Thomas Moore Obituary
Tom was born on March 2, 1984 in Chicago, IL where he lived most of his life rooting passionately for the Bears as a season ticket holder, and as a diehard White Sox fan.
He graduated with a Bachelors and Masters degree in accounting from Northern Illinois University in 2006 and followed in his father's footsteps receiving his Juris Doctorate from the University of Notre Dame in 2013. He started his career as a CPA, focused in tax and mergers and acquisitions, and practiced law at Winston Strawn and Sidley Austin in Chicago.
Tom loved the outdoors and had a strong sense of adventure. In 2023, he moved to Salt Lake City, Utah to be closer to the mountains. His best days on the mountain included shredding fresh powder or long hikes with his beloved dog, Scottie. Tom was no stranger to endurance, having run the Chicago Marathon twice and completing the IRONMAN in Coeur d'Alene, Idaho in 2016.
Tom had a unique gift for teaching, serving as an Adjunct Instructor at both NIU and Notre Dame. He shared his love for skiing by teaching young beginners how to ski with patience, enthusiasm, and a smile on his face.
Tom had a big heart. Despite his darkest moments, his humor never wavered - he was the life of the party, the smartest guy in most rooms, and he had a heart of gold. May he rest peacefully knowing how much he was loved and how much light he brought to others.
All are welcome to attend a memorial mass in Tom's honor at 10:00am CST on July 26, 2024 at his beloved Gramma's church: Our Lady of Perpetual Help, 1775 Grove St, Glenview, IL. A short visitation will precede mass at 9:15am.
In lieu of flowers, we kindly ask that you donate to one of the following charities in Tom's name:
- Donate to Depression and Bipolar Support Alliance (DBSA) which provides hope, help, support, and education to improve the lives of people who have mood disorders, like Tommy did: https://www.dbsalliance.org/stories/tommy-moore/
- Donate to increase youth access to winter sports and share in Tom's love of skiing: https://sharewinterfoundation.org/get-involved/
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CATHERINE MOORE (MOM)
February 24, 2025
Lis and Bob and I have been overwelmed by the kind and thoughtful messages left on Legacy. We will gather together next week and hold each other tight. THANK YOU ALL FROM THE BOTTOM OF OUR BROKEN HEARTS!! XXOO
Daniel Fochs
October 10, 2024
I met Tom in a kickball league here in SLC. He was always hustling and playing hard. Always a good guy when you chatted with him. I´m saddened to hear of his passing. My condolences
Nick Gochis
September 12, 2024
Nick Gochis
September 12, 2024
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Dani Fogg
August 17, 2024
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August 17, 2024
I was lucky enough to meet Tom right when he moved to SLC. We had so much fun playing outside. I hope he is skiing in heaven.
Kurt Wakefield
July 29, 2024
Tommy was always an absolute joy to be around. Smart, passionate, and bursting with life. He will never, ever be forgotten.
Christina Dykun & Family
July 28, 2024
Tommy brought so much joy to our lives and will be greatly missed by our entire family. For over two decades, he was a wonderful best friend to my brother Stephen, and we all considered him a member of our Dykun clan. As "Steve-O's" younger sister, I tagged-along to NIU events, outings and Christmas parties, where Tommy made sure I felt included, staying by my side to keep me laughing and thoroughly entertained.
Tommy was always the first to crack a joke - and the "life of the party" would be an understatement. There is no one other than Tommy that could wear a pajama onesie with the same conviction, nor get the room to erupt with such laughter.
Tommy had a brilliant mind, effervescent personality, and a special way of connecting with everyone - young or old. We feel lucky that my parents, Stephen, Kelly and the girls shared in celebrating his 40th birthday out west. Tommy was so proud of his new house and proclaimed how much he loved his life in the mountains, welcoming us all back next year.
Even my littlest nieces adored him. Kenzie had her first ski lessons cruising along with Tommy, who shared his passion for skiing, brimming with positivity and encouragement, giving her mid-slope hugs and high fives. Tommy had such joy for adventure and we know he has already found the best powdered slopes up above.
Tommy, your eternal memory will continue to shine bright through all the lives you have touched. May you rest in peace.
Love Always,
The Dykun Family
Lauren Elizabeth Connelly (Flores)
July 27, 2024
www.outdooralliance.org
Placed a donation in your honor today , with this organization as a celebratory remembrance of a life well lived.
You will be missed
Hope your heaven is as good as your best days exploring adventures in the great outdoors.
