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Andrew Ray Obituary

Andrew L. Ray Tyngsborough Police Officer, age 44, of Nashua, NH NASHUA, NH Andrew L. Ray, 44, a Tyngsborough Police Officer, of Nashua, NH, died unexpectedly from complications of a heart condition at his home, Friday morning, September 5, 2008. He was married to Mrs. Michelle (DeCoff) Ray with whom he celebrated their 25th wedding anniversary on June 18, 2008. Andrew was born in Lowell, MA, on September 6, 1963, the son of Louis and Virginia (Souleotis) Ray of Nashua, NH. He was a graduate of Chelmsford High School with the class of 1981. He graduated from Western New England College with a Bachelor in Arts and a Master's Degree in Criminal Justice. He served with the U.S. Army. For the past 14 years, Andrew was a dedicated Police officer with the Tyngsborough Police Department, previously serving as the Local Steward and President. He was also one of the founders and the Secretary/ Treasurer of the New England Benevolent Police Association. One of Andrew's passions was coaching children. He coached the Nashua Little League Twins and the Nashua Elks Crusaders Pee Wee Team for the last 5 years. He was a member of the 100 Club of Boston, MA, and the Tyngsboro Sportsman Club. Besides his loving wife and parents, he is survived by a daughter, Jaime Ray, and a son, Daniel Ray, both of Nashua, NH; and a sister, Christine Ray of Woodbridge, VA. Andrew was also survived by many nieces and nephews; as well as several close friends and fellow brother police officers. RAY Andrew L. Ray, 44, a Tyngsborough Police Officer, of Nashua, NH died Sept. 5, 2008. Visiting hours Tues. 5 to 9 p.m. Funeral Wed at 10AM from the DOLAN FUNERAL HOME, 106 MIDDLESEX ST., CHELMSFORD, with a Funeral Service at 11 A.M. at Holy Trinity Hellenic Greek Orthodox Church in Lowell, MA. Burial in Tyngsboro Memorial Cemetery in Tyngsboro, MA. Memorials may be made in his name to the NEPBA Charities or the Daniel L. Ray Scholarship Fund, c/o NEPBA, 227 Chelmsford St., Chelmsford, MA 01824. ARRANGEMENTS BY DOLAN FUNERAL HOME 978-251-4041. Guestbook at www.dolanfuneralhome.com

Published by Lowell Sun from Sep. 7 to Sep. 8, 2008.

Memories and Condolences
for Andrew Ray

23 Entries

Lorri Stasi

September 14, 2008

Mrs. Ray, Children & Family,
Our thoughts are with you.
With sympathy,
Jason & Ryan Stasi & family

David DeCoff

September 12, 2008

Dear Michelle,Jaime,&Danny,
As I listen to the names being read of all those who died at the Twin Towers collapse 7 years agon I realize that many of them were public servants.Those who overpowered the terrorists and chose to crash their plane in a field instead of the Capitol Building did it to save thousands of lives.They too were public servants.Andy was a public servant, a hero!! He is now with his fellow heroes!! They have no pain and suffering anymore..they now rest in peace with Jesus in His Great and Perfect Love,a Love that we will someday know,as Andy now knows!
Rest in the bosom of Jesus Christ,Dear Andy.We will all be with you in that Great and Glorious Day of Ressurection!!

With Love always David(dad)

Kathi Grant

September 11, 2008

Dear Michelle, Jamie and Daniel
I was so saddened to hear the news of Andy's passing. I wish there was something I could say to heal the pain but there isn't. The three of you need to support one another and get through this hurtful time together. If there is anything I can do for anyone of you please don't hesitate. Please be strong for each other.(contact me)

Pauline Conley

September 11, 2008

To Officer Ray's family and friends:
I only knew Andy for a short time through union contract negotiations. He was always professional and courteous in his dealings with us. My sincerest sympathies for your loss and the loss to all those he served. May your memories give you comfort.

John Curtis

September 10, 2008

Lou, I just heard the news today, and am so sorry for you and your family's loss. Working with you for a brief few months, I came to learn from our overnight conversations, the love you have for your children. My thought and prayers our with you at this difficult time.

John Teichert

September 9, 2008

To the family of Andrew Ray, you will be in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. I met Andy thru the N.E.P.B.A and he was very helpfull to myself and our local and he will be sorely missed but never forgotten.

Valerie Foresta

September 9, 2008

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Butch and Ellen Alpers

September 9, 2008

Our prayers are with your family in this time of deep mourning. Words can't express our sorrow.

