Timothy James Necciai

Happy 37th birthday to my beautiful boy. Love you forever.

Purple vinca
and lesser celandine
have sprawled to carpet
the fields around
our home.
Though you
will never see,
there grows
somehow
bright marigold,
tiny lime leaves
at the ends of trees.
If you could
use my eyes,
I would show you
the white blossom
petals drifting
in the wind,
the hangnail moon
that bears
your resemblance.
I would show you
the break in the clouds
shrouding the sunset,
its amber glimmer
of light, diffuse
and shadowless.
I would bring you
to the river
to wash our hands
together, and imagine
the paths of fresh water;
the all-encompassing
entangled veins
that run effortlessly,
and their rise
through the air.
I would show you
that's where you are—
with me,
everywhere

So many of my high school memories include Tim. He was one of my favorite people to hang out with. He was deeply caring and smart. I´m so sorry to his family and friends who lost a truly special person. I will remember you fondly forever, Tim.

Tim, can't say how sad I've been the last few weeks to hear this news. Too many memories. Particularly from when we were young back in our high school wrestling days. You will be very missed Tim!

May God watch over you and shower your family with love and comfort. Rest In Paradise friend

Dear Aunt Cathy,
I don´t know what to say to make you feel better. I am really shocked hearing this news. At this very young age of your son Tim, it must be very difficult to accept for you and your family. I pray that your son feels better wherever he is now. May Allah bless you all.

With love,
Moumi
Nextdoor

Dearest Cathy, Nick and Katrina,

My deepest condolences to you all. May God´s Peace find and comfort you now and always.

Tim had a fantastic smile and extremely intelligent and most of all loved by his family and friends!

Fondly remembered...

R.I.P. Tim

Love and Light

This was taken in December.
He helped me feed the homeless by making 200 sandwiches!
He had a great time doing it!

This picture was taken about 3-4 months ago.
Tim and I were playing games on my tablet and when he won, he was cracking jokes, making fun of me.
He loved playing games on the tablet, very competitive!

Sending immense love to your family. My deepest condolences

Dear Cathy, I'm so sorry for your terrible loss. May you find comfort in your countless sweet memories. Eternal memory.
Sharon Pandrock Bellamy

Dear Cathy and family,
Our hearts ache for you and your family at this very difficult time. We send our loving thoughts to embrace you.
Ken and Roselle

Dearest Cathy. We were childhood friends for a short time in Donora. Many prayers for you and your family at this time.

My heart is heavy as I struggle to find the words to express how sorry I am. Katrina and I were inseparable growing up, and I spent so much time around the family and Tim. He was one of the most brilliant, witty, funny, and unique people I have ever met. He left a lasting impact on those fortunate enough to know him. Sending so much love to Katrina, Ms Kathy, and Nick. You all have and will continue to have a special place in my heart. Rest in peace Tim.

My heart is with Tim´s family and loved ones during this incredibly painful time. I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Tim was truly one of a kind-an extraordinary presence unlike anyone I´ve ever known. His sharp mind and endless curiosity were always captivating, and his humor never failed to bring laughter and joy. He was rare, remarkable, and unforgettable. Rest easy, Tim.

You always showed so much love and had a really big heart. I'm sorry.

My heart aches for Tim's family and loved ones, and I'm praying for you all during this incredibly difficult chapter of your lives. I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Tim was an absolute force, unlike anyone I've ever met before or ever since. His intelligence and curiosity never ceased to fascinate me, and his sense of humor always kept me laughing and entertained. He was rare and beautiful. Rest easy, Tim.

My condolences to Tim´s family. I´ll always remember him from the fun times we had in high school. He was so intelligent and always quick to make a joke. He will be missed.

I will always think of Tim sitting in my kitchen with all the guys. He was fun to talk to, he was smart, he was witty, I always enjoyed him. He will forever be one of the boys to me.

Tim was a very unique and smart guy, my condolences to his family. It´s been many years since we spoke but I´ll never forget the fun we had together as teenagers. These pics were taken hanging out in the secret room.

I will always think of Tim sitting in my kitchen with the gang. We all loved him. He was smart, he was witty,I always looked forward to talking to him. He will forever be one of the boys to me.

My thoughts and condolences go out to you three. Tim was a big inspiration to me growing up, the man's intelligence opened up my mind and made me want to be the same. When I'm reading articles on the internet, I still drag over the text and highlight it in blue like he used to do. I was just thinking about that the other day funny enough. Sending you all love, Tim is and will be missed.

Cathy so deeply sorry. I can´t imagine the pain you are going through. Please know I am there if you need anything or just a shoulder to lean on. All my love and prayers go out to you. Nadine

Extremely hard to come up with the right words. Tim was an incredibly smart, kind, fun human who I am so grateful to have had in my life. From talking cars to conspiracy theory's or the next plan to piss off our teachers Tim always spoke with Brillance. Rest Easy Brotha ... P.s. couldn't find a whole lot of pictures but will always remember the good times as if they were yesterday.

"all light is our light / it shines within / let's be the brightest stars we've ever been"

Growing up next door, and eventually down the road, the family always made me feel like one of their own. Tim was most certainly the closest thing I had to a brother outside of my own blood; at times we were inseperable. You could almost guarantee that if one of us was around, then the other was near by. I have too many fond memories to recount, but the feelings have always remained. Tim was a great friend, but an even better son and brother. Truly an anchor for us all. I owe much of my life to him and the family and I miss him tremendously. Rest easy, Tim. I love you.

My heart is heavy as I write this. Sending all of my love to Tim´s family and friends. He will never be forgotten & will always be loved by all that knew him. I´m so very sorry for your loss.

To Tim´s family - Sending my heartfelt condolences and praying that you all find the strength to carry on during this difficult time. May he rest in peace and his memory live on through all of those who were lucky enough to know him.

I met tim and cathy when tim and my son were on the high school wrestling team. Tim was very athletic and super smart. He had an awesome sarcastic sense of humor. I am so very sad for tims passing. My heart and prayers go out to cathy, nick and Katrina .

I met Tim´s family back in elementary school when my husband coached T-Ball/Baseball. Cathy and her children were delightful and especially remember Tim and his adorable smile. I pray for the family. May they get through this unimaginable pain through the Grace of God. Diane and Henry Levy

Mario and I are so very sorry for your loss. We wish you peace and comfort as you grieve the loss of Tim. He is so fondly remembered by so many.