Much love
Sincerely ,
Laurebeth
your cousin (2nd-but wtvs)
Lisa Fulkerson
July 26, 2024
Tommy and I taught "street law" a high school social studies program in a south bend high school together. They didn´t know what they signed up for pairing us as teaching partners! It´ll never fail to make me smile and laugh to remember Tommy coming over my house to plan when we had free reign to teach these teenagers whatever we saw fit, Tommy trying over and over to instruct me in parallel parking my red mustang in the curved driveway of the school until he finally had to get out and help from the sidewalk and then save the day taking over the wheel, and especially the surprise and undivided attention from those students (and their regular teacher! who loved us) when Tommy and I took creative liberties speaking bluntly and like we were among adult friends in that classroom. Definitely the most fun I had in any law school assignment. Thanks for the good times, friend.
Matt Anderson
July 26, 2024
Matt Anderson
July 26, 2024
Matt Anderson
July 26, 2024
Christina Dykun & Family
July 25, 2024
Chelsea Curry
July 20, 2024
Bob, Cathy, and Lis-
I´m so sad and so sorry to hear of Tommy´s passing. I don´t understand it, because to me, no one was more resilient or worked harder to better themselves and be a good man than he did. I am so grateful for the time I was able to spend with Tommy, and I will always feel so honored he allowed me to share a life with him for the time that we did.
Thinking of you all and sending my prayers,
Chelsea
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Tommy,
I will always think of you when people talk about college football, Mario kart, and (honestly) hiking - I had a great time on our hikes, but let´s just say I haven´t been hiking since Jackson :)
I am so sorry that things turned out this way. I want you to know that you were and will always be such a special and happy part of my life. We were growing up together (okay, you were way ahead of me) and figuring things out, and the magical part of it was that all we were doing was choosing to love each other in real time, with all of our faults and shortcomings. My heart is forever changed after the love you gave to me, and for that and many other things, I will always cherish my memories of us.
Though we haven´t spoken in quite some time and had already "said our goodbyes," I´m having a really hard time saying it this time around. We were living separate lives, but this doesn´t feel right without you on the same earth as me. I don´t want to say goodbye, so I´m not going to. I hope so much for you that now you´re doing whatever the hell you want and are happy doing it. I hope you feel loved without question and wholly at peace. I will miss you, but I will think of you often and fondly, and I will do my best to honor your memory.
Love,
CC
PS- I finally found (a picture of) the tank top! :)
Courtney
July 12, 2024
Courtney
July 12, 2024
Courtney
July 12, 2024
A couple photos from Bariloche, Argentina in January
Kendall Shadley
July 11, 2024
Kendall Shadley
July 11, 2024
Kendall Shadley
July 11, 2024
Tommy and I began our friendship in 2011, when he lived with my husband at ND Law School. Our friendship continued through our time living in Chicago and beyond. He was "Tman" to us, and "Uncle Tman" to our children, who he´d wrap in the warmest hugs and repeatedly let lock him out of his Apple Watch.
Tman could be the life of the party or a quiet, thoughtful and inquisitive friend. Memories of him bouncing off the walls in a cut off tank top and singing to Taylor Swift are just as emblazoned in my mind as our many heart to hearts about navigating life, love, work, and finding happiness. He had the most generous and kind heart, willing to do anything for his friends. I pray he knows now the depth of affection his friends had for him in return.
We miss you. Watch over us. Until we meet again. Rest.
Chad Fisher
July 11, 2024
Cathy, we are so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our thoughts. Chad and Shara Fisher (Ward Svcs)
Ms. Lauren Elizabeth Connelly (Hough side)
July 10, 2024
A cousin and a friend , you will forever be in my heart of hearts. Devastatingly sad news.
You were so loved. Wishing you just as much love in your next life or eternal existence.
Sending hugs, and although we had not seen each other in a while your memory is everlasting as my like minded family and friend. I will miss cutting up with you.
Vickie Poppe
July 9, 2024
Your loss saddens our hearts, may your memories give you peace and comfort.
Mollie K Heron
July 9, 2024
My heart goes out to you as you navigate life without your son. With much love and sympathy, Mollie Heron, SCRA
Todd Gilbert
July 8, 2024
Missing my buddy today.
Todd Gilbert
July 7, 2024
I just found out about this really big loss and I´m devastated! I met Tom through my fiance and we immediately hit it off. He quickly became a good backpacking friend of mine and we had epic plans in the Uinta mountains. He was always fun to be around and a really great guy. Tom had a huge heart. I will miss him greatly. I´ll never forget our first trip together backpacking to Red Castle Lake. In classic Tom form when we met up to hit the road he informed me that he forgot to pack water for the trip so we hit up a Walmart on our way out of town so he could buy a water bladder, which he later burned a hole in leaving it unable to hold water. Haha. He never ceased to make a memorable impression out of an ordinary event. I wish I had more time with him and I loved him. He was an amazing person. I´ll miss my friend.
cathy moore
July 4, 2024
cathy moore
July 4, 2024
catherine
July 4, 2024
catherine
July 4, 2024
catherine
July 4, 2024
Someone sent a lovely memorial for Tom. Someone knows I love a wind chime!
