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1971

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2013

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Christopher Bencivenga Obituary

Bencivenga, Christopher J.

Christopher J. Bencivenga of Croton-on-Hudson, NY, passed away on Tuesday, November 19, 2013. He was 42 years old.

He is survived by his beloved parents, Joseph V. and Ellen (Pierno) Bencivenga; loving children, Liliana and Robert (by former spouse Jennifer Maxwell) and Alexander Bencivenga (by his loving girlfriend, Sabrina Silverman); caring brothers and sisters, Joseph W. (Heather) and David Bencivenga, Debra Dempson (Craig), Laura Drezek (Jeff) and Dawn Perry (Robert).

Visitation will be held on Friday, November 22, 2013 from 4pm to 8pm at the GOOD SHEPHERD CHAPEL, 49 Young Ave., Croton-on-Hudson, NY. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:00 am on Saturday, November 23rd at Holy Name of Mary Church, 110 Grand St., Croton-on-Hudson. Burial will follow at Bethel Cemetery also in Croton.

For further information or to express your condolences online, please visit: www.efcarterfuneralhome.com.

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Published by The Journal News on Nov. 21, 2013.

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December 13, 2013

How sad I was to read of Chris' death. Prayers for all who will miss him so deeply. Fr Jack

December 5, 2013

From all his Fraternity brothers from TKE at Lenoir-Rhyne University...we are saddened by this news. Thoughts and Prayers to all.

Stu Rowland

Kathy & Alex Buonomo

November 27, 2013

We are in total shock. Hope you are doing okay. Our prayers are with you and your family. Love , Kathy & Alex

Alexander Family

November 26, 2013

Our deepest condolences to all of Chris' family throughout this difficult time. May God continue to guide you. Our family continues to keep you in our prayers.

Denise Diehl

November 25, 2013

I offer up heartfelt prayers for the entire family at this time of saddness . His mass was a beautiful tribute to him surrounded by so many who loved him. Peace to all

Chris Caliento

November 25, 2013

My deepest condolences go out out to the entire Bencivenga family. I was extremely saddened to hear of your loss and my thoughts and prayers are with you. May good thoughts of Chris and memories of family times remain close to your heart. My Mom also asked me to pass along her love and her heartfelt condolences you all.

Christopher Saxe

November 25, 2013

So shocked and saddened to hear about Chris. My deepest condolences his friends and to the Bencivenga family.

Margaret Shannon

November 24, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Bencivenga family. We are truly sorry for your loss. May happy memories of Chris bring you joy and peace during this difficult time. With our deepest sympathy,
Rose Caliento and Joe and Margaret (Caliento) Shannon

November 23, 2013

Good night my brother. Your smile will always lift my spirits. Please watch over us and keep us smiling.

November 23, 2013

Extremely sad to hear of the loss to the Bencivenga Family. We will join others in prayer for Chris and family. God be with you.

Bob and Sarah ( Phoenix, AZ)

Jim Spinelli

November 23, 2013

My deepest condolences go out to the Bencivenga family. I have many great memories of Chris and I growing up together. From play dates at Holy Name of Mary after First Friday Mass to our time at CHHS. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Craig and Christine Divney

November 23, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers are with everyone in the Bencivenga family...we are deeply sorry for your loss.

Joe Jensen

November 22, 2013

I have many warm memories of Chris. He always had a big smile that was contagious. Rest in peace "Benzo". My prayers and thoughts are with the family.
Sincerely,
Joe Jensen

Phillip Provost

November 22, 2013

Extremely sad to hear about Chris. His enthusiasm and incredible energy captivated all who knew and met him. He was a great classmate at CHHS and loved by all. Our prayers and loving thoughts go out to his children and family. You will be missed Benzo!!

Matty Ehlberg sr

November 22, 2013

Sorry to hear about Chris,may god bless you and joe and your family on this loss.

Tamara Bagen (Geradi)

November 22, 2013

My thoughts are with you during this time. May God bless you all.

November 22, 2013

Dan Gingold

November 22, 2013

So sorry to hear about Chris...Benzo was a great guy and a terrific teammate.

November 22, 2013

He was a man who was able to light up a room just by entering. Have not seen him in 15 years and still love him and will miss him. T.C.

November 22, 2013

We will always remember Chris "Benzo" with great fondness.
The Edell's in Florida

Jerry Gentile

November 22, 2013

My prayers are with all of you.

Mary Fish Nitzberg

November 22, 2013

May he always sleep on the wings of an angel

Freda

November 22, 2013

Dear Debbie & Craig,

My thoughts and prayers go out to you at this difficult time. I pray that Jehovah will provide lasting comfort for your family. (Isaiah 25:8, 9)

With heartfelt love and sympathy,

Jennifer (Moore) Kucera

November 21, 2013

I went to grade school with Chris and still after all these years can remember his huge, beautiful smile and laugh that would always send our entire class into a cheerful mood. My heart reaches out to the Bencivenga family during this difficult time.

