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Benjamin Keating Obituary
SHAPLEIGH -- Captain Benjamin D. Keating, 27, of Shapleigh, died Nov. 26, 2006, while serving as executive officer of A Troop, 3-71 Cavalry, Task Force Spartan, 10th Mountain Division in Kamdesh, Afghanistan.
He was born in Sanford on May 31, 1979, the son of Kenneth D. and Elizabeth A. (Grant) Keating. He attended Shapleigh schools and was a 1997 graduate of Massabesic High School.
Ben attended the University of New Hampshire, graduating Magna Cum Laude and Phi Beta Kappa with a B.A. degree in 2004. While at UNH he served as the chair of the Young Republicans. He joined the Army ROTC, was a distinguished military graduate, recipient of the Marshall Award, and upon graduation was commissioned as a 2nd lieutenant in the United States Army.
He was trained in armor at Ft. Knox, Ky. He then went to Ft. Drum, N.Y. where he served as platoon leader for the 3-71 Cavalry, B Troop, became the executive officer of A Troop last November, was promoted to 1st lieutenant in January and was deployed to Afghanistan in February. He was recently promoted to captain. He was a recipient of the Bronze Star, Combat Action Badge and the Army Commendation Medal with V Device.
He was a member of the Springvale First Baptist Church where he was a youth leader and taught Sunday School.
Ben served on the Shapleigh Planning Board from 2000-2002.
Survivors include his parents, Kenneth D. Keating and Elizabeth A. Keating of Shapleigh; his sister, Jessica A. Keating and her fiancŽ Christian J. Lewis of Falmouth; his paternal grandmother, Janice Keating of Winthrop, Mass.; his special friend, Heather McDougal of Springvale; and many aunts, uncles and cousins.
Visiting hours will be held on Tuesday, Dec. 5, from 2-4 and 6-8 p.m. at the Carll-Heald & Black Funeral Home, 580 Main Street, Springvale. A funeral service is scheduled for Wednesday, Dec. 6 at 11 a.m. at the Springvale First Baptist Church, 429 Main Street, Springvale. Seating in the church is very limited and by invitation only please. Additional seating will be available at the Nasson Community Center, 457 Main Street, Springvale. Also, Metrocast Cablevision will telecast the service live over community channel 12. Burial will follow in Riverside Cemetery in Springvale. Following the burial the family will receive relatives and friends again at the Knights of Columbus Hall, 47 High Street, Sanford.
In lieu of flowers, the family suggests that memorial contributions in Ben's name be made to:
The Springvale First Baptist Church Memorial Fund
P. O. Box 277
Springvale, Maine 04083
To send the family a note of condolence, please visit www.blackfuneralhomes.com.
Capt. Benjamin D. Keating
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Memories and Condolences
for Benjamin Keating
JP
August 3, 2021
I read about your courageous son in The Outpost by Jake Tapper. His life is a testimony to the many who served with him and to those who now read of his service to our country and most importantly Jesus Christ. Your son continues to inspire even today. I have a son who serves in NSW and I pray his faith is as unwavering as Benjamin´s was. God bless you.
Jessica
November 26, 2020
Jake Tapper postet about Benjamin, dear family: sending lots of love and light and strength, stay safe and healthy, Jessica from Germany
Charlie Gili
October 12, 2020
Hello,
We realize that we are very late to express our deepest condolences, but we wanted to let your family and friends know that we will be sending Care Packages to deployed troops this week and several of these will be dedicated to your loved one. Each package will carry the name, photo and hometown of Benjamin D. Keating US Army Captain.
We realize that this is a small tribute, but we do this with all respect and sincerity and we want you to know that it is made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals from across the American youth hockey community, their families and friends and others who support our mission.
We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you safe and strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of our US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign
Eric Poulin
April 13, 2019
Every so often when I reminisce my childhood in Springvale, I think of you Ben. I'm proud to call you my friend. And I wish that we could have re-connected more after we followed different paths in our lives. Our memories with each other live on and I tell them to my children. Beginning at First Baptist Church where I discovered God, love and fellowship to BYF on Sunday afternoons, exploring the woods behind your farm, church canoeing trips, camping trips and watching Kelly's Heroes before we shot our BB guns... you were a great friend and someone I always looked up to. Blessing to you and your family. Ken, Beth and Jess, I hope to see you all again someday soon. Until then your family is always in my heart.
