Thomas Dennis Ruane, Sr. obituary, Naples, FL

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Sharon Gutschick

October 6, 2025

Tim and I are deeply saddened about Tom's passing. He was genuine, honest, kind and just an all-around great person. We had the utmost respect for him and loved the time we got to spend with him, always enjoying the conversation and learning something new every time. He will be greatly missed by everyone at the Vineyards.

Respectfully,
Tim and Sharon

Patrick Caulfield

September 25, 2025

Ann and Family:

I was very saddened to hear about Tom's passing. Tom and I both graduated from St. Peter's Prep, St. Peter's College and Fordham University School of Law, in the same classes, and got to know each other very well during those 11 years. Tom's academic achievements speak for themselves, but they only begin to tell the story of Tom Ruane. Tom was a man of character and integrity. He was was brilliant, humble, genuine, straightforward and soft spoken, and had a great Irish sense of humor. He also treated everyone with dignity and respect, and would go above and beyond the call of duty in helping colleagues, friends and family. Tom was truly the best of the best, and will be sorely missed.

Pat Caulfield

Lori Kruk

September 24, 2025

Ann, Larry and I will forever be grateful for meeting you and Tom, Tom was a great man of wisdom, humor and logic. The Vineyards Pub will never be the same but his spirit will live on there with all of us. God Bless you and your family. God Bless Tom. Lori and Larry Kruk

Pat McNally

September 24, 2025

Ann and family,
Our condolences on a great loss.
Tom was brave, kind, generous and always found a way to make you smile whenever you were in his company.
He will be sadly missed.
Pat and Liz McNally

Woody Graebe

September 23, 2025

To Ann and Family:

Carole and I want to offer our sincere condolences and prayers for Tom and his family. In the 20 some odd years that I have known Tom, I can honestly say that he was one of the most sincere people I have ever met.

I also know that Tom was a very charitable person. If there is a place in Heaven for any of us, it is definitely Tom.

Sincerely,
Carole and Woody Graebe

Len Bello

September 23, 2025

A great man with a warm heart and a dear friend to so many- you will be missed - God Bless.

Larry Bergdale

September 23, 2025

Ann,
So sorry to hear of Tom's passing. I greatly enjoyed our conversations over a glass of chardonnay in Mr. P's. So very witty and funny.
May you cherish the memories with Tom and may he rest in peace.

Liz and Bob Weiss

September 23, 2025

To Ann and family,
We are so sorry to hear the news about Tom - we only just heard. What a lovely man - he will be missed.

Our thoughts are with you at this sad time.

Best wishes,
Liz and Bob Weiss

Denise

September 22, 2025

Tom was an amazing friend to me and my husband! He would go to the ends of the earth for you. I will truly miss him I'm grateful to have had him as a friend rest in peace I'm sure you are dancing with Johnny and Jimmy

Leslie Martello and Bruce Lerner

September 22, 2025

We are so sad to hear about Tom. Our deepest sympathy to Ann and the family.

Patrick & Jade Mc Graner

September 22, 2025

Tom was truly a legend and a stand up guy that everyone could count on.

May he rest in peace

Patrick & Jade

John and Sheila McGraner

September 22, 2025

Truly a great man who would do anything for you

Paula and Mark DeVoe

September 21, 2025

Tom will be truly missed; always enjoyed our interactions...his demeanor, intellect and wit were wonderful.

We were honored to be part of his orbit and will always think fondly of him.

Bill Wood

September 21, 2025

We started to miss Tom the minute he left Little Silver. Now we miss him even that much more. His friendship, generosity, sense of humor, & business acumen, are attributes held by very few. Tom was the guy you turned to for advice, a favor, or a trusted opinion on most any topic. As Ann, Elizabeth, Christine, & Tommy know, our lives were enriched having Tommy with us.

Mike and Sandi Werner

September 20, 2025

The world lost a great man. Tom was brilliant, humble, and the most generous person I ever knew. Our sincere condolences to Ann and his family. Mike and Sandi

Scott O'Dell

September 20, 2025

Our thoughts are with Anne and the family after losing Tom. He was truly a legend!! Anything you need, at any time, we are here for you. Scott and Jennifer O'Dell- The Vineyards.

Pat McCullough

September 20, 2025

Ann and Family, I was shocked to hear the news about Tom. He was so full of life with his quick wit and humor. He was always very generous with the golf staff at the Vineyards and I´m sure he was the same everywhere. He will be missed. Pat McCullough

Dan and Barb Enneking

September 19, 2025

God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Tom was a great giving and loving soul and will be greatly missed.

Dan and Barb Enneking

Richard and Peg Cacioppe

September 19, 2025

What a sad loss for his many friends and the community he served so well. He had a unique and magnetic personality that made him a beloved friend to so many. He could brighten any room with his upbeat and positive personality. The world will be a little darker without him in it. I'll forever miss his big smile and 'hello general' greeting. There will only ever be one Tom Ruane.

Michael Greenough

September 19, 2025

Tom was a rock to all our charitable causes. He led the group to raise funds and truly paid it forward. I will miss him dearly.

Tamuccio Patricia and James

September 19, 2025

Dear Ann and family,

At a time like this sadly, there are no words. Our deeply heartfelt sadness is with you and the family.
Tom was a unique man with an endearing personality. A man who, if asked for help or advice, was always there for you. A man full of life, fun, endearing to all but especially to his family. His loss will be felt by many but especially by you, whom he adored, the children and grandchildren. May he be resting in the Palm of HIS hand and may GOD BLESS you and watch over you and the family.

Our thoughts and prayers have always/will be with you.

Luv,
Jimmy and Trish Tamuccio

Rick Ewart

September 18, 2025

Dear Ann and family,
I am deeply saddened to hear of Tom´s passing. I have many fond memories of Tom, during our youthful years. He was definitely a man of honor and was deeply committed to his family and friends. Although I didn´t get to see him often in recent years, he would always make me feel like our friendship had never faded. I will keep you and your family in my Prayers and I hope that you all can find some small measure of comfort in the knowledge that Tom is now Resting in the Arms of Jesus. God Bless you.

Rick Ewart - Miami, Fl.

Patty and John O´Sullivan

September 18, 2025

Dear Ann
Our hearts go out to you and your family. There are no words that can express how deeply Tom will be missed by family and friends. He was a wonderful caring person. His sharp wit endeared him to everyone, yet you knew underneath it all he was truly your friend. We were privileged to know him.
He was the epitome of the Vineyards Community and he will be with us everywhere ..we love him and will miss him dearly. Our prayers are with you and your family..

Marianne Gambucci

September 18, 2025

Ann,
My deepest condolences to you and your family on your loss. Tom was such a caring man and always there to give advice when asked for his opinion. May you and your family have some peace knowing he is now in the loving arms of God. He will be missed by all those who had the pleasure of knowing him.
Marianne Gambucci

Legacy Remembers

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September 17, 2025

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Funeral service

10:00 a.m.

Church of the Nativity

Fair Haven, NJ

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