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Ruth Vermette Obituary
Vermette, 83
SKOWHEGAN -- Ruth Vivian Vermette, 83, of Skowhegan, passed away on Thursday, Nov. 20, 2014, peacefully at home in Skowhegan, after a short illness, surrounded by family and friends.
Ruth was the beloved wife of Gerald E. Vermette, and the loving daughter of Leona and Arthur Ouillette of Caribou. She was born on May 7, 1931, in Caribou, the sister of the Rev. Arthur J. Ouillette of Massachusetts (deceased), Kathleen and husband Robert Karr of California, Richard and wife Theresa Ouillette of Caribou, Reginald and wife Teresa Ouillette of Caribou, Joyce and Dennis Theriault (both deceased) of Fort Kent, Greta and husband Joseph Cianchette Jr. of Detroit, Mona MacBain of Clinton, Conn., and Sheila and husband Wendall Jacobson of Raymond. She was also the aunt to many nieces and nephews.
Besides her husband, Gerald, Ruth is survived by her children, Jean and her partner Chris of Bangor, Michael and his wife Debra of Saint Albans, Mary and her partner Scott of Ashville, N.C., David and his wife Doris of Bingham, Peter and his partner Mary of Scarborough, Danielle and her partner Peter of Toronto, Canada; and her four grandchildren, Stephanie, Lael, Spencer, and Austin; as well as the many young adults who have been calling her 'MA' for many years.
Ruth attended the U of Maine in Gorham and graduated in 1953 with a B.S. degree in education. She remained an active alumni and helped with planning many class reunions.
During her career, Ruth enjoyed teaching both church and public school in Silver Spring, Md., Columbus, Ga., and Skowhegan. Ruth was active in her church, with girl scouting, with the Skowhegan choral group, the Cursillo Movement, and RCIA.
After the children had left home, Ruth worked in Gerald's dental office for many years where her specialty was working with people who needed Myofunctional Therapy.
She will be deeply missed by all who knew her.
The family would like to thank the many people who helped her move on in peace and dignity, the staff at hospice and the nursing staff at Redington-Fairview General Hospital.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Tuesday, Nov. 25, 2014, at 10 a.m., at the Notre Dame de Lourdes Catholic Church, Water Street, Skowhegan. Arrangements are under the care and direction of Smart & Edwards Funeral Home, 183 Madison Ave., Skowhegan.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Ruth's name to:
Covenant House: Covenant House Times Square Station
P.O. Box 731
New York, New York 10108-0900
www.covenanthouse.org.
Ruth Vivian
Vermette
Smart & Edwards Funeral Home
207-474-3357
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Memories and Condolences
for Ruth Vermette
December 12, 2014
To all the Vermette family, my condolences. I enjoyed Ruth very much and will keep her and you all in my prayers. May we meet again in Heaven! Dr. Clark
November 28, 2014
My deepest sympathy to Dr. V. and the entire Vermette family, and to all whose lives were touched by this sweet and loving woman. She surely won't soon be forgotton. She was a remarkable woman! RIP, Mrs. V. Christine Stratton, Madison
November 28, 2014
My deepest sympathies to the entire Vermette families. My thoughts and prayers go out to you all."Mrs. V." was a remarkable, sweet, caring, and very talented woman! She so loved her husband and family! She is someone I truly admired. From her floral arrangements, her incredibly gorgeous quilt she made many years ago, and how lovely she made her home look and to feel so welcomed! She loved all and was loved as much in return. May God Bless you and keep you. RIP Mrs. V.!
Francis Thibeault
November 27, 2014
Family of Ruth Vermette my sympathy. May she rest in peace with God
Bruce / Lyz J Rodden
November 27, 2014
To the Vermette Family -
Bruce and I always enjoyed chatting with Ruth when we met up at Ken's. She was a delightful person and we will miss her. It is hard and good memories help take the sting away. We are sorry for your loss.
Karen and Tad Walker
November 26, 2014
Mike: we just wanted to let you know we are thinking of you. So sorry to hear about your mother. Prayers for you and all the Vermette family.
Duane Burbank
November 26, 2014
Dear Jerry and Family,
We are so saddened at the news of the passing of Ruth. Please know that Larry and Myself always looked forward to seeing her at church and also when she used to come in the Flower shop. She was an amazing and loving lady. We will miss her smiling face. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers....Regards to all the family....
Sarah Jane (Brough) Luce
November 26, 2014
To the Vermette family - May peace soon find its way into your minds and hearts while your lives are adjusting to the loss of Ruth now and in the times ahead. My thoughts are with you.
David & Judy Belanger
November 26, 2014
So sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Tom D'Alfonso
November 25, 2014
Danielle, my condolences to you and your family Tom
November 25, 2014
Dr. Vermette: We were so sorry to hear of Ruth's passing. We will always remember her friendly personality from the many visits to your office over the years.
November 25, 2014
I was saddened to hear of Ruth's passing; she was an important part of my youth in Skowhegan.
November 25, 2014
My condolences and prayers for the Vermette family....
carolyn chapman
November 25, 2014
so very sorry for your loss. saw her in church a week or so ago with her sweet smile. she will be missed. i'm sure she is smiling down on you. prayers for you and your family.
Jerry & Sheila Beauford
November 25, 2014
It is so hard to lose someone close to you, our hearts are saddened by your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with the Family at this difficult time.
Joyce shaw
November 25, 2014
So sorry to hear of Ruth's sudden passing..Saw her for the last time at church just a few short weeks ago. She was so kind to my kids when they were teens as they were friends with her sons & were always at"the Vermettes". I never worried when they were there as Ruth kept a very watchful eye.Will miss her kindness & that wonderful smile,,R I P Ruth,,,til we meet again.