Matthew Netzel
November 26, 2017
Thinking of you my friend! You are remembered daily, and I hope that those of us that did come home, can honor you and ensure your name lives on forever.
john townsend
November 26, 2014
Ben is NOT FORGOTTEN! Bless you and your family...your loss is remembered by many!
Stacy Navarro
December 3, 2013
To the family of Ben Keating, I send my thoughts and prayers to you during these upcoming holidays and everyday. The military is blessed to have had your son join our troops and defend our freedom. May your angel look upon you and give you strength and remind you will be reunited one day... God Bless you all!.
Bob
September 27, 2013
I never knew 1st Lt. Keating, but I learned about his life, his service to our country, his bravery and valor, his looking out for his men and, ultimately, the tragic sacrifice he made.
I think of him often. I hope that my sons turn out to be as great a man as he was.
Godspeed
Ken Martone
August 27, 2013
Today is 8/26/2013 and I am writing in the hope my message will be forwarded to Ken and Beth Keating. Today, every major TV network spoke of Outpost Keating in the honoring of an Army Staff Sergeant awarded the Congressional Medal of Honor for his heroism in a fierce battle at Outpost Keating. In fact two Staff Sergeants were awarded our highest award for valor for their heroic actions on this battlefield named in honor of your son, First Lieutenant Ben Keating. When I saw the newscast, I remembered all I had read about your son's bravery and goodness in "The Outpost". I just wanted to let you know that your son is in my thoughts, as are you. With love and respect.
Jason Billings
May 28, 2012
Ben and I went through the Classics program at UNH together and I considered him a good friend. To say that we came from opposite ends of the philosophical spectrum would be an understatement. But Ben always showed me complete respect for who I was as a person. I never felt judged in his presence. For anyone one that had ever met Ben this should be no surprise. Not only was he a caring person, but his thirst for knowledge and willingness to engage with people of different opinion was outstanding. I always have respected Ben and always will, and I miss him terribly. It is ironic that the one person from college that I wanted to meet down the road and learn about all the amazing things that he had done is the one person I will never get a chance to see again in this life. The fact that I haven't talked to him in over 8 years and still miss him this much speaks volumes to his character. I find some comfort in the fact that most people who had known Ben feel the same way. Ben died fighting for what he believed in. Much respect and love.
Bonnie Dwyer
April 8, 2012
The Maine Home of the Brave Quilt Project would like to present a quilt to the next of kin. Please contact me for more information.
Bonnie Dwyer, Coordinator
Maine Home of the Brave Quilt Project
Jeannine Malinky
March 4, 2012
It has been many years since we sat and talked in class at Massabesic. I found a picture of you from 8th grade sitting with Nate A., Josh A., and Nick L. Still can't believe that you are gone. Jeannine M.
Luis Albino
November 27, 2010
A day as today four years ago, I lost one of my best friends. Not longer, here with us but his memories are still alive. Thanks for the good times Ben!
Luis Albino
November 27, 2010
A day as today four years ago, I lost one of my best friends. Not longer, here with us but his memories are still alive. Thanks for the good times Ben!
Peggy Childers
November 26, 2010
To the family and friends of Benjamin Keating:
Remembering Benjamin on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
R. Scott Quilty and family
May 31, 2010
We are thinking of you and your family today, especially today, Ben. You will never, be off our minds. We thank you and your family for the ultimate sacrifice you and they've paid.
Pam
November 26, 2009
Thinking of you Ben. Thank you for your service and sacrifice. Miss you.
June 8, 2009
Your sacrifice to America is never from my thoughts, Ben. I pray for you and your family every night. You are all on my mind and I will be forever grateful for your friendship to my son, Scott.
jason deering
June 6, 2009
I sat next to Ben everyday at lunch in highschool, seems so long ago my friend, you will be missed...
In Memory of Benjamin ~ (Debra Estep)
November 26, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Benjamin, but I am remembering
his service and sacrifice. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
Jack Breslin
November 26, 2008
We think about Ben and miss him every day. He was a great friend and a great person.
