Tom Lehan

Tom Lehan obituary, Leawood, KS

Tom Lehan

Tom Lehan Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Feb. 16, 2025.
In Loving Memory of Tom Lehan

1950-2025

Leawood, Kansas

Tom Lehan, 74, passed away on February 8, 2025, in Scottsdale, Arizona. Born on September 15, 1950, in Bremerton, Washington, Tom lived a life rich in love, faith, and dedication to his family and community.

Tom pursued his education at the University of Notre Dame, earning a bachelor's degree in economics. His strong faith played a significant role in his decision to attend Notre Dame, following in the footsteps of his father. After completing his studies, he embarked on a successful career in the reinsurance industry, where he was instrumental in opening the first Kansas City branch for American Reinsurance. Over 27 years, Tom's leadership and vision helped grow the regional office, securing and managing some of the company's largest clients.

While living in Los Angeles, Tom met the love of his life, Jane. The two quickly formed a deep bond, and their love story led to 46 wonderful years of marriage. Together, they built a life filled with love, laughter, and unwavering support for one another. Tom was a devoted husband and a loving father to his son Patrick and daughter Anne. His family was his greatest joy, and nothing brought him more happiness than spending time with them. His granddaughter Mara held a special place in his heart, and he treasured every moment with her. He is also survived by his son-in-law Greg Glass and sister Nancy Wilson. Tom was predeceased by his parents, John and Ethel Lehan, and his brother, John Lehan.

A passionate athlete, Tom had a lifelong love for basketball. He played varsity basketball at Coronado High School and later coached his son Patrick throughout his youth. He remained active in the sport well into adulthood, frequently competing in recreational leagues at Health Plus. Golf was another of Tom's great loves, and he was fortunate to play on some of the world's most renowned courses. Yet, for all the excitement of competition, his favorite rounds were those spent alongside Jane.

Tom's faith was the cornerstone of his life. After moving to Kansas City from Los Angeles, he became a member of the Holy Cross congregation, where his children were baptized. For more than 30 years, he was an active member of the Church of the Nativity, volunteering in numerous roles, including Bible study.

He will be remembered as a caring, generous man who always put others before himself. Guided by an unwavering moral compass, he believed in helping those less fortunate and always striving to do what was right. Whether enjoying time on the golf course, watching big games with friends, or sharing a meal in good company, Tom deeply valued the relationships he built over the years.

When asked recently if he had any regrets or would change anything about his life, he smiled and said simply, "I wouldn't change a thing."

Services

A visitation will be held on Saturday March 8, 2025 at 10:00 AM at the Church of the Nativity, located at 3800 West 119th Street in Leawood, Kansas. A Funeral Mass to follow at 11:00 AM.

Following the service, a Celebration of Life will take place from 1:00 PM to 3:00 PM at Milburn Country Club, 7501 W 69th Street in Overland Park, Kansas. Food and beverages will be provided, and guests are encouraged to follow signage at the main entrance upon arrival.

Tom's legacy of kindness, faith, and love will live on in all who knew him. May his memory bring comfort and peace to those who mourn his passing.

In memory of Tom, please consider making a donation to catholiccharitiesusa.org, harvesters.org, or foldsofhonor.org in lieu of flowers.

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Gary Nelson

July 16, 2025

Still am missing Tom especially when going into our fitness center. We would seek each other out, get on the bikes, and the time would fly by with talk about families, sports, and current events.
He was very compassionate in consoling me over the sudden, unexpected loss of my wife of 55 years, and suggested we meet for coffee some time for me to talk about it, when....darn, this happens to him.
My sincerest condolences,
Gary Nelson

Janet Ryan Falletta

March 31, 2025

So very sorry to hear of Tom´s passing. I met Tom in 1960 as we attended Sacred Heart School together....and then throughout the times we once again met up at class reunions. He will be remembered as one of the nicest guys I was lucky to know....my condolences to Tom´s family....rest in peace Tom

Gwyneth O´Toole Bent

March 8, 2025

I went to Sacred Heart School and Coronado High School with Tom - yes, I had a huge crush on him in 5th Grade! He was always the nicest guy, and I always enjoyed catching up with him at reunions, when he could make it. He always enjoyed life, and I´m glad he had such a loving family - my sincerest condolences... - Gwyneth O´Toole Bent

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Kimberly Ameer

March 7, 2025

Sending prayers to the family.
Love,
Kimberly & Gibran Ameer and the Virtue Technologies team

Bob Yount

March 5, 2025

Tom and I have been friends since our junior year in high school. My family had just moved into our house in Coronado in the summer of 1966 when there was a knock on the door. Standing there was a tall, curly, red headed guy who said "hey, I'm Tom Lehan; I live up the block, see you just moved in and wanted to come over and say hi". We became fast friends.

I cherish those times together and all the good times we've had since.
Tom was a great buddy and wonderful companion. No one was more fun to spend time with on the golf course. He was simply the best and it breaks my heart he is no longer able to be with us. We will all miss his opinions, insights, jokes, laughter, raised eyebrows, side glances and his infectious positive attitude. The party started when Tom showed up!

I so miss you, Tommy and hope that when I get to the next life, you're waiting there to welcome me to the neighborhood.

Dennis Doyle

March 1, 2025

Very sad to hear of the passing of Tom. I was a contemporary of Tom at American Re/Munich Re in Los Angeles. I looked forward to seeing Tom at management meetings and our discussions on politics, religion, and life issues of the day. Tom usually ended the conversation by reminding me he was a better golfer, I would retort I was better looking.
My wife and I will keep you and the Lehan family in our prayers.

David O´Keefe

February 28, 2025

Dear Jane and family. So sorry to hear of Tom´s passing. I worked closely with Tom for many years at American Re / Munich Re and always appreciated his passion for his job and was a tireless advocate for the clients he managed. Please accept my heartfelt condolences and may the perpetual light of Christ shine upon him and your family.
Sincerely,
David O´Keefe

Susan Gill

February 22, 2025

Dear Jane and family,
Please accept our love and sympathy. So sad to hear. My heart hurts for you.
Ted and Suzy Gill

John & Alana Addington

February 21, 2025

So many happy memories of Tom spanning 50 years of friendship from California to Kansas to Arizona. He will be missed by all who knew him. A great friend and a wonderful husband, father, and grandfather. Jane, we send our sincerest condolences to you and your family and will keep you in our prayers.

Linda Taylor

February 20, 2025

God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. So many fun bridge memories.

Caroline Mihill

February 18, 2025

From the day I met Tom almost seven years ago, he was so genuine and inviting, always making me feel like part of the family. It was clear right away that being a caring and engaged dad came naturally to him. He was always intentional about finding shared interests to bond over or offering life advice when he noticed you were making big decisions.

Anyone who knew him knew he had a contagious chuckle that could make anyone smile. One of my favorite stories he loved to tell was about the day Patrick was born, that the nurse wheeled Patrick into the hospital room and announced, `Here... comes... Killer!´ Maybe it was the enthusiasm he told it with or how he struggled to get through his own laughs, but he could always make it funny no matter how many times you heard it.

Family gatherings won´t be the same without a him never forgetting a pause for a `Carnac says´ moment before opening a gift or or his classic eye-rolls after learning the meaning behind the latest slang from whatever new board game he got roped into playing. Wish we had more time together - Tomcat you are so deeply missed by many.

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