Don Rubino

September 9, 2008

To The Ray Family
I have known Andy for over 17 years first as a EMT then as a Police officer, He was a good friend and he will be missed

Michael Reed & Family

September 9, 2008

Andy Ray my good friend, I miss you already so much.

I'll miss you everytime I light up a cigar and drink a "snob" beer, Everytime Landry and I are together, Everytime I step on a football field, Everytime I see a "Moth !", every time we go over and Jack misses his buddy, everytime Daniel plays a game, everytime I won't hear your cheering for Nick, everytime I won't hear that low deep voice say "Hey Buddy". I'll always be there for Daniel, but then you knew already that didn't you.

Go have a coffee with your partner, I know he missed you too. God must have needed another coach for his Youth Football team.

I love you Buddy.

Michael

Matt Patronick

September 9, 2008

To Lou, Ginny, and the rest of the Ray family, I am very sorry for your loss. I never met Andy, but felt like I knew him just by listening to Lou talk about him; always with a smile from ear to ear.

The Flesch Family

September 8, 2008

We are saddened by the sudden loss of Andy. He was a great and patient coach to the young football players. RIP Andy, and we will keep you and your family in our thoughts.

September 8, 2008

Dear Mrs. Ray, at this sad time when there is a little that anyone can do, may you know that our toughts and prayer are with you and your family.
With sympathy,
Maurizio, Daniela, Ettore and Gianpiero de Mari

Toozie Fuller

September 7, 2008

Michelle, Danny, Jamie & Family - Danielle and I are thinking of you. Our hearts mourn your loss. Danny and Danielle have been classmates since they were 5 years old. We just can't imagine the pain of your loss. It is so hard to lose a parent, never mind one so young. God is waiting for a good person like Andy. God Bless.... Toozie and Danielle

Lisa Strobel

September 7, 2008

My thoughts and prayers go out to Andy's family. I will miss his smile and friendly conversations late nights, and i'm thankful for the chance to have had the pleasure of knowing him, Andy will be missed.

Scott Lucid

September 7, 2008

Andy was a very good man. Always a pleasure to share a handshake or a laugh with. My thoughts are with Michelle, Jaime, Daniel, and his fellow officers.

Kellie Fitzgerald

September 7, 2008

Words, however kind, can't mend your heartache: but those who care and share your loss wish you comfort and peace of mind. May you find strength in the love of family
and in the warm embrace of friends.

Michelle, Jamie, and Daniel you are in my thoughts and prayers

Jim Urso

September 7, 2008

I am so terribly sorry for your loss... if there is anything I can do prior to my shipping, please let me know... I will be available should you need it...

BOB BARNABY

September 7, 2008

OUR PRAYERS AND THOUGHTS ARE WITH THE FAMILY
BOB, SARAH, AND DEAN

Doreen Youden

September 7, 2008

Andy will always be loved and missed by everyone! He touched so many people's lives with his warm heart and loving smile. His niece and nephews loved him more than they could have said. To my beautiful sister Michelle, niece Jaime and newphew Daniel - we love you and want you to know we are there whenever you need us. You are always in our prayers!

Doreen, Ryan, Rebecca and Michael

Tyngsboro Police Mourn Loss

September 7, 2008

Tyngsboro Police
Mourn LOSS of
brother: Andrew L. Ray:

THE POLICEMAN'S LAST ROLL CALL ...

THE POLICEMAN STOOD AND FACED HIS GOD, WHICH MUST ALWAYS COME TO PASS. HE HOPED HIS SHOES WERE SHINING, JUST AS BRIGHTLY AS HIS BRASS.

"STEP FORWARD NOW, POLICEMAN. HOW SHALL I DEAL WITH YOU? HAVE YOU ALWAYS TURNED THE OTHER CHEEK? TO MY CHURCH HAVE YOU BEEN TRUE?"

THE POLICEMAN Squared his shoulders and said, "No, Lord, I guess I ain't.

Because those of us who carry badges can't always be a Saint.

I've had to work most Sundays, and at times my talk was rough, and sometimes I've been violent because the streets are awfully tough.

But I never took a penny that wasn't mine to keep, though I worked a lot of overtime when the bills just

got to steep.

And I never passed a cry for help, though times I shook with fear. And sometimes, God forgive me, I've wept many unmanly tears.

I know I don't deserve a place among the people here, they never wanted me around except to calm their fear. If you've a place for me Lord, it needn't be so

grand. I never expected or had too much, but if you don't, I'll understand."

There was silence all around the throne where the Saints had often trod. As the policeman waited quietly, for the judgement of his God.

"Step forward now, policeman, you've borne your burdens well. Come walk a beat on Heaven's streets, you've done your time in hell."

Rest in peace brother. We'll take the watch from here