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Stephen Joel Berkowitz

1942 - 2009

Stephen Joel Berkowitz obituary, 1942-2009

Stephen Berkowitz Obituary

Stephen Joel Berkowitz, who taught government for over thirty years at both Lodi and Tokay High School, succumbed to illness in the Lodi Memorial Hospital on Wednesday, August 12, 2009. Mr. Berkowitz was widely admired, even beloved, by both this students and his colleagues for his remarkable skill as a teacher, his dedication to his students, and unfailing kindness to all who knew him. Many of his students saw him as not only an excellent teacher but also a mentor and a friend. In his final weeks of life, Steve was in touch with students he had taught as many as forty years ago. A generous man, he contributed to a wide variety of charities from disaster relief to environmental protection.
Steve was born in Oakland, California on April 18, 1942, the only child of Samuel and Mildred Berkowitz. Mrs. Berkowitz was a talented and thoroughly trained pianist of near concert quality. She taught her son to play and instilled in him a long-life enjoyment of classical music. Steve was raised in Oakland and attended public schools there before entering UC, Berkeley in 1959 and completing his political science degree in 1963. He earned a Master's degree in 1964 at CSU Hayward and completed a secondary teaching credential in 1965.
Steve began teaching at Lodi High School in 1966 and retired from Tokay High School in 1998.
Although he was extremely impressive in his interview, both administrators and colleagues were concerned that this gentle, frail-looking man might not command the respect of boisterous teenagers. This worry was soon dispelled. Steve's heart, intellect, and determination to teach soon won the respect of his students and his colleagues. With Maryann Cox, he founded the campus Improvement Association (CIA) through which he encouraged students to accept responsibility and to look for ways of serving their community. In 1983, Steve was the first recipient of the Tokay High School Educator of the Year Award. He grew to love his adopted city, his friends and colleagues, and especially his students. For Steve, teaching was not a job; it was a calling.
Steve's long-time colleague, Jim Peck, observed, "I don't think in the 25 years I taught with him, I ever heard him raise his voice or have a bad word to say about any student or adult. School was his job, his hobby. It was his everything." Nick Perovich, whose experience as Steve's student began a 40-year friendship, commented that "his decency was, and is, contagious." Steve was an especially shrewd observer of the America political scene, who saw current events in historical context and had a keen eye for partisan humbug and sloganeering that obscured deeper issues. These he demolished in his gentle, fair-minded, but thorough manner. Perovich summed up one of Steve's essential qualities, "above all he thought the greatest gift he could give his students was to encourage them to be more reflective, unwilling to accept shallow, insubstantial reasoning, especially in public discourse."
Steve was preceded in death by his beloved parents, Samuel and Mildred.
He is survived by his cousin, Robert Cousins and Robert's wife, Anna, of Walnut Creek; their two daughters, Jennifer and Heather; and Heather's daughter, Allegra.
There will be a private interment service for Steve in Oakland for family members only. However, his friends, colleagues, and students have planned a memorial service for Steve on Saturday, August 29, from 1:00 – 4:00 p.m. in the Tokay High School Cafeteria, which is located at 1111 Century Blvd. in Lodi. The program will include video of Steve, music he loved, and eulogies and remembrances of a remarkable man. Light refreshments will be served.
If you have Steve Berkowitz memorabilia, please bring them with you to share with others who have come to celebrate his life. If you have anecdotes and memories of Steve you would like to share, write them up and email them to Sam Hatch at [email protected].
Instead of sending flowers, we encourage you to donate to the Stephen Berkowitz Scholarship Fund. Make checks payable to: The Stephen Berkowitz Scholarship Fund/Lodi Unified School District. Send your donations to: The Stephen Berkowitz Scholarship Fund c/o Melody Knee, Lodi Unified School District Office, 1305 E. Vine, Lodi CA 95240.

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Published by Lodi-News Sentinel from Aug. 21 to Aug. 28, 2009.

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Eric Johnston

September 10, 2009

This year marks the 20th anniversary of my graduation from Tokay High, and while I recall many of the teachers and faculty Mr. Berkowitz stands out as an icon among them.

