Jill Conley
Jill Conley died 8:45 Tuesday morning with her husband, Bart, and her mother, Rosemary Duchon, at her side. Duchon said "she went peacefully" and is now free of pain.

And those who knew Jill Brzezinski-Conley best say her light will shine on.
Published by Courier-Journal from Feb. 2 to Mar. 2, 2016.
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Bart, I am so sorry for your loss. I never knew what you guys were going through. My thoughts and prayers are with you always! Coach Akers
Don Akers
September 20, 2018
Jill so sorry you have had to suffer in this manner you were always a inspiration to me.I am shattered as I write this..but no more pain for you..you fought like a tough girl..you are now a ANGEL in heaven I can not stop crying my heart hurts for you
gladys lagos
June 19, 2016
Kept wondering about Jill the last couple of weeks.I think she gave it everything she had. I pray to learn from that. What a strong woman!! God bless Bart...
susan nelson
February 26, 2016
Please accept my sincere condolences on the loss of your loved one. May you find comfort and strength from God who promises to be "a secure refuge in times of distress." (Psalm 9:9)
A H
February 24, 2016
Dorothy Eberly
February 20, 2016
Sending my condolences to the family. May God give you strength and peace during this difficult time. (Psalm 29:11)
Jones
February 15, 2016
Her light will never diminish. She has and always will be my inspiration.
Teleasa McGlother
February 12, 2016
It's been a year that I met my lovely Jill. A year, and I lost her.
I never met Jill in person but I was drawn to her. I was Stage 4, a couple years past.
I saw this lovely girl in a beautiful gown in Paris. I read Jill's story and I wanted to walk beside her to let her know she wasn't alone. And that smile. That smile that makes your world shine. God lent Jill to us to remind us how wonderful life is.
My condolences to her parents, her wonderful husband Bart and her great friends. She had great friends.
I will miss her but I will meet her one day in heaven. Jill is now healthy, and on your brighter days, that is her smile sending you warmth.
Pascale Peguero
February 12, 2016
I had the honor of hearing Jill tell her story at a Think Pink Luncheon for breast cancer in 2013 that The Daily Post-Athenian in Athens, TN sponsored. She touched my heart. She was just so uplifting that you would not guess she was fighting such a terrible disease. She is such an inspiration. A very beautiful lady with a beautiful soul. Will never forget her. God bless her husband, Bart; her mother and the rest of her family. Heaven gained a beautiful angel.
Doris Sylvester
February 11, 2016
My beautiful daughter, I will forever miss your wonderful smile and sweet face.
Love forever,
Dad
Keith Brzezinski
February 11, 2016

From: Sherry Wade
Sent: Wednesday, February 10, 2016 1:48 PM
To: Sherry Wade
Subject: jill conley tribute

Feb. 6, 2016
3314 B Riverview Drive
Jeffersonville, IN 47130

Did I know Jill Conley? No, I did not. What a blessing that would have been for me! It's not every day that the one who is a victim of cancer is so willing to share her personal journey as Jill did.

How can one not admire, cherish, and respect the memory of such a dear lady? One who despite her affliction decided to become a helpmate to others facing cancer. To Jill Conley, I say "thank you" for sharing this part of your journey with so many, for reaching out to others- because you knew just how it was. Thank you for focusing on Love, giving it so freely and, hence, being so loved in return.

Thanks also to your remarkable husband whose everlasting love and devotion to you never faltered. Thanks, too, to your supportive family and friends for loving you and always being there for you.

And thank you, Courier Journal, for introducing your readers to this beautiful, courageous, awesome woman to whom our Heavenly Father is saying. . . "Well done, my good and faithful servant."

My deepest sympathy and prayers to the Bart Conley family. . .

