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Brian Coutu Obituary
avid weightlifter
DRACUT -- Brian L. Coutu, a Dracut resident, formerly of Chelmsford and Lynn, passed away Monday, May 3, at the Lowell General Hospital. He was 31.
Born in Lowell on May 27, 1978, Brian was a son of the late Robert "Kooch" Coutu and Susan MacDonald who survives him.
Brian was a graduate of Chelmsford High School, Class of 1997, where he participated in several sports, especially wrestling which was his favorite. Brian placed 3rd in the State Championship his Senior year.
He loved weight lifting and spent many years muscle training. Brian was a member of Best Fitness in Chelmsford and Nashua.
He won several trophies for power lifting at various weight lifting competitions.
Brian was an avid sports fan and enjoyed fishing. Most of all he cherished time spent with his daughter Tayla.
Brian received treatment in the detoxification unit at Tewksbury in 1999 for addiction. He then entered into the CAB recovery program in Tewksbury. He furthered his treatment and graduated from a six month program at the Ryan Halfway House in Lynn. Brian was very active in his recovery and became a counselor at the Ryan Halfway House.
He was employed as a laborer for the Ostrander Corporation of Somerville until economic conditions forced his unemployment in 2007.
Brian had 10 Successful years of recovery but relapsed in 2009.
He was a very good person and had a heart of gold. Brian treated everyone with respect and was courteous and polite to all. His mother Stated, "I couldn't have asked for a better son and God gave me the one he wanted me to have." Only a fool would say no when God calls one home. Brian was not a fool. This is truly earth's loss and without a doubt Heaven's gain.
Surviving him besides his mother are his Identical twin brother, Bruce Coutu; his former girlfriend, Kacie O'Donnell and their beautiful five year old daughter, Tayla; paternal grandmother, Pauline Coutu; two uncles, Clifford and David MacDonald; great uncle, Ralph Knapp; aunt and uncle, Lorraine and Fred Cronin; several cousins including Chelsea MacDonald; and numerous friends and companions including, Chrystal Bernard.
He was the grandson of the late Clifford and Irene MacDonald, and Walter Coutu, and nephew of the late Ralph and Gary MacDonald.
Brian lost his battle with addiction on May 3, 2010.
COUTU -- His Memorial service will be held on Saturday at 11:00 AM in Matthews Memorial Church, 128 Gorham St. (Rte. 3A), Chelmsford. All are invited to attend. For condolences, please visit www.mckennaouellette.com
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Memories and Condolences
for Brian Coutu
Susan macdonald
May 3, 2025
Susan MacDonald
May 3, 2025
I Love & Miss You so much Brian; it´s been a very long 15 years without you
Chrystal Bernard
May 2, 2019
Thinking of you always...never ever forgotten...I miss you every second of the day...I love you
Chrystal Bernard
June 6, 2017
I miss you baby! Your always in my thoughts and prayers...I LOVE YOU
malika johnson
May 14, 2010
Bruce,
im so sorry for your loss. there are probably no one words that can express what u feel, nor any words that can take away that pain. but I am here for you and just want u to know that.
Melissa
May 11, 2010
God pours life into death and death into life seamlessly; death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal. Bruce, my deepest condolences to you and your family.
meagan cote
May 11, 2010
I am so sorry for your loss my heart goes out to you brucie and tayla i was blessed to have bri as part of my life he was a great friend and really helped me he had a huge heart and was always willing to help i just wanted you to know your in my heart and my prayers i will miss him very much:(
Meagan
Cheryl
May 11, 2010
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Brian. I am one of the nurses whom witnessed Brian with his struggles and with his sucess.I also lost a sister to this devestating disease. I am so proud of the write up for Brian. Most our families including mine like to hide this disease. I am deeply touched by your strength and honesty. I will always remember Brian.
Michelle Carignan
May 9, 2010
Sue and Bruce, I am so sorry for the loss of Brian..It has been years since I've seen the 3 of you. Growing up here at the Meadows seems so long ago, but my memories of the kids will be with me forever. My condolences go out to both of you and to his daughter...I'll always have good memories of Brian here with Roberto and Billy..My brother too died of addiction and its a terrible thing..His honesty about this issue is to be applauded...It's out there and until you've seem someone so young die from it, u just cant believe it happens..My heart goes out to you both and if I had known, I would have been at his memorial....
Roberto (Bubba) Rivera
May 9, 2010
I so sorry for your loss, I just heard about this today wish I was there to pay my respects. Yous two (Bruce n Brian) were like my big bro's growing up at the Meadows Apt.. So crazy, Brian will be missed but thought of with fond memories. Just want the family to know my thoughts and prayers are with you
May 9, 2010
Bruce, Sue, and Family,
The tribute to Brian yesterday was very moving and an excellent voice to the importance of family and friends in all of our lives. Brian will be missed by many individuals from all walks in life, but by none more than you. All of you have been, are, and will continue to be in my thoughts for years to come.
Pam DiGrezio Lawrence
Mike Primeau
May 9, 2010
Sue, I am so sorry to hear about your son. You and your entire family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Crystal Smith
May 8, 2010
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with your family. Bri was a great person and a good friend of mine and I will miss him very much
Crystal
A ZACHERY
May 8, 2010
My most heartfelt,spiritual,soulful condolences to my dear friend "precious" Susun Mcdonald and the enter family,may my spiritual donation help to built the foundation needed for you to move-on,personaly and for your whole family. Susan i have a phone,a heart,an ear when you need it.sincerly love Zac
Charlene Wooster
May 8, 2010
Bruce,
I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts. Stay strong!
