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Wanda Bahling Obituary

Wanda J. Bahling, age 67, of Metamora, passed away May 18, 2013. Wife of Garry; mother of Ron (Colleen) Bahling and Becky (Kris) Lythgoe; nana of Clara, Reagan, Samuel and George; daughter of Thelma (the late Tullos) Vincent; sister of Linda (Butch) Smith. Wanda was dedicated to her family. She was Vice President of Vehicle Assessment Consulting, Metamora. Memorial service Wednesday 10 a.m. at Lewis E. Wint & Son Funeral Home, Clarkston where friends may visit one hour prior to service. Inurnment Great Lakes National Cemetery, Holly. Online guestbook: wintfuneralhome.com

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Published by The Macomb Daily from May 20 to May 21, 2013.

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July 22, 2013

Garry and family,

Cindy and I are extremely saddened by the Wanda's passing. What a special lady. Our sincere condolences.

Bob and Cindy Taylor

July 7, 2013

Gary, Ron, Becky and families; We just heard of your loss today and you have our sincere sympathy. We will remember Wanda's warm smile and her energy as she walked daily in the neighborhood. She was always so kind to our boys. Gary, we will keep you and your family in our prayers. John, Kathleen, Jordan and Matthew Schanbeck

Dwayne and Rena Hartman

June 17, 2013

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Wanda was a gracious and kind person who we will always remember. While our relationship was business she still had a very warm and caring way when dealing with us. And we know also how much she loved her family. She will be deeply missed. We were your window cleaners.

May 30, 2013

Dear Garry and Family,
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. My parents just LOVED Wanda and you of course Garry. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. I'm sorry that I didn't get a chance to visit. However, I just found out. Love, Missy Ludd (Rinehart)

May 27, 2013

Garry,

So sorry to hear about Wanda. My thoughts are with you and your family.

Susanne Driskell (Unger)

May God Always Bless You

John Yap

May 24, 2013

General: Penny and I are truly sorry for your loss. I found out only today after one of my patients/neighbors, informed me. You are both wonderful people and Penny and I love the fact that you are our neighbors. I am certain that we will all see each other again. Our thoughts and prayers are always with you both. God bless you during this difficult time and if you need anything at all, you know how to get a hold of me. Penny & John Yap

Diann & Ken Orlowski

May 23, 2013

Garry, Ron, Becky and family...Wanda's service was a beautiful celebration, and it was an honor to applaud her in the midst of all her family and friends. We will miss her very much but will always be comforted by her loving smile and will always remember the good times. Much love to you all.

May 23, 2013

Becky and family....please accept my sincere condolences...I will always remember Wanda as the energetic and kind lady she was to me when our two Beckys were young...you have your own special angel now....love Nancy Turnbell

candy currey watkins

May 23, 2013

Gen. Bahling, Becky & Ron,
We are so sorry to hear of the loss of Wanda. She was always such a kind & wonderful lady and it was a pleasure to have known her! Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. Candy & Jeff Watkins

Tom & Joyce Davis

May 22, 2013

Garry,
Very sorry for the loss you and your family are suffering. We are all on loan from God so celebrate and cherish the years you had together! Joyce and my prayers are with you and your entire family.

Jill and Erik Belz

May 22, 2013

We want to extend our sincere condolences to the entire Bahling family. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Phil Doolittle

May 22, 2013

Garry,

We were shocked and saddened to hear of Wanda's passing! Our deepest sympathy!

Wanda was one of the people I wish I had know better and seen more often. We have fond memories of running into you at Becky's performances, and we enjoyed your company at WTHS/WKHS class reunions. If fact I am on the committee for the 50th (wow!) coming up this fall, and Althea and I had hoped to see the two of you at Mackinac! Not to be. So sad.

May fond memories lighten your load and give you, Becky, and Ron, joy outlasting the sorrow.

Edward Gray

May 22, 2013

May God greet Mrs Bahling with the grace, kindness and warmth with which she greeted all whom she met.

