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Gregory Cox Obituary

Gregory T. Cox
Gregory T. Cox, age 49, passed away on Monday, December 5 in Bellevue, Washington. 
  Greg was born in Lompoc on April 25, 1962 and was the son of Terrill and Lorraine Cox.  He attended Lompoc elementary schools, Vandenberg Middle School and graduated from Cabrillo High School in 1980.  He was co-valedictorian of his class, student body president and a varsity letterman in basketball and golf.  He was a member of the Cabrillo basketball team that won the CIF championship in 1979.  In his senior year, he was captain of the golf team and all league.
  Greg enjoyed sports from an early age, playing on little league teams in basketball and baseball. He also enjoyed playing golf.  In the fourth grade, he started attending John Wooden's basketball camps.  He learned from Coach Wooden "that success is peace of mind, which is a direct result of self-satisfaction in knowing that you did your best to become the best that you are capable of becoming."  Greg adopted this philosophy for his life and applied these principles to sports, academics and work.
  He attended Stanford University and graduated in 1984 with an A.B. in political science and economics with distinction and honors.  He was Phi Beta Kappa; President, Stanford Chapter Pi Sigma Alpha (National Political Science Honor Society); wrote his Honors Thesis "A Cold Look at the Nuclear Freeze Initiative: an Analysis from an Arms Control Perspective" with Dr. Condoleeza Rice as his Advisor.  Greg joined Kappa Sigma fraternity and greatly appreciated the parties.  He was on the fraternity's intermural teams that competed in football, basketball and golf.    
  While attending Stanford, he spent a fall semester at Oxford University (the Queen's College).  In the summer of 1982, he interned for Congressman Robert L. Lagomarsino (R) in Washington DC, and the following summer of 1983, he was a foreign policy intern for Senator Edward M. Kennedy (D).
  After graduation, he applied to law schools and was accepted by Stanford, Harvard and Yale.  He also applied to Graduate Business Schools and was accepted by Stanford and Harvard.  He graduated in 1988 with a Juris Doctor degree from Stanford Law School and an MBA from Stanford Graduate School of Business.
  Greg became a Corporate Attorney working for prominent law firms in Orange County.  He purchased a condo and became a member of Big Canyon Country Club where he played golf as much as possible.
  In 1994, he became a corporate and securities lawyer for Wilson, Sonsini, Goodrich and Rosati at their headquarters in Palo Alto, which is considered to be the most prominent law firm in Silicon Valley.  He worked almost exclusively with venture-backed emerging growth companies, venture capital firms and leading-edge public IT companies.  He had extensive experience in venture capital financings, mergers and acquisitions.  Greg found that he most enjoyed taking on start-up companies...some that started in a garage and in time were listed on NASDAQ or the New York Stock Exchange.
  In 1999, he became a partner in the venture capital private equity arm of a Midwest-based Fortune 500 Company.  He analyzed and considered venture investments in hundreds of emerging-growth companies across several sectors including the internet, communications, healthcare, enterprise software, energy, network security and consumer retail.
  Greg continued his love for sports and enjoyed playing golf, fly fishing and watching football and basketball games.  He and some of his fraternity brothers have season tickets to all of the Stanford home football and basketball games.  Greg was looking forward to attending the Fiesta Bowl. 
  When time allowed, Greg enjoyed travelling to many parts of the world.  He was always interested in the cultures and history of countries different than ours.  He met many interesting people along the way.  He became our travel agent and attended to every detail.  He joined us in 2010 on our 50th wedding anniversary cruise to the fjords of Norway.
  Those who knew him well remember Greg as a loyal and faithful friend with great compassion and a good sense of humor. 
  He continued in the Venture Capital/Private Equity field in Seattle until his untimely death.
  He is survived by his parents, Terrill and Lorraine Cox; his uncle Dr. Alan Bleier and his Aunt Barbara Bleier of Encino; his cousins Dr. Steven Bleier and his wife Mary Rose, their children Ryan, Brendan and Kevin of Westlake Village; Kimberly Doder and her husband Peter, their children Nicholas and Victoria of Westlake Village and Kristen Bleier of Sherman Oaks.
  Greg was a very loving and dedicated son and will be greatly missed by his parents, his uncle and aunt and cousins and their children, and his many friends.
  A memorial service will be held on Saturday, December 17 at 1:00 PM at Starbuck-Lind Mortuary, 123 North A Street, Lompoc.
  In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the American Heart Association, P.O. Box 636,
Santa Barbara, CA  93102
  Arrangements are in the care of Starbuck-Lind Mortuary. www.starbucklind.com

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Published by Lompoc Record on Dec. 15, 2011.

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Kathy Pogue

December 8, 2025

Resting in peace....

Laurine Elizabeth Vreeland

March 30, 2025

Greg was my first love. I was always honored by our interactions. I've always wondered where he was... And now I know. It hurts my heart. I'm sure you're still does. I often refer to the time that we went to the theatre in Solvang where we watched a beautiful Shakespeare performance. I had never studied this particular play and tried to not be an idiot about its meaning. Greg as always was a gentleman and never questioned me about my level of understanding. It was just lovely being with him. It was always wonderful being with him.

