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for Jay McAfee
Toni Skiles
May 20, 2007
To: The McAfee Family
Yvonne and family, I am so sorry about the loss of your son. I cannot imagine your child leaving this earth at such a young tender age. My heart and prayers are with you always.
Barbara Blanco
May 12, 2007
To The McAfee Family...
I have never met Jay, but I am a friend of Crystals. I just now saw this tragic story on the news and when I saw Mrs. McAfee speaking on the press conference, my heart just sank. I know that no words could ever comfort you at this time. But I will pray often for your family.
God Bless & comfort you.
Sincerely,
Barbara Blanco
Mt. Washington, KY
[email protected]
The Grasmick's
May 3, 2007
To Jay's Family,
We are so sorry for your loss. My husband and I have known Jay since highschool. We was a wonderful and vibrant soul. This loss will be felt throughout the entire commuity. We want you all to know that the members of the local 502 send thier prayers and support.
Central High School Class of 96'
Rayna Bentley
May 1, 2007
My deepest sympathies to the family. I knew Jay since he was about ten years old, considered him family. Jay was a such a nice young man. I will always remember his great smile. He will be missed.
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Laurena Moore
May 1, 2007
"To be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord." To the MacAfee Family, My deepest sentiments. The Lord will provide you with refuge. "I'll see you when I get there Jay Shannon!"
Class of '96 Central High School.
Rena Sowell
April 30, 2007
I hadn't seen Jay since high school however can remember that he was an easy going and kind guy. To the McAfee family, I extend my condolences and want you to know that in times of sorrow GOD will bring comfort and peace.
Clyde Pickett
April 30, 2007
Psalm 34:18 The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.
May God Bless and Keep the McAfee family during this trying time. I offer you my most sincere thoughts of comfort. Jay will be truly missed.
United with you in prayer and love at this time of loss,
Clyde W. Pickett
Ronika Sullivan
April 30, 2007
It's very hard reading over the many memories from students from Central to friends and relatives about Jay. I too was a student at Central and had the pleasure of meeting Jay my freshman year. Then he was a sophmore. He had this aura about himself that always stuck out. Not shy in the least bit, but more of an observer. It's hard to think about the kind of person he was without my eyes tearing up because he was indeed a promising person with a super promising life. When I think about what has happened to him I try to be strong for the family and myself. Sometimes I want to turn back the hands of time to be there to save him from this tragedy. How can someone be so powerful in a powerless situation I asked myself on numerous occasions, but when I think about it, I don't have any powers, but I do know that GOD has all power in his hands.And it's that hope that springs eternal that I will know that Jay was here for 29 years to spread around the love, joy, peace, and understanding that only a person can inherit from God. So I can't be selfish when God is in control of ALL of our lives, and knowing that Jay is in heaven with both of my brothers that have went on and all of my friends that have went on with GOD, I can finally cry and let the tears fall because I know that the tears represent happy memories and something to look forward to when we all leave this earth. And now I know that this world is not my home, but a temporary place to display the Love, Joy, Peace and Understanding of God to all who do not know him or need to be reminded. So in closing, Jay I'll see you again, where the sun is always shining. I'll see you again where sorrows are no more. Where we'll join hands together and we'll sing around the throne, I can't hardly wait til the day I'll see you again. Til we meet again, God be with you til we meet again. Central High School c/o 97.
Shapaira
April 30, 2007
To the McAfee family my prayers are with each and every one of you. Jay you was like a big brother to me. With Crystal being my best friend you looked upon me as your "Lil" sister as well. I remember the days when I always stayed over to the house. Me and Crystal in the kitchen cooking and you would come take food off our plates. You were a joy to be around, you were a sweet and loving person and would do anything for anybody at anytime. I want you to know you are in a better place,you will be missed and I love you. See you when I get to Heaven!!! Love Always,
Felicia "Knight" Bass
April 30, 2007
My deepest sympathies go out to the McAfee family. Jay was a GREAT friend and person. Jay will forever be missed but never forgotten. Just remember he is in the hands of the GOD now watching over us. I will see you when I get there. Central High School Class of 1996.
Dale, Lisa & Macey Boyd - Haynie
April 29, 2007
Dear Family,
I can not begin to imagine the loss you are feeling. Please know you are in our thoughts every day.
Peace be with you
Tracey Miles-Baker
April 29, 2007
To the McAfee Family,
It was a great pleasure being in Jay's presence. My deepest sympathies are with you all. May God continue to keep you in this time of sorrow.
