Wendell Carroll

Wendell Carroll

Wendell Carroll Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Jun. 8 to Jun. 11, 2007.
CARROLL _ Wendell 1949 - 2007 Wendell Carroll of Calgary passed away on Wednesday, June 6, 2007 at the age of 58 years. "I was told that pancreatic cancer would take me in three to four months. It took twenty months before God decided it was time to give me some peace and came to get me on June 6. The final stages of cancer do not give you a very good existence, so I was ready to see what God had planned next. I had a happy childhood growing up in Selkirk, Manitoba surrounded by my mother, Isabell Carroll, still going strong in Selkirk, sister Anita Carroll, of Selkirk and brothers, George (Carol), of Selkirk, Ken (Louise), of Winnipeg and my "big brother", Ed (Judi) of Brandon. When I married Ilona in 1969, I gained another family as well: Walter and Elsie Stupak of Richmond, BC; Wendy (Keith) Martinsen of Tsawwassen, BC; Kathy (Terry) Miller of Calgary; and Margaret Plett of Ladner, BC. My three sons are my proudest achievement in life, and my granddaughters are my biggest joy in life. My daughters-in-law made all this happen. Kevin and Anita (granddaughters, Kristin, Katrina and Kameryn), Kyle and Denise (granddaughters, Tiana and Taylor), and Kody and Tracy (granddaughter Kaia) all meant so much to me. The best thing that ever happened in my life was Ilona marrying me. We may have had hard times early on but I found I loved her more and more every year until we became inseparable. She was my main architect and she was the one who kept me going with the hated disease. I worked at some great companies with great people: Chrysler Canada, Shell Canada, Dome Petroleum, Bow Valley Industries (with two tours to Jakarta, Indonesia), Fracmaster and TCPL. I tried to use everything I learned during those jobs for the past seven years at Husky Energy. I really enjoyed the Frac Wednesday AM, No-Stars Friday AM, and Mario's Sunday AM hockey teams. You didn't have to be good, you just had to show up! My time spent at my "farm" always rejuvenated me as I proved out that farmer's adage that if you want to make a little money farming, you should start with a lot! For all those things, I am truly thankful and blessed to have had such a full and interesting life! Drs. Ron Young, Jay Easaw, Bill Hall, the late Don Johnston, William Zhao and Ed Harris from Maui all gave me as much hope and help as they could. I thank them. We beat the odds. I also thank Alison Potter, Carol McDonell, Bonnie Stewart, Michelle Duchnitski and Jay Brahmbhatt, the Home Care team that worked so hard to ensure my comfort in my final days." - Wendell Carroll Funeral Services will be held at St. David's United Church (3303 Capitol Hill Crescent N.W.) on Tuesday, June 12, 2007 at 1:00 p.m. Forward condolences through www.mcinnisandholloway.com . If friends so desire, memorial tributes may be made directly to the charity of the donor's choice. In living memory of Wendell a tree will be planted at Fish Creek Provincial Park by McINNIS & HOLLOWAY FUNERAL HOMES, Crowfoot Chapel, 82 CROWFOOT CIRCLE N.W. Telephone: 403-241-0044.

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Janet Smith (nee Moar)

June 21, 2007

I had the priviledge of being a classmate of Wendell at Selkirk Collegiate. He was never afraid to be an advocate for turning things around and making them right. He had a strong sence of values, beliefs and principles and a wonderful sence of humor. He stood out and was a friend to all. The memory of a good person is a blessing. As individuals, I think there is no more difficult time than this to express our true feelings. You are all going to miss him dearly and life will be different for you because of the passing of your loved one. There will be an empty spot that only time and changing circumstance – and the grace of God – can fill. Wendell was such a fine human being - a faithful and dedicated Christian. He had a gift for making people feel loved, respected & valued and was a friend to all. My sincere condolences to your family for your great loss.

Barb & Vern Lewis

June 13, 2007

To the Carroll family:
I was privileged to work for Wendell for a short while at Husky. He was a kind and caring "professional" who valued all of his staff. May the good Lord grant you all, the strength to bear this loss, and know that Wendell himself was a true "miracle worker".