November 24, 2014
We are given hope that in the very near future, we and our loved ones won't have to deal with the what death brings. God promises that we have that hope to see our loved ones again. They will live on earth, in peace, and forever. Palms 37:9-11,29.
Francis & Louise Lacasse
November 24, 2014
You are all in our thoughts and prayers in the loss of Mrs. Vermette. We certainly will miss our chats in the dentist office, when we would come from Jackman. She was always happy to see us.
Charles Redmond
November 24, 2014
Mrs Vermette was my First Communion teacher in the dark church basement. I enjoyed seeing her several times over the years when I was back in the area on vacation. I remember Mrs Vermette as one of the nicest people in my life.
Russell Stoddard
November 24, 2014
Peter, im so sorry for your loss. Darlene and i send our deepest sympathy to you and your family.
We Love You!
Russ & Darlene
Gil/Marilyn Martin
November 24, 2014
Deepest sympathy to you Gerry & to the Vermette family for the loss of your dearest love one She is in Heaven with her Heavenly family.
Love to all. Gil & Marilyn Martin
Nancy Blaisdell
November 23, 2014
May you know the love and the peace that surrounds you and your family at this sad time. There are many who share the sorrow of your loss.
Craig Leach
November 23, 2014
Mary and all of the Vermette family, I am sorry to hear of your loss. May your good memories of Ruth's life help soften the loss.
Paul & Phyllis Lapointe
November 23, 2014
To the Vermette family
Our sincere condolences to all the Vermette family. we will miss Ruth's kindness and her beautiful smile. Our thoughts and prayers to you all.
Jack and Denise Ducharme
November 23, 2014
We offer our deepest sympathies to you for you loss with the knowledge that Ruth is with her Lord. A wonderful woman matched with a wonderful man, she will be missed on earth but welcomed by the angels!
Stephen Small
November 23, 2014
Sorry for your loss Dave. Steve & Carla
Deacon David Denbow
November 23, 2014
The soul of Ruth Vermette will be lifted up at masses and Sunday Celebrations within Our Lady of the Snows and St Agnes parishes. Our thoughts and prayers of consolation go our to her sister Greeta Ciancette and all of her relatives, family, and friends.
Maurice Cloutier
November 22, 2014
Mr Vermette and Family- Fond memories of Mrs Vermette and you visiting at Lake "Chargoggagogg......" Our thoughts and Prayers are with you and Family. Moe and Denise Cloutier
Ronald Chaloult
November 22, 2014
I grew up with the Vermette family in
N. Caribou, and wow, what a family
of strong spiritual faith. My con-dolences on the family's loss.
Shawna Elliott
November 22, 2014
My thoughts and prayers are with your family in your time of sorrow. Ruth was such a radiant person. Now she is an angel keeping an eye on you from above.
Kathe Dumont
November 21, 2014
My deepest sympathies to you Doc and all of the Vermettes. Ruth will remain in my heart as one of the most beautiful women, inside and out, that has ever touched my life. I will be forever grateful for the powerful role modeling of love and light she shared so generously with all she touched.
Dori Dean
November 21, 2014
David and Dori,
I am so sorry to hear of your mothers passing. My deepest condolences.
Julie Conley-True
November 21, 2014
To the entire Vermette family- I am so sorry to hear the news of Mrs. Vermette! The wonderful memories of the sweet lady that was like a second mom when I was a kid will be with me forever! Thinking of you Dani
Gilman & Marilyn Martin
November 21, 2014
You are in our prayers. We will always
remember you from school. The Ouellettes
were well known & very friendly coming
from Caribou. Our prayers are with you
Gerry. Peace love & joy be with you
through these trying times.
Gil & Marilyn Martin
November 21, 2014
Very sorry for your loss. I loved helping out in the summer when the children were small and I was in high school. A great family, always good to me.
May God bless.
Evelyn (Waugh) Gutierrez (FL)
Jeanne Frizzel
November 21, 2014
Gerry - sending our heartfelt condolences to you and your family. We will treasure our time spent visiting with you and Ruth last month. With prayers and love, Craig and Jeanne
November 21, 2014
I am sorry to hear of Ruth's death. My heartfelt sympathy.
Martha Smart
Mary Jane Clifford
November 21, 2014
I am so sorry for your loss. Ruth was a lovely lady.
Janet Wacome King
November 21, 2014
So sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers to you all. I have many fond memories of Ruth during my teen years. As the years past, I would run into her at the local stores greeting me with her big smile. Always a sweet and lovely lady. God Bless you Ruth
Kathy Quirion Williams
November 21, 2014
Sending my thoughts and prayers to the Vermette family. I will always remember her kindness and her smile. God bless you all.
November 21, 2014
Gerry and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I always enjoyed her whenever I had a dental appointment, her personality radiated throughout the office!
My heart does out to all of you.
Pat Lapointe Carpenter
Lynn Plourde
November 21, 2014
So sorry, Gerry and family. Ruth always, always made me smile. She had a zest for life and didn't want to miss anything. She will be missed. Hugs! Lynn Plourde
frances-john alward
November 21, 2014
A very sweet and lovely lady.Our condolence to The Vermette Family. John and Frances Alward
Linda Parlin
November 21, 2014
My sincere condolences.. I only met her one time .. at Mike and Debs wedding last year.. and have heard alot about Ruths kindness and sweet ness from debbie.. Gods love and comfort for the family.. and know some day you will all be reunited..Gods Blessings
Lester Martin
November 21, 2014
Rita and I are so sorry about your great lose
Charlotte Loring Winslow(Sherry) Henry
November 21, 2014
Dear Gerry, Ruth was a friend from college years to this day--a long while. Know that now and the last few years have been difficult and sad. My heart is with you.
JUNE lowe
November 21, 2014
My God Bless YOU and YOUR family in this time of sorrow my prayers are with you,
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