Tristan Alexander Tolnay obituary, 2006-2020, Ballwin, MO

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Tristan Alexander Tolnay

2006 - 2020

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Kelly Sexton

January 6, 2021

I was devastated to learn of Tristan's passing this morning. Condolences to Dr. and Mrs. Tolnay and the entire family! Keeping each of you in my prayers!

d c

November 24, 2020

Dance little Tristan, dance! Dance with the Angels in Heaven! Dance!

Cindy Tolnay Duarte

November 20, 2020

Shawn and Teresa, I can not imagine the pain you and your family are going through. My sincere sympathy to you all. Although I never met Tristian, he seems to be a special boy as I'm sure all your children are.

Linda Rector

November 8, 2020

So sorry our loss in this world
Gods gain in His!! No more pain all joy! Tell you meet again!

Skylar Carlson

November 8, 2020

Tristan you are with God and the Angles, May you dance your Heart out to every one Everyone to us in R.I.P, Love ya Skylar.

Martha Moneymaker

November 7, 2020

Even though I have never met Sweet Tristan he has touched my heart forever. Teresa you are one strong momma. Keep your head up and take care of yourself. Praying for all of you. R.I.P. sweet boy and keep dancing

Wayne and Marshall

November 7, 2020

This little guy was the bravest warrior anyone could ever know. Our hearts are breaking for his wonderful family. His Mom, Teresa, Tristan's brothers and sister, Teresa's sisters, Julie and Mindy, her Mom, Marty, and Dad, Ken, her Aunt Linda and Uncle Dick, They have been our friends since Teresa was a small child. We are keeping them all close in our thoughts and prayers. We cannot imagine the pain they are enduring but know it is God's Plan. We are content to know Tristan is no longer in pain and know he watching over his family from his Heavenly Home.

Annie Meyer

November 7, 2020

Love you so much and may God bless you. Thank you for the joy you spread to all of us. There is a brighter day, so dance in the clouds Tristan!

Malia Cummings

November 7, 2020

Tristan will never be forgotten. We could always count on Tristan to light up everyone's day with his dance moves. You will be truly missed. Keep dancing and living each day to the fullest.

Julie Zeigenbein

November 7, 2020

I'm so sorry for your family's loss. He will always be in thoughts . Prayers for god to hold you all close .

Leah Henson

November 7, 2020

So sorry for your loss

Terry g Warman

November 6, 2020

What a Wonderful Day that will be when we're All together again FOREVER.
XOXO

Sandy Gumm

November 6, 2020

I got to know about Tristan thru FB & thru our prayer team at Heartland Worship Center. It was an honor to pray for him & his family and to get to see his amazing spirit thru out his illness. I relate to his love of MJ as my son did the same when he was growing up. The song “I Can Only Imagine” rings in my head as I think about what he must be experiencing now, dancing for Jesus!

Deborah DeHaven

November 6, 2020

Tristan! You left a legacy whether you knew it or not! Many of us kept you close to their hearts in daily prayer. We watched for your mother's updates. We cheered you on and spoke to God. Most of all, we admired a young man with a heart of gold, a love for God and the strongest bravest soul we ever knew!! Thank you for touching my life! May you feel joy in your peaceful eternity sweet child!!

Karen Kennedy

November 6, 2020

Condolences to your family on the loss of Tristan. He was a brave warrior and inspired many.

ROBIN THOMPSON

November 6, 2020

I did not know Tristan personally but he made such an impression on me. He touched my heart. His smile, his spirit. Such a sweet loving boy. I thank God that I was given the privilege of praying for him and you Teresa. My heart broke so many times for what you both were going through. I know that Tristan is before the Father worshipping through dance.

Flavio Xavier

November 6, 2020

Beautiful boy, we live far from you but felt so nearly during all this time, we followed you day by day. We all love you as part of our family and 22q family. We wish you rest in peace and your family stay well in a comfort of our Lord.

Courtney Pearce

November 6, 2020

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

I never met Tristan but I followed Team Tristan. It was such a blessing to see him dance and wave be happy even during what he was going through! Momma you are so strong, inspiring and a beautiful person !! I’ve shed some tears following you all and now typing this my eyes are filled. God had bless you all with a wonderful little boy!! Tristan is definitely smiling and dancing up with Jesus!! You have a handsome guardian angel !!
God bless you all and much love ❤
Courtney.

Matthew Ervin

November 6, 2020

Gone but never forgotten. Dance with the angels. You are and will always be my best friend. I will never forget you!!!! Love Matthew.