Yours in sorrow,

Diane Pries

June 13, 2007

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

June 12, 2007

To the Carroll family,

I was informed by our staff at the TBCC that Wendell had passed away. I wanted you to know that Wendell fought harder and lived longer than any patient I have treated with this cancer. He was a strong man, kind-hearted and witty. However, my enduring memory of Wendell will, in fact, be of his family. Ilona was always an incredible advocate for her husband and took care of him through some very difficult times. I recall that when he was admitted to my service at the FMC, his sons stayed with him all day and all night to be with him, working in shifts. This is what real love is. Not all of my patients are as fortunate. Wendell was a lucky man to have had such a fantastic family.
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. I sincerely believe he is in a better place.

J. Easaw

Lori Motuzas

June 12, 2007

Ilona & family,

I have had the pleasure of working with Wendell at Husky Energy for some time now. I have been responsible for running the "Husky Charitable Fund" and he was my main contact from our executive during so many of those years. I always received such positive and encouraging words from Wendell because it was his nature to give and help. His giving nature was in everything he did. And he proved to show that over and over again. The staff at Husky will miss him and all that he did for us.

I will miss him in a much deeper way. On Christmas day 2004 I lost my house and everything in it to a house fire. As difficult a thing as that was to go through, I had Wendell on the phone my first day back to work to follow up with me and make sure that I was going to be OK. He contacted my VP and GM and ensured that I was given time to settle my life. I wrote him a note last year to tell him that in that small jesture, he touched my life in such a large way that he could never know. Because of his thoughtfulness, my husband and kids & I got through that difficult time so much easier. My life was better for having known him, and I will forever hold him dear to me and be grateful to him.

My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I am truly sorry for your loss.

Tom and Sharon Graham

June 12, 2007

Dear Ilona and Family - How sad we are having just heard of Wendell's death. We are now recalliing our times spent together - especially those in Hong Kong. Wendell's ability to keep us organized and enthused was instrumental in the "enjoyment" of those trips!
May the memories of the times you shared with Wendall bring you comfort as you grieve for him. Be gentle with yourselves.
Our deepest sympathy,
Tom and Sharon

Penny Myall

June 12, 2007

My condolences to the entire Carroll family from a former Selkirk resident.

Rick Hoff

June 12, 2007

When we were at Bow Valley, I liked to play hockey with Wendell, but I loved playing hockey AGAINST Wendell, especially if it was later in the game and he was back on defence. I was a tad younger than he was, and played regularly, and I always thought I had a great chance to break in alone when he was on the point. Somehow though, he'd always manage to get a stick or a skate or a hand or an elbow on the puck at the most impossible moment. If I did get past him the puck would bounce away from me and end up back with him, usually to be immediately thrown back into harm's way. And on the rare occasion I did get free, he'd compliment me after the play. It took me a few games to realize he was trying to throw me off by being nice to me. That became as distracting as his incredible ability to make the desperation play.

He was the kind of man who could brighten up the darkest moment. It was a ray of sunshine to run into him, even if it was only a hello when passing on the street. It's an honor to know him.

Laurie Hellwig

June 12, 2007

Kevin,
So sorry on your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Nick [Rouslan] Newman

June 12, 2007

Wendell helped my wife and I to get through a difficult crisis back in 2003. For this, I am eternally greatful. Wendell's expressions that helped me get by in life: "It ain't over till it's over" (said while helping his team to get through Fracmaster's bankruptcy), "Just help people" (an advice on how to get ahead in life). Thank you Wendell.

Tan

June 11, 2007

Ilona,

Our sincerest sympathy and condoleances to the extended family. We wish you all the strength to go through these difficult times.

I considered myself very fortunate to have worked with and known Wendell, his wisdom and humor has tremendously impacted my life.

Miming and Eng Hoo

Kim Ralstin

June 11, 2007

To the Carroll Family,

We are so sorry to hear of your loss. May your memories bring you strengh during this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Kim, Paul, Allysa and Marin Ralstin

Max Patel

June 11, 2007

Ilona,

We woud like to extend our deepest sympathies and sincerest condolenses to you and your family. Wendell was a Great Man. He was a Man of Principles, NOT a Yes Man. He was always very fair to all. Kapu and I were very fortunate to have known him from his days at Fracmaster. If there is anything we can do to help, please do not hesitate to ask as we would not miss the opportunity to return the many favours we owe Wendell. May God Bless you and your family and give you strength in these difficult times.

Kapu and Max Patel

Ed Pawluk

June 11, 2007

Growing up in Selkirk with a friend like Wendell, were the greatest moments in my life.He was a friend to all.
My condolences to the Carroll family.

