Webb Alexander Haymaker

1976 - 2022

Webb Alexander Haymaker obituary, 1976-2022

Webb Alexander Haymaker

1976 - 2022

BORN

1976

DIED

2022

Webb Haymaker Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Mar. 17 to Apr. 16, 2022.
Webb Alexander Haymaker, (January 8, 1976 – March 1, 2022) Webb was a caring and beloved member of the many circles of his life – family, friends around the country and world, clients, musicians, fellow therapists. He felt deeply about his responsibility to those who struggled with mental illness and the aftermath of trauma. Webb himself was among them. He used his fine mind and incredible empathy to help many through their times of darkness. Sadly, he died by suicide after a lifetime of enriching, consoling, helping others through their struggles. Webb was a native of Baton Rouge, LA and lived in New Orleans, LA at the time of his death. He also spent many happy years in Philadelphia, PA. He was a lifelong scholar with a wide and varied academic career. He particularly cherished his years at Carleton College, where many generations of his family have also studied. He earned two master's degrees (Contemporary Literature and Clinical Social Work) and pursued extensive post graduate professional development at the Psychoanalytic Center (Philadelphia) and the American Institute for Psychoanalysis (New York). He began his career as a psychotherapist working with children and adolescents, first in New Orleans at a community mental health agency and later at a drug diversion program for juvenile offenders in New Haven, CT. He possessed a particular gift for communicating with and supporting teenagers in crisis. He spent six years working as an adult therapist at the Mazzoni Center, an LGBTQ resource center in Philadelphia, PA. For the past three years, he treated adults from all walks of life in a busy private practice in New Orleans. He was an exceptional clinician with a humility that drove him to continually work at improving his craft. He was energized by integrating new skills which better supported the recovery and wellbeing of his clients. He was an active and respected board member of the New Orleans-Birmingham Psychoanalytic Center. A natural teacher, he contributed his passion as well as expert knowledge of psychoanalytic theory. He founded and led a popular weekly reading group, providing continuing education credit to other mental health professionals in New Orleans. He was a music lover with an expansive knowledge of jazz. A skilled musician himself, he took great joy in playing the saxophone at jazz jams as well as playing regularly with the marching group Kreweleidoscope, especially during Mardi Gras. Webb read widely, had a quirky sense of humor and a contagious laugh. He was an amazing father to his beloved daughter, Rona, and was excited about parenting a new baby on the way. A service of remembrance will the held at the Baton Rouge Unitarian Church on Saturday, April 16th at 10 AM. If you cannot attend in person, the service may be viewed on the church website: https://unitarianbr.org. His ashes will be put to rest in a private ceremony in Colorado. In lieu of flowers please honor Webb with a donation to NAMI New Orleans, (https://namineworleans.org) or the Coalition to Stop Gun Violence https://www.csgv.org.

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January 5, 2026

Mary Jane Spruel posted to the memorial.

October 20, 2025

Summer Garland posted to the memorial.

November 24, 2024

Dan Curtin posted to the memorial.

Mary Jane Spruel

January 5, 2026

As stated before, I didn't know him, but ran across his obit and was truly impressed. From what I read, he's in heaven for his good deeds he left behind on earth. Happy birthday! Mary Jane Spruel

Summer Garland

October 20, 2025

So sorry. I go to Carleton, and started researching Evelyn Andersojn Haymaker, once I read a blub ablout her in Anderson Hall and came upon this. My uncle died from suicide, so I know what the impacts are. Hope everything is well and will get better.

Dan Curtin

November 24, 2024

so sorry

Nancy Proctor Bieschke

August 1, 2022

I am late in sharing my condolences, but I only read about Webb's passing in the Carleton Voice today. I remember reading the powerful article in the same publication a few years back about Webb and his father and what they have done to stand against gun violence. I didn't know Webb well (I graduated from Carleton in 1999). But I vividly remember the respect that most of my favorite music professors had for him, especially Professor Rhodes. Webb always seemed very steadfast in his studies and dedicated to his passion for music, a quality I always admire for it usually speaks to a person's caring, sensitivity, and empathy toward others. It does not surprise me that he lived a life dedicated to using that empathy which can often be a hard burden to bear. My sympathies go to those who are no longer blessed with his physical presence, but my hope is that his care for his family lives on and will continue to be felt.

Dez Crawford

May 29, 2022

I live on the West Coast now, so I just heard about this today, more than a month after. I am devastated, and cannot begin to find the right words. Webb, you were an amazing young man and a gift to us all. There are no words for this. Rest in power.

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Norka Malberg

April 8, 2022

I had the pleasure and the honor of knowing and having Webb in my life as a colleague and a friend. Initially, as we both have just arrived to Connecticut, he reached out to me with his usual gentle and kind manner to ask for support in helping youth at risk in a job he had just started in New Haven, Connecticut. Quite quickly, what began like clinical supervision resulted in a friendship built on mutual admiration. I feel lucky to have met Webb and mourn his loss as his presence in my life made me a better person and reminded me of the strength of the human heart. His legacy will continue through the lives of those he helped and loved , many no doubt, as he lived a life of duty and service guided by love , humbleness and hard work.

Debra Hebert

April 1, 2022

I am so sorry for your loss. May God's hands wrap you in his arms and hold on tight.

Mary Jane Wilson Spruel

March 30, 2022

I read Webb's obituary and was so impressed with his giving spirit. It is so good to hear about a person with such a magnitude of caring about others. From what I read, wish he could still be here, but heaven has found another helping hand.

Jill Johnson

March 24, 2022

I remember Webb playing saxophone at the Blue Service at the Unitarian Church.
My heart is with those he left behind.

Judy Harper

March 22, 2022

So sorry to hear this sad news, Holly. So many, including my family, have been touched by suicide, and it's so hard to understand. You and your family will be in my thoughts.

Ricky Parsons

March 21, 2022

I so enjoyed the time I spent with Webb at Carleton. He had such a kind and gentile soul, and my spirits were always uplifted after being around him.

Robin Benton Crutcher

March 18, 2022

Such a kind, dear man with a brilliant mind. He will be missed by so many. My heart is with his family and loved ones now and in the days ahead.

Felicia Leggio Braud

March 17, 2022

Webb will always hold a beloved place in my heart and in my memory, My favorite memory of him was when he was a little boy at University Methodist Preschool. We were outside at the sandbox. Some children wanted help with their sand, and some children wanted to show off their sand creations. Webb played quietly, doing his own thing without, fairly oblivious to what the other children were doing. Far away in the distance, the LSU band started playing... they must've been practicing... and Webb heard it, leapt to his feet and began marching around the sandbox and playing an imaginary drum. He was IN that band for the moment, just living, loving and playing to his heart's content! It was absolutely magical to witness, and it has to be my fondest memory from my time working at the preschool.

The world was better for Webb being here. He was a beautiful human being. Much love to Webb's family. I keep you all in my prayers.
Love,
Felicia

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