Andrea Marie Urbon
May 6, 1946 - Oct. 22, 2023
MADISON - Andrea Marie Urbon died unexpectedly on October 22, 2023, in Madison, WI.
Born on May 6, 1946, to Mary and Ernest Urbon in Detroit, MI, Andrea traversed a life filled with adventure, resilience and laughter. Andrea was very fond of her early years in Lansing where she lived with her parents and five younger siblings. She was a part of a close-knit group in her Everett neighborhood, often serving as the babysitter and caretaker, a trait she embodied her entire life. Andrea graduated from Everett High School in 1964, then earned her bachelor's in education with a minor in Russian literature from Oakland University in 1968. Post-graduation, she embraced the skies as a stewardess, igniting a love of travel that continued throughout her life. While on layover in the Chicago airport in 1970, she met Tom Hodan, who would later become her husband. Tom's unexpected death inspired her to go back to school to become a social worker. Madison became home for the next five decades. She earned a Master's in Social Work from UW-Madison in 1974.
Her compassion shone through in her 33 years as a Pediatric Hematology/Oncology social worker for UW Hospital, offering solace and support to countless families. She was a founding member of Thursday's Child, an organization that makes wishes come true for seriously ill children. She fiercely loved her family and, after both children landed in the Twin Cities, she joined them, even though it meant leaving her large community of friends in Madison.
She spent cherished moments in her last year with her children, caring for her grand-doggies, watching Packer games, hosting meals and attending as many of her grandson's baseball games as possible. Orange, vibrant and radiant like her, was Andrea's favorite color. Often the life of the party, her infectious smile, laughter, generosity, and storytelling brought warmth to any gathering. Passionate about arts and crafts, she loved to host parties with delicious food, impeccable decorations and stunning floral arrangements. Her love for the outdoors also led her on many biking and hiking trails, trips to visit her sister in Alaska, and most recently boating alongside and petting gray whales in Mexico.
She is survived by her loving children: Thomas (Katie) Vandermause and Chelse (Mark) McCabe; grandchildren: Calvin and Fritz McCabe; her sister, Elaine; brothers: Carl (Kim), James (Heather), Joel (Beth), and Doug Urbon; many adoring nieces and nephews; surrogate grandchildren: Julian and Fletcher Freis; co-family: Denny, Roxi, Joey and Renee Vandermause; and an incredible and devoted community of friends.
Her final days, emblematic of her zest for life, were spent driving through the fall foliage with Chelse, finishing intricate Halloween costumes for Julian and Fletcher, and a night spent entertaining friends.
A Celebration of Life will be held on November 4, 2023, at 10:00 a.m. at Old Sugar Distillery in Madison, WI. Those who knew and loved Andrea are encouraged to come wearing something orange and share memories to honor her beautiful spirit.
Andrea's legacy is a testament to a life fully lived. She embodied devotion and committed herself to the service of others, particularly those who were struggling. In her honor, donations can be made to Thursday's Child and/or Hodan Community Services, both organizations she cared deeply about. Andrea will be profoundly missed but forever celebrated.
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Chris Laing
October 26, 2024
I´ll always fondly remember traveling around New Zealand together with you and Elaine laughing all the way. And I loved performing the Triplets of Bellview with you, Andrea. Miss you and your spark.
Betty Patterson Lewis
November 28, 2023
I would like to introduce myself as I am an old friend of Andrea. My name is Betty Patterson Lewis and I am originally from Roanoke ,VA. Andrea and I met when we shared a room in stewardess school. Yes, she was an orange girl and I was a blue but we shared a warm friendship. We moved to Alexandria, VA with United and shared an apartment with two other stewardesses. We took a trip to Puerto Rico together and she help me pick out lace for my wedding dress in St. Thomas. She caught the bouquet at my wedding. I was thinking of her last week as I have done many times over the years. We lost contact after Tom died and I didnt know how to get in touch with her. I thought I would just type in her maiden name and the notice of her passing came up immediately. I am so sorry for your loss. We shared many good times. She was a true friend.
Juli (Rulison) Kastran
November 5, 2023
When Andrea announced she had decided to go to college at Oakland University, we couldn't believe it! Oakland was just "born" as a subsidiary of Michigan State University. It was so like my dear friend Andrea to go her own way and do her own thing. I will always admire her strength and her independence. Love you, Andrea!
Mel Mrogenbesser
November 5, 2023
On behalf of the UW-Madison's School of Social Work please except our condolences on our alum Andrea's passing. We will share her passing and her impressive career with fellow alums in our next alumni magazine
Mel Morgenbesser
Alumni Relations
Sandra Rosenbaum School of Social Work
UW-Madison
Julie and Doug Fiers
November 4, 2023
We knew Andrea in her role as a social worker at UW when our daughter was being treated for leukemia. Andrea was a tremendous support to us and we remember her kind words, her extra attention to our daughter´s sibling and especially her smile and wonderful sense of humor, which was so appreciated during those difficult times. We occasionally saw Andrea in the following years at the hospital (where we also worked) or in the community and she always asked about our children (now both in theirs 30s!). Andrea was a gem and we feel lucky to have known her. Our hearts go out to all her family and friends during this difficult time as she will be greatly missed.
Chris Laing
November 3, 2023
Some of my favorite memories of Andrea included visits to sister and my good friend, Elaine, with whom she always laughed delightedly. On one of many visits to Alaska she and I and Susan and Elaine performed a hysterical dance routine to the music of the Triplets of Belleville, dressed as old hags in the "Everyone's a Star" talent show. It was a hoot.
On another occasion Andrea, Elaine and Chuck joined my husband Tom and me on a road trip around the South Island of New Zealand and the two sisters laughed all the way. This was also when Chuck was ill with brain cancer. I saw what a comfort Andrea was to Chuck by being open and responding honestly and compassionately during a time of great discomfort and emotional upheaval.
Andrea was a very special woman. I am so happy to have known her. I wish all her family peace remembering her many positive attributes and their shared experiences with her.
Theresa Lau
November 2, 2023
Chelsea and Mark, holding you both in my thoughts during this challenging time. Hoping you can find some comfort in the love of family and friends.
Pam Gardner
November 2, 2023
I danced with Andrea at Chelse´s wedding, and again at Renee´s wedding. This is how I will remember her always.
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