Thomas James Schuler
1942 - 2025
Thomas James Schuler
1942 - 2025
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BORN
1942
DIED
2025
Thomas Schuler Obituary
Born on November 14, 1942, in Florissant, Missouri, Thomas was welcomed into the world at his family home by his parents, Carl and Mildred Schuler. He graduated from St. Thomas Aquinas High School in 1960 and went on to serve proudly in both the Missouri National Guard and the United States Army.
In 1968, he married Kathleen Murphy, the love of his life and his devoted partner for 57 wonderful years. Together, they built a life grounded in love, hard work, and deep family connection.
Thomas spent more than 30 years working as a refrigeration and diesel mechanic, a career that perfectly matched his skill, patience, and determination. After retiring, he and Kathy settled into life at their beloved Schuler Shangrila, where they enjoyed 26 peaceful and fulfilling years. Thomas found joy in tending the farm on his tractor, repairing equipment in his shed, fishing on the river, dancing, golfing, and playing dominoes with his friends. Above all, he treasured time spent with his family.
Thomas is survived by his wife, Kathy; his children, Kim (Dan) Pieper and Jeff (Jennifer) Schuler; his grandchildren, Noah (Jordan), Paige, Lucas, and Ella; and his great-grandchildren, Alice and Thomas. He is also remembered with love by numerous extended family members and friends who will miss his gentle spirit, his humor, and his steady presence.
A memorial service will be held on Saturday, December 20, at 10:00 AM at St. Ferdinand's Shrine in Florissant, Missouri, with a reception to follow. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to the American Heart Association.
May his memory be a blessing to all who knew and loved him.
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Uncle Eddie´s Family
December 5, 2025
We were so sorry to hear about Tom´s passing, he will truly be missed. We appreciated Tom´s phone call´s to our dad. He always enjoyed talking with Tommy. That´s what he called him. Tom was so good about coming to Florissant for all the nephew lunch gathering´s. Dad really enjoyed those. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family at this sad time.
Steve & Jane Bauer
December 4, 2025
Jane and I will truly miss your smile and presence at Windstone. It was our privilege to call you a friend. Kat, we are thinking about you in your time of sadness.
Steve and Janie Bauer
Freeburg
Ken and Pam Hall
December 4, 2025
Ken and I were saddened to hear of Tom´s passing. We always enjoyed seeing you and Tom at Windstone. We also remember you both dancing with us at the Ashland Senior Center years ago. We hope your many good memories bring you comfort.
Chuck and Janet Kremer
December 4, 2025
Kathy, we are saddened to hear of Tom's passing. May God's blessings and the love of friends and family carry you through your grief. Thoughts and prayers for you and your family.
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John Heckemeyer
December 3, 2025
Kathy, I am so sorry to learn that Tom passed away recently. I recall the many conversations that my wife (Phyllis) and I had with you guys at the Ritz Center dance on Friday evenings.
Kathy, I know from experience that the loss of your life partner is not easy to accept. My prayers for you and your family.
John Heckemeyer
Lenora Twehus
December 3, 2025
Extending our condolences to Kathy and the Schuler family! Will miss Tom out on the dance floor! We Appreciate that he always took time to greet us! Cherish all the beautiful memories!
Joe and Lenora
Dean Teiber
December 3, 2025
Twenty three years ago we bought our country getaway next door to Tom and Kathy and were blessed to have them as our neighbors. Like Tom, I also grew up and had many memories in north St. Louis County. Over the years I have gotten to know Tom, he was always willing to share his wealth of experience, his knowledge of living in the country, as well as keeping an eye on our place in our absence. During the summer I would look forward to coming over to visit with Tom and Kathy, and he would stop whatever he was working on and we would sit under a tree at the Schuler Shangrila, drink a beer, and catch up on the latest news. Tom would continually amaze me with his vivid memory of details about my family, friends, and work, and his genuine interest in my life. He taught me a lot about the satisfaction and contentment of country living and retirement that he and Kathy were able to achieve. Tom was a good man, friend, and neighbor who enjoyed his life, his family, and his hobbies, and I will truly miss those talks under the tree along with his faithful dog Teddy. May God bless Tom and his family!
Betty Kamberi
December 3, 2025
Sincere condolences to the Schuler family.
Sr. Eileen O'Keeffe
December 2, 2025
Dear Kathy, Words cannot express the sadness felt as you part with your beloved Tom, a truly wonderful "Man for All Seasons!" Your marriage seemed "made in heaven" as you enjoyed sharing life together. Your 50th wedding anniversary was such a special celebration + an earlier anniversary (25 ? 40?) when you came to my home as you two were taking your family on a "tour" of where both of you had grown up! May such great memories + your faith + others' support strengthen you to go on, with Tom always in your heart. God is with you. Much love + prayer, Eileen O'K.
Mary
December 2, 2025
Kathy and family- I am so sorry to lose such a patient and kind man. All of us are better off to have known you and Tom. We will miss him and will keep you all in my prayers. God Bless and may you find peace in the Lord
Ron and Marty Clements
December 2, 2025
Great times at Capital Ritz. Tom never missed a step (even though he never got to lead). We love him a lot and will miss him even more.
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