Troy Allen Cole

I haven't seen Troy since he was about 16 but grew up in the same neighborhood. He was always very nice to me. I remember his huge beer can collection in his bedroom, and playing football, basketball, baseball, riding bikes, doing landscaping, snow shoveling, etc. He was always very honest, helpful and full of energy. I even remember being kidnapped along with him by his big sister and her friends in the Stocks house when it was being built and they wouldn't let us leave unless he kissed his sister which he really didn't want to do but did it anyway so we could be released. very funny memories. Rest in Peace Troy

Heather, Tania, Meghan, Elaine & John, my deepest sympathies are with you. All of you will always hold a special place in my heart. May your memories bring you comfort in this difficult time.

To My Meggs & Family:

My continued thoughts and prayers are with you. I will always remember all the fun times we had with TB over the years. My heart goes out to each of you.

With Love to the family,

Elaine, John and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.

An old Central Penn buddy,

Elaine and John and family:

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. I know how much your kids mean to you. My deepest sympathies! You are in my thoughts and prayers.

From one of your old Central Penn buddies, Allison Mitchell!

I am so sorry for you alls lost. I have keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Duke

Dear Elaine, Girls & John,
Two days have passed since Troy's Memorial. Bill and I both thought the Memorial was very beautiful and the Pastor was very good. Elaine our deepest sympathy goes out to all of you. We do know that Troy is now in a better place (with GOD). Time may heal the wound, but he will never be forgotten. GOD BLESS ALL OF YOU. WE LOVE YOU ALL, JOYCE & BILL

I am saddened to hear of Troy's passing. While it has probaly been more than 20 years since I last had contacat with Troy, I think it is safe to say we had our share of good times and even some good "trouble", the kinds all kids and teenagers growing up get into. Troy and I become friends in elementary school and remained friends until high school graduation took us separate ways in life. Life is so busy and time passes by so fast but it is nice to take just a few minutes and reflect back on some of the fun and terrific times I had growing up as a kid, knowing Troy - I am just very sorry it is under these sad circumstances. Best wishes to the entire family.

Elaine, Tania, Megan, Heather and John- I can not express how my heart aches for all of you! I am truely sorry for what you have had to endure. Troy is at peace. My thoughts and prayers go out to you.

I'm sorry for your lose and my lose of a old friend that I'd lost touch with many years ago! Since I'm not a praying man you have my best wishes. We sure had some good time Troy,Andy and I. He will be missed!

Elaine and Family,
So sorry to hear about Cole. My thoughts are with you. You do know he is in a better place and as my father's doctor told me when my husband died -- he could have lasted a long time the condition he was in. It's hard but time heals all.

Greetings Elaine and John,

Well wishes to you and your family from a few of us old timers still up at Central Penn. Keep smiling,

Elaine, Heather, Tania, and Meghan,
It was 30 years ago, when young boy full of energy and life knocked on my door and asked the new family on the block " Are there any kids here that I can play with?" Troy was my first friend in Harrisburg, and we shared many joyous special times. He was a FRIEND. Regardless of the ups and downs of youth and teenage years, he remained a friend. That says a tremdous amount about who he was, loyal through and through.
Although I lost touch with Troy, he was always on my mind during Steeler Sundays, it was a passion we sharded and acted out on the streets and yards of the old neighborhood to many times to count. They are some of my favorite memories of my youth.
It was about Three years ago we reconnected, my brother had taken care of him at a local dialysis clinic. Troy saw the name tag on my brother's chest and connected the dots. An hour or so latter we were on the phone, and talking like almost no time had gone by. We shared lunch and a hug that day. Words can't express my joy in finding a lost friend.
My heart and prayers go out to you ladies. I hope that you know that Troy touched many other lives as he touched mine. He will be missed.

My Deepest Condolences,

Sol Mirin

Elaine, your Daughter Ladies and John:
As the well written o-bit said, Troy had some struggles in his shortened life. I only had the pleasure of meeting him once, (at both our favorite sport: a thoroughbred race track) but was thoroughly impressed with his turn-around and was left with the impression he had great future. We all have shared some of his struggles in our own family and our friend’s families and I was looking forward to hearing about his improving lifestyle.

May his soul rest in peace - Amen.

It's a darn shame. I will never forget our special memories with Troy Boy, the good times we all had and his flair for dry humor. Love all of you,
Stefanie Rose

Elaine, John and sisters!
My heart is so heavy for you all. I can't imagine. I hope all the good memories will ease the pain and bring you happiness. You are in my prayers.

Elaine and family
So sorry for your loss. Our family is
thinking of you and yours.
Love, your cousin Linda

Aunt Elaine and Family,
We are so sorry to hear of such a tragedy! Mom and I send our love and condolences to everyone. May Troy be at peace and you find strength to get through this.

Love,
Dawn and Linda Metcalf

Meghan and Family,
My deepest sympathy to you and your family. I am truly sorry for your loss and will always have many fond and funny memories of Troy Boy. TBAKA.... You have all been in my thoughts and prayers thoughout the recent days and I want you to know that I am here for you in anyway that I possibly can be. Know that Troy is finally at peace. Love you TB!!!!!

Dear Elaine, From New York, D.C., Virginia, Alabama, Georgia and Washington, your family is sharing your grief in Troy's passing and also sharing funny, loving memories of having Troy in our lives.
Andria Duncan, Columbus, GA

Lainey~
Our heart goes out to you and the family at this time and in the days ahead. Troy's tenacity continued even on his final journey in this world. He is at peace now and we will forever remember our Troy boy.

Love,
Vicki, Howard, Erika and Cameron

Tania and Family:
Be strong for Troy during this difficult time and remember all of the great times you all had together.

Dearest Tania and family!
My heart aches with sadness for you all. I know you have special memories of Troy Boy and I hope they will help during this difficult time. With love and sympathy,

I am so sorry for your loss. I only knew Troy for a few months but the impact he had on me will be lasting. I found him to be full of life, a dreamer, inelligent, and full of empathy for those who had it worse. Although our relationship was professional I considered him a friend. I know he is in a better place now.

I'm so sorry for your loss. Your family is in my prayers. God Bless.
Sincerely,
Jennifer Christmas

Tania and family,
I am so sorry for your loss! You are in my thoughts and prayers.