Thomas O’Donnell

Thomas and I met at a Tall Club party, February 14, 1988. We always spoke on that day to celebrate our deep friendship. When I didn't get responses from my card, text,email I searched the internet and found this page. The world has lost a generous and lovely person. XOX

I am so glad that Thomas and I got to reconnect after more than 30 years. He was a great big brother in every way

UPS store here, was always the nicest and most genuine person when he came in and we loved to see him! Will never be forgotten

I was so sorry to hear of Thomas´s passing; I knew him as a friend of a friend, to whom he meant a great deal. Prayers of comfort to those who knew and loved him; may he fly high and journey proud.

Beautiful tribute - hoping memories of Thomas will bring comfort to his friends and family

I met Thomas at aTall Club gathering in August of 1997 and visited him on the set of Titanic in Mexico shortly after. He was my greatest cheerleader and supporter. We've loved and respected each other for almost 30 years. I'm so thankful I got to visit with him twice in the past couple of months. I miss him terribly. I can't imagine never hearing him teasing me again.

Tom & I were 2 of 9 grandsons that were part of the Spader family in Mamaroneck, NY. Tom was 4 yrs older than me but we all played together as kids growing up until Tom went to England with his mom. Tom´s interest in cars wore off on me. He was always sending me cars for sale that he would find on the internet. One them I purchased from him a few years back; 1984 Buick Riviera Convertible. But the one car that tied us together was "The Jeep"! Tom´s mother, Louise, purchased a 1943 WW II Ford Jeep in the early 1960´s while living in London. Tom drove it around London for several years. When Louise returned to the US in the late 60´s, she had the Jeep shipped to NYC where she picked it up & drove it to Mamaroneck. In `67, I purchased it for $1 ( no typo)! I drove it for 9-10 years & then it went back to Tom when he first lived in Tucson. The Jeep would find its way to Seattle & then to CA. In `05, it would come back to me & I did much restoration to it. It now resides in Maine with my niece & her family. I still get to drive it when I visit. I often think of Tom when I drive it. Like Tom, it will always have a special place in my heart. Rest in peace, Tom.

My heart is broken to read of Tom´s passing. We were part of a small group of 5 or 6, finding each other when we all moved to Tucson in the early 70´s. We were young and had many adventures. Eventually we all dispersed, but Tom and I never lost contact. I found myself back East to my hometown of Saratoga Springs, NY, while Tom eventually made his way back to Tucson. He visited me in Saratoga and I visited him in Tucson. I was so lucky to have Tom as a friend and I don´t know what life will be like without him in it. Safe journey my friend.

Thanks so much to Julie for remembering Tom's valiant efforts at Ground Zero after the 911 attack. He came to NYC that December to run lighting equipment and spell local responders during the holidays in their 24/7 efforts to search for the remains of the victims. This is but one example of the kindness and caring that typified Tom's life.
In the midst of our grief and chaos in the days after we learned of his unexpected passing, we neglected to add his 911 service to this obit. Thanks again Julie and Philip. It has been a profound loss to all of his friends and family.

I'm sorry but I cant seem to edit my previous post. Whatever, we've never been too politically correct lol. Phil and I will always remember our 15 years working in the movie industry with you. Thru Showbiz, Titanic, and a thousand others, especially your hard work and sacrifice at Ground Zero after 9/11. We will miss your laughter and fabulous way at finding the funny and absurd in this World. We will cherish our friendship forever, and are so sorry we didn't get out there to see you again. xoxoxo Jules

On the bloody morning after.........One Tin Soldier rides away....

Our 30 + year friendship will last as long as my memories do. I will miss you dearly every single day. We had so much fun working in Van Nuys, in the movie industry. You will always be my hero for being in the Billy Jack movie. Our hearts are heavy, but take comfort that you are out of pain and we will see you again one day. Love you my dear dear friend, Jules and Poppy