Bernie and Jim Stewart
July 3, 2024
Our sincere condolences to Cathy, Bob, Liz and everyone who loved Tom. We are so very sorry for your loss. RIP Tom.
Carla Hinton
July 3, 2024
I don't know Thomas, but I work with his Mom {Cathy}, who's a beautiful person. My family & I send our deepest condolences to the family! Take one day at a time for your healing. Love you all, Carla Hinton & family
Suzanne Beck
July 1, 2024
My deepest sympathies and condolences, Bob and Cathy. My heart is absolutely broken for you and I sit with you in grief. Love you both.
Steven Lebbing
June 30, 2024
Hi I´m Steven I´m one of his parents neighbors. I met Tom in September of 2022. When he and his dog Scottie were visiting. I would also dog sit Scottie when she would stay here for the summer. Even I only would see him a few times. He was a nice guy to hang out and talk to. And we were friends on Facebook. So we were not super close friends but he was still like a friend to me.
Monica Riley
June 29, 2024
Monica Riley
June 29, 2024
Monica Riley
June 29, 2024
Monica Riley
June 29, 2024
Monica Riley
June 29, 2024
Monica Riley
June 29, 2024
Happy family memories with Tom with love from Auntie Monica, Uncle John and cousin Kevin
Sydnee Hilton
June 28, 2024
We live just across the street from Tom. I did not know him well, but he was always in a cheerful and friendly mood when ran into him out in his yard... Usually doing yard-work or tending to his plants. We were walking our dogs one evening when I noticed him outside of his home. We walked over and he was extremely friendly and happy to meet us. He was vibing to the music in his headphones and looked up to greet us with a big smile. We exchanged numbers iso we could hangout in the future. We also were able to finally meet his beautiful puppy. She is such a sweet girl and I just hope she is doing okay. She got along with my dogs really well. My condolences to the family. Though I did not know Tom well, he did have a positive influence on us and heart-fully welcomed us to the neighborhood. If the family needs anything, anything at all, or if the pup needs a place to stay, we are just across the street and are more than willing to help out in any way possible.
Thank you for your kind and welcoming spirit, Tom.
Estela Harkins
June 28, 2024
Estela Harkins
June 28, 2024
Estela Harkins
June 28, 2024
Estela Harkins
June 28, 2024
Cathy Moore
June 28, 2024
Thoughtful Tom!!
Auntie Sylvia, Uncle Bill, Rob, Mimy and Lillian
June 27, 2024
Auntie Sylvia, Uncle Bill, Rob, Mimy and Lillian
June 27, 2024
Auntie Sylvia, Uncle Bill, Rob, Mimy and Lillian
June 27, 2024
Auntie Sylvia, Uncle Bill, Rob, Mimy and Lillian
June 27, 2024
Lauren Mraz
June 27, 2024
Lauren Mraz
June 27, 2024
Lauren Mraz
June 27, 2024
I only met Tom about 6 months ago but he made such a positive impact on my life. Being very new to the area and not knowing many people, he took it upon himself to show me all the cool things Utah has to offer, referring to himself as my `Salt Lake City Shaman´. And he really was! We skied and golfed, and walked our dogs, we went to yoga and tried out new restaurants. He was an amazing skier and an even better coach. Tom was a great listener and genuinely cared about the people that surrounded him. He always remembered the little things going on in my life and sent random words of encouragement. He was a true friend and managed to make a new city feel a little less daunting because I knew I had someone in my corner. Our friendship was too short but I will always be grateful we crossed paths. Salt Lake City just doesn´t feel the same and I will miss him.
Auntie Sylvia, Uncle Bill, Rob, Mimy and Lillian
June 27, 2024
Auntie Sylvia, Uncle Bill, Rob, Mimy and Lillian
June 27, 2024
Auntie Sylvia, Uncle Bill, Rob, Mimy and Lillian
June 27, 2024
Auntie Sylvia, Uncle Bill, Rob, Mimy and Lillian
June 27, 2024
Auntie Sylvia, Uncle Bill, Rob, Mimy and Lillian
June 27, 2024
Auntie Sylvia, Uncle Bill, Rob, Mimy and Lillian
June 27, 2024
Sharing some loving memories of a sweet boy.