Sincerely,
Georgie Burch
Georgie Burch
February 10, 2016
My condolences to the family. Continue to rely on God during this difficult time and know that he hears prayers : Isaiah 59 : 1
February 8, 2016
God be with this family. Jill Conley fought a good fight and we think her and her family for sharing her journey with us
West End Family
February 8, 2016
What a beautiful warrior , may she rest in peace. To her husband and her mother and the rest of her family my heart goes out to you all. Donna Prince. Louisville, Ky
February 7, 2016
I have never been so affected by the loss of someone as I have by the loss of this young woman. She is the embodiment of goodness ,kindness and grace. May you have peace and strength as you mourn the loss of your beautiful friend and loved one.
sammie
February 7, 2016
We will miss you, Jill
Julie Wartman
February 7, 2016
Rest in peace you beautiful angel you are at peace now with the Almighty. RIP
Bonnie Kissel
February 6, 2016
Thank you for sharing your story with us on your cancer journey. I was fortunate to hear you speak @ Nortons Go Confidently speaker series a few years ago. Your words & following your journey in the Courier-Journal have been a great inspiration to me on my own cancer journey (ovarian & breast cancer). I hope I too can give encouraging words of hope to others as I continue my battle. May our loving Father welcome you with the words "Well done my good & faithful servant."
Sue Knabel
February 6, 2016
Mr. Conley, I was honored to have been asked to serve as a lector at her Mass today. Although I never met her, I feel as though I knew her. I grieve for you and your entire family. God Bless.
Joe Lilly
February 6, 2016
May you rock it in Heaven,you truly are a beautiful Angel
Robin & Bernie French
February 6, 2016
So sorry for the loss of your beautiful wife,God has gained a lovely Angel.
God bless you....
Robin & Bernie French
February 6, 2016
Robin & Bernie French
February 6, 2016
Dear Brzezinski and Conley families, we are deeply saddened and still shocked to learn of the loss of someone who inspired tens of millions with her courage and grace. Your families will always be in our thoughts and prayers.
Cliff and Barbara Karchmer
February 6, 2016
I was deeply saddened to hear of Jill's passing. I followed her story in the paper. I had breast cancer also and she is and was one of my sisters in this fight. She was a shining light of beauty and fight. May she rest in peace and free of all pain. She will live on forever in hearts everywhere.
Judith Murray
February 6, 2016
i have known Jill for many years, we went to high school together. She was always a very sweet and kind hearted person. She was everybody's friend. Always smiling and enjoying life to the fullest.

My condolences to your entire family during this difficult time. Jills light will always shine and I will think of her daily.
Kara Eaton
February 6, 2016
To Jill's family friends and loved ones - I had the privilege of knowing Jill as a teen when we danced together at Masters of Dance in Michigan. In Jill's passing I've pulled out that old yearbook and found it ironic that the dance was Express Yourself, well she knew just how to do that! She will be missed.
Tara Rotthoff
February 6, 2016
Jenny
February 6, 2016
Rest In Peace
February 6, 2016
Jill accomplished her goal in life that the Lord set out for her. She is so amazing and someone to look up to for she got what life was all about way before many of us I can see Jesus greeting her with a standing ovation and saying you are so amazing my faithful servent you got this life so quickly and then I'm sure Jesus wanted the first dance!!
Julie Brown
February 6, 2016
Jill, you will be deeply missed by everyone who crossed your path. You have inspired thousands of people. You are beautiful inside and out. Heaven has gained a wonderful angel. My thoughts and prayers go out to Bart and Jill's whole family. May you RIP Jill.
Carla Kristiansen
February 6, 2016
So very sorry for your loss of this sweet , kind women.
suzanne
February 5, 2016
Eternal love and light.
Deb West
February 5, 2016
Jill will be in my thoughts daily and in my heart always. We never got to meet but I followed her journey for years. She wrote to me once and the joy that brought to me was immeasurable. I won't forget you Jill and we will rock what we got! Love and miss you deeply.
Deb West
February 5, 2016
A beautiful woman, a beautiful life, a beautiful spirit.