Central High Class '96
Porche Campbell
April 29, 2007
To the McAfee family: Jay was a very special person, not only that he was my best friend. I still think this is a dream it's just so unreal that he was taken from us so suddenly. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. May God bless and keep you always. RIP Jay Shannon
Tawanda Lindsay
April 29, 2007
Dear Jay, I just wanted to say thinks for all the times you looked after my brother. He was a handful, but he was still family. I wanted to say we love you and will miss you. We will pray for your daughter and family. You are in a better place now. We will see you one day soon. Love lis Sis.
Yona Boyd (Brown)
April 28, 2007
To the McAfee family,
I am so sorry to hear about your lost. I have known your entire family for a very long time, and to hear of this tragedy was so shocking. I will keep you all in my prayers.
With deep sympathy,
Charles and Porcia Todd
April 28, 2007
To the McAfee Family: Our prayers are with you during this time of sorrow. Jay was such a wonderful young man. I had just talked to him the week following Easter. (I called myself "Momma T." He would always say "I love you" before hanging up.) He rode down with our son, Charles, last summer when our dog attacked our grandson who had to be hospitalized for 3 days. The Bible says that when we are unable to speak, the Holy Spirit steps in for us. And even though we know this is a road we all must one day travel, the pain is still there. This one thing I know. There is no way Jay could have been as beautiful as he was and not have known the Lord. Now he's singing praises around the Throne of grace, love, and mercy - in the presence of the King of kings! Praise the Lord! Hallelujah!
David Hodgens
April 28, 2007
I just want to send my deepest condolences to the MacAfee family. Jay is in a better place, but he definitely will be missed by all who knew him. R.I.P. Jay, I'll see you when I get there.
Ariane Coleman
April 27, 2007
Dear Family,
I pray that the peace of God that passes all understanding will keep your hearts and minds during this difficult time (Phil 4:7). I am so thankful to have known Jay; he was truly one of the COOLEST people I've ever met. Jay will be sadly missed and never fogotten especially by the CLICK of Central's Class of 96.
Love Peace and Blessings
Tyeshia Halsell
April 27, 2007
May God be with the McAfee family in this time of bereavement. Jay was definitely loved...My Buddy! You are looking and watching over all of us and we will see you again. Love you Jay! Central High School, Class of 96'
TP
April 27, 2007
I MET JAY AT OUR FIRST JOB TOGETHER WHEN WE WERE TEENAGERS.BACK THEN HE WAS VERY QUIET BUT OVER THE YEARS WE GOT TO KNOW EACHOTHER BETTER THRU MY COUSIN ,JAY WAS ONE OF HER BESTFRIENDS. THIS SEEMS LIKE A DREAM TO ME BUT I KNOW THAT HE IS NOW IN A BETTER PLACE AND HE DOESNT HAVE TO WORRY ANYMORE. MY PRAYERS GO OUT TO HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS. WE MISS YOU JAY!!!!!
D
April 27, 2007
I knew Jay from back elementary days. I hadnt really seen much of him since. But just happened to see him at a restaurant hours before the incident. I didnt get a chance to speak taken for granted that we may cross paths again. Now I do pray that we cross paths again in heaven with both our Farther.
He was so much fun to be around when we were kids I can only imagine how the people that grew to know him as an adult feel about this lost. I offer my condolences to the his family and friends. May he rest in peace and never be forgotten. For us that are left here on earth Seek,Find,Learn, and Love JESUS cause he is REAL.
Tanita Crittenden
April 27, 2007
T o the McAfee family my prayers are with u. Jay will be missed I will cherish the times we shared together in school.He has been taken away to soon in our eyes but trust that it is in GODs plan.Lean and depend on him. I trust and Pray Jays love will live on through the family.I send love to you all. Central Class of 96.
Shaneka Stapleton Hardin
April 27, 2007
"And I declare unto the devil, we may be troubled on every side, yet not distressed, perplexed, but not in despair. We may be cast down but we are not destroyed, persecuted but not forsaken" - II Cor. 4:8. God will allow triumph to emerge from tragedy.
jackie mills-baker
April 27, 2007
To the family of Jay:
My heartfelt sympathy, Jay was a young man with a sweet personality. May God comfort you in the days ahead. God Bless
Ms. Jackie - from Central High School
Ronisha Vinson
April 27, 2007
Jay you will truly be missed! I can remember just seeing your vibrant smile just a few months ago, you were so full of life and joy. Now you will be smiling down on us amongst God's Angels. Many blessing's and prayer's to the McAfee family. May the strength of the Lord be your comfort and peace. Ronisha CHS c/o "97"
Talia Thompson - Cox
April 27, 2007
To the family of Jay, you have my condolences. the Lord blessed us with Jay for a period of time, but he belonged to Christ, and when he came back for his Angel there was nothing for Jay to do but go. We never know what the Lord has in store for us, but what we should know - treat each day as if it is your last, because we never know when God is going to come to call us home. Jay will truly be missed . I am blessed to have gotten to known him. Jay has begun his journey to be with the Lord. We need to ask ourselves are we ready? Love you Jay and you will always be in my memories. Central High School Class of 1996. I will never forget.