Physically, he was often towered over by his students, but there was never any question as to the magnitude or strength of his intellect. He treated students with respect (consistently referring to me as 'Mr. Johnston'), and made what could easily have been a boring, must-do class engaging and interesting.

Often it is only decades later that the true impact of our teachers is realized, and in his passing the knowledge gained in Mr. Berkowitz's class is appreciated even more.

Aaron Shreve

September 8, 2009

Because of Steve Berkowitz I learned what the word, "discombobulated" means. He accused us of being that from time to time. Maybe we didn't always realize what a treasure of a teacher we had at the time. When I think of anything having to do with politics that I've learned, it is through the lens of introduction that he provided us. It was clear that he loved his subject matter, and if he didn't love us, he at least respected us. I'm sorry I never got to tell him that I became a teacher, but it turns out my mom told him I was when she ran into him at a recent memorial service. She said he smiled the smile of a vindicated man. Was I that bad? Wherever you are Steve Berkowitz, thanks for everything! Sorry if any of us made it harder to do your job. We only did it out of affection. I recognize that now from the receiving end. Rest now in peace. Tokay Class of '91.

Eric Gschweng

September 1, 2009

I am deeply saddened to learn of Mr. Berkowitz's passing. His energetic teaching style and ability to get everyone interested in economics, even those less than thrilled to be in an econ class, are some of my fondest memories of my senior year at Tokay. As evidenced by this guestbook, he influenced so many students in a positive way. He will truly be missed.

James Bennett

August 31, 2009

Mr. Berkowitz was one of those instructors who made a lasting impression on his students. He did in my life. I am sorry to hear of his passing, but am thankful that I had the opportunity to have Steve as an instructor.

August 28, 2009

In 1968, I was one of the students in Steve Berkowitz’s Government Honors class. From the first day of class, Steve challenged us and gave us the benefit of the respect that most high school students want but do not get. Whenever he cocked his head and pronounced his signature “Well..”, he would make us part of the intellectual process with patience and grace. There was never a putdown or a derisive comment from him, although I do recall an occasional rueful shake of the head.
Steve challenged us to perform the equivalent of a college class workload. Like all good teachers, he made it interesting and engaged us, but also made us work hard. I recall blowing off preparation for a quiz, which resulted in a C+, followed by a concerned inquiry about my performance. Not a putdown, not a crack, but a sincere inquiry about why I shined it on. I learned that there were no free passes from those who care about you from that experience.
I appreciate the fact that Steve respected us and respected the material he taught. There was never a snide remark about the quality of an author’s work or a student’s reaction to it. There was no ranking or gradation of thought, nor ideological positioning from him.
After graduating from high school, college, and law school, I eventually made it back to reunions of my class. I always ended up talking with Steve about my career and family, as well as news of classmates. He always expressed his neverending faith in and support for our class, which he repeatedly deemed “the brightest class ever”. I will miss him and will cherish his memory.

Edward F. Mills

nancy (papais) brownlow

August 28, 2009

Today I suffer the regret that I never tried to contact Stephen Berkowitz after graduating from Lodi High in 1971 to tell him how much it meant to me to have him for a teacher. So, I will try to make up for this by writing here that he was by far the most dedicated and compassionate teacher I ever had. He was beyond intelligent and structured his classes to give everyone the opportunity to succeed, while still expecting a high level of acheivement from all of us. His enthusiasm and cheerfulness was a daily reminder that life could be good(even in high school). However, his greatest gift may have been his kindness and integrity in his approach to everyone. He always seemed to be saying "I know you are taking the high road". He sure always did. Thank-you for all of this Mr.Berkowitz.

Brad Louie

August 27, 2009

It seems that many remember Mr. Berkowitz very fondly...and he remembered us! Years after graduation he would greet me with a comfortable familiarity and ask about the family.
His special gifts made him one of the best educators ever. He lives on through all he touched.

Dana Dobrow-Curtis

August 27, 2009

Mr. Berkowitz was not only a great teacher but a true mentor encouraging his students to reach their highest potential. He is greatly appreciated and will be sadly missed.