Estela
June 26, 2024
Estela
June 26, 2024
Estela
June 26, 2024
Estela
June 26, 2024
You were the most wonderful boyfriend I could have had. My first true love. It was incredible to wait years and then learn true love with you, so tender and warm with me.
You captured my soul and let me show you life through my eyes. I'm so glad you felt loved like never before with me. We lived magical moments, full of adventures and lots of laughter, from river walks in Chicago and skiing in the mountains in Tahoe, to skydiving, sailing in the ocean in Miami, visiting the jungle in small canoes in Peru, and exploring the desert in Peru. I also loved how childish we were together, doing things like two little kids exploring as much as we could together. Our souls were so adventurous, and we really enjoyed our time exploring together. Our love was very genuine; you definitely complemented my heart. You showed a lot of dedication and discipline when we were together. I miss our workouts together and then jumping in the pool. Our dinning experience was awesome!!! You were so caring with me, every time when I was stressed you dance to make me laugh...I will always keep that awesome time together in my heart .
Stephen Dykun
June 26, 2024
Stephen Dykun
June 26, 2024
Stephen Dykun
June 26, 2024
Stephen Dykun
June 26, 2024
Stephen Dykun
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Dallas Frey
June 26, 2024
Dallas Frey
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Dallas Frey
June 26, 2024
I met Tommy on a Notre Dame football weekend in 2011. We quickly bonded over our shared love of the Fighting Irish. Within a couple years, T-Man started an email distribution list for a handful of us Irish football fanatics. Year-round for a decade, few days went by without us discussing the latest news of the team. We attended many Notre Dame games together, including traveling to road games at the University of Texas and Florida State University.
I have fun memories of Tommy generously buying a round of drinks at the Irish Oak in Wrigleyville to celebrate Notre Dame´s playoff-clinching victory over USC in 2018. My fondest memories, though, involve T-Man´s uncommon loyalty and unwavering friendship. Tommy thoughtfully planned and perfectly executed a surprise party for my graduation from business school. I was beyond tickled. He also helped me move furniture multiple times and was always eager to help. T-Man was an incredible friend.
I miss you, T-Man. The upcoming season won´t be the same without you. I´ll be thinking of you every game. Love you, buddy.
Jordan Spector
June 26, 2024
Jordan Spector
June 26, 2024
Elizabeth Clarke
June 26, 2024
Tommy was the guy to go to. He was funny, smart, kind and an absolute joy to be around, he made everything better. Recently, Tommy has been encouraging my family to move out west to enjoy the mountains/skiing the way he has. He had a way of making everything seem awesome. Tommy, I´ll miss you like crazy. You were one heck of a great friend.
Kristin Kranich
June 26, 2024
Tom and I worked together for a few years right after college at Crowe. Our cubicles were right next to each other and when I wasn´t dodging paper clips, binder clips and even staplers that were being thrown over the cubicle wall at me, we were finding ways to laugh and have fun while working the long grueling hours of public accounting. Tom had a big heart and was a good friend. Even after he moved on to law school and later to other jobs we kept in touch over the years and he would still make me laugh as we would reminisce about our early working days. I´m so sad to hear of his passing but grateful that I got the chance to be his friend!
Jordan
June 26, 2024
Jordan
June 26, 2024
Jordan
June 26, 2024
I met Tom at NIU when he was pledging DX. He was always up for anything and loved the next adventure. Tom, you were always the best guy in the house to prank, and you always were the best guy to return a prank. You did it all with a smile. I´m sad that the last memory I have with you was at my wedding, had I know that would be the last time we would ever hang out, I would have shut it down to chat a little longer with ya. I was looking forward to tailgating and trash talking at the NIU /Notre Dame game with you. Whatever comes next for you, I hope you are at peace brother. You will be missed.
ITB
SUZANNE MOORE
June 26, 2024
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Ben Pultorak
June 26, 2024
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June 26, 2024
Ben Pultorak (Kelso)
June 26, 2024
Ben Pultorak (Kelso)
June 26, 2024
Ben Pultorak (Kelso)
June 26, 2024
Ben Pultorak (Kelso)
June 26, 2024
Ben Pultorak (Kelso)
June 26, 2024
I first met Tommy as a Junior at NIU. We bonded over growing up in the western suburbs and became friends. Greek life at NIU kept us in the same social circles. We shared an apartment while working together at the Barn. Tommy was a prankster and loved to laugh. I can't even count the number of times he crafted elaborate ruses at my expense while living in that apartment. Whenever someone was having a bad day, he would be the one who could get them to smile. He had a big heart and was one of the brightest people I have ever met. Will miss you Tommy - Kelso
SUZANNE MOORE
June 26, 2024
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