I've heard it said that if you are struggling, the best way to handle it is to find someone else with the same problem and help them.
Jill did this in spades. What could have been a private journey turned into a mission of love that helped more people than she ever realized. I hope God is showing this to her now.
Her work and her legacy will continue to grow and live on after we all are gone.
God bless Jill's family and friends and comfort them in knowing that they were a very important part of a miracle.
Barb
February 5, 2016
Love, prayers and sympathy to all the family on the loss of this beautiful, courageous woman. Thank you for sharing her story. May her inspiration bring you some measure of comfort. She is surely at peace at last.
Mary Ann
February 5, 2016
How difficult it is when we lose someone so young; who meant so much to family and friends. May the God of all comfort be with you during this period of great loss as future promises await. Jeremiah 31:13
TH
February 5, 2016
Jill Conley had the face of an angel, the faith of a saint, and the love of God. I never knew her but was impressed by what I saw and heard about her. The day she passed away, I felt I had lost a close friend or family member. My thoughts and prayers are with her family and friends at this time of great loss. An admirer
February 5, 2016
Bart, Rosemary & all of Jill's beloved family: I first became aware of Jill and her health struggles through Laura Unger's articles which followed Jill's cancer journey. I had been diagnosed with breast cancer in Mar. 2012, followed by a mastectomy. Then in Dec. 2013 I was diagnosed with Stage 3 B-Cell Lymphoma which was treated with 18 weeks of chemo. I only mention my diagnoses because my first "hairless" outing was to go hear Jill speak at the "Go Confidently" series at the Olmsted in early 2014. Her beauty, grace, humor, and fighting spirit made me realize that I was only experiencing a couple of "bumps in the road" in life and truly had nothing to complain about! I have continued to follow her very public journey and have kept her my prayers. Even though I didn't know her personally, she (and you!) did indeed give us the gift of "knowing" her by her openness and honesty. She will be missed, but her spirit and light will never die. What a difference she has made to this community and the whole world! God bless all of you. With deepest condolences, you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Beverly Edwards
February 5, 2016
I did not know her, but followed her story and am shedding tears for her and her family. JC meets JC. What a happy reunion that must have been. Rest in peace you beautiful angel. No more pain.
Pat F
February 5, 2016
Thank you to Jill and her family for allowing your story to be chronicled by the Courier-Journal. I have read it all from the first introduction and have been very touched by your courage, bravery, and the message you have sent to us all. Your light will continue to shine as I, a total stranger to you, will always remember how bravely you faced your illness.
Ann Bertrand
February 4, 2016
She had such a beautiful soul and spirit during her struggle and she has left a piece of that here on earth. God bless this beautiful angel and her family she has left behind.
Heather
February 4, 2016
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998
Joshua & Patricia Hardaway
February 4, 2016
Rosemary and Bart, please accept my heartfelt condolences on Jill's passing. What an angel put on this Earth: to be with Bart and love her mother to the end of the world. Also, by the way, we all were lucky to be touched by her either through FB or email and I've been fortunate to have been friends with Jill for 7 years (the other day FaceBook reminded me!).
Bless Jill and Bart's families & friends and for Bart, you are the most awesome man in the world and she will always be shining a light on you. God Bless and RIP, Jilly Bean
Lisa Ann
February 4, 2016
I feel bad for the family this must be a great day of sorrow. I did not know her or you but I had members of my family. these things are hard but I will remember her from this. I am so sorry.
gary schoo
February 4, 2016
My deepest condolences on Jill's passing. We all loved her and Bart.
Lisa Ann
February 4, 2016