D Theusch

November 6, 2020

You are such an amazing mother, Teresa. And Tristan was such a special boy. The two of you were each others great loves in this life and it was such a wonderful thing to witness. You and Tristan reminded me so often of what is really important while we are here on this earthly plane, and for that I want to say thank you. When you face days of immense sorrow, just know that the angels will let us know and we will pray for you. Your Facebook friend, Darlene

Meradeth Montoya

November 6, 2020

So sorry for your loss. I saw Tristan’s story on Facebook. I’m sure your 22q warrior is dancing with the angels. ❤

Jeni Simpson

November 6, 2020

I know your dancing with Jesus!!

Paul Sapp

November 6, 2020

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Lisa Volivitch

November 6, 2020

I am planting a tree in the sequoia mountains in his memory. Hugs and prayers to you all

Sabine Richey

November 6, 2020

I am so sorry

Joan Walker

November 6, 2020

Am so sorry for your loss you and your family are always in my prayers

jaden liv

November 6, 2020

In loving memory

Courtney Hall

November 6, 2020

Praying for Tristian’s family!

Tammy Corbin

November 6, 2020

He sure was a inspiration on Facebook and in our Facebook time. God be with you all during this time.

Terry Morris

November 6, 2020

Dance in Heaven with Jesus

Olga Gomez

November 6, 2020

Rip and dance with Michael Jackson and Jesus..

Donna McQueen

November 6, 2020

I didn't know you personally Tristan. When I first saw you on fb I thought what a brave young man you were to share your struggle with the world. To bring so many people together in faith was phenomenal. I pray for you and your mama everyday. You are in our father's arms now no more pain, no more sorrow. Don't worry we will all continue to pray for your mama until she is well again.

Raymond Badilla

November 6, 2020

So sorry for your loss. My condolences. May he rest in peace. God bless him and his family.

Wendy Targos

November 6, 2020

LtCol and Mrs. Michael J. Targos

Marla Eagon

November 6, 2020

Thank you for sharing your journey. You were a warrior that is for sure. I know michael will enjoy the dance partner. Rest in peace little man

Diane McCallister

November 6, 2020

Heaven will be a better place with you there. Your spirit “will survive” with us here on Earth. Keep on dancing!! Be free now. Bless your family and especially your Mom for sharing you with us!!

Laura Krausen

November 6, 2020

Thank you for sharing your boy with us on Facebook - I don't know you personally, but feel like we got to know this amazing boy through the videos and posts! I am sorry for you loss, and am glad that he is dancing in Heaven and making Jesus happy like he did for so many here on earth!!!

Margo Albritton

November 6, 2020

I love you Tristian! You are a very special boy. Keep dancing in heaven buddy!

Jennifer Risner

November 6, 2020

May Holy Mary, the Angels and all the Saints welcome you now

Stephanie Kaelin-Neuhaus

November 6, 2020

Our Deepest Sympathies to the whole Tolnay, Boucher families. Tristan put up a good fight for months he is now in a better place Dancing with all the Angels. Teresa you are an Awesome Mom and now it's time to take care of yourself.

Matthew and Tristan. Best Buddies forever!!

Lori Maguire

November 6, 2020

I will always remember you Tristan!! And all the great times we shared!!
Your best friend, Matthew!!

Christina and Tony Helms

November 6, 2020

A sweet soul has gone Home. Our deepest condolences.

Trish

November 6, 2020

We will forever carry a piece of you with us. What an incredible journey and inspiration...dance on.

Michelle Jungmeyer

November 6, 2020

You touched so many hearts....you will never be forgotten...i know you are dancing with the Angels ❤

Sarah Lee

November 6, 2020

I'm so sorry for your family's loss. Thank you for sharing Tristan's journey on FB. You could tell how much he was loved. I'm so sorry you weren't able to take him home. I would have been honored to have been his Nurse. May God comfort you in the days and years to come. Bless Tristan and your family.

Joy Hoock

November 6, 2020

What a special son of GOD he will always be in my thoughts and prayers till I go home to be with our GOD. He taught what it is to be brave

Caprice Killinger

November 6, 2020

What an amazing and talented kid! ❤

Raheem Stewart

November 6, 2020

You are so special and you will always remain my friend. I love you Tristan and I will miss you

Emily Looney

November 6, 2020

Such a beautiful soul

Carol Doucet

November 6, 2020

I loved you're beautiful soul your infectious smile.I wish I could have had the privilege of knowing you in person would loved to kiss on your cheek. Run free and dance in heaven you bear no more health problems. Prayers for your mother Teresa she loved you was by your side always was with you when God carried you to Heaven I belive in heaven we will see are family once
again. Big love ❤ ♥ to you Tristan.

Jenessa Dodson

November 6, 2020

I was blessed the day I met a 3 year old boy named Tristan because he brought a smile to my face everyday from then on! He created many memories in our preschool program for those who worked with him that we still smile to this day about! Thank you for sharing your precious son in our school district from PK on. He will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with your entire family.

Terri

November 6, 2020

Tristan, you are a beautiful boy...

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