Peggy Childers
November 26, 2008
To the family of Benjamin Keating:
Benjamin gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Jason Venne
July 5, 2008
Today I visited the moving wall, and it made me think of Ben. He was the first Platoon Leader I received in Bravo Troop. He was also the best LT in the Squadron. He was not only a good Soldier and Leader, but a good friend. He was always willing to lend a hand for anyone. The Army and this country are both at a loss for such a great man. He will always be remembered.
June 15, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you 1st Lt Keating!
SPC Moises "Doc" Cerezo
May 26, 2008
I was the medic that took care of Cpt. Keating that November night. I have no words to express what I went through and I still go through thinking of him. I wish I could have done more to save him. I deal with guilt and regret every waking moment. I Know I did all I could do its just that it still hurts. I can only imagine what your family went through and is still going through. Just know that he was an officer that i wish all officers would at least attempt to be like. Please contact me...
Julie
December 29, 2007
So a year has passed and I still miss him. I still think of him daily and remember every great memory we ever shared. Ben was an angel and each day I am reminded of the best friend I always had and the friend I will continue to have. Thank you Ben for being an amazing man, friend, brother, and son. You always new how to touch the world and I miss you more than anything. May you always remember how much you are loved. I love you and miss you!!!!
August 16, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
August 3, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by 1st Lt Keating and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
SGT Ashley Hess
July 11, 2007
Ben was my Platoon Leader in Bravo Troop. Together we built an outstanding group of soldiers who went on to be very sucessful throughout the deployment. He was a Leader. Not by rank or position but by actually leading. His intelligence, personality, and professionalism were the example. He always made you better. Even after Ben went to Alpha he marched 12 miles with me just to push me. I will miss him. I wear his KIA braclet so I am reminded every day of what he represented.
ROBERT MCNAMARA
May 28, 2007
On this Memorial Day, I remember CPT Keating. I knew him when he was a cadet, and from his commissioning. He always had a genuine smile, a good heart. His parents did a great job of raising a good son. I am a better person for knowing him. Thank you, Ben.
Mark Fields
April 15, 2007
Rest in peace Ben Keating.
Robyn Garside
April 7, 2007
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. GODSPEED AND SEMPER FI.
A PROUD MARINE MOM
Tom and Jean Silkey
March 2, 2007
Dear Keating family,
Our family has been praying for yours ever since we heard that a soldier had died in Afghanistan. Our nephew is with the 3-71, A and knew Ben. Please know that we will always remember Ben and the sacrifice he made for our country.
God bless you.
Paul Danforth
February 19, 2007
To the Family of Capt. Keating:
My wife and I are so very sorry for this tragedy. We pray for God's comfort for you, but know it falls short of filling the emptiness. We are grateful to Ben for his service and sacrifice and are proud of him. I believe he is now in the palm of the Master's hand at true peace, at last.
David Karjala
January 30, 2007
My experiences with Benjamin at UNH scarcely amount to a few score hours, and yet his bravery, piety, intelligence and kindness were unquestionable and made an impression on everybody around him. He was a fun and wonderful person to be around and I cannot imagine how much those closer to him must be missing him.
My condolences and most heartfelt sympathies and wishes to his family.
Glen
January 30, 2007
“Soldier”
Written to Honor the Service of Our Fallen Soldiers
Soldiers write history, we pay the price
Many miles distant, you live the life
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We hope and pray that all will find peace
In God, in the flag, in memories of valor
Gone now, our pride and courage you see
“An Army of One” our motto forever
Willing to risk all for love of our Brothers
We’re still Your Soldiers…and we showed the way
Our Lives too short, now pray for the others
Lived free died Heroes in lands far away
Deep within souls all cherished our Service
We’ll always have what some never know
Courage and Honor, our names forever
Lived life with purpose…just our time to go
We march in the Heavens with Honor and Glory
Missions accomplished we fought the Good Fight
Many years from now…we’ll tell the full story
Until that Day we will live in the Light
Our lives we laid down in a land far away
Still watching o’er you this night and by day
No need to talk…just know we are with you
There in your hearts and we hear what you pray
Yes we are your soldiers
Our lives we laid down
Still We guard o’er you
Still Duty bound
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We’ll always have what some never know
Lived life with purpose…it was our time to go
Lee Sirotnak
January 26, 2007
Please accept our heartfelt sympathy for your loss. We will be always grateful for the sacrifice that your soldier made. God bless you and your family with comfort and peace. We will not forget.