To the family of Jill Conley - I do not know you nor did I have the privilege of knowing Jill, however, I did follow her journey. I too am a breast cancer survivor and want to say thank you to Jill for making me aware to live your life on a day by day basis not on a week by week; month by month or year by year basis. To Jill's mom - I recently lost my 32 year old son in an accident and wanted to tell you that my heart goes out to you and you and the entire family will be in my prayers - God bless each one of you.
Kris Baker
February 4, 2016
To the family of Jill, I did not know Jill but have followed her journey in the Courier Journal. I admired her bravery, courage and her beauty. Her love for life and everyone around her was amazing and an inspiration to all. She is truly an angel that heaven let the earth borrow for a little while only to return and watch over us.
JEANNE
February 4, 2016
What a great warrior who inspired many people.Shes an angel now watching over all of us.RIP
February 4, 2016
God Bless you and your family.i know your happy now and free of pain.God will take care of your family on earth until you meet again
Gale Stuedle
February 4, 2016
What a beautiful person she is and always will be.
May God comfort those who knew and loved Jill, her job on our earth is done, now her work begins in heaven. What an inspiration to anyone living in cancer land. Her light will always shine bright.
Kim
February 4, 2016
Jill was an amazing light. I only met her once and that's all it took to fall in love with her. I will keep her family and friends in my prayers.
Becky Tiller
February 4, 2016
Jill you have been a angel to all cancer.patients and followers alike. We will miss you so much.you are in a beautiful place now please look down and watch over us. Love
Rocky pepper
February 4, 2016
Jill you have been a blessing. May you Rest In Peace And Prayers and Hugs goes out to your Family.. God Bless
Donna Zacharias
February 4, 2016
Sabrina
February 4, 2016
God bless your strength to help us cancer survivors survive our disease. Your legacy wil live on forever. RIP Jill
Michael Saiz
February 4, 2016
just read her story ,, heaven has a angle god bless her and the family
February 4, 2016
I first saw you through the Paris video and wow!!!! Such a natural beauty. I was going through stage IIIC myself when I first saw it. You helped me. I followed you since wondering and thinking about you often. Once you get cancer, their is always a special bond in talking to or reading about another person that had the same location of cancer. I now understand the sisterhood and love that exists. I hope you are spinning and moving freely, your smile brighter than ever if that's possible. God bless you and your family and friends.
Carol
February 4, 2016
What an incredible story of love, strength and perseverance. JC seemed just so beautiful inside and out. It was just heartbreaking to read. I am so angry today that cancer continues to kill so many people. RIP JC
Bill Negron
February 3, 2016
I found Jill when I was doing my chemo. I was down in the dumps and not very positive. When I saw the video and photos of Jill in Paris, she gave me hope. She was my inspiration,someone to look up too, an Angel to let me know things will work out. I will always be thankful I found Jill.
May you Rest In Peace sweet Jill.
Patty
February 3, 2016
Patricia
February 3, 2016
To an incredibility awesome woman~~~your spirit is alive with the beautiful legacy that permeates this earthy life. Heaven gained a "saint" that fills the air with beauty and grace. You are so loved forever!
Patricia
February 3, 2016
I will always remember Jill's smile! I was lucky enough to see that smile for he first time back when Jill first moved to Vegas. I was visiting my best friend and he said you have to come meet this amazing girl he is a fellow Michigander.And he was right Jill is Amazing. Rest in Peace sweet girl
Denise Halpert
February 3, 2016
God bless you Jill. You have been an inspiration to so many women! Rest in Peace. You have made such a positive difference in your short life.
Brenda
February 3, 2016
I just read Jill's story. I am crying as I am writing this. She possessed such beauty which it appears she shared with everyone she knew and loved. I can only pray that the Lord gives me have an ounce of what she had. The will to live and love fully. I pray God's comfort and blessings on all whom she loved. Her legacy needs no words. It is apparent to all. xx
Krista Cooper
February 3, 2016
Didn't hear of Jill till she passed. So sad but she has left a good legacy.... Either face and embrace it or can't continue. May her soul rest in perfect peace and may The Lord grant her family the grace to continue in love.
