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Joan Westman Obituary

Joan D. (Bredeau) Westman ("Moi")
1938 - 2015
FAIRFIELD - Joan D. (Bredeau) Westman ("Moi"), 76, currently a resident at Glenridge in Augusta, died peacefully on Monday, Aug. 10, after a long struggle with failing health. Her children were at her side. Joan was born on Oct. 28, 1938, in Bremen, the daughter of the late Joseph and Idella (Kelley) Bredeau. She was one of eight children.
Joan attended schools in Waldoboro and then moved with her sister Shirley to work at a bakery in Portland when they were teenagers. She later worked at Sylvania for several years until she became a full-time housewife and mother. Joan enjoyed spending time with family, loved fashion, shopping and visiting the Maine coast. She was a wonderful cook. She was lovingly known as "Moi" by her family and friends.
She was predeceased by her former husbands Francis E. Gruhn of Waldoboro, and Orick E. Westman of Canaan; a daughter Pamela Gruhn; brothers Joseph Bredeau of Portland, Louis Bredeau and George Bredeau, both of Waldoboro, and Richard Bredeau of Boothbay Harbor, and sisters Mary Bredeau of Waldoboro and Shirley Stone of Chelsea, Mass.
She leaves behind a son, David Gruhn, of Bristol, Conn., daughter Mary Bixby and her husband Joseph of Oakland, son Frank Gruhn of Fairfield, son Robert Westman and daughter-in-law Bobbi-Jo of Oakland, and daughter Patricia Hagerty and son-in-law Patrick of Clinton. She is also survived by her sister Jeanette Wells of Melrose, Mass., granddaughter Emily Hagerty of Clinton, with whom she shared a very special relationship, grandson Christopher Gruhn of Waterville, step-grandsons Dorian and Zachary French of Fairfield, step-granddaughter Ashley Trembly of Old Hickory, Tenn., step-granddaughter Danielle Bixby of Smithfield; and step-great-granddaughter Claire Bell of Smithfield along with many nieces and nephews.
The family would like to thank the staff at Glenridge and the staff of Beacon Hospice who took the extra time to make our Mom's last days more comfortable.
There will be a celebration of life to honor Joan at the VFW on 246 Main Street, Fairfield, on Saturday, Aug. 22, at 1 p.m. Arrangements are under the care of Direct Cremation of Maine, Belfast. Memories and condolences may be shared with the family at www.
directcremationofmaine.com

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Published by Central Maine on Aug. 13, 2015.

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Jules Holt

September 12, 2015

A warm loving caring mom and friend and stand-in grandmother, a true confidant with a smile bigger and brighter than a star. She loved life family and laughter. I will always adore her and our time together with her daughter Patty, my first BFF in life.

Randy Caswell

August 13, 2015

Sorry for your loss

Mary Bixby

August 13, 2015

Rest in peace Mom. Love you.

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