Sheila, Brian & Courtney Fortin
May 8, 2010
Sue, I have only seen your boys in passing(in our building) not knowing which one was which, but wanted to send you my deepest sympathies for the loss of your son Brian...I'm so sorry!!!!!
Theresa Walsh
May 7, 2010
Rest in Peace Bri~ my deepest sympathy Bruce and family. i really admire the honesty in his obituary~ even in passing he is an inspiration in his counceling, this should bare no shame, should not be hidden but embraced for a better tomorrow~ only GOD can judge you R.I.P.
Jodi Paquin
May 7, 2010
Bruce, it has been years since I have seen you and Brian, but I was so saddened to hear this news. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Ed Mackiewicz
May 7, 2010
Sue and Bruce: It has been quite a while since I have seen you, but I wanted to express my deepest condolences on your loss of Brian. My thoughts and prayers are with you always. (Tricia's ex-husband and Melody's father)
a friend of Bill W
May 7, 2010
i didn't know brian but came across his obituary here in the lowell sun and first of all my condolences to all his family.i am a recovering addict and alcoholic and i now the daily struggle all to well.
rest in peace brian
Wendy Capozzi
May 7, 2010
Bruce, I'm so sorry. I'll miss all the great memories. Love,Wendy(Lewis) Capozzi
May 7, 2010
I new brian very well. He will be missed by many. He is an angel now for others who stuggle with addiction. We at the detox here in tewksbury are very sadened. Joan Psomos
Leo Landry
May 7, 2010
My heartfelt condolences to Sue, Bruce, and the rest of the Coutu family. Although I don't know you well, I know first hand how much the loss of a close loved one can hurt. Please take comfort in knowing that he is carefree now and that you will surely see him again. God Bless You.
Lee
Deb & Carmelo
May 7, 2010
We are so sorry for your loss.
Please accept our deepest sympathy. Our thoughts and prayers are always with you.
April Constantineau
May 7, 2010
Bruce,
I was very sorry to hear about the loss of your brother. I extend my deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Your brother was such a wonderful person and a great father, son and brother. He was always willing to help others and asked for nothing in return.
I'm sure that he would want all of us to celebrate the good life that he had. We can all be thankful that we had him in our lives and continue to remember him as the great guy that he was.
Please know that my family and I will be here for you now and in the future.If there is anything that we can do, please let us know.
In Sympathy,
April Constantineau
May 7, 2010
I don't even know you or your family but my condolences to all of you. Addiction is a terrible thing. Hopefully he will now rest in peace.
Alena DiPietro
May 7, 2010
I am so sorry for all of you... My thoughts and prayers are with you, your mom and Tayla... He was a wonderful person. I love you Brucie
shannon girouard aka jason ryan and eric ryans lil sister
May 7, 2010
hey brian i will always miss you...my thoughts and prayers go out to you .and bruce im so sorry i miss you and i hope you stay strong its hard i know but im always here for you love you guys both and tell mom i said hi and i love her to
kathy carroll
May 7, 2010
They know the deepest sorrow who have known the dearest joy. My prayers are with you
Tina (Gehr) Dale
May 6, 2010
To the Coutu Family, I am very sorry to hear about the loss of Brian. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
- Rest easy Brian. Watch over your family and friends until God calls them Home -
Tina
Bren
May 6, 2010
Bruce I am at a loss for words. There are no words to express how shocking this is, My prayers to you, Tayla and your family. I know he will be watching over you and his daughter.
Tina (Leduc) Santos
May 6, 2010
It has been years that I have seen or talked to you all, but wanted to send my deepest sympathy! I am sorry to hear of your loss, my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family!
Melissa Tumminello
May 6, 2010
I am so sorry for your loss I knew Brain he and I went to the same school and graduate same year was he did 1997
Tina Leduc (Santos)
May 6, 2010
Bruce, It has been years that I have seen or talked to you all, but wanted to send my deepest sympathy to you and your family! I am so sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers go out to your family!
Ida Gray
May 6, 2010
Bruce,
I don't even have the words to express how sad I am to hear about Brian. We have all been blessed to know him and to have him as part of our memories... He will be truly missed and just know that time wil heal all pain brought on by this but he will forever live in that little girl and our memories. Brian we will see you someday... Watch over us until we meet again!!
Love,
Ida
Bruce, Debbie, Sara, BJ & Jeremy Allen
May 6, 2010
To the Coutu family, we are so sorry to hear about your loss. We have lost contact over the years but always kept our eyes open at any wrestling event we attend with the hopes of running in to you. Our thoughts are with you through this difficult time.
John Kamal
May 6, 2010
Dear Bruce,
I am deeply saddened to hear of your twin brother's loss. It was truly rewarding to have you both in the same English class during the years I had an IROC-Z. Brian was your best friend as well as your brother, and I know that he will live in your heart and memory forever. My sincerest condolences to you and your family.
Mr. Kamal
Chelmsford High School
May 6, 2010
It has been many years since I have seen Brian but it saddens me that he left this life so young. My thoughts are with Bruce, his daughter and the rest of the family during this difficult time.
~ Jen (Wilson) Russell
theresa ( fig ) gagnon
May 6, 2010
sue,brian.and taylor, im am so sorry for your loss there are no words to say ,but he will be missed by all who loved him god bless all of you and be with you at this sad sad time.
May 6, 2010
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