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Paul D. LaFond, 89
FALMOUTH -- Colonel Paul D. LaFond USMC, (Ret.), 89, a decorated World War II hero, career Marine Corps officer and avid outdoorsman died on Friday, Dec. 31, 2010, in Falmouth.
He was born in Skowhegan on July 28, 1921, the son of Damase LaFond and Georgianna LaBonte. Paul graduated from Skowhegan High School in 1939 and attended Bowdoin College from 1939 until 1942, when he enlisted in the United States Marine Corps. He later graduated in 1962 with a B.A. (with academic distinction) from the University of Maryland.
Col. LaFond served his country with honor and distinction in three wars: WWII, Korea and Vietnam. His career in the Marine Corps spanned 29 years. Following the Battle of Okinawa he was awarded the Silver Star for gallantry in action. The award citation recounted his heroism: 'When the other platoon leaders of his company became casualties...Second Lieutenant LaFond immediately assumed command of these platoons in addition to his own and, reorganizing the company in the face of fanatical Japanese resistance, continued the assault and seized the objective. During the next 48 he stationed himself on the most fiercely contested points of the line and by his splendid example of leadership inspired his men to repel every attempted counterattack.'
From 1968 to 1969, Col. LaFond commanded the Third Marine Regiment, Third Marine Division in Vietnam and was awarded the Legion of Merit for his service there. In addition, Col. LaFond also was awarded the Navy Commendation Medal, the Presidential Unit Citation, and three Vietnamese combat decorations.
Col. LaFond was a gifted leader, highly regarded by the men under his command, and devoted to them in return. General Charles Krulak, Commandant of the Marine Corps, best summed up Col. LaFond's career: 'He was the epitome of a Marine leader, caring, compassionate, yet tough when he needed to be tough.'
Col. LaFond retired from the Marine Corps in 1970, and shortly thereafter joined the staff of fellow Marine and United States Congressman Paul N. McCloskey Jr. of California to help run the D.C. office and advise on war policy. In the spring of 1971, he joined McCloskey on a mission to Laos to investigate civilian relocations resulting from the invasion of
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that country by South Vietnam. The mission was featured in Life Magazine and was sharply critical of U.S. war policy.
In 1972, Paul attempted retirement again and moved to a farm in Vermont hoping to catch up on some overdue fly fishing. In 1974 he was recruited to become Commandant of Cadets and Dean of students at Norwich University in Northfield, Vt. He served at the university until 1979.
While at Bowdoin, Paul was nicknamed 'Trapper' by his fraternity brothers. Whenever he went missing they would know he was on some trout stream in the back woods of Maine. He began fly fishing as a young boy with his lifelong friend John Merrill of Skowhegan and his passion for the outdoors remained with him until his death. His enthusiasm for outdoor adventures was infectious. His grandchildren will never forget Grandpa's snowboarding debut at age 74, the wild rides along the Kennebec River on his snow machine, his self-rescue after breaking through the ice on the Kennebec while on cross country skis to retrieve his Lab, Mathilda, at age 84, and the treasure trove of stories about his escapades with friends and his three sons. With his family, he explored from Maine to the Sierra Nevada, hiking, camping and fishing, always with the family dog Jacques by his side.
Paul is survived by his three sons, Geoffrey and wife Anne, and their children, Sarah and Hunter of Falmouth; Peter and wife Michelle, and their children, Elyse, Emily and Michael of Falmouth; and Mark and wife Vickie, and their children, Bennett and Grace of Ballston Spa, N.Y. In 1948 Col. LaFond was married to Katherine Boardman. In 1972 he married Diane Glover.
A memorial service will be held at the Island Avenue Federated Church in Skowhegan on Saturday, Jan. 8, 2011, at 2 p.m. Arrangements are being handled by Smart & Edwards Funeral Home, 183 Madison Ave., Skowhegan. Telephone: 207-474-3357.
In lieu of flowers,
contributions may be made to:
The Marine Corps
Scholarship Foundation
121 S. Saint Asaph St.
Alexandria, Virginia 22314
mcsfs.org.

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Published by Portland Press Herald/Maine Sunday Telegram from Jan. 3 to Jan. 6, 2011.

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MARK CONLON

January 9, 2011

Dear Geoff, Ann ,Pete ,Mark and all the Lafonds

I was so fortunate to have so many good times with your dad. Fishing in Wyoming and on Martha's Vineyard and Spencer Stream as well as the skiing in Vermont were unforgettable experiences. On those days being with your dad was like getting a little bit of my own dad back. My dad never put on a pair of waders or skis in his life but Paul's wisdom ,humor (and even being particular about wearing the right clothes) brought my dad back to me at moments. It meant a great deal to me at the time and still does to this day. I am very thankful for that.
Thinking about Paul's life I realize that I am not the only one that should be thankful. For hundreds of others, in war and in peace , Paul was a leader , a hero, a powerful inspiration and, a bit of a dad. We will all miss him.

Jan Downing

January 8, 2011

I am so saddened to hear of Paul's death. He was a wonderful man whom I loved and respected. I will miss spending time with him, listening to the adventures of his life and seeing his beautiful smile. It was a true blessing to have known this great man. Our country has lost one if it's best. No Good-byes, Paul, just I love you.

Denny Ryan, NU '76

January 7, 2011

Col. LaFond was an outstanding leader and inspiring mentor to those of us in the Norwich University Corps of Cadets who were fortunate to have been there during his tenure. He was the very best of "The Greatest Generation", and I consider it an honor to have known him. God Bless Him, and may God Bless America.

January 7, 2011

I had the privilege of serving under Colonel Lafond in Vietnam. He was one of the finest officers and men I met in over 22 years in the Marine Corps. He was everything a Marine Officer should be. I will miss him.
Thomas C. Dolson, LtCol, USMC (ret)

Kaye Schwer

January 6, 2011

I'm very sorry for your loss. I knew Paul at Norwich University and always enjoyed his war stories. Paul was a wonderful and kind man and he will be missed by many friends.

David Knudsen

January 6, 2011

I was acquainted with Paul as a member of the Faculty at Norwich University. I have always held him in high esteem !

Holly Chapman

January 4, 2011

What a great loss to all of us who had the priviledge of knowing Mr. LaFond. I work at the Animal Medical Clinic and have grown to love him and his precious dogs, most notably Mathilda. He was an incredibly brave soldier and a kind and gentle man with those he knew and loved. I am so sorry for your loss. He will be greatly missed. Holly Chapman

Anne Giroux

January 4, 2011

I am so sorry for your loss. Paul was a wonderfully dear gentleman. I enjoyed our visits. I was pleased to be able to help him hear better, so he could enjoy his adventures more. I will miss him. My prayers are with you. Anne Giroux AuD(his Waterville audiologist).

Jo-Ann Badger

January 3, 2011

I had the honor of knowing the Colonel for a brief year. I met him when he lived in Cannan for short period, continued on to his house in Skowhegan. He was devoted to his dogs, a good friend and shared some to his exploits w/me. I am sorry for the loss of their father. I am honored to have known him. Rest in Peace, my friend.

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