God bless Mrs Bahling, Garry and his family.

May 22, 2013

So sorry Garry and family for the loss of Wanda. You all are in our thoughts and prayers.
Doug & Sandy

Mike Motko

May 22, 2013

Garry, I was so saddened to hear of your loss on the passing of your beautiful wife Wanda. My heart and prayers go out to you, your children and grandchildren for I'm sure this is so heavy on their hearts as it is on yours. My deepest sympathy to you and your family.

Tom and Pam McKinnon

May 22, 2013

Dear Garry, We were so sorry to hear of Wanda's passing. Pam especially remembers her walking down the halls of WTHS with a friendly smile to all. She just never seemed to change. She was a beautiful woman in all ways. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you, your children and grandchildren.

May 22, 2013

22 May 2013
Garry,
Sympathy ,prayers and thoughts to you and your family at this time.
Pauline Bergeron, Trenton MI

Colette Folliard

May 22, 2013

Just heard about Wanda, so sorry for your loss Garry, I will keep you and your children in my prayers.

Dick & Bobbie Leslie

May 22, 2013

Gary,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and you family.

John Stroich

May 22, 2013

Garry, Thinking of you and your family.

Jim and Joyce Klynstra

May 21, 2013

Garry and family, There are no words to adequately tell you how sorry we are for your loss. The memories we have of you and Wanda (the best back slappers there ever were) at conferences especially, are the best. You guys were the couple that everyone wanted to be. The love you showed for each other and your family was how every family should be. We are blessed to call you dear friends. Wanda was an incredible lady and will be missed so much. Our prayers continue for your family. Love and Hugs.
Jim and Joyce Klynstra

Vic Hakim

May 21, 2013

I was saddened upon hearing the news of Wanda's passing. Garry, you always referred to her as your lovely bride. I know that you will miss her. My deepest sympathy and thoughts and prayers to you and your family.

May 21, 2013

Garry, Ron & Becky,
How blessed you were to have this wonderful person for your wife and mother. Wanda was such a caring and loving person. She touched the lives of so many. She made so many feel so special. She enriched my life by being my friend. I will miss her so much.

Sandy Hasse , Shelby Twp. MI

Blake & Sue Lancaster

May 21, 2013

May the great memories and gift of love bring you comfort in the days ahead.
We are sending our deepest sympathy.
Blake and Sue Lancaster

May 21, 2013

What does one say to friends we've known forever about the passing of a friend, wife and mother. Threre is little to ease the pain, but hearing again how the precious times were, might help a little. Beautiful Wanda was such fun in our lives - Evenings at the O Club, parties at the Bahlings and military balls, she always stood out. She made everything fun. You'll be dearly missed friend, and always in our hearts. Sleep well Wanda!

Pauline

Bob and Debbie Johnston

May 21, 2013

Garry, Bob and I were so saddened to hear of Wanda's passing. We have many fond memories of Guard functions where her presence made it extra special. She truly cared for everyone and was always welcoming. We are very, very sorry for your loss. She will live on in her children and grandchildren and her very tender touch she has passed on to them...

Roland Schultz

May 21, 2013

I'm sorry that the last time I saw her, it was at a simular event!

schultz

Gene Simon

May 21, 2013

Colonel,
I can't tell you how sad I am to hear of the passing of your lovely wife. There is nothing more devastating than the loss of a loved one. The loss of a spouse is especially heartbreaking, when it is someone that you've shared your life with. I can only hope and pray that you and the family will heal from this heartbreaking event. You are in my thoughts and prayers as you and family deal with this tragedy. God Bless you and please call if you need anything.

Jim and Jan Lane

May 21, 2013

Garry, Our deepest sympathy to you and your family on the passing of Wanda. Jan and I have cheerful memories of you and Wanda at several Air Guard gatherings. We will say a prayer for Wanda.

Roland Schultz

May 21, 2013

Just learned of Wanda's Passing.
It comes as a unwelcome surprise.

