Thomas R. Ilderton

You are not forgotten, friend.

You are missed friend...

I just learned of Tom's passing. He & I were at the Univ. of Tampa together & dated briefly in our freshman year. He was a great guy, lots of fun and just a wonderful person in general. He's going to be missed by many.

Dear Tonya and Tommy Jr., Matthew, and Nicholas: My heart goes out to all of you. Tom's friendship to me and many others from our beloved UT (University of Tampa) was wholesome, deep, and full of love, adventure, and lots of laughs. My wish for you boys is that you always can find your own world of love from family, a special loved one, adventures/travels with friends, and that you will have lots of laughter. Laughter at yourself, laughter at the ridiculousness of the world, and laughter with your loved ones as your father would. The friends we had in common from school know Tom as someone who cared about those around him, worked hard, was independent, and committed to making the world a better place. He could be a critic and he could be a sage and he could be a curmudgeon, sometimes all in the same paragraph. I will always love Tom for his talents, his character, and for always being himself. I love him for accepting me as I am which means a lot. Tom is a man who was a gem and I will miss him. I keep you - Tonya and the boys - in my heart, my thoughts, and my prayers. May Tom rest in peace. ** Perry

I recall many great memories with Tom back at the University of Tampa. He had infectious laugh, and a smile that lit up the room. Even his bad jokes were funny. Tom was a kind and caring person. So sorry to hear of his passing. Deepest sympathies to family and friends.

My deepest condolences to the Ilderton family and friends. Tommy was one of the best. We've lost another one of the best men I've known in my life far to soon. From his sense of humor, to his loyalty, to his willingness to help anyone he ever came in contact with. I will truly miss my dear friend. My God Bless you Tommy and welcome you home. Until we meet again, rest peacefully . Your friend, Charlie.

My deepest sympathies to the Ilderton family. Tom was a wonderful coworker and devoted father. He will be missed by all those fortunate to know him.

My deepest condolences on the loss of Tom. He was a co-worker and I always enjoyed hearing about his sons, who he clearly loved beyond measure.

Tom's love of his three sons and the Scouts was always evident in conversations. My sympathies for your loss

My deepest sympathy for your loss. Tom was a previous coworker & a friend. His sense of humor & creative thinking were a real blessing. He was a kind and caring person and will be greatly missed.

I’m so sorry to hear of Tom’s passing. You are in my thoughts.

Dear Ilderton family, we are so sorry to hear of your dads passing. He was a kind and generous man. We have many great memories of family ski trips with all of you. He was always so proud of you boys. May your memories of him keep him close to your heart. Prayers and comfort to all of you.
The Rogula Family

Dear Tonya and the boys, Please know that along with me, the Shamrock family holds all of you in prayerful support. Tom was a beautiful, free-spirited man who gave life to everyone he encountered. My his spirit live on in all of us who knew him.

Ilderton family, we are so saddened to hear that Tom has passed away. He sat with us in church & visited us. Through conversation it was evident that his love of God and family/ friends was near and dear to his heart. May God bless him and hold in arms eternally. Hugs, love and prayers,. Marianne, Denis & Olivia Jankowski

My deepest condolences to the
family.

Tom Is a dear friend and former colleague at work.

Please keep me abreast of these developments.

Thank you
Marc C.