Thomas Joseph O'Neil

Thomas Joseph O'Neil

Thomas O'Neil Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Nov. 10 to Nov. 11, 2007.
Thomas J. O'Neil, M.D. 1925 - 2007 AGAWAM - Thomas Joseph O'Neil, M.D., 82, passed away Thursday November 8, 2007, at Baystate Medical Center. Born September 24, 1925, in Winsted, Conn, he was a graduate of the University of Connecticut, and served his country in the Army Air Corps. He received his M.D. from New York Medical College, and spent his early years of practice in Redding, Conn. He became an emergency room physician with the former Wesson Emergency Associates at Wesson Memorial Hospital in Springfield. He later served as the Director of Employee Health Services at MassMutual in Springfield until his retirement. He fully enjoyed his work as a physician, and touched many lives along his journey. Tom was predeceased by his brother William O'Neil in 2001. He is survived by his wife, Joan (Lapato) O'Neil; his sister Mary Jane Keiller and her husband Thomas of Medina, Ohio; his brother Robert O'Neil and his wife Sara of Prospect, Ky; his brothers-and sisters-in-law Robert and Patricia Lapato of Bluffton, S.C., and John and Diana Lapato of North Grafton; his eight children; James O'Neil of Bronx, NY; Anne Look and her husband Daniel of Marietta, Ga; Mark O'Neil of Brookline; Terri Berthier and her husband Robert of Newtown, Conn; Margaret Ruddy and her husband Joseph of Tequesta, Fla; Carol Sirota and her husband Michael of Newcastle, Wash; Christopher O'Neil of New York; and Jeanne O'Neil and her fiance Donald Thompson of Agawam. He also leaves 11 grandchildren; one great-grandson, and many nieces and nephews. The funeral wil be held Tuesday morning at 10 at Sacred Heart Church, 1065 Springfield St., Feeding Hills, arranged by Curran Jones Funeral Home. There will be no calling hours. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to St. Anthony School, 55 Oak St., Winsted, Conn 06098.

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November 14, 2007

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November 14, 2007

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November 12, 2007

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Tad Moran

November 14, 2007

Joan, I was so sorry to hear about Tom's passing. I had heard from Mary how supportive you have been in the past few years and I'm sure that Tom appreciated all you have done for him. Take comfort in knowing that your friends have you in their thoughts. It seems that we contact each other in difficult times so let's not let that happen in the future.

Mary Maclean

November 14, 2007

Joannie
I just heard about Tom. I will remember him as a fine man, a good host and fun to be with. You have had a difficult time this past year. Remember old friends are always there when needed. Mary

Carol Tourangeau

November 12, 2007

Joan,

My heart goes out to you as you go through the death of another loved one. I have had many good times with you and Tom. Please know that I am here and will continue to be there for you in the coming months and years. You are a great friend.

Carol Tourangeau

Elizabeth Cullen

November 12, 2007

Joan -- I'm so sorry about Tom. Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. We're all here for you and love you very much.

Jo Ashline

November 12, 2007

Joan,
No expression of sympathy can even begin to help you at this time. But, please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and I am here if you need a friend.

Bette Conlon

November 11, 2007

Joannie,
You know you are in our thoughts and prayers. You now have two special angels in heaven watching over you. Your many friends at LIMRA will be there for you and help you through these difficult days ahead.
With sincere sympathy and love,

marty vetal

November 11, 2007

Tom will be missed by many , I worked with Tom at Wesson ER for many years and remained friends for many more years. he was always there when needed and always there for a party, so many of our old friends have passed on this year. I hope they are all together somewhere,, Evelyn Ross, Bobbie Fountaine, Dr. Orlanda Gomez. My thoughts and prayers are with you and all the family ... Marty Vetal

Eleanor & Gene Scalise

November 11, 2007

So sorry to learn of Tom's passing. Our hearts go out to Joan for all that she has gone through this year.
A longtime friend and classmate from Gilbert School and Winsted ....
Tom will be sorely missed.

Bill & Faith Maura

November 10, 2007

Tom will be missed. He was everything a doctor and a friend should be. The few times I met him, left a lasting impression on me. Our thoughts and prayers will always be with you.

Michael and Stacy Moran

November 10, 2007

We are so sorry for your loss. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you.

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