Schultz

Dean and Janet Larson

May 21, 2013

Garry, so sorry to hear of your wife's passing. You and your family are in our prayers.

Larry Amez

May 21, 2013

Garry,

We are so sorry to hear of Wanda's passing. Our prayers are with you and your family.

Larry & Mary Amez

Gina (Nelson) Jankowski

May 21, 2013

Becky and Family,
My family was so saddened to hear of your mother's passing. We remember her fondly as a neighbor and old friend. I remember her jogging around the neighborhood like it was yesterday, inviting me to play at your house, and even inviting me along to Selfridge a couple of times. Nice memories. Our thoughts are with you. The Nelson Family, Rick, Judy, Gina & Tiffany

May 21, 2013

Garry, My prayers are with you, Ron and Becky. I have so many wonderful memories of our bridge club days with Wanda. I so wish I would have been able to join Sandy,Kathy and Carolyn when they came out last year and went for lunch and a boat ride. She always had a smile on her face. Carol Semack

Denice Rankin

May 21, 2013

Gen Bahling, I am very sorry to hear that Wanda passed away. I only met her a few times but could see your love for each other. May God bless you and help you through the grief.

Donna Bannasch

May 21, 2013

So sorry to hear of your loss. May God have His hands upon you during this time of loss

Al & Brenda Smith

May 21, 2013

Garry, So sad to hear of Wanda's passing. She was a Bright and Wonderful person and will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

"When the Sun sets on Earth another Sun rises in Heaven".

Michaelene Grauf (Naughton)

May 21, 2013

I have wonderful memories of Wanda, particularly funny ones of how she and Becky were together. I am so incredibly shocked and saddened to hear of her passing. I have been praying for God to ease your pain Mr. Bahling, Ron and Becky and for Him to bring you peace. Know that your mom (wife) is totally at peace and watching you from Paradise, where you will be with her again some day!

Michael Viterna

May 21, 2013

It is with profound sadness that I learned of your loss. You have my deepest sympathy and will be in my thought and prayers as you get through this difficult time.

Julie Caris

May 21, 2013

Words cannot express how sorry I am to hear about your loss! Wanda was a very dear and cherished friend! May there be comfort in knowing that someone so special will never be forgotten! You have my deepest, sincere sympathy!

Bob and Karen Delanoy

May 21, 2013

Gary,
So sorry to hear of Wanda's illness amd passing. Our prayers are with you and your children as you grieve her loss and celebrate her life. Don't ever forget the good times

Mike & Laura Wolfe

May 21, 2013

Garry, Laura and I extend our sincerest sympathy to you and family on Wanda's passing. You are in our prayers for comfort at this time of loss.

May 21, 2013

Gary my deepest sympathy.

Don Hengesh, COL MIANG RET

Colleen Karalis

May 20, 2013

Garry, Becky and Ron,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Don't forget I am thinking of you during this difficult time. My warmest condolences to all of you. Remember that your friends love and care about you. Hang in there; she would want you to.

Doris Triemstra

May 20, 2013

Dear Garry, Ron, & Becky,
Our hearts are breaking for you. Your wife/mom was so special. We had the privilege of calling her a very, close friend for 43 years. She had an incredible spirit and was such a loving, caring, and beautiful person---inside and out. We will so miss her presence at all the holidays, frequent dinners, vacations, and talks--keeping up with our families and lives. She loved her family so much and her spirit lives on in all of you. We will miss her forever, but she will forever be in our hearts. God has welcomed her home, and now we have an angel caring for us in heaven.
Love, Paul and Doris

Jennifer Lucksted

May 20, 2013

We r so sorry for your loss. Our deepest sympathy! Love Al and Jen Lucksted

At the Wharf St Pete Beach Fl w?Connie & Charlie

Connie & Charlie Boh

May 20, 2013

Dear Garry,

By real painful experience Charlie and I know that time does not heal all wounds, as so many people are to quick to assert. So, we are hoping that our love for you may heal at least some parts of your breaking heart as the days and nights go by. We are holding you and your children up with our prayers now more than ever.