Tola Ajao
February 3, 2016
I never met Jill but followed her and was truly inspired by such a beautiful lady! Thank you Jill for sharing yourself. Your family are in my prayers.
Leeann Miller
February 3, 2016
Rest in peace, Jill. May God grant your mother and your husband comfort.
D&S Kline
February 3, 2016
I never met Jill but I have followed her story the last few years. My heart breaks as I read of her passing but know she no longer has to suffer. My prayers are with Bart and Rosemary and the rest of her friends and family. May Jill rest in peace.
Larry Neal
February 3, 2016
God bless you, sweet dear woman.
christine voorhees
February 3, 2016
What a beautiful brave young woman. To be handed a dreadful diagnosis as she had, she handled it with grace, optimism, and a zest for living. She was, and is, an Amazing woman.
christine voorhees
February 3, 2016
Thank you Jill for sharing your love, determination and spirit with all of us as you marched through your courageous battle. You accomplished your mission and it is now up to all of us to continue your wish. Thank you God for bringing Jill into all of our lives. Many us us did not know her personally but felt like we have known her all of our lives. What a beautiful blessing she has been too so many. I pray for comfort and peace for her mother and husband. God bless.
Shellie Bryan
February 3, 2016
I first read of Jill's story in 2012, the same year I was diagnosed with breast cancer. Although I never had the opportunity to meet her, she had a profound affect on my attitude and outlook during my journey. I mourn her loss but celebrate the way in which she lived her life even in her final days. She will live on in the hearts of more people than she could have ever imagined. Stealing the phrase from someone else "fly high sweet angel"!
Jennifer Lausterer
February 3, 2016
Jill, cancer did not define you as you were so beautiful throughout you fight. You touched me when you showed your scars on your chest. I also have scars from my 9 plus years cancer journey. I grieve to see you take that final journey but I know you earned your wings and all those broken pieces are perfectly back together. Fly Dream Angel Fly
Leva Beard
February 3, 2016
If ever I wanted a miracle to happen to happen it was for Jill. I wrote to her while she was in hospital once to tell her how beautiful and courageous she was and she personally responded to my letter.
We lost a beautiful lady in Louisville Tuesday but God has gained an incredible angel. So many of us had grown to love her and will miss her so much. My deepest sympathy to Bart, her mother, and all her family.
SHIRLEY MEZORI
February 3, 2016
I am so sorry for your lose I to had cancer many years ago but beat it with the docters and the love of my family and it was good for her to have you as a friend again I am verey sorry for your lose
kurt phillips
February 3, 2016
what a brave woman.To keep fighting for life and not giving up. God works in mysterious ways? I wish he worked harder to spare this precious soul. She was ah 100 watt bulb in a world of 40s.
Adrian Smith
February 3, 2016
Oh what a beautiful girl! In and Out! She will, no doubt, be one of God's Angels, guiding our path when we leave to join her. May our Dear Lord wrap His loving arms around her family and fill them with peace and comfort.
Eva Martinez
February 3, 2016
I came across your story on Yahoo. You were such a loving and brave young woman. Now may you rest in peace eternally. To the family, my deepest sympathy. May you find strength and peace in God.
Paulette Stith
February 3, 2016
simply beautiful prayers for the family god has another angel
February 3, 2016
As I read this article, tears came to my eyes; Not just for her death, but her wonderful life. She was an amazing, beautiful woman inside and out. She was definitely an inspiration to all around her and who read her story. When I think life has me down, I will think of Jill and put a smile on my face. God bless you
Pamela Donatt
February 3, 2016
What a wonderful human being. Her story brought tears to my eyes. it's people like her, their soul and spirit, we need to pray to meet and waits for us when our time comes.
allan wagner
February 3, 2016
Today, the sky seemed a little darker without Jill's smile, but I'm sure the sky will be a little brighter tonight with an extra star in the sky. She was such an inspiration, some of us live to be 100 and don't touch as many lives as she did in her short life. I hope you dance Jill.
