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Jean Croucher Proctor -FORT MYERS, FL - Jean Croucher Proctor, 87, of Fort Myers, passed from this life on Saturday, March 22, 2008 in the loving arms of her family. She was loved by her family and many friends and leaves behind tender memories of her affectionate and giving nature, putting others before herself in everything she did. Her influence is most seen in her children and grandchildren whose strength and character she helped shape with her unconditional love and unwavering support. -She was born on March 22, 1921 in Cambridge, MA. At the age of 3, she moved to St. John's Newfoundland. She attended Memorial University in St. Johns, Newfoundland as well as business school in Boston, MA. She returned to Newfoundland where she worked with the Corps of Engineers at the construction site of the U.S. Army Base at Fort Pepperrell. In 1942, she transferred to the U.S. State Department and became part of the U.S. Diplomatic Corps. She served as an American Foreign Service Clerk at the American Consulate General in St. John's Newfoundland, the American Legation at Reykjavik, Iceland, and the American Embassies in Oslo, Norway and Mexico City, Mexico. She was fluent in French, German and Spanish. It was during her time at the embassy in Mexico City that she met her life partner, George Proctor. They married in Mexico City and moved to Miami, Florida. In 1961, the family moved to Macon, GA where Jean began work at Warner Robins, GA. After retirement in 1983, they left Macon for Fort Myers, FL to be close to their daughter and son-in-law, Elizabeth and John Kagan. Jean has made Fort Myers her home for the last 24 years. -She was preceded in death by her husband of 50 years, George. She is survived by her loving and devoted daughter and son-in-law, Elizabeth and John Kagan of Fort Myers; three sons, George Thomas Proctor, Jr. of Villa Rica, GA; Robert Anderson Proctor of Douglasville, GA; and Carl Michael (Betty) Proctor of Cumming, GA; grandchildren, Andrew (Kellie) Kagan of Jacksonville, FL, Christopher Kagan, and Rachel Kagan of Fort Myers, FL; Charity Proctor, Joy Elbert, Grace Proctor, Michael Proctor, and Phillip Proctor, all of the Atlanta, GA area; Tammy Proctor and Melanie Hughes both of Villa Rica, GA; and Camille Mathis and Robert Anderson Proctor, Jr. of Villa Rica, GA. Jean is also survived by many loving nieces, nephews and great grandchildren. -The family would like to thank the many doctors and nurses at Southwest Regional Medical Center for taking excellent care of Mom. Special thanks to Drs. Steve Zellner, Robert Casola, Michael Novotny, Abraham Sadighi, Sunil Pammi, Jeff Scott, James Abraham, Luis Silva, Jorge Perez, Guillermo Bohm, Sally Palmon, Charles Bisbee, Robert Turner, Joanne Calhoun, P.A. and the staff of CMICU and 1 South. -Visitation will be on Friday, March 28, 2008 from 6:00 to 8:00 P.M. and Saturday, March 29, 2008 from 1:00 to 2:00 P.M. followed by the funeral service at 2P.M. at Harvey-Engelhardt-Metz Chapel located at 1600 Colonial Boulevard, Fort Myers, FL. Interment will follow the service in Fort Myers Memorial Gardens. -In lieu of flowers, the family requests memorial contributions to Hope Hospice, 9470 Health Park Circle, Fort Myers, FL 33908 or to the Lee County Animal Care Trust Fund, 5600 Banner Drive, Fort Myers, FL 33912 or to Wesley Memorial United Methodist Church, 4141 Deleon Street, Fort Myers, FL 33901.

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Published by The Telegraph from Mar. 28 to Mar. 29, 2008.

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Charity Proctor

April 8, 2008

I will miss you, Grandma. I am so glad for the time I had with you. I couldn't have asked for a sweeter, more loving grandmother. You were the best. I love you.

Nature

As a fond mother, when the day is o'er,
Leads by the hand her little child to bed,
Half willing, half reluctant to be led,
And leave his broken playthings on the floor,
Still gazing at them through the open door,
Nor wholly reassured and comforted
By promises of others in their stead,
Which, though more splendid, may not please him more;
So Nature deals with us, and takes away
Our playthings one by one, and by the hand
Leads us to rest so gently, that we go
Scarce knowing if we wish to go or stay,
Being too full of sleep to understand
How far the unknown transcends the what we know.

By Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

Sara Forehand

March 31, 2008

Dear Elizabeth, May God bless you and your families as you grieve the loss of your mom.
You all will be in our prayers. May she rest in peace in her eternal home.
With love & fond memories.
Sara, Vicki, Dwayne & Keith

Vicki Forehand Mills

March 31, 2008

Elizabeth,
I read about your Mom's passing yesterday. I have so many memories of her "putting up with us" in high school and all of the sleep overs at your house when we were in KMS. It was so many years ago, but the memories are priceless and so very sweet. You and your family are in my prayers. Your Mom was a very special lady who was always so very proud to be your Mom. Much love.

Pat Kagan Tobias

March 29, 2008

Dear Proctor and Kagan families, Your Mom and grandparent Jean was one of the most charming and kind people we have had the good fortune to know. She was always supportive, never critical and had a great sense of humor. She loved being with her family and enjoyed Life. We will miss seeing her when we come to Florida. May fond memories of Jean stay in your hearts always. Love, Pat and Paul Tobias

Shanon Rusk Dooley

March 28, 2008

Elizabeth,
My family lived two doors down from your family on Underwood Dr. in Macon years ago. I remember your mother as being so kind to me and your father as being such a fun man to be around. God bless you and your family during this difficult time. I lost my mother, Marion Rusk, last June and can offer you hope that the pain will ease over time but the wonderful memories will continue in your heart.

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