Love,

May 20, 2013

A wonderful woman. It was a great pleasure to meet her even for so short a time. Our thoughts are with you. Conor and Kay McAnally

Trae Williams

May 20, 2013

I was so blessed to have met Wanda a few times through my friendship with her beautiful daughter Becky. Becky has the biggest heart and overwhelming joy - and I immediately saw that she got so much of her spirit from her beautiful mother. My thoughts and prayers go out to Becky, Kris and the entire family.

Lee and Lisa Miller

May 20, 2013

Garry,

Our sincere condolences on your loss of Wanda. You are in our thoughts and prayers for the days ahead. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help during this time of grief.

Lee and Lisa Miller

Natalie Wilson

May 20, 2013

Dear Garry, Ron and Becky,
We are so sorry for your loss.
Wanda inspired us with her incredible strength and courage. She loved her family beyond measure.
She will always remain in our hearts and minds. I hope the time comes soon when you think of her, not with tears, but with a smile when you think of your family's wonderful times together.
With Love and sympathy,
Jack & Natalie

Janice Hoffman

May 20, 2013

Becky, you and your family are in our hearts and minds. We are so sorry to hear Wanda has been called home at a time that seems too soon in our minds. While I didn't really know her, I remember how faithfully she and your dad showed up for everything you did while in school at Michigan. It was such fun being parents of talented kids at Michigan, and she seized those precious times. I can see that you know you were well blessed to have Wanda for your mother. She set the bar high and expected the most from herself first.

My prayers are for all of your family - for comfort, strength and courage to live into your futures with her example and her guiding and loving spirit ever with you, close in heart and mind. Her pain and ordeal are over. You helped her through it with your love and devotion. She is free and goes on in God's eternal light and love, joined with all those who have preceded her. Wanda knows more of the feast to come with the One who authored life. She faithfully completed the journey on earth, loving and serving as we are called to do. She has her beautiful reward.

Thanks be to God for Wanda's life. Peace to you in these difficult days. Remember the promises we have. God is with us in all things. God bless you as Wanda felt blessed.

Hugs and love to you, Becky.

May 20, 2013

Dear Garry:

I was so saddened this morning when I heard that your beautiful and wonderful Lady Wanda had passed. I only knew her through your many mentions and fond discussions about her in the past. I am so sorry for your undescibable loss. She was a gem of a person and my heart goes out to you and your family. May she Rest in Peace.

Kostadinka (Kosta)Stefanovski- Macomb, Michigan

Natalie Wilson

May 20, 2013

Dear Garry, Ron and Becky,
We are so very sorry for your loss.
Wanda was so inspiring to us for her
courage and determination. She loved her family beyond measure.
Our departed loved ones are in our hearts and minds and in the end all that separates us from them is a single breath.
Love, Jack & Natalie

Jenny&Gerry Sevigny/Cooper

May 20, 2013

Garry, Ron & Becky - We are so sorry for your loss. Wanda was such a sweet, loving person and we know she will be dearly missed. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Jill Damron

May 20, 2013

Gary, Ron and Becky, Dannie and I are so sorry for the loss of your precious wife, mother. She was trully a lady. She will be greatly missed by so many who had the privelage to know her. We have been praying for all of you since we first heard of her illness, and will contiue to pray God will give you comfort and courage thru the hard times. Love Dan and Jlll Damron(connies sister)

Laura Buono

May 20, 2013

My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. She will be missed. Love to you all.

Dorothy Gibala

May 20, 2013

Garry, Ron and Becky - you are all in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. John and I both enjoyed the times that we got to visit and share with Wanda at many Guard functions. Never a kinder, happy and loving person have we ever met. John and Dorothy Gibala

Connie Stewart

May 20, 2013

Dear Gary, Ron and Becky, I am so sorry for your loss. Wanda only gives me sweet memories. I can not think of a friend and neighbor more generous and kind than your precious wife and mother. She was so proud of her family. I am so honored to have know her and will sincerely miss her.

