He was born in Smithfield on Sept. 1, 1932, the son of Eben F. and Lois E. (Brooks) Dudley. Raymond attended local schools, graduating from Skowhegan High School.
Raymond served in the Army during the Korean War. He was a former member and past commander of the Norridgewock Veterans of Foreign Wars.
Raymond was employed by Cascade Woolen Mill in Oakland and American Woolen Mill in Skowhegan.
For 30 years, he worked at Norrwock Shoe Co. in both Norridgewock and Skowhegan. He worked for the Maine Department of Human Services for 12 years, retiring Sept. 1, 1998.
Raymond enjoyed quiet times and playing games including chess and cribbage. He was active in three bowling leagues in Waterville and Skowhegan. He loved to spend time with his children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren.
Besides his parents, he was predeceased by brothers Harold, George and Waylan. Surviving are his wife, Marie (Patterson) Dudley, whom he married June 29,1957; his children, Raymond Dudley II and wife, Kathryn, of Columbia, Md., Laura Paquet and husband, Gregory, of Smithfield, William Dudley and wife, Zenova, of Hartford, N.Y., Mary Veilleux and husband, Larry, of Waterville, and Paul Dudley and wife, Tara, of Smithfield; brother Fred, of Sidney; sister-in-law Lorraine Dudley, of Virginia; sisters-in-law Beryl Robinson, of Dixfield, and Esther Lewis and husband, Rick, of St. Louis, Mo.; 19 grandchildren; several great-grandchildren; and many nieces and nephews,
A memorial funeral service will be at 2 p.m. Saturday, Dec. 15, at Smithfield Baptist Church, Route 137, Smithfield. Burial will follow at Gould Cemetery.
Arrangements are by Wheeler Funeral Home and Cremation Services of Oakland, www.wheelerfh.com. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to Smithfield Baptist Church, c/o the Rev. Elbert Brewster, 152 South Alpine St., Oakland, ME 04963.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Helen Smith
December 4, 2020
Remembering Mr. Dudley with love. He was a wonderful man - like a second father to me.
December 27, 2012
Marie and family...A great loss. Thank God for wonderful memories.
Prayers and Blessings...
Gerri Dunham, Hampden, ME
Thor Redstone
December 14, 2012
My prayer is for all of the family and that they find peace on this day. I remember as a child and a young adult playing cards in the Grange hall in Smithfield, ME. A kind man has been lost and will be truly missed by all.
Thor & Bridgett Redstone
Helen Smith (Watts)
December 12, 2012
Mrs.Dudley, Laura, and family,
I remember Mr. Dudley with so many warm memories. I know how much he will missed. He will be remembered with love. We will be reunited with him in heaven someday. I'll be praying for you.
Notify Me
Get email updates whenever changes are made.
Send flowers
Consider sending flowers.
Add photos
Share their life with photo memories.
Plant trees
Honor them by planting trees in their memory.
Donate in Memory
Make a donation in memory of your loved one.
Share this page
Invite other friends and family to visit the page.

Rick & Becky Gilbert
December 11, 2012
We are so sorry for your loss. Extending deep and heartfelt sympathy to you and your family. Ray will live on in the hearts of everyone who loved him. In the quiet moments, when the hurt is hard to bear, may love become your shelter and may the beauty of those precious memories be your comfort. "Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted". (Matthew 5:4).May it be a source of inner strength to know that there's a loving God watching over you, and that, throughout this time of need, He'll stay close by your side.
You are held in gentle thought and prayer. With our deepest sympathy,
Rick & Becky Gilbert
Dori Dean
December 11, 2012
Laura and Family,
I am sorry to hear of your Dad's passing. You are all in my thoughts. God Bless you all.
December 11, 2012
Marie, sending my thoughts and prayers to you. Sorry for your loss.
Farrilyn chase
Robert & Mary (Estes) Rowell
December 11, 2012
Marie & Family We are terribly sorry on the loss of Raymond.he will be missed by many.our prays are with you.
LESLIE WASHBURN
December 11, 2012
MARIE
MY SYMPATHY TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ON THE PASSING OF RAYMOND
Dan Williams
December 11, 2012
:(
Showing 1 - 10 of 10 results

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
Read more
We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
Read more
Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.
Read moreIf you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
Read more
Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
Read more
You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
Read more
These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
Read more
Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
Read more