Vernon Frank Reeves

Vernon Frank Reeves obituary, Tallahassee, FL

Vernon Frank Reeves

Vernon Reeves Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Apr. 8 to Apr. 10, 2023.
Vernon Frank Reeves, husband, father and patriarch of a deeply saddened family died Wednesday, April 5, in Tallahassee, Florida after a life exceedingly well lived. He was 97 years old. Soft-spoken and clear, always with a big grin, Frank never looked the part of a hero. Born in Okeechobee, Florida on Oct 27, 1925, to Vernon Reeves and Doren Garlington Reeves, to those who called him "PopPop", "Dr. Frank", or "friend", he was a giant.

When a man died in Ancient Greece, only one question was asked: "Did he have passion?" For those who knew Frank, the answer was always the same--"Yes!" To Frank, everything was an adventure. In his final years, no matter his physical struggles or challenges, he was known for one repeating phrase-"What's next?"

Frank had one enduring belief. That the measure of a man's life was not the amount of individual gain accrued, but rather one's quiet collection of courageous and important moments. Those moments for Frank-family, an innate curiosity in humanity, or the desire for a just world-were all that mattered.

Father of three girls, and grand or great grandfather of twelve, Frank was a true inspiration. This was because he had only one consistent approach. When asked by a son-in-law for advice on a parenting issue, Frank's answer was clear, "Just love em.".

His life as an educator was launched with a bachelor's degree in Science Education and continued through to a doctorate in education. As assistant school superintendent he courageously fought to help integrate the first county school system in Florida. He was also the first Eagle Scout from Okeechobee, and first Order of The Arrow awardee, the highest honors for living scouting's values.

Almost as much as his devotion of family and belief in justice, Frank loved our National Parks, having visited over 37 in his lifetime. He was particularly fond of Glacier and the Great Smoky Mountains. There he found a solace and grandeur that helped fuel his lifelong curiosity of all things alive. A passionate traveler, Frank visited 49 states. He planned to see Hawaii when Covid hit- sadly his list was never completed.

In his final years, Frank's body began to slow, but his mind, sharp and ever ready, remained curious and fascinated. He never stopped learning, and to the end, was a true student of the world. His trademark, "What's next?", was as much about learning as it was about doing. In his final weeks he could be found at a potter's wheel, making one last bowl for family.

Frank was preceded in death by his parents, his first wife, Lurelene Kelly Reeves, his brother Laurens Reeves and his step-son, Paul Troke. He leaves behind his loving wife of 40 years Gail Straat Reeves, three daughters, a beloved step-daughter and step-son, eight grandchildren, and two great-grandchildren.

Everyone he touched was better for having known him, and in his shadow, a family tightly bound by the ministry of his life, remains.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations can be made to the National Park Foundation (nationalparks.org).

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April 2, 2025

Kathy Wilcox posted to the memorial.

April 19, 2023

Susan planted trees.

April 19, 2023

Susan Alldredge posted to the memorial.

Kathy Wilcox

April 2, 2025

Pop Pop was most certainly one of a kind! I always enjoy remembering and sharing the funny stories (so many) with Sherri, Franks "favorite daughter" or was that one of the other favorite daughters!
My family will always remember his wonderful spirit, his laugh, his funny antics, and his joy! He will always make us smile!

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Susan

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Susan Alldredge

April 19, 2023

So sorry for your loss, I feel like I knew him with all of the stories I have heard over the years, I know you will all miss him. Susan

John, Cindy, Brandon and Caylynne Teem

April 17, 2023

We knew Frank through the Taylor family, and always enjoyed our interactions with him when we had the occasion to meet. He had stories to tell of his interesting life, and was always curious to know what made life interesting to us. We´re thankful we had opportunities to enjoy his company and his humor (we have a new appreciation of "gooeyducks" which we owe to Frank!). Our condolences to all who knew him, loved him and will miss him.
-The Teem family

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Allison & Danny Hopkins

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Allison Hopkins

April 10, 2023

We are so sorry for your loss. Frank was an amazing person and the world won´t be the same without him. We love you all. The Hopkins Family

Monica

April 10, 2023

He was indeed a fantastic person. I have always admired his curiosity for life and his engaging conversations. He knew how to draw you in with his questions and laughter. He will be missed.

Kathy Wilcox

April 9, 2023

What a wonderful and kind man full of enjoyment and wonder. We loved PopPop and will miss him.

Cindy Reeves Connelly.

April 8, 2023

Frank was my uncle. My mothered was Married to his brother Laurens. Frank was so cheerful and fun when we got to spend time with him. Always upbeat and caring. So sad to hear of his passing but proud to have known him and happy his life was full

Jill Conley

April 8, 2023

Frank was so kind and loving. He celebrated life and family all the time. He will definitely be missed!

Dee Snook

April 8, 2023

What a beautiful tribute, Gail. I hope those happy memories will console you as you move on through life. Thoughts and prayers with you. Hugs, Dee Snook

Emma Conley

April 8, 2023

Such a sweet and kind soul to have as my birthday twin. I loved growing up with him. Rest in peace Mr. Frank.

Jill Conley

April 8, 2023

Frank was always loving and kind. He was always involved in his family´s life. Such a great man. He will be missed

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