Kathy Pogue

December 8, 2023

Condolences and prayers to you, Lorraine. It just doesn't seem to get any easier. Thinking about you, today.

Kathy Pogue

December 8, 2022

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Kathy Pogue

December 8, 2020

My condolences to you, Lorraine.

Birgitte Nowlan

December 30, 2011

Dear Mr. & Mrs. Cox,

I worked with Greg at WSGR, as his secretary. I have fond memories of him as my boss and friend. He had a great sense of humor and was always very kind. I remember his love of travel and sports, and especially his closeness to his family.
I am so sorry for your loss and will keep your family in my prayers.

Frances Sharpe

December 24, 2011

It is not often that one has such strong memories of those we know peripherally from our youth. Greg was and is someone who leaves a mark on all those with whom he came in contact. My deepest condolences to the Cox family. Stars that shine the brightest fade all too soon.

John Eum

December 21, 2011

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Cox,
I went to school with Greg from Kindergarten to high school graduation even when he went to Miguelito. I will miss my friend and classmate. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Betty Williams Brunasso

December 21, 2011

From the Williams family, your old neighbors in Lompoc. So very sorry for the lose of your wonderful son. We will always remember the good old days when all the boys in the neighborhood played and teased each other.

Smitha Ayyar

December 20, 2011

Dear TC and Lorraine -

Words cannot express how sorry I am for your loss. My deepest condolences to you both.

With much love
Smitha and family

Jamie Burns

December 19, 2011

I went to school with Greg from fourth grade on, starting at Miguelito with Mrs. Wagner. I always knew he would go on to do great things. I am sorry that I lost touch with him after high school. My sincere condolences to his family.

Andrew Paretti

December 18, 2011

From the Paretti's. I knew Greg well, as we both played basketball at Cabrillo High School. Although I was a year younger than Greg, I always looked up to him with great admiration for the dignity and grace in which he carried himself. He had great respect for all his peers, many of whom were his close friends. It comes at no surprise of the many accomplishments and successes Greg achieved in his brief life. May we all be as successful, honorable, respected, and admired as Greg. God Bless to the Cox family and those who he truly touched. We are very lucky to have known him.

Greg Cox holding the Bill that Congressman Lagomarsino introduced to a committee.

Jerry Valencia

December 18, 2011

The official photo with Congressman Bob

Jerry Valencia

December 18, 2011

The Congressional Interns with Congressman Robert J. Lagomarsino

Jerry Valencia

December 18, 2011

Greg Cox, Hugh Ralston (of Ralston Purina), Jerry Valencia, Monty Roberts (of "Flag Is Up Farms" and son of "The Horse Whisperer"), Jean, and Monty

Jerry Valencia

December 18, 2011

Delese Dittmar

December 18, 2011

From the Dittmar's - I remember Greg being a great friend to our family....Sincerely, Delese

Michael Riley

December 17, 2011

I would like to express my condolences to the Fox family. I knew of Greg very little but to know that he enjoyed the game of Golf. May Greg rest in peace.

New Year's Eve dinner ~ December 31, 2005. A very special evening which I'll cherish forever.

Dawn Williams

December 17, 2011

Lorraine and Terrill, you raised an honorable, loving, caring man... and a dear friend to many. Greg has been my friend since 7th grade, and no words can describe how much I'll miss him. I'll dearly miss his phone calls and letters where we could have the most lengthy of serious discussions… yet with that witty humor Greg was a master of he could also have me bursting out into uncontrollable laughter at the drop of a hat.

Greg spoke so highly of you both, and often. He loved you proudly and deeply. My heart is with you in this time of loss and grief. I will be in town December 22-30. Anything I can do, anything you need, please call me.

John Burri

December 17, 2011

I add my voice to the chorus of condolences. I have fond memories of Greg from elementary school. I wish for peace and strength for his family.

Steve Munoz

December 17, 2011

Greg I met you in the fourth grade and I knew Then you were going to be successful. You will be missed by many

Robert Mott

December 17, 2011

I was fortunate enough to have grown up with Greg since the third grade. As others have noted, he was a giant of an individual -- academically, personally and later, professionally. Greg accomplished more by the time he finished 8th grade than many adults will in their entire lives. But he didn't stop there. Achievements and accolades aside I remember Greg's smile. His warmth and loyalty. His snappy, sometimes dry wit. His competitiveness -- which toward me, seemed often to be married with mischievousness. His graciousness. And of course, his well-practiced "Pugsly Vandercox the Third" voice. (He could have enjoyed a fine voice over career ;-). In the end, my world was richer -- and by bar raised higher -- by having known Greg so well in my formative years. My heart goes out to Judge and Mrs. Cox and I pray that you will be able to celebrate Greg's life with the fondest of memories, knowing that he DID make a difference in this world.

Paul Lariviere

December 17, 2011

You and Greg will be in my prayers. He was a brother at Stanford and a fine man. May your loving memories of his activities and care for you carry you through this sad time.

