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Thomas Fetter Obituary
LIMA -- Thomas R. L. Fetter, 80, passed away at 4:48 am, January 2, 2024 at his residence.
He was born April 23, 1943 in Lima to J. Russell and Grethel Christine (Craig) Fetter who preceded him in death. On March 21, 1964 he married Jeryl (Jerri) Diane (Bahr) Fetter who preceded him in death on February 10, 1995.
Thomas "Tom" Fetter was a man who wore many hats, both figuratively and literally. Tom was a incredibly dedicated farmer who worked diligently to carry on the legacy that his parents, Russell and Grethel, left to him and his brother when they moved to Waynesfield and began farming in 1933. In addition to being a dedicated farmer, he was also a real estate agent with Seiling Real Estate and later became a broker and part-owner of Oakridge Realty, as well as Star Homes. Aside from his work-ethic, Tom was an avid story teller. He enjoyed talking... a lot ! Tom never knew a stranger and never failed to "shoot the breeze" and spark up conversation. He cherished farming with his son(s) and grandsons and bonding with his grandchildren/great-grandchildren. He loved his family dearly and worked timelessly to continue the legacy for his children and their children. Those who love him will miss his generosity, stories, and orneriness. They take comfort and peace in knowing Tom was a man who knew God. They find solace in the knowledge that he is now safe in the loving arms of his wife, Jeryl.
Survivors include: 2 Sons, Thomas R. (Daisy) Fetter of Lawton, OK and Todd M. (Audra) Fetter of Waynesfield; 7 Grandchildren - Kyla Fetter, Kellen (Amanda) Fetter, Keaton (Brynna) Fetter, Kieran (Samantha) Fetter, Hubertine Fetter, Brandon Fetter, and Michael (Megan) Fetter; 13 Great-Grandchildren.
He was preceded in death by: 2 Brothers, Robert (Ellen) Fetter and Russell Ronald Fetter.
Visitation will be from 1:00 PM until 5:00 pm Sunday and from 10:00 am until time of services at 11:00 am Monday at Chiles-Laman Funeral and Cremation Services, Eastside Chapel with Pastor Pam Spencer officiating.
Memorial contributions may be made to New Hampshire Church of the Nazarene.
Condolences may be expressed to the family at www.chiles-lamanfh.com.
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Memories and Condolences
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6 Entries
Alice
January 22, 2024
I met your Dad,May,2022, when I was visiting my Sister who lives near you on Route 196...He was indeed a "storyteller" and super nice...My sincere condolences are with you and your family....
Nancy (Patton) McDonald
January 18, 2024
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Kevin baumgart
January 8, 2024
Tom was a good man , he will be greatly missed by many people, and family, rest in peace .
Pam Butler
January 7, 2024
My Husband Dallas Butler worked at Star Homes setting the home people bought. Tom was a special person. Always stopping by to check on Dallas. Tom will be missed. A great guy.
Corinne Craig-Stolaruk
January 3, 2024
Tom, you were the Rock and Patriarch of the Craig Family. Your sense of humor brought many laughs at our annual Craig Family Reunion. Thanks for being a wonderful Cousin. Rest well with peace my friend, hugs always.
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