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Abbatecola, Vincent

Vincent J. Abbatecola, 92 of Pearl River, passed away peacefully on June 4 at the Joe Raso Hospice Residence in New City, NY.

Vincent was born in Maspeth, NY on October 10, 1920 to Lena and Saverio Abbatecola. He attended Newtown High School and married Marie Arietta on September 24, 1944. Vincent was in the block and packaged ice business his entire life; first with his father on Long Island, then operating Abbey Ice & Spring Water in Spring Valley, NY until his retirement. He was tremendously proud to be an Honorary Member of the Columbian Fire Engine Co. in Spring Valley.

Vincent is predeceased by his parents, sister Louise Larocca and brother Joseph.

Vincent was loved greatly by all who survive him: his wife of 68 years Marie, his daughter Janet O'Toole (William), son Vincent (Bernadette), grandchildren Annie Donovan (Patrick), Katie, Brian, Matthew O'Toole (Joanna), Vincent and Michael Abbatecola, great-grandchildren Erin and Tara O'Toole. Vinnie loved them all dearly and will be sorely missed.

In lieu of flowers, the Abbatecola family would like to thank and request donations be made to either of the two organizations whose compassion and skilled members provided extraordinary care and comfort to Vincent: Nyack Hospital and United Hospice of Rockland. The family is deeply grateful to both.

Visiting at Assumma-Shankey Funeral Home on Thursday from 7-9 p.m. and Friday from 2-4 p.m. and 7-9 p.m. A funeral mass will be celebrated on Saturday at 10:30 a.m. in the Ascension Cemetery Chapel with the burial thereafter.

Assumma-Shankey

Funeral Home

34 N. Summit Street

Pearl River, NY 10965

(845) 735-4849

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Published by The Journal News on Jun. 6, 2013.

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June 8, 2013

May the family experience God's comfort during this time of loss.
Psalm 147:3.

Vin Crapanzano

June 7, 2013

Dear Friends:

92 years making the world a better place. Our condolences and our gratitude for the impact your entire family has had on the Rockland County Community.

Vin, Sandy, Dan, Bella & Nick

June 7, 2013

Marie, Vinny and family,
So sorry about Vincent. He will be missed by all.
Art & Rose Manion

peter nash

June 6, 2013

vinny,and family I am so sorry for your loss.pop was a great man and I learned a lot from him he will be missed.my thoughts and prayers for all

louis martorella

June 6, 2013

Dear Marie, son Vincent and family, Deepest sympathy and warm regards. Louis A Martorella MD

June 6, 2013

Dear Vinny and family, Warm regards and deepest sympathy. Louis A Martorella MD. N Venice FL

June 6, 2013

Hey Pop
Hope they have good Red wine, Liverwurst & Onion sandwiches and Hersey candybars for you! Now you have as much as you like.

Tracy Spilker

June 6, 2013

Anne - I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family

June 6, 2013

Mrs.Abbatecola, Janet,Vinny, and family,
Deepest sympathieson the death of Mr. Abbatecola. All will be remembered at Mass.
Fr. Frank Samoylo

June 6, 2013

Dear Vinny and Family-Bonnie and I send our condolences on the loss of your Father. Both Tonya and Kristin extend their sympathy as well.

"When someone you love becomes a memory-The memory becomes a treasure!"-

Bonnie & Marty

Joe Sutherland

June 6, 2013

Janet - So sorry for your loss. We were classmates at Dayton - grew up in Bear Mountain. Joe

Debbie Sposato

June 6, 2013

Dear Vinny and Family - My deepest sympathy on the loss of your dad. He was a very special man.

June 5, 2013

Mrs.Abbatecola, Janet,& Vinny, please accept my condolences in behalf of your husband & father. I will remember his sweet smile, & twinkling eyes!How fortunate you were to have shared so many years with him. Lisa Scarpulla Golemba

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34 N. Summit Ave., Pearl River, NY 10965

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