Thomas Stachowiak

Thomas Stachowiak

Thomas Stachowiak Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Aug. 9, 2020.
On 8/5/20 Tom passed away surrounded by his family; beloved husband of Linda; father of Tommy Berger, Mike & Sarah DuDonis; dear poppy of Andy & Alex; loved brother of Victoria "Babe"; cherished uncle of many nieces & nephews. A celebration of life will be held at a later date. We will miss him dearly.

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November 13, 2023

Charmaine posted to the memorial.

November 4, 2023

Charmaine Biedronski posted to the memorial.

August 5, 2022

Linda posted to the memorial.

Charmaine

November 13, 2023

Your Celebration of Life party on Veterans Day.

Charmaine Biedronski

November 4, 2023

Today I am at the Marine Recruiting office waiting to have your long awaited burial flag folded in your honor. Your Celebration of Life will be held on November 11, 2023, Veterans Day. Aunt Linda wanted this Celebration to finally be held for you. Couldn't have picked a more befitting day to honor you
Love
Charmaine

Linda

August 5, 2022

Tom I miss you so much. I think about you every day. Mike, Andy and Alex miss you. WE all have wonderful memories of you

Mary

May 31, 2022

Linda and family,
It is with deep sadness that I was made aware of Tom's passing.
Tom and I met in the summer of 1964 in Barcelona, Spaing. He was in the marines and we spent a couple days sightseeing and exploring restaurants. We corresponded for awhile and then each went our separate life ways. The picture of Tom that I remember was the one that said, "officers only". Looking at all the family pictures I knew that much love and family was shared and that he had a loving life.
So sorry for his passing.

Mary
Speech Pathologist
Special Education
California

Linda Stachowiak

June 22, 2021

On Father's Day Mike, Andy, Alex ,and I were all together thinking of all the wonderful memories you gave us. You were a very special Husband,Father,and Poppey we all miss you so much
Love Linda

Charmaine

June 21, 2021

Uncle Tom,
You were not only my second father, my babysitter, my nightclub partner, you were a best friend. It still doesn't seem real that you are gone. I could kick myself for not getting mom there to see you. I wanted to keep her safe so I tried to not let her run around during covid. I can still hear your laugh and remember all the family get togethers at your houses, just like it was yesterday. I hope you are busy having a good time with your mom and dad, Aunt Marlene and Dad. I know you know that all the photos through the years will keep your memory alive in all of our hearts.
Love you,
Charmaine

Mike

June 20, 2021

Happy father's there is not a day that goes by that I wish you were still here.They say take one day at a time and think will get better.I would give anything to just have one more day just to see you and hear you I miss all the talks and advice you share.And when I look back now I know when people tell you to enjoy and embrace it make sure to hold on to those memories and at the time it goes in one ear and out the other.The older I become the more I start to realize what they were talking about I get it now life can be very challenging and that is why I try to remember all the wonderful and lifeless you have installed and inspired me .I know the older I get the more thinks we lose and life will know you down you were right about that and it will continue though out life I am very grateful for all the times we had and I am blessed to also been loved by your family that took us in when Mom meet you I have never seen my mom so loved by you and all of your family.They accepted us and showed us love and compassion.I wold not be were I am today with your guidance and tough love we would not be were we are now,Andy and Alex miss you everyday .Andy is you all the way and I see you in him everyday I know he loves you more than anything,you would be so proud of him and the man he is becoming he always talks about you and tells all of his friends about you some day are so hard for all of us but I see it in ands eyes how much he loved you.And Alex he goes headfirst on anything he miss you so much I see him get upset and I talk to him he just tells me he wants his poppy back we all do,I just wanted to say happy Father's Day .We love you and miss you so much .I just hope I can be half the man you were you gave so much for us to have a wonderful life I would not change a think .And you told us to never runaway from your problems.And allway stand your ground but never go looking for trouble but if someone try's to hurt you are your family you stand tall and keep your head up and protect them at all cost.I love you so much I know I was your stepson but you loved and raised me you will always be in my heart and that bond that we had thank you for being there for me and mom and Andy and Alex and if molly is up there can you tell her we miss here to . happy Father's Day

Cheryl Fisher

August 21, 2020

I still can't believe you are gone. You will hold a special place in my heart forever. You have always been there for me, through good and bad times. I remember at my Dad's funeral when I was feeling exhausted from my illness and grief and you came over and put your arm around me to add support. It was such a caring gesture and I will remember it always. There are no words to describe the emotions I am feeling and all of the great memories that are flooding back after looking at all of the photos posted here. I hope you are at peace and know that you are loved and missed. You made a difference in this world. Love your Goddaughter, Cheryl

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