Liz and Graham Jones

May 20, 2013

We sadly didn't get to meet you Wanda but heard a lot about you from your beautiful daughter who is a credit to you and you husband! Rest in peace my lovely, Good night and God Bless xxxx

Beth & Sterling Rome

May 20, 2013

Our deepest sympathies to Becky, Garry, and the entire Bahling family.

Job Christenson

May 20, 2013

She is a light that shines forever and ever. Hold on to the faith.

Dawn Furgason (Richard)

May 20, 2013

Mr. Bahling, Ron, Becky and family, I think of all the memories growing up together from sleepovers to sledding; as you both (including my brother)bailed on me as I hit the tree at Stoney Creek! Your wife/mom always made a person feel welcomed and loved walking into your home on Luann Drive. For as tiny as she was; her heart was huge! I sympathize with what you all have been through and pray for strength for you all in the days to come. I am so very sorry for your loss of an amazing woman.

Summer of 2000, NYC

Ernie Nolan

May 20, 2013

Dear Becky and Family, I have so many great memories of lunches in Ann Arbor and after show drinks with Wanda. As soon as I heard the news, I remembered this picture. Some how, some way, we all met up in Central Park one time and sat on a park bench and laughed and caught up on life. She was definitely someone who celebrated life and who should be celebrated. My thoughts are with you. All my love, Ernie

The Schimelfening Family

May 20, 2013

We are so very sorry to hear of Wanda's passing. She was such a great lady and always so kind and generous to everyone. She will be deeply missed. We are here for you Garry, now and always. You and your family are in our hearts and prayers. Heaven gained another angel this week, her name is Wanda.

Mal & Florence Johnson

May 20, 2013

To you and your family our Deepest Sympathy. You all are in my prayers.

Dan Addis

May 19, 2013

Garry,
My deepest sympathy to you and your family. I wish I could make it back for the memorial service.

Kathryn & Jay Novak

May 19, 2013

Garry,Becky and Ron, Our hearts are with you. Wanda was an angel here on earth. She had such a caring, giving, positive outlook on life. She made everyone feel special. We are so thankful that God arranged through Becky, for us to meet and become friends. We will always miss her. Hugs. We love you.

Greg Maciolek

May 19, 2013

Garry, my deepest sympathy to you and your family on the passing of your beautiful wife, Wanda. Have fond memories of Wanda at the many Air Guard functions we all attended. Wish I could be there in person to help you celebrate her life.

Gayle Heaton

May 19, 2013

Garry, Becky and Ron, Ken and I are so very sorry for the loss of Wanda. She was such an amazing person and will be missed by us.

May 19, 2013

Dear Garry, Ron and Becky, You and your family are in my prayers. Wanda was so very special, a light in this world to all who had the honor of knowing her and now an angel watching over her loved ones. My Deepest Sympathy, Kat Schatz

Marie Stump

May 19, 2013

Garry, Becky and Ron, we are so sorry for your loss. Wanda was a friend to all and such a gentle soul. She loved her family dearly and we know she will be sorely missed but never forgotten.

With heartfelt sympathy,

Gordon and Marie

Curtis Whitaker

May 19, 2013

My heart aches for your loss Garry. I was fortunate to be taken under Wanda's wings many years ago. In her presence, she always made me feel special. She was a friend, a confidant, and an angel of comfort. There are only a handful of people who come into our world, and touch our lives in a dramatic fashion. Some people are “flickers of light” during a long life, while others consistently glow for years. For all of her friends, …Wanda was a consistent glow. Beyond being your dear spouse, the mother of your children, and a grandmother….she also devoted her entire life to helping others by being a friend. Her life… and yes her spirit, full of unwavering dedication to mankind, will shine on for many years to come.

Your Friend, Curtis Whitaker

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