Julie Nogueira

November 21, 2013

Our family has lost a fun-loving, gentle soul and will never be quite the same. Rest peacefully, Chris. Love to my aunts, uncles and cousins during this most difficult time.

- Julie, Jay, Jack, Ryan & Bennett Nogueira

bill cavanaugh

November 21, 2013

Love Bennie. Worked with him @ Fairfield Financial. Spent much quality time with him. Great guy and will be missed.

November 21, 2013

We were so sad to hear about Chris's death. Our prayers are with you all.
Kathryn & Joe Sicuranza
Calabash, NC

Jeni (Davidson) Harris

November 21, 2013

So sad to hear of Chris' passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time!

November 21, 2013

Ellen, my heart broke when I heard from Renee about the loss of your beloved Chris. Be assured our prayers are with you, Joe and the entire family. I know your memories, strength and faith will see you through. Love, Lois and Abdul

November 21, 2013

I am so sad for all of you. I remember Chris dearly. May the beautiful memories you treasure of him console you and bring you peace. With love and prayers,
Jeannette Gabrillargues

Patrice Johnson (Monaghan)

November 21, 2013

Thinking of Chris and the entire family today and always! His adorable smile and gentleness will be missed by all who knew him. I have the fondest memories hanging at at the Bencivenga home surrounded by love and laughs - all of which Chris added to. Xxxxx

November 21, 2013

We were heartbroken to hear of Chris's death. We send all our love and support to Joseph, our friend, and to the entire family. There is nothing worse in life than losing a son and brother.We are sorry not to be able to be with you on Saturday, since we are out of town.

Noah and Ervine Kimerling

November 21, 2013

Words cannot express the deep sorrow Pauline and I have upon learning of the passing of your beloved son, Christopher. Our love, thoughts and prayers are with you always. Jerry and Pauline Campiglia.

Danny Moore

November 21, 2013

"If you're lucky, you come across a handful of people that make you smile or laugh every time you see them. Chris was and always will be one of those rare few."

Paula LaDeau

November 21, 2013

My heart goes out to the entire family. I am so sorry for your loss. I have very fond memories of Chris.

Jason Gellman

November 21, 2013

My thoughts and prayers go out to all of Chris's family and friends. I will always have fond memories of Chris; he was a great guy who I remember as having an upbeat personality and a knack for putting people in a good mood. He will be missed. I am very sorry for this loss and extend my deepest condolences to the Bencivenga family.

Lorraine Kelly

November 21, 2013

We are so sorry to hear that Chris has passed away. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this very sad time. Joe, Lorraine, Ted and Susan Kelly

November 21, 2013

Dear Ellen and Joe,
I am so sad to hear of Christopher's death. May God keep you and your family in his arms.
Pat DeNota (HNM)

Karen and Ed Nocella

November 21, 2013

We are saddened to hear about Chris. Our thoughts. And prayers are with you.

Jenny Nocella - Dugan

November 21, 2013

with a heavy heart I write this, I am so sorry for you loss

Bobby Sabharwal

November 21, 2013

David Bencivenga, May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow and give you the strength to bear the loss.

Debbie, Joe, Emmalia & Gunther Jensen

November 21, 2013

We are shocked and saddened to hear of Chris' death. Our thoughts and prayers are with the whole family and deepest sympathies during this sorrowful time.

Wendy Molloy

November 21, 2013

My deepest condolences and heartfelt sympathies go out to David and the Bencivenga family. You are all in our prayers. Our family joins yours in your pain and loss. -Wendy Molloy and Molloy family. (wife of William Molloy, David's co-worker)

elizabeth christian

November 21, 2013

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

November 21, 2013

The Wintermeier family is grief stricken at this latest tragedy and send our heartfelt sympathies. God bless your family in your time of need.

Diane and Bob

Krista Cassaniti

November 21, 2013

Heaven is a brighter place with Chris there. May he dance and sing with all those we love looking down on us... Lee, John, Terry, Albert, Jimmy and dear Michael. Most people journey thru life not knowing the strength of love that Ellen and Joe provide their beautiful family every day. May our memories and faith guide us each day forward. Our hearts are with you all. Krista, Frank & Dominic xoxo

Suzanne Frank

November 21, 2013

My deepest condolences to my cousin Ellen, her husband Joe and to all of their family. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time.

November 21, 2013

All of us Moriarty's are heartbroken. Your family has been in our lives forever. May Chris in the arms of God. Mary

Beatrice Nikitopoulos

November 21, 2013

My thoughts and prayers are with whole family. Love you all.

Meyer Family

November 21, 2013

Our condolences to the Lily and Robert. Our daughter has grown up with them and we are so sorry for their loss. Our prayers also to Mr. and Mrs. B and all his siblings.
Diana, Rob, and Julia Meyer

Cathy Connolly Caputo

November 20, 2013

We are so saddened by the news of Chris passing. Our thoughts and prayers go out to his family and loved ones.
Chris had a big warm smile when he greeted you and that is how he will be remembered.

Our sincere condolences,
Cathy and Jimmy Caputo

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