American Heart Association

December 17, 2011

May your memories of the wonderful times you shared with your loved one comfort you and your family, today and always.

Kathy Pogue

December 16, 2011

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your son. We at the YMCA are keeping you and your family in our thoughts and prayers. My deepest condolences.

Marc & Janis Wilkerson

December 16, 2011

Dear Terrill and Family,We pray that you find comfort in the word of God.May your beautiful memories sustain you during this time of sorrow

Cindy McCall

December 16, 2011

My thoughts and prayers are with you along with praise for raising such an outstanding young man. Greg's accomplishments and enthusiasm for life are a testament to your son.

Jim Hobart

December 16, 2011

Greg was a very dear childhood friend who did great things in the world as we all knew he would. My thoughts and prayers are with him, Terrill and Lorraine during this tragic time. Knowing Greg, I'm sure he lived more in his short 49 years than most people could live in a 100...

Jim and Charlotte Lowsley

December 16, 2011

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Andrew Hayes

December 16, 2011

My thoughts and prayer go out to all of his family members. May the gentle hands of God guide and comfort you through these times. The Cabrillo cummunity stand strong with you, God Bless

Eugene Stevens

December 15, 2011

Dear Terill, the death of your son is so tragic. What a terrible situation to deal with. So sorry for you, your family and Gregory's friends. May god bless him and may his death take him into heaven.

God bless you, Lorraine and other members of your family.

Long time friend Gene Stevens

Rick Escobedo

December 15, 2011

My visiting Mom brought me a copy of the paper. I was speechless. I always felt connected with Greg. Since 4th grade, our paths were similar in that we both pursued careers in law. Greg was always the one person that I would have loved to spend time with and to share our life's stories. It was my birthday today, but I spent the entire day thinking of him. I made it to 50, but tragically a brillant life was cut short. Mr. and Mrs. Cox, you raised a wonderful son.

Rick Escobedo

December 15, 2011

My visiting Mom gave me the news today. I always felt connected to Greg as I too became an attorney. Although we practice in different areas, he was one person that I always wanted to see again and spend time with. It was my birthday today but I spent the day thinking of him. A very shiny star was lost. Mr. and Mrs. Cox, you raised a wonderful son.

Christine (Watson) Henes

December 15, 2011

I graduated high school with Greg in 1980 and I am truly sorry to hear of Greg's unexpected passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. Although it's difficult today to see beyond the sorrow, May your memories of Greg help comfort you both in the days to come.

Dulcie Sinn

December 15, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. There are no words that could express how deeply saddened we were to hear of your loss. May you find comfort in the outpouring of care and love from your friends and those who knew Greg. He will be missed. Sincerely,

Russell Brown

December 15, 2011

My heart goes out to Gregs Family, I didn't know Greg well but was always impressed with Gregs academic achievements, now I see he has made a positive difference in his life time. God Bless the Cox Family.

December 15, 2011

My prayers are with the Cox Family. Greg was a blessing to anyone who came in contact with him. His character and goal driven attitude is what I remember the most. He had a quiet gentle spirit yet a sense of humor. He will be missed but never forgotten. Sincerely, Dorthea Marie Hutchinson-Gibson, Shreveport. Louisiana (Formerly Lompoc, California)

Tracey Henry

December 15, 2011

I am so sorry to hear of Greg passing away. Terrill and Lorraine, you are in my heart and prayers.

Brian LaMay

December 15, 2011

It's awe-inspiring yet unsurprising to read Greg's bio; one wouldn't have expected much less from such a brilliant, tireless lover of learning. His academic zeal and productivity belied a friendly, playful demeanor. He was a copious note-taker, a pensive problem solver, a chit-chatter, a jokester and a belly-laugher all in one. In short, he struck a great balance between work and play -- apparently even till the end. Glad he squeezed a lot of life out of those 49 years; can't help but feel sad he won't have 49 more to pad that formidable resume. So long, Greg. Honored to have known and spent time with you.

Kip Sharpe

December 14, 2011

Sorry to hear of Greg's untimely death. My thoughts and prayers are with the Cox family.

Shawn Turner

December 14, 2011

We keep Greg, Mr. and Mrs. Cox and his family and friends in our prayers. Words won't do to ease the loss of someone who achieved so much, and whose reach exceeded his grasp, always. I'm sorry for time not spent in each other's company.

Telonia-Larkin Downey

December 14, 2011

May God Bless and keep the Cox family strong. Thoughts and Prayers are with you all.

Michael Piskos

December 14, 2011

I knew Greg during High School. Though we didn't have that much interaction other that some mutual classes, I admired his achievements, which from reading his obituary, carried on throughout his life. Truly saddened to hear of his unexpected passing.

Franklin Washington

December 14, 2011

Lost contact of Greg when we graduated from high school. He and I played on the basketball team together even on the 1979 team. It was fun to play with Greg as he made it fun for me. I ran against Greg for class president and the 1980 class picked the right person for the job. Our 1979 basketball team has lost another true player and a great person, rest in peace my friend. God bless you.

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