Connie Trent
February 3, 2016
I just read Ms.Conley's story on the USA Today site.Even though I did not know her the story left me in tears.May God give His peace to this family in this difficult time.You are all in our prayers.
February 3, 2016
I stumbled across the video of Jill, "The Light That Shines," several months ago. I was so deeply moved by it, I sent it to all of my closest girlfriends. I am so sorry to hear of Jill's death but what a life she led. I pray that she is at peace and I pray for the comfort of her loved ones.
Vanessa M
February 3, 2016
I stumbled upon your life in a Yahoo story. Although I do not know you, you have deeply touched my life. May you be in the hands of angels at this time.
Philip Sweeny
February 3, 2016
What a beautiful, courageous woman--inside and out!! I wish I could have known her. May her family find comfort in knowing that she was a blessing to many, many people.
February 3, 2016
What a touching story about a courageous person. God bless you and your family. Quite an inspiration for all of us.
Ken Leeds
February 3, 2016
As I read your history.I could not dismiss your beautiful smile. You sure are lighting up Heaven today, Jill! May your family and friends be lead by your smile throughout their lives.
I will keep your smile in my heart as a reminder of the wonderful person you are. Your beautiful memory will last forever.
My condolences to your family and friends.
Mike Allen
February 3, 2016
Jill thank you for demonstrating with great grace and dignity how to live with terminal illness and how to die. Your life and example will endure. I will keep your husband and family in my prayers.
Nicole Coleman
February 3, 2016
Jill I only knew you though the CJ-you have been an inspiration in courage for all. May you have a awesome journey and may your light shine forever
Vance Simmons
February 3, 2016
Jill will live on in my heart...and like so many others....I only knew her from the CJ articles but felt like she was a best friend. What an amazing legacy she left for all of us to learn from. My prayers are with you Bart, and all the family.
Margie Niles
February 3, 2016
We actually never met but I've been a friend of The Conley's and have followed the journey and wanted the entire family to know you are in my thoughts and prayers and let it be a comfort to know some day in our future we can all enjoy Jill and all God's chosen people!
Ray Wine
February 3, 2016
May you be at peace from this horrible disease that is taking far to many people from this earth, far to early! Prayers to your family! With Love -
Aimee
February 3, 2016
I am so grateful to Jill and her family for having the courage to share such an intimate part of their lives. With the feelings of true beauty and joy being the foundation of Jill's Wish her light could not have shown any brighter during her struggle with this horrible illness. Prayers.
Jeff Y
February 3, 2016
Your light shines on and brightens our city. God bless your family and friends and all the lives you have touched. My deepest sympathy to all.
Ida Hazard
February 3, 2016
Jill, you will always be a shining light! I read your story sometime ago and seen you on TV. You touched my life with your warm spirit!
God bless the family of Jill!
Lisa White
February 3, 2016
My family and I would like to offer our condolences to the Conley family. So sorry for the loss of Jill.
Cathy Viviano
February 3, 2016
I never met Jill Conley but I followed her story and admired her from afar. She was a strong woman who had such a loving heart. Jill became my hero, helping me on my journey. I pray her family finds comfort in knowing she provided so much encouragement and hope to thousands of others. Rest in peace beautiful lady.
Leigh Spargur
February 3, 2016
I have not met you, I have read about you, yet I feel like I know you. You shine a light so bright it cannot go unnoticed. You have fought with such grace, positive attitude, and yet fierce resolution. Teaching others that love is not only the best way, it's the only way. Through your courage and your words of wisdom you helped and are helping many others. May your Light Shine Bright among the Angels. You have become an Angel a Guardian Angel to those you left behind. May you RIP and May your Light Shine Bright Forever.
Alex T
February 3, 2016
Such a beautiful and brave woman. God bless her family at this difficult time.
Carolyn Wills, RN, FNP
February 3, 2016
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