Jonathan Steiber
January 20, 2007
To the Keating family:
I am very sorry to hear of your loss. I was fortunate enough to have had the chance to spend three weeks being taught and mentored by your son at Fort Drum during the summer of 2005. I am honored to have been provided with the motivation and guidance that Ben gave to me. I am deeply saddened by the loss of a friend and mentor. My thoughts are with you all.
Donnie Little
January 12, 2007
Mr. & Mrs. Keating and Family,
I had the great privilege of serving with your son in B Troop when he was first assigned as a new lieutenant. I was the Troop 1SG and part of my job was to assist in developing new officers. I can honestly say I learned as much from Ben as he did me. He continued to do a great job with A Troop here in Afghanistan. It was always a pleasure to have a conversation with him. He was a honest and mature young man with a promising future. I will miss those conversations and that great sense of humor he had. No one could tell a story better. He was a good man, and I am honored to be able to say he was a friend.
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
January 5, 2007
My heartfelt sympathy to the Keating family in the loss of Benjamin. I did not know Benjamin, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Benjamin you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Richard Burke
January 4, 2007
To Mr. and Mrs. Keating and Family,
Please accept our family’s deepest condolences and utmost respect for your son’s Benjamin service to his country. Our daughter 2nd Lt. Lindsey (Burke) was a classmate (2006) and cadet in ROTC with Benjamin and spoke so highly of him to us and in the New Hamphire student newspaper article. As my wife Deborah and I read about Ben we were struck by how Benjamin and Lindsey shared so many similar interests in History, ROTC, Language and Literature. It was as if we were reading about our own child. What a truly remarkable and precious young man Benjamin was. As parents, we will remember Benjamin and your family in our prayers.
As Parents and Americans, we want you to know that we do share in your loss, to the small extent that can. We are all one family and will remember Benjamin for his exceptional character and for the short but distinguished life that he led. May God bless and keep Benjamin and your family always.
Richard and Deborah Burke and Family
Peru, MA
December 30, 2006
Cheryl Lee Patrick - Nussberger
December 29, 2006
Dear Keating Family Members:
I am the mother of SSG Patrick Lee Lybert 3-71 CAV (Recon) KIA Gowardesh Afghanistan 21 June 2006 - I extend my heartfelt sympathies. I know no magic words. I can only say you are not alone. God Bless and give you strength.
kevin & mmarlenearlene moroney
December 23, 2006
DEAR ken,BETH,AND JESSICA
I just heard about the death of your son BEN from KATHY. I did not know your son but Ican see he inherited your family values because he died fighting for what he believed in.You must be so proud of him. He is a hero.We will keep your family in our prayers over the holidays.
take care of yourselve
Kevin,Marlene and Danny
Richard Hutchinson
December 21, 2006
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of sorrow. Since we last saw Ben we have read about and heard what a great person he was.
Love to all
The Hutchinsons
Jacqueline Tiller
December 16, 2006
I would like to extend heartfelt sympathy to your family. I pray God will give you peace amidst your storm. My brother SFC Vernon Tiller served with your son in Afghanistan. I thank God for sparing his life in this terrible accident. But, I also admire both of these soldiers' courage to risk their lives to serve others. I noticed in your memorial that you stated you would continue to pray for the recovery of my brother. He is doing quite well. Thank you for your prayers as our family continues to keep you and yours lifted up in prayer.
God Bless and Keep You All!!
Pat L
December 12, 2006
Keating Loved Ones & Friends: I'm so sorry about the loss of your most precious loved one & another of America's heroes. Heroes aren't made they just "are". The majority of us American's share in your sorrow. I just want to pay tribute to Benjamin & let you know there are many of us who do care.
Jeri Rogers
December 11, 2006
My nephew is in the 10th Mountain Divison and was wounded in Afghanistan in September. These men are heroes, and Ben will never be forgotten. May God Bless the Keating family.
