure to come forth.
Tip me hat
With the tear
To Youse.
Love,
- CD
John Henderson
November 11, 2009
Tom was a hoot. I used to just run into him randomly, I never knew when I'd see him, but after those run-ins I would always leave with a smile. We had some wild times together back in the day. I'll always remember the sly grin and the flash of those happy gears turning in his head. You could see it in his eyes.
Tom Schouweiler
November 11, 2009
I am so sorry to hear about Tom's death. I will always remember him with a smile.
Jan Sowieja
November 10, 2009
I was in awe of Tom.He would share his photos and stories of his travels in far away places.I found him to be very brave.He worked hard in the studio and was always so kind.Years ago, when I first started working with Tom, he wore sprayed gold shoes....those gold shoes will be hard to fill.
Gary Nash
November 10, 2009
I'm so very sorry to hear of your loss. I had the pleasure of working with Tom in the recent past year. He was a pleasant personality who brought insightful thoughtfulness to any project. He will be sadly missed by all of us.
Mark Macemon
November 10, 2009
It is always so sad when a free spirit like Tom's goes silent. He made so many people laugh and had such an interesting way of looking at the world that kept me thinking long after I talked with him. My world will have a hole in it, I will miss him very much.
Todd Gabrielson
November 10, 2009
Dear JOhn and Colleen,
We were deeply saddened to learn of Tom's recent passing so soon after the passing of your dear mom, Marian Heck. As a family who has experienced a sudden loss of our daughter just 2 years ago we know the pain you are going through. I encourage you to hold on to the wonderful memories you had with your brother. Although he won't be around to continue the annual hunting trips to Northwestern Minnesota there will be new opportunities to start new traditions with your son's. The bible describes a cloud of wittnesses cheering us on. I believe that this cloud of wittnesses are your mom and dad and your brother Tom cheering you and your family on as you race to the finish line of life. The Gabrielson family will be there with you as your family walks this journey of grief.
sincerely,
Todd Gabrielson
Susan Jorgensen
November 10, 2009
I am so sorry and sad to hear about Tom's death. He was always a bright spot in any photo studio he was working in, he knew how to have a good time and could bring that fun attitude into work!
Lance Vicknair
November 10, 2009
Tom was a great person and a wonderful addition to the twin cities photography community, we will miss him terribly.
Our thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Ruth and Sean Sullivan
November 10, 2009
John, Colleen and family,
We are so surprised to learn of your brother's death. He was so great with your boys. Please know we are thinking of you. Peace to you. Your neighbors,
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