Valerie Hodor

Valerie Hodor obituary, Westland, MI

Valerie Hodor

Valerie Hodor Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Feb. 18, 2025.
Valerie "Val" Lynn Hodor (n�e Proctor) passed away peacefully at her home in Westland, Michigan, on February 14, 2025, at the age of 75. She was born on January 22, 1950, in Detroit, Michigan, to the late Dorothy Mears and Clifford Proctor.

Valerie was the beloved wife of her best friend and true love, Steven Hodor. They met when she was just 16 years old and shared a beautiful marriage of 57 years. She was a devoted mother to Angela (Jim) Hodor and Doreen Hodor and a cherished grandmother to Brittany, Natasha, Colin (Lauren), Kaylie (Angel), and Elise. She also had a deep love for her fur-babies-Carmel, Oreo, Nova, and Midnight-as well as many "grand" fur-babies that brought her joy.

She was one of seven siblings and is remembered by her surviving brothers and sisters: David (Connie) Proctor, Ruthann (the late LeRoy) LaBeau, and Larry (Mary) Proctor. She is also remembered by a host of nieces, nephews, relatives, and friends. She was preceded in death by her siblings Raymond Proctor (Joan), Donald Proctor (the late Gerri), and Roger Proctor (Rita).

Valerie had a warm presence that left an impact on many hearts. She was a strong, compassionate, and loving woman who always put family and friends first. Known for always telling her loved ones, "I love you more than you know," she lived by those words as her love was unconditional. An avid animal lover, she often rescued animals in need. She worked for Meijer and later owned her own travel agency, combining her passion for adventure with her career. She loved traveling, camping with loved ones, creating beautiful cakes, sewing, and crafting.

A Celebration of Life will be held on Saturday, April 5, 2025, at 2:00 p.m. at the American Legion Post 231 in New Boston, Michigan.

Valerie's kindness and love will live on in the hearts of those who knew her.

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April 5, 2025

Paula Fecay posted to the memorial.

February 28, 2025

Angela M Hodor posted to the memorial.

February 19, 2025

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Paula Fecay

April 5, 2025

She was a lovely lady, and I am so sorry for your loss! I know she was a big part of your life and how much she will be missed´ my deepest condolences!

Angela M Hodor

February 28, 2025

I just want you to know I love you! It´s been hard with you not here . I wish I could spent every waking minute with you but I couldn´t . Dad going to be ok because me and Doreen are watching over him . He´s lost with out you but he knows you´re in a better place.. You are our rock our everything but we know you´re free of pain. You put a stamp on so many people's life´s because you had the biggest heart in the universe..You´re so special in so many life´s. Until we meet again my beautiful mama. I´m a lost soul right know but I know you´re watching over all of us.
Your daughter
Angela

Misti Faust

February 19, 2025

I´m so very sorry for your loss! Val was an ever present person in our lives growing up and shared such a wonderful friendship with my mother!!! She was such a strong support system and advocate for my mom when she was going through her own struggles in grief and illness! I have so many memories of Val and am so grateful for the wonderful wedding cake she made for my wedding. It was so beautiful! I am grateful that Val was a part of our lives for so many years!

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