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Howard Randall
Deming, 81
FORT MYERS, Fla. -- Dr. Howard Randall Deming died peacefully on May 5, 2013 surrounded by his
family. Randy Deming was born to John G. Deming and Isabelle McGovern
Deming, April 8, 1932 in St. Albans, Vt. He attended Bellows Free Academy in St. Albans and later entered the Hotchkiss School in Lakeville, Conn., as a post-graduate scholarship student, graduating in 1951. He graduated from Dartmouth College in Hanover, N.H. in 1955 and the University of Vermont School of Medicine, in 1959. This was followed by internship and residency training in Radiology at the University Hospital in Burlington, Vt. and the Boston Children's Hospital in Boston, Mass.
He then entered the U.S. Navy as Attending Radiologist at the U.S. Naval Hospital in Jacksonville, Fla. where he practiced for two years under the Berry Plan. Upon completion of his tour, he joined the Department of Radiology at the Maine Medical Center the summer of 1965. During his 30 years of active practice at Maine Medical, he taught residents, served on multiple committees and chaired the department between 1984 and 1987. He also served on the Board of Directors of the Maine Medical Insurance Co. He was member of the American Medical Association, Radiological Society of North America, American College of Radiology, and Maine Medical Association. He was a member of the Maine Radiology Association and served as its President. He also served as its representative to the American College of Radiology, which subsequently honored him with a Fellowship for his services to local and state medical communities.
Randy was a member of the Portland Country Club and Fiddlesticks Country Club in Ft. Myers, Fla. He loved spending free time with his family and friends water-skiing and sailing, playing golf and tennis, skiing, birding, hiking, reading, and watching his beloved Patriots.
He was predeceased by his first wife, Nancy Stewart Deming and his sister Anne S. Deming, Lt. Col., U.S. Army Nursing Corps. He is survived by his wife, Ann Farnham Deming; his children and grandchildren: Liz, Kent, Jenna, Mandy, Ben and Kit Dauten; Kit, Dave, Ella, Wes and Lauren Farnsworth; Jon, Hannah, Grace and Norah Deming; Laura Deming; Bill, Tylee, Charlie and Dani Kessler; and Chad Kessler and Bob Colquhoun and their twins Will and Lily.
Randy, also known affectionately as 'Big Daddy,' is remembered for crushing hugs and his great love for his family. He had a gentle demeanor, big heart and a love for familial nicknames. His family will always be thankful for his kindness, wisdom, and wonderful sense of humor.
Over the last three years, Randy handled his illness with optimism, grace and dignity. Never complaining, he remained grateful for the time he was able to spend with his family.
A memorial service will be held on Friday, May 10th at 11:00 a.m. at St. Albans Church in Cape Elizabeth.
In lieu of flowers,
please make donations to:
the J. N. 'Ding' Darling
National Wildlife Refuge
1 Wildlife Drive
Sanibel, FL 33957 or:
the charity of your choice
Howard Randall Deming

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Published by Portland Press Herald/Maine Sunday Telegram on May 7, 2013.

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May 16, 2013

Mr Deming (Late) Nancy. thank you for your time in north Sebago. I work for you as a teen cutting your lawn. it was good to meet kat and liz running around in the little brown boat on Sebago lake :) I know za send her love.
Love From All The Russo In North Sebago

May 12, 2013

Thinking of you. We are so sad to hear about Randy. hoping for better days.
Betsy & Oakley

Candy Lamb

May 10, 2013

I had the pleasure of working with Dr. Deming for several years when I first started out in X-ray . He was a wonderful man and teacher. So sorry for your loss. He will be missed.

Sharon Crawford

May 10, 2013

So sorry for your loss. I worked with him at Maine Medical Center and enjoyed every minute of it.

Evie Jennes (Brendel)

May 10, 2013

I only met you once Randy. It was briefly as you were walking down the steps at Fiddlesticks. I could see that you were in pain with each step, and yet you took the time to shake my hand and tell me that you were distressed about my Mom. I was jet-lagged, teary and distressed myself ... in that moment I could see that you were a special man. I am thankful that I met you. Ann, you will be in my thoughts...a lot.

Evie Jennes (Brendel)

Nancy Hersey

May 9, 2013

Dr Deming played a big roll in my formative years as a Radiographer. I have always been grateful for his help and guidance. My thoughts go out to his family, as I hold onto the fond memories.

Verna Valentine RN at FCS

May 8, 2013

Rest in peace my Patriot fan! Will miss the patriots talk every year with u and your wife!!

May 8, 2013

carl a brinkman

May 7, 2013

We are so sorry for your loss Ann and family. Thinking of you and sending prayers

Foldly Sharon ,Sonny Tanerillo

May 7, 2013

Thank you for your service.

Jeff Rogers

May 7, 2013

The Rogers remember Randy as a friend over the years. Our times on Sebago Lake in the summer or on the slopes during the winter will be cherished. Albert (Mac) and Stevie Rogers and their children Jeff, Scott, Marcia, and Cindy.

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