Karyn Mills
December 9, 2006
It has been a long time since I have spoken with your family, but my thoughts are still with all of you during this difficult time. I feel honored to have known Ben growing up in your church. It appears from everything I have read, he has grown into an exceptional adult. You should be proud.
Melissa Yerman
December 9, 2006
To the Keating family,
My heart goes out to your family during this difficult time. My husband is currently over in Afghanistan. We are stationed at Fort Drum where your son was. Although we didn't know him, we still consider all soldiers a part of our family. Your son is a hero for all that he has done, I know you are so proud of him. His memory will last forever.
Sincerely,
Melissa Yerman
Daniel Jones
December 9, 2006
To the Keating Family:
Please accept my deepest sympathies. I was in Ben's ROTC class at UNH, and while I did not know Ben on a personal level, It was obvious to me that Ben was a positive influence in the lives of whom ever he came into contact with. It is an honor to have known Ben, and he will always remain a hero, not only in the lives he has touched, but to his country as well.
God Bless Ben and your family.
Sandra Taylor
December 8, 2006
To the Family of Ben Keating
I do not know you nor you me, but I admire the sacrifice that your son, and indeed your entire family, has made in defense of our nation. I am a Gold Star Wife. Whenever one is lost from our ranks, we all feel the pain. May God give you strength to face your tomorrows with courage and the knowledge that your son gave his life as he felt called to do by God and country. Blessings.
December 8, 2006
My heartfelt sympathy to your family in your loss. I did not know Benjamin, but my heart is broken and I am sadden for your loss of such a fine young man and hero. From the Tributes it sounds like he was a very special person and will be missed greatly. I had sons to serve in Iraq and I can only imagine the sadness your family is going through. My sincere smypathy and prayers are extended to you and your family in this tragic loss of your love one. I also send my deepest respect to your love one for the sacrifice that he gave in serving his country. May God wrap HIS arms around you and comfort you.
Susan Holbrook/Richmond, Ky.
Doris Tyger
December 8, 2006
Dear Ken, Beth and Jess:
My heart goes out to all of you. My thoughts are with you.
shawnee (Austin, TX)
December 8, 2006
I am very sorry for your loss. I did not know your loved one, but he is my hero, and he will not be forgotten for his sacrifice.
December 7, 2006
To the Keating family,
The news of CPT Keating struck a chord in the UNH ROTC program's heart. Although the senior class now were just freshman when Ben was in the program, those that had the chance to meet him feel blessed.
It is always difficult to lose one of your own, and with CPT Keating being the second casualty to come from this class, time has seemed to stop. He was a wonderful person and soldier that offered much to those lucky enough to spend time with him. As freshman, we had a lot to learn, and he was willing to teach.
CPT Keating is in our thoughts and prayers, and our deepest condolences to a family that has stood by his side.
Julie Cyr
December 7, 2006
I can remember the first day we bacame friends like it was yesterday. We met our sophmore year of college when we had our first PT Session for ROTC. We were lost but we new we would stick together and figure out whatever it was we were suppose to do. Ben always new how to take charge of any situtation and solve any problem thats what made him one of the greatest leaders and people that have ever been in the military. His dedication and drive to succeed in life always made me want to be better. His positive attitude and caring heart made him a dear true friend who will always remain in my heart. He always said to remain positive and life will soon work out. Even though his time has passed he will always remain in the minds and hearts of me and in everyone he has ever met. His spirit will live on within us because he has blessed our lives and will continue to bless others. Your son was my best friend and will remain in a special place in my heart for the rest of my life. I am so sorry for your loss but I know he is happy where ever he may be. I miss you all and send my deepest sympathies for this sad loss of an amazing man and friend.
Adam Burritt
December 7, 2006
It was such an honor to know Ben through our time at UNH ROTC, to be given the opportunity to interact with such an outstanding young man, to play a small role in the military leader he became. As a member of the Senior Class during Ben's Junior year, I was afforded ample opportunity to instruct, evaluate and learn from Ben and his classmates. What I learned during that time is immeasurable, in no small part because of Ben.
