Timothy McOlash

TJ was my childhood friend. My best friend. We met in middle school. We skipped school and waited in line for Return of the Jedi at 6:00 in the morning. We rode our bikes everyday, we got our motor scooter licenses together. We learned to drive cars and pulled each other around on our skateboards like Marty McFly. I told him a joke and he spit a mouthful of oranges all over me. I kicked him under the table once when he told my parents we were out looking for girls. He said "What are you kicking me for?" in front of everybody. We grew up and lost touch but once or twice a year, and I wondered why we haven't spoken in a few months. November 2 was always the day I contacted him to let him and his mother know I was thinking of them on the anniversary of Chip's passing. I didn't hear back from TJ today. I looked him up and found the obituary. For me, he died today. November 5 is his birthday. I'll light a candle just for him. I miss him now more than ever. I'm so sorry for Caroline. I'm going to go get that Christmas frisbee out now and cry a little more.

We were so honored to be friends with you and your Mom before the world lost such a wonderful young man. The loss is great, and shared. We will miss you. Love Always,

I'm so sorry to hear about TJ. I followed him from the Academy to The College of Santa Fe and will always remember his gentle heart. My condolences.

So very sorry for your loss. TJ was a wonderful person. He will always be in my heart.

TJ will be missed. Praying for your friends and family.

I'm absolutely crushed.

You were smart and funny and kind, TJ. The world will be different without you.

So terribly sorry for your loss! He is remembered with love and laughs.

He was a great friend and will be greatly missed!

I am so sorry for your loss. I am the outreach person for The Compassionate Friends. We are a local group of parents who have lost a child or children. We know the grief, we have walked the path. If the parent(s) and/or grandparent(s) of the deceased would like to attend our bi-Monthly meetings, our Facebook pages or receive contact phone numbers please contact me. Once again I am so sorry for your loss.
Joseph Segura

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