Joe Thomas
April 27, 2007
My prayers go out to the McAfee family.You will truly be missed Jay.Its crazy because I just talked to you at the YMCA the other day and now you're gone. I will always remember the last 13 plus summers we spent together competing on those basketball courts.
maya
April 27, 2007
I will always remember Jay, he was my buddy back in the days when we would leave school early and ride we had so much fun...my prayers go to the family at this time.
Tawanta
April 27, 2007
I remember the first time I met Jay at the C. He was a very well liked, funny, easy to get along with kid with braces. Over the years he turned into a very strong willed, mature and determined young man. There was nothing we couldn't talk about and he would give you his opinion whether you liked it or not. Jay cared and loved everyone in his circle whether they were right or wrong, he loved them. Jay had an abundance of family and friends that loved him dearly. He was taken away from us much too soon. He had so much to live for, all of us and himself. Evidently his father needed him more than we did. I can't imagine not being able to see his face or hear his laugh, I just can't. I know we'll all have our memories but sometimes you want more than that. You want that person back. Unfortunately, we can't always have what we want. I guess we'll have to try our best to keep living and remember that we were all blessed to have come across Jay's path. I know I am. To Granny, Mr & Mrs McAfee, Shelonda, Crystal, Jason, Aaron, Simon, Tyson, Michelle, the kids, and anybody that I may have left out, I love you all and so did Jay. God bless him and us. See you on the other side. We love you Jay.
Neesha Jackson
April 27, 2007
Trust in the Lord with all you heart and lean not to your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him and He shall direct thy path Proverbs 3:5-6 May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Central High School Class of 96'
April 27, 2007
Jay!!!! man you will TRULEY be MISSED!!!!!!!! I remember way BACK when I used to come up to Central and scoop you in the drop! You used to look out for my lil' cuz UB!! I'ma miss you but I know I will see YOU AGAIN!!
Monique
Charlisse Todd
April 27, 2007
I do understand why God chose to take you but I do know that you are in a much better. A place of peace, no more worries and pain. I have had the pleasure of knowing you and loving you like a brother. You are my brothers best friend and an angel to our family and the rest of the world. I will miss you but I know I will see you soon. "Lean not into Thy own understanding but TRUST in the Lord and He shall direct thy paths." Proverbs 3:6.
I LOVE YOU JAY!!!
April 27, 2007
You Will Always Be Missed
Cornell Craig
April 27, 2007
Love is eternal and God's plan is perfect even when we don't understand. Jay will be missed and my love, prayers, and deepest sympathies go to his family.
David Duncan
April 27, 2007
My deepest and most sincere sympathies go out to the entire McAfee Family. Jay was a wonderful person and friend. Jay touched the lives of so many people. I have lost a true friend. Jay, Rest In Peace.
Kalila Brooks
April 27, 2007
Jay you will truely be missed. I had the pleasure to be your high school classmate for 4 years and I will never forget all the times we shared as we were preparing to be adults. The world is really losing a true angel but, God loves you best and there is something more for you to do now. To have known Jay was a blessing within itself.He was such a caring and sharing person you couldn't ask for a better friend. I'm sure everyone that knew Jay has been touched in some way. To the family "Weeping may endure for a night, but joy comes in the morning" Psalm 30:5 This time to shall pass. Trust in God for he knows best.My thoughts and prayers are with you and if there is anything I can do please let me know.Much Love Jay!! Until we meet again. Central High School Class of 1996 forever....
Kalila Brooks
April 27, 2007
Jay you will be truely missed!! I had the pleasure of being your high-school classmate for 4 years and I will never forget all the times we shared in school and after graduation.To have known Jay was a joy within itself. He was such a caring and sharing person the world is losing an angel but God loves you best and there is something more for you to do now. To the family "Weeping may endure for a night, But joy comes in the morning"Psalm 30:5 Be strong and trust in God for he knows best. My thoughts and prayers are with you and if there is anything I can do just let me know. Much Love Jay!!! Central High School Class of 1996 forever!
Ronnita Usher
April 27, 2007
Jay will truly be missed. I will always remember our days at Central. Class of 96'.
Michael Lee Wright
April 27, 2007
Please accept my deepest sympathies.
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