Sheri Didreckson

August 27, 2009

I personally feel very blessed to have had the pleasure of knowing Stephen. He was a customer of ours at Sheri's Sonshine Nutrition Center and more importantly a friend. We talked a lot about teachers and students. I used to joke with him that I got jipped because I didn't get to experience him as a teacher, but I did get to know him as a friend. He always and I mean always was dressed up in a suit and tie. I used to always joke with him that just one time I would like to see him "dress down" instead of "dressed up." I had that chance because while he was at Fairmont Rehab (my mother was there before she passed away) I finally got to see him in sweats. We both had a great big laugh. His smile and zest for life was wonderful. He will be missed, but never forgotten. He was a very loving and caring individual and I really enjoyed learning from all of his experiences. I pray that God has a very, very special place for him in heaven.

Lynette Simi-Manieri

August 26, 2009

Teaching the noblest profession. How wonderful to have been graced by such a man. Now a teacher myself I can only wonder how we can measure up.

Rex Treece

August 26, 2009

Out of a hand full of teachers at Tokay who prepared me for my college days , Mr Berkowitz was way out in front . You will be missed ! Looking forward to seeing you on the other side .

Ken Hill

August 26, 2009

Indeed, teaching was his calling.
He was an inspiring teacher and a wonderful person who will be missed by
all who knew him.

Lorna Louie, a parent

August 25, 2009

Mr. Berkowitz was a very kind, caring, and gentle person who remembered the qualities of all my children. His face would light up in recognition each time he saw me and he would ask about each one. He had a positive influence on his students and will be fondly remembered by many whose lives he touched.

Kimberly Gates

August 24, 2009

Mr. Berkowitz was one of my favorite teachers. He pushed me to go above and beyond.I receieved a couple of local awards because of Mr. Berkowitz's devotion to teaching and believing is his students.

Bob Lauchland

August 24, 2009

I was lucky to have several teachers who made a significant impact on my life. Mr Berkowitz is at the top of the list. I went on to get degrees in economics and political science as a result of my introduction to these subjects in his classes. Even the most obnoxious of us seniors just didn't have the heart to make trouble in his classes. You could tell he sincerely cared about teaching. He treated his students with respect and a high degree of expectation.
Mr Berkowitz put together a "college back to school" event each year to encourage his students to work towards attending college. I went to one event to talk about my school and found the evening also had the effect of motivating those of us who had graduated as Mr Berkowitz warmly greeted us and listened to our experiences.
I and so many others are fortunate to have had him as a teacher and I know God is warmly welcoming him now.

Janie Hickok Siess, Esq.

August 24, 2009

Mr. Berkowitz was the kind of teacher that you don't truly come to appreciate until years after high school ends. Of course I enjoyed his govt. class as a senior at Tokay High (old campus) and learned much from him. But only as an adult, having made it through grad. school and the classrooms of many teachers whose talent and dedication paled in comparison, raising children of my own and interacting with their teachers, did I truly comprehend and look back with gratitude upon those days listening to Mr. Berkowitz explain the workings of the U.S. system of government to me. He was quiet, reflective, and insightful. And he commanded the classroom. Even the rowdiest kids respected him and behaved in response to his demeanor. I consider it an honor to have been one of his students and will continue to remember him fondly.

Bev Lacy

August 22, 2009

Steve will be missed by his Tokay High Family. I worked with him for several years and found him to be an excellent teacher and a true gentleman. His colleagues were his extended family and have been there in his time of need. He was suffering the past couple of years and now he is at peace. I am sure he is teaching the angels a government class.

Daniel Mutch

August 22, 2009

All the comments I read lately in the News Sentinel about Steve's very unique, special teaching talent are so true. I taught at Tokay High (One year at East Campus) primarily during the 70's, and found Steve to be genuine, compassionate, combined with an excellent background in political science and economics, which he taught with great integrity. When I came to East Campus, in 1971, from the Senior Elementary,Steve was the guy who was so easily approachable, and willing to lend a helping hand, and certainly not condesending: I saw him as an highly intelligent, well versed individual, yet willing to listen and help in way possible.
May you rest in peace, Steve.

Gail (Brothers) Floyd

August 22, 2009

fine teacher. who really cared about his students.

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