All this being said, my greatest honor came on Monday the 4th of December, 2006. I had received a phonecall from another of Ben's Classmates explaining that Ben would be coming home that day through Manchester Airport. A detail was being put together to act as pallbearers. I jumped at the chance to participate. As a soldier who has been called to combat and returned, it was amazing to be so directly involved in the care of Ben Keating. I was honored to be able to pay respects to Ben in this fashion.
It was wonderful to meet Ben's family. Upon seeing Ken, Ben's father, we were all taken by the striking resemblence. The courtesies extended to us as Ben's pallbearers by the Keating family will not soon be forgotten.
Should you notice a figure standing in front of Ben's grave, right by the river and in view of the Baptist Church, rendering a slow, smooth deliberate salute, rest assured it's just Ben's classmates, cherishing the memory of their fallen brother.
We'll meet you on the high ground Ben.
December 7, 2006
To the Family of Benjamin Keating:
I will stand in grief with this soldier's family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten. You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless legacy.com for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
Proud Parents of SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA, 12/1/05, Ramadi, Iraq
Pam and Bill Adams, Lancaster, PA
Gary Allain
December 6, 2006
Benjamin Keating
you are my hero
may god keep you in his arms forever.
Trudy Lowe
December 6, 2006
My heartfelt sympathies to your family. My heart breaks with each new name added to this list, and I am saddened by your loss. Know that you are surrounded by prayers, grace and the deep gratitude of all who live in freedom. My God hold you in his arms and grant you peace. Please find joy in the memories of your loved one and comfort knowing so many are holding you in their hearts.
December 6, 2006
Our heartfelt condolences to the Keating family, we share your great loss. Our prayers are with you. Benjamin thank you for making the ultimate sacrifice for our nation, you will never be forgotten, you are an American Hero.
Rest easy, sleep well.
Others have taken up where you fell, the line has held
Peace, peace, and farewell..."
Jack Colnot and Family
(Sgt. Kyle A. Colnot, KIA 22 April 2006, Iraq)
email [email protected]
San Antonio, Texas
Kristian Mroczko
December 5, 2006
My deepest sympathies for your loss. Ben was a good friend and an inspiration to all in the ROTC program and in the Army. My hope is that his spirit lives on in all of us to continue doing what he had set out to do.
Ryan and Cassandra Crosby
December 5, 2006
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Keating--
Ben was a moral and ethical man who lived an examined life, one guided by his sense of duty and service to his community, nation, and God. Our hearts go out to you in your grief.
"I pray that our Heavenly Father may assuage the anguish of your bereavement, and leave only the cherished memory of the loved and lost, and the solemn pride that must be yours to have laid so costly a sacrifice upon the altar of freedom." -A. Lincoln
We were honored to have known Ben as a friend, classmate, and fellow officer, and he will live on in our hearts forever. May he Rest in Peace.
Jillian Murray-Duchesne
December 5, 2006
My condolences on your loss. I knew Ben from ROTC and he was an outstanding person. My prayers are with your family.
Garnet Jenkins
December 5, 2006
My deepest and most heartfelt sympathy to the family of Benjamin Keating, with a multitude of Thanks for this Hero's Courage, Service and Dedication.
The price Benjamin and his family have paid for this country and for freedom, WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.
May he Rest Safely, in God's Care and may the Peace of God be with the Keating family.
I am the Sister of such a young hero, who made the Ultimate Sacrifice in Vietnam, many years ago
Surely He hath borne our grief, and carried our sorrow.
Isaiah 53:4
May you find comfort and strength, in the beautiful memories of times you spent with Benjamin. Quietly and gently, may healing come, with each new day.
Pam and Pat O'Donohoe
December 5, 2006
To the Keating Family-
Please accept our heartfelt condolences on the loss of Benjamin. We feel your grief and pain. Our son, SPC Justin O'Donohoe, was in Benjamin's Cavalry Troop. He was killed in Afghanistan in May. His mother and I know full well that no words can ease the pain and all the good intentions and wishes don't make the grief more bearable. We hope that you, like us, can draw comfort in the knowledge that our sons were crusaders in a righteous cause and were doing exactly what they wanted to be doing with their lives when the time came for them to be called away from us. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this most difficult of times.
"And they who for their country die
Shall fill an honored grave,
For glory lights the soldier's tomb,
And beauty weeps the Brave."
D. Wilson
December 5, 2006
I always respected Ben for his knowledge, sound advice, aspirations, honor and service. He will be sorely missed, but always honored and respected.
--Friend, allum, and fellow officer.
Amy Demers (McDougal)
December 5, 2006
Dear Keating Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you every day during this difficult time. Ben was a wonderful, accomplished man.
Janet Quilty
December 5, 2006
The whole Quilty family would like to extend our greatest sympathy for the loss of your son and brother, Ben. We all knew Ben through our son, Lt. Scott A. Quilty, Ben's roommate and fellow UNH/ROTCer, and found him to be in upstanding, fine man. God Bless you all, Janet and R.Scott Quilty, Scott A. and AnnMarie Quilty, Tiffany Quilty and Nick Haskell
James & Louise Smith
December 5, 2006
TO The Keating Family,
Although you may not know us, please accept our deepest sympathies with the loss of your son. While my husband was home on his R&R in November, he spoke very highly of Ben and how far of a leader he had come in such a short time, being so new to our 3-71 Cav Unit. May peace be in your hearts this holiday season. God Bless to you all. SSG James A. Smith Jr & Family
Jeana Poulin
December 4, 2006
Dear Ken, Beth & Jessie,
My deepest sympathies for the loss of Ben...a dear childhood friend who brought goodness into this world...know that he will be missed & never forgotten. Jeana
Brian Rounds
December 4, 2006
To the Keating Family;
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. I do not know you, or Benjamin, but I know Benjamin is a hero to someone. In all honesty, I envy Benjamin for his courage and bravery.
God Bless,
Brian
Jason Burch
December 4, 2006
Dear Keating Family,
I have known LT Keating for quite awhile as I served with him in Alpha Troop and over that time I have come to know him as a friend and a brother. I and the men had come to love, respect and trust him and he will be missed by all of us.
Angie Ayers
December 4, 2006
Mr. and Mrs. Keating, and Jessie,
I am sorry to hear of your loss. I am thankful to have known Ben as a child and know you must be full of pride for the man he became. My prayers are with you.
Lori and Chris Weaver
December 4, 2006
Mr & Mrs Keating, and Jess,
My family has been so saddened by the loss of Ben. It has been such an honor to say I have had the pleasure of meeting him. He also went to school with my brother Chris, and words cannot express how sorry we are for your loss. May you find comfort within your family, church, and friends and the community. He touched many lives, and will be missed by us all.
Richard Reynolds
December 4, 2006
Dear Ken and Beth:
Please know that Teena and I are holding you up before the Throne of our Great God. Our loss is heavens gain.
We send our love to you all.
Rev. Dick and Teena Reynolds
Russ and Lorrie Hartley
December 4, 2006
Our thoughts turn to you many times throughout each day. Our prayers will continue for you as you walk through this time of sadness.
Meridith Grant
December 4, 2006
Mr. & Mrs. Keating and Jess,
Ben was a wonderful person and will be missed by all those who knew him.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Meridith
TERRY STEPHENS
December 4, 2006
I met Ben while visiting my son-in-law (Matt Gooding)at Fort Drum. He was a fine young man and a patriot. I can only imagine the awful grief you must endure. My family is praying for you and Ben.
Juanita Dustin
December 4, 2006
The shock of Ben's passing is eclipsed by my memories of him as a young boy who went to school with our son, John. Ben's smile and his endearing attitude remain in our thoughts. I have never ever heard anyone have anything bad to say about him. He was obviously a person of extreme commitment and dedication to his family and country.
I think about him and through my sorrow at your loss, I glimpse his endearing smile.
Our hearts overflow with grief at your loss and we pray that you find solace with your memories of a wonderful young man.
December 4, 2006
Disabled American Veterans Chapter 19 extends condolences on the death of Captain Benjamin D. Keating, in the service of his country, to his family and friends.
Amanda Webber
December 4, 2006
Mr. And Mrs. Keating I am so sorry to hear about your loss It is sad that someone so young had to go home to god so soon. My prayers are with you and your family.
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