Margaret Wheeler-McFadyen

June 11, 2007

I had the good fortune to work for Wendell at Dome Petroleum. Having him as a boss was the best time of my working life. I will never forget his caring and compassion and all that he taught me. May God comfort all of you at this time. Margaret Wheeler

Lulu Crespo

June 11, 2007

Dear Ilona and family...
Having worked with Wendell as our Social Club Advisor for so many years, was a great time for me. We had lots of fun and I enjoyed his candidness and wit. We exchanged thoughts and ideas and he was quick to pick up on changes I needed for the club...which he generously accepted and implemented. He always had time for me. As well, we exchanged views and opinions on company matters, which was a great opportunity I had. Thank you, Wendell..I will miss you! And to you, Ilona, and the family, may you live in the memories you shared with Wendell and that this be a source of peace for you. I shall remember you all in my prayers. My deepest and sincerest sympathies in the loss of someone so loved. May the Lord bless you all and keep you in His love.

Amish Patel

June 11, 2007

Mr. Carroll was an examplar of being "a class act". He was a great man who never looked down upon anybody and even took the time out of his busy days to help an entry-level kid understand the business world. For that I will be indebted to him forever.

My thoughts and prayers are with Mr. Carroll's family.

I think the following quote summarizes this great man's disposition in life quite well,

"Never look down on anybody unless you're helping him up." - Jesse Jackson

Les Margetak

June 11, 2007

Wendell was a good man and I feel privileged to have known him. My condolences to his family.

Curtis Pixley

June 11, 2007

To the Carroll family,
My heartfelt sympathy for your loss. I see Wendell's proud legacy everyday through his son Kyle. May your fond memories soon overcome your feelings of sorrow.

Bill Sawchuk

June 11, 2007

Kevin,

My thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time. I'm sorry for your loss, but it's good to know your dad was able to fight as long as he did.

Mike & Carrie Berkes (Adam)

June 11, 2007

To the Carroll family,

May God be with all of you in your time of sorrow.

Raimo Keto

June 10, 2007

I have had the pleasure of working with Wendell on two separate occasions, ten years apart, both at great distance; he in Calgary, I in Indonesia. Wendell was one of the truly greats with his good humor and sage advice. He has had an indelible impact on me and my family and I am privileged to have known him.

Linda Leinweber

June 9, 2007

Dear Ilona and family,
Wendall was such a good man. He will be missed by anyone who knew him. You have our deepest sympathy.

Larry & Nancy McDonald

June 9, 2007

Ilona & Family;
I worked with Wendall at Bow Valley and developed a real fondness and respect for him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Natalie Farden

June 9, 2007

Dear Kody, Tracy & Family,

So sorry to hear the news. Our thoughts are with you all during this time.

Natalie, Curtis & Max Kostrosky

June 8, 2007

Kevin, My condolences to you. Myron

Holger Kluge

June 8, 2007

My deepest sympathies to Ilona and her extended family. Some of us were fortunate to have been touched by Wendell's wit, warmth and caring nature. What a wonderful difference one single life made.

Walt & Irene DeBoni

June 8, 2007

Your family should take some comfort from the fact the Wendell left this world a better place than when he entered it because of his good works. He was an amazing individual that we are proud to have known.

Ray & Sue Ference

June 8, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Sheila Thompson

June 8, 2007

Carroll Family

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Keep good faith, hope and strength.

Love Sheila and Sophia Thompson

Colleen Willmer

June 8, 2007

Kyle and Family,
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Our thoughts our with you and we send our deepest sympathy.

Colleen and Heather (Streamline Energy Group)

Don & Suesan Munro

June 8, 2007

I worked with Wendell at Fracmaster and then again at Husky. I feel very blessed and privileged to have had the opportunity to work alongside Wendell. He was a man of integrity,steady and solid even in the face of adversity.
We have lost a truly great man.
My husband and I send our sincerest condolences to the Carroll Family.

Audrey and Jerry Hawthorne

June 8, 2007

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your many memories bring you some comfort through this difficult time. I know Wendell will continue to be a special guardian angel who will continue to watch over all of you.

Bill Robinson

June 8, 2007

I had the very good fortune of working with Wendell albeit only for just over a year after he hired me as Husky's Manager of Human Resources. In that short period of time, however, I learned so much from him. His sage advice and good counsel will always be remembered but more important was his strength of character and his resilency when things seemed to go wrong. He was an inspiration to me personally and will be remembered by many of his friends and associates at Husky. Wendell will be missed by us all but we will always cherish and celebrate the time we had together.

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