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Gary Doyle Condra LUBBOCK-A hero left this world on February 17, 2015. Gary Doyle Condra was born on Aug. 13, 1944, in Ballinger, Texas. He was the son of Doyle and Ella Condra and grandson of J. Milton and Carrie Ruth Clayton, Everett Pete and Florence Witter, and James and Mary Condra. He grew up on a working ranch that had been in his family since the 1870's. Gary attended Talpa and Ballinger schools where he graduated valedictorian. On December 23, 1967, Gary married the love of his life, Betty Ann Moore from Plainview. Their marriage lasted until the day he died. As she would tell the story, Betty married him because of the twinkle in eye. That twinkle was just a small indication of the loving, affectionate, and playful man that was Gary Condra. After receiving his BS in Animal Science from TTU, Gary was sent to Vietnam where he was exposed to Agent Orange, believed to have caused the Parkinson's which finally took his life. He returned home in 1971 and received an honorable discharge at the rank of army Captain. Gary went on to earn a Master's degree in Agricultural Economics from TTU; and a Ph.D. in Agricultural Economics from TAMU. He served as Agricultural Economist for the Texas Agricultural Extension Service in Ft. Stockton and Lubbock. In an effort to improve agricultural policy, Gary ran for Congress in 1984 in the 19th Congressional District. While that run was ultimately unsuccessful, Gary went on to join the faculty of TTU. While at Tech, he founded the Texas Agricultural Mediation Program. In 1988, Gary received a law degree from the TTU School of Law where he graduated Order of the Coif. He later opened a private law practice specializing in Agriculture. In 1999, his daughter Merinda, became his law partner. Gary liked to tease with an offbeat sense of humor. He had a quiet strength, a gentle spirit, and a kind heart. Gary enjoyed people and cherished his family. He had the affection of his peers and the respect of his adversaries. Gary used his intelligence, experience, and education to help people. As an attorney, he believed it was his job to help his clients find resolutions to problems - not just fight battles. He rejected the adversarial nature of law to seek common ground and was often the voice of reason. While he would not run from a fight if required to obtain justice, he would first spend hours, days, and even weeks in negotiation to obtain needed relief for his clients. He brokered agreements when others had concluded it could not be done. He never let ego make him forget that a farm family was depending upon him. Among other things, Gary served as the Chairman Alternative Dispute Resolution Section of Texas State Bar, Member Texas Supreme Court Advisory Committee for Court-Annexed Mediation, Chairman Coalition Agricultural Mediation Programs, Chairman South Plains Dispute Resolution Advisory Committee; Administrator and Mediator Texas Agricultural Mediation Program, Chairman State Bar Agricultural Committee, and Vice Chairman Texas Appraiser Licensing Certification Board. In 2002, the Alternative Dispute Resolution Section of the Texas State Bar awarded Gary the Justice Frank G. Evans Award, [f]or his exemplary courage and outstanding leadership in the evolution of Alternative Dispute Resolution in Texas. According to the section, Gary has been a prime motivating force in the movement to protect the strong confidentiality provisions of the Texas ADR statute. We could not be prouder of him or admire him more. In a world where power, money, and fame are rewarded with more power, more money, and more fame - he chose another path. He worked to make the world a better place - and worked to instill that same goal in his children. He told the truth. He was kind. He was strong. Gary Condra worked to support his family until he could work no longer. He loved his wife, Betty, and their children Clay and Merinda. He believed in them and helped them to believe in themselves. Gary Condra was a good man. Gary Condra was our hero and the world is poorer for his absence. Gary D. Condra is survived by his wife Betty; his daughter Merinda and her daughters Emma and Elle; his son Clay and wife Christy, and their three children, Mallory, Hunter, and Madison; his sister, Barbara Johnson; and many nieces, nephews, and cousins. A celebration of Gary's life will be held on Saturday, Feb. 21, 2015 at 10 a.m. at the Lake Ridge Chapel and Memorial Designers, 6025 82nd Street, Lubbock, Texas. Visitation with family will take place immediately after the service. In lieu of flowers, the family suggests tax deductible donations to The Institute for Creative Learners in recognition of Gary's love of education. www.instituteforcreativelearners.org or Adoption Covenant which helped bring him two of his precious and much loved granddaughters. www.adoptioncovenant.org Contributions to both can be mailed to PO Box 2507, Lubbock, Texas 79408.

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Published by Lubbock Avalanche-Journal on Feb. 19, 2015.

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jesse reyes

September 6, 2016

I learned of Gary's death much too late. I'm extremely sorry as he truly was one of my mentors and one of truly dear colleagues during my tenure at TTU. Working with him was always a pleasure and he always had a wonderful way of finding insights others had missed. He will be missed.

Frank Vestal

May 25, 2016

Betty,
My name is Frank Vestal. Gary was my 1LT and replacement in Vietnam for the "Red Ball" Division. We saved a lot of lives by getting the critical combat supplies to our troops in their firebases all over the Country. The job was hard, but the mission was critical. Gary was cool under pressure while making many very hard decisions. I was proud to work with Gary. He was a trusted friend. I was just recently awarded 100% Disability for medical issues involving Agent Orange. My heart is broken for another dear friend that has fallen to protect our County.
I am truly sorry for your loss. I just found out about Gary today. I am the guy on the right in the photo of our Red Ball staff.

All my love and respect,

Frank Vestal
Cpt

June 15, 2015

I today learned of Gary's death. It was my privilege to work with Gary and Miranda in the American Agricultural Law Association. He was an outstanding attorney and a wonderful man.

March 10, 2015

My condolences to the family. Gary was a college friend. Our group of friends loved for him to play "Old Country Music" for us on his accordion. After college, we all took different paths that seldom crossed again. Gary's obituary revealed his truly wonderful gifts-to family, his friends, and his community. The world is a better place because of him. Blessings to his loved ones. Pam Frost Flowers, Midland, Texas

Phil McCormick

February 26, 2015

My prayers go out to the family. Knew Gary from his old Extension days. Didn't see him much after he became lawyer. He made world a better place.

Ray Savage

February 25, 2015

The world has lost a good man that worked tirelessly for justice. There are not enough like him. To his family: I am sorry for your loss.

Brenda Faubion Tyree

February 25, 2015

I am sorry for your loss. Gary and I rode the bus together to Talpa schools. We lived just a short distance north of his family. What I remember most about Gary was his brilliant mind and sweet personality. It sounds like he used both to it's fullest.

Gary and Betty Condra

Gary Condra

February 23, 2015

Janet Gindlesperger

February 19, 2015

I remember Gary so well from our days in the Ballinger Schools. Always friendly and well-mannered and SO intelligent. Love and prayers to all his family.
Janet Jobe Gindlesperger

Jeff Kopecky

February 19, 2015

Gary was my cousin. Growing up, we would occasionally go to the ranch and Gary would be working the cattle, fixing fences, putting up new buildings with a smile and a word that would make you feel special. I loved going there just knowing he'd be there. He's capture my attention in a second and raise me on his shoulders to help me see the world from his bigger-than-life height. He gave his heart and mind to everything he did an to everyone he met. After his high school graduation, I didn't see Gary for a number of years. He was out doing what needed to be done, giving his commitment to his country, his wife, his family. We saw each other at funerals over the years. I would watch him, being the communicator to all. Giving sympathy, a hug and a lighthearted word that would give the listener a look of encouragement and a brief escape from the loss at hand. As the years passed our paths took different directions. But I'll remember him with his cowboy hat at a slight dip to the left and that smile that grabbed you. I knew from early on that if I ever became a cowboy, I wanted to be just like cousin Gary.

Patsy and Lawrence Leonard

February 19, 2015

Our sincere condolences to Betty and entire family. Grew up less than a mile from Gary on Mustang Creek in Runnels County. Rode school bus with him and Barbara daily. He was a leader and kept the 14 mile bus riders entertained with his humor.

Karen Cate

February 19, 2015

Gary, may you rest in peace. What an accomplished person you were, which does not surprise me at all. My condolences to your family. Fondly, Karen (Stokes) Cate

Scott Stubblefield

February 19, 2015

Gary will be missed. I remember visiting Gary and his family in Fort Stockton - that guy could play the piano too! God be Betty and the rest of the family.

Ruth Lauer

February 19, 2015

Betty and Merinda, I am so sorry for your loss of Gary. Our community is poorer for his death.

February 19, 2015

Gary was my first good friend at BHS. Both of us were new to the school in our Jr years and naturally gravitated toward each other. Though our lives widely diverged, we always remained friendly. He was a good man.

February 19, 2015

Sending prayers to all of your family. The Billy Pittman family.

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