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Mary Tibbetts Obituary

Mary Louise Tibbetts, 83 YARMOUTH -- Mary Louise Tibbetts, daughter of Adolphus and Cecile Dugas of Yarmouth, died March 4, 2009, unexpectedly at Maine Medical Center at the age of 83. Mary was born May 15, 1925, in Yarmouth where she was raised. She was a graduate of NYA and graduated from USM at the age of 53 with a degree in accounting. Mary worked for many years at Canal Bank as a loan officer, but most recently enjoyed her employment at Casco Bay Home Care as a Personal Care Attendant. She was the widow of Msgt. Clinton E. Tibbetts, who was killed in action, July 28, 1969, in Vietnam. An undeniably strong and determined woman, Mary enjoyed her life to the fullest extent. She devoted her time to taking care of others and was most passionate about her family. Mary felt most comfortable outdoors, surrounded by the flowers in her garden, walking the blueberry fields or playing in the river of her camp in Columbia, her home away from home. She especially loved to grow and harvest her large vegetable garden from which she did her canning and pickling. Mary was well known for her many unique talents including quilting and weaving, but those who knew her best couldn't describe her immense love for reading books. She will always be remembered for her big, red truck and infamous chicken coop. She is survived by one sister, Anne Kilton and her husband Milford of Durham; her four children, Terry Smith and her husband Michael of Stoughton and their four children, Jen, Kelly, Kerr, and Jessica; Michelle Tibbetts of Yarmouth and her two daughters, Emily and Danielle; Brian Tibbetts and his wife Debbi of Westbrook and their five children, Niki, Lyza, Tarrah, Ben and Shon; Gale Tibbetts of Westbrook and her son, Brandon; and her 13 great-grandchildren, Meaghan, Kelsey, Izaiah, Julia, Nicholas, Jake, Steven, Alex, Lilliana, Shaina, Shaylyn, Lillyana and Levi. Special thank you to the longtime residents of Yarmouth that have been especially supportive to our family at this time. Visiting hours will be held from 2-3:30 p.m. and 6-8 p.m. on Monday, March 9, 2009, at Lindquist Funeral Home, 1 Mayberry Lane, Yarmouth. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 11 a.m. on Tuesday, March 10, 2009, at Sacred Heart Church, 326 Main St., Yarmouth. Spring interment will be held at Holy Cross Cemetery in Yarmouth. You are invited to share your thoughts, condolences and fond memories with the Tibbetts family by www.mem.com. Mary Louise Tibbetts Lindquist Funeral Home Funeral Home & Cremation Service 846-4011


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Published by Portland Press Herald/Maine Sunday Telegram from Mar. 7 to Mar. 8, 2009.

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BARRY KENDIG

March 26, 2009

I AM SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. I DIDN'T KNOW MARY BUT I WAS AT ANDERSON AFB GUAM WHEN MARYS HUSBAND CLINTON'S PLANE WENT DOWN. I WAS ONLINE THE OTHER DAY WHEN I CAME ACROSS A MESSAGE FRO GALE TIBBETS WRITTEN IN 2000, FOR ANYONE THAT KNEW OF HER FATHERS CRASH ON 7-28-69. I HAD A DREAM ABOUT THE CRASH THREE DAYS BEFORE IT HAPPENED. IF ANYONE WOULD LIKE TO SPEAK TO ME ABOUT THIS, I WOULD BE HAPPY TO TELL ALL I KNOW. I JUST SAW THE TRAVELING WALL TODAY AND FOUND MSGT CLINTON TIBBETS AND THE NAMES OF THE CREW THAT WERE WITH HIM THAT DAY. I HOPE I CAN BE OF SOME HELP. GOD BLESS

Corinne Gilmore Casco Bay Home Care

March 9, 2009

We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Through Mary Lou we were able to get to know many of you as well and our lives have been blessed as a result. Mary Lou was one of the hardest working women I have ever known and was well liked by the clients she visited. She and I share some Downeast experiences, especially blueberry raking and I will fondly remember our talks.
May God reveal himself to you with grace, peace and comfort during this difficult time.
Corinne

Else Bowie

March 8, 2009

Terry, Michelle, Brian, Gale and families....
I wish there was something I could say to ease the pain you are feeling right now. I can truthfully say, I know how it feels. When Anne and I lost Mom and Dad, it was Aunt Lou that stood by my side and helped me get through it. She told me to be strong and helped give me the courage to be.
So I tell you now the words that she gave to me....
"You have to be strong now and lean on eachother, help and understand eachother's pain, and comfort eachother and you'll get through it....I love you Dear"
You are all my family........I love you and share your loss....
Your Cousin, Else

Susan Neale

March 8, 2009

To my dear friend Michelle and family,
Your mom meant so much to me in my lifetime ,she held a very special place in my heart and I loved her so. I know she was the glue that held you all together and never forget that. I will hold close my special memories of her in my heart forever. She is at peace and rest now in Jesus's arms and will always be close in your heart. I love you all and will miss "Lou" so much
love,Susan

Denise DeAngelis

March 8, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. even though we know that our loved one is walking in the water with the lord reunited with family and friends and in no pain when they go like this it makes it very hard for those left behind. Be comforted that you will be reunited with your loved one in the house of the lord. life is but a journey. heaven is eternity. they say that our home with the lord is so magnificent that we can't even imagine how wonderful it is. may you find comfort with knowing your grandmother is home and you are not alone. we are here for you.
Jim, Denise and Neil DeAngelis

Mary Mitchell

March 7, 2009

Michelle and Family,

I am so very sorry to hear about the death of your mom..I believe this is the hardest thing to go through...Please know that I am thinking of you...

DONALD & JOAN ESTABROOK

March 7, 2009

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009

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