Search by Name

Search by Name

FUNERAL HOME

Brookings-Smith Funeral Home - Bangor

133 Center Street

Bangor, Maine

Barbara Laffey Obituary

BARBARA A. LAFFEY
1941 - 2017
HAMPDEN and North Belgrade - Barbara A. (Stevens) Laffey, 76, died July 24, 2017, surrounded by family, at a Bangor hospital. She was born June 15, 1941, in Waterville, the daughter of Stoddard and Margaret (Stevens) Stevens.
Barbara graduated from Williams High School in Oakland, Class of 1959. She then went on to attend Husson College, earning a bachelor's degree in business education, Class of 1963. While attending Husson, she was active in the ETE Sorority. Barbara taught at Rockport High School, Old Town High School, Husson College, Beal College, United Technologies Center, and Eastern Maine Community College. During her teaching career, she also earned her MBA from Husson College, of which she was very proud. After retiring from education, Barbara continued employment at DHHS and Dorthea Dix Psychiatric Center in Bangor, retiring in 2009. She was a member of St. Paul the Apostle Parish, St. John's Catholic Church of Bangor, participating on the Women's Council, and the Current Events Club. She was also a member of Clara's Girls.
In addition to her parents, Barbara was predeceased by a brother, Ronald Stevens; and parents-in-law, James H. and Barbara J. Laffey. Surviving, in addition to her husband, Robert J. Laffey, of 52 years, is a daughter, Joan Laffey; a son, Paul Laffey and wife Kendra; and her parents, John and Charleen Hand; grandchildren, Kaycee and Charlee Laffey; sibilings, Elwood Stevens Sr. and wife Faye, Nancy Neighoff and husband Robert, Betty LaPointe and husband Albert, William Stevens and wife Peggi, Stoddard Stevens Jr. and wife Deborah, Cathy Matthews and husband Walter, Mary Chapman and husband Fred, Janice Jacques and husband Reginald, Oscar Stevens, Ormand Stevens, and Tammy Perkins; brother-in-law, Richard Laffey and wife Susan; and many nieces and nephews, aunts, uncles, and cousins; and close friends, Roberta Lynch, Linda McLoon, Julie Smith, and Pat Trask.
Relatives and friends are welcome to call 5-7 p.m., Thursday July 27, 2017, at Brookings-Smith, 133 Center St., Bangor, where a funeral liturgy outside of Mass will be held at 1 p.m., Friday, July 28, 2017. Interment will be at Pine Grove Cemetery, Bangor, immediately following the service. The family invites relatives and friends to share in conversation and refreshments at the Family Reception Center of Brookings-Smith, 163 Center St., Bangor, immediately following interment. Condolences to the family may be expressed at:
BrookingsSmith.com.

Those who wish to remember
Barbara in a special way may make
gifts in her memory to the
Brewer Music Association
c/o Brewer High School
Music Department
79 Parkway South
Brewer, ME 04412, or
Belgrade Historical Society
P.O. Box 36A
Belgrade, ME 04917

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Central Maine on Jul. 26, 2017.

Memories and Condolences
for Barbara Laffey

Not sure what to say?





3 Entries

Linda Snow McLoon

July 20, 2024

My memories of Barbara have not dimmed in the years she has been gone, always remembering her kind heart and respecting her many accomplishments.

Linda McLoon

July 20, 2022

Dear Barbara is gone but not forgotten. She gave me a lovely little decorative pillow that is on my bed as a constant reminder of Barbara.

Linda Snow McLoon

July 26, 2017

I have so many wonderful memories of Barbara, going back to our early years growing up in North Belgrade. We kept in touch after we went to college in different directions and throughout our lives. I was so pleased when Barbara and her new husband, Bob, visited my husband and me on their honeymoon in Scarborough many years ago! Barbara valued the legacy of her family roots in Belgrade, and most of all dearly loved her family - husband Bob, children Paul & Joanie, and her grandchildren. I will greatly miss our email messages, phone calls, and visits!

Showing 1 - 3 of 3 results

Make a Donation
in Barbara Laffey's name

Memorial Events
for Barbara Laffey

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

Funeral services provided by:

Brookings-Smith Funeral Home - Bangor

133 Center Street, Bangor, ME 04401

